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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Health & Fitness, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Sexuality

4.41.7K Ratings

Overview

Is your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!

891 Episodes

889: Deck the Halls and Drop the Drama

Learn about how to deck the halls while handling the holiday stress and drama that comes up during this time of year. | “The holidays don’t cause stress; they just turn up the volume.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 9 December 2025

888: Coffee, Cocoa and Conversations

Take time to slow down and invest in your emotional intimacy with something as simple as cookies, cocoa, and conversation. | “All I need is a little bit of coffee and a whole lot of you.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 5 Day Intimacy Challenge Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 2 December 2025

887: Gratitude Over Grumbling

Learn about the power of gratitude and what grumbling and complaining actually does to your brain, your body, and your marriage. | "Gratitude turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity." - Melody Beattie Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Free Gratitude Planner Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2025

886: Art and Science of Non-Sexual Touch

Learn about the art and science of non-sexual touch — how the smallest physical gestures shape connection, safety, and even desire. | “Couples who touch each other more tend to be happier. From back-rubs to gentle caresses to hand-holding, the more contact couples have, the more satisfied they tend to be.” —Kinsey Institute Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 215: Separate Beds 603: The Kissing Game Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 November 2025

885: Performance Anxiety

Learn about the impact that performance anxiety can have on both husband and wife during your sexual encounters. | “It's your reaction to adversity, not adversity itself that determines how your life's story will develop.” —Dieter F. Uchtdorf Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2025

884: Sexual Intimacy Isn’t Optional...It’s Essential

Learn about why sexual intimacy is essential and how neglecting this pillar can quietly erode your closeness and connection. | “Intimacy is not a luxury — it’s a lifeline. It’s the way we know we are not alone in the world.” —Sue Johnson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway Foreplay to Passion Program Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2025

883: I Don't Know What to Do to Fix My Marriage

Learn about what you can do when you find yourself saying, “I don’t know what to do to fix my marriage in this season.” | “Most couples don’t fail because they don’t care; they fail because they were never taught how to succeed.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 October 2025

882: The Silent Treatment

Learn about one of the most common and destructive patterns of conflict in marriage...the silent treatment. | "Being noticed is so close to being loved, that sometimes they feel the same. Being ignored is just as powerful." —Dr. Kipling Williams Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 October 2025

881: Put the Phones Down

Recently, 94% of you said that your phones are causing problems in your marriage and yet you're not sure how to put the phones down. | "Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity." —Simone Weil Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 October 2025

880: Adventures Beyond the Bedroom

Learn about how adventures beyond the bedroom, new locations, can strengthen your pillars of intimacy and create lasting memories. | “Adventure is worthwhile in itself.” —Amelia Earhart Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2025

879: Sexual Myths Sabotaging Marriage

Learn about some of the biggest sexual myths that are quietly sabotaging you from experiencing your extraordinary marriage. | “Most of our sexual expectations are formed not by truth, but by lies we've absorbed from our culture.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 319: ESP (Extrasensory Perception) Foreplay to Passion Program Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 September 2025

878: Beyond 'In Sickness and In Health'

Learn how chronic illness, hormonal imbalances, and lifelong medical conditions can impact intimacy in your marriage. | “Beautiful people do not just happen. They are forged through trials, struggles, and loss.” —Elisabeth Kubler Ross Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 23 September 2025

877: Get Stripped Down

Learn about the power of books as you gain insights on what you can do to strengthen your life and your marriage in any season of life. | "A book is a dream you hold in your hands." —Neil Gaiman Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Our Favorite Reads (Books) Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 16 September 2025

876: What Kind of Lover Am I?

Let's tackle two uncomfortable questions every married couple should ask themselves that could transform their intimacy. | “Honesty is the highest form of intimacy.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 9 September 2025

875: Should You Ask AI About Your Marriage?

Learn about something that's showing up more and more in marriages, the use of artificial intelligence for marriage advice. | “Technology is a useful servant but a dangerous master.” —Christian Lous Lange Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 2 September 2025

874: Slow Down to Speed Up Your Sexual Satisfaction

Learn why focusing on your sexual satisfaction journey instead of the destination can transform your sexual intimacy. | “Slow sex is not about going slower; it's about being present.” —Diana Richardson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 388: Should An Orgasm Be The Ultimate Goal 863: Not Mentally Present During Sex 736: Edging for Increased Sexual Arousal Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 August 2025

873: A Home Restored

Learn about our journey of a home restored after losing our home in the great recession. It’s been a journey to finally put down roots. | “Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.” —Vivian Greene Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 19 August 2025

872: Surviving Infidelity Together

Learn about one of the most devastating challenges a marriage can face and what you can do when you're confronted with infidelity. | “Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.” —Paul Young Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 August 2025

871: I’m Not a Mind Reader

Learn about the unrealistic expectation that your spouse should be a mind reader and how this damages communication and intimacy. | “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.” —Robert McCloskey Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Menopause Shouldn't Such Today The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution: The Secret to Breaking the Conflict Cycle in Your Marriage Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 August 2025

870: Spiritual Mentors

Learn about the power of reaching out to mentors who shaped your spiritual journey and how gratitude can transform you and your marriage. | “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” —Melody Beattie Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. ⁠Click HERE to get your copy today!⁠ Links from today’s episode: Transform Your Church's Marriage Ministry ⁠Join Intimacy Mastery Today⁠ ⁠Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 July 2025

869: Boudoir Photography

Learn how boudoir photography builds confidence, enhances intimacy, and celebrates your unique beauty — no perfect body required. | “Real beauty comes from confidence and being who you are, not aspiring to look or be someone else.” —Phillip DeFranco Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2025

868: Hard Reset

Learn about the concept of "hard resets" to help you break out of those ruts and get real momentum going in your marriage. | “Reset, readjust, restart, refocus…as many times as you need to.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 July 2025

867: How Long Should Sex Last

In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 July 2025

866: The Masks We Wear in Marriage

Learn what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your marriage, and how exhausting that becomes over time. | “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” —Brene Brown Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Bo’s Cafe: Novel Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 July 2025

865: Sex Talk

Learn how to have the conversations about sexual intimacy that most couples avoid and why asking the right questions can completely transform your connection in the bedroom. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning, without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: 19 Questions to Amazing Sex Marriage Guide Überlube Sexy Nightgown Lingerie Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 June 2025

864: Art of the Tender Topic

Learn about how to approach sensitive subjects without triggering defensiveness or creating more distance between you and your spouse. | “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the assessment that something else is more important than the fear.” —Franklin Roosevelt Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Bo's Cafe: Novel Emotion Wheel Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 June 2025

863: Not Mentally Present During Sex

Learn about navigating different circumstances when your mind begins to wonder and you are not mentally present during sex. | “The most distant person can be the one right in front of you.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: The Vagina Bible 5 Senses to Heighten Your Sexual Connection Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 June 2025

862: Marriage Advice

Learn about the best marriage advice you would give your younger self to experience the extraordinary marriage you desire now! | “Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It’s not something you get, it’s something you do. It’s the way you love your spouse every day.” —Barbara DeAngelis Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Monthly Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 June 2025

861: It's Not You, It's Me

Learn about menopause-related physical intimacy challenges that are caused by hormonal changes. | “Communication is the fuel that keeps the fire of your relationship burning; without it, your relationship goes cold.” —William Paisley Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Buy Überlube Join Menopause Shouldn’t Suck Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2025

860: Not Good Enough

Learn about feeling that your actions are “not good enough” when your spouse suggests working on an area of your marriage. | “Some days you’ll be productive, some days you won’t. Some days you’ll be healthy and energized, some days you won’t. But every day you can control whether you show up or not.” —Mark Manson Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2025

859: Oral Sex for Your Husband

Learn about the struggles that some wives, including Alisa, have when it comes to giving oral sex. | “Don’t be afraid to try new things. They aren’t all going to work but when you find the one that does you are going to be so proud of yourself for trying.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?Yes it is!In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach.Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today!Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Liberator Furniture Sexual Exploration in America Study Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 13 May 2025

858: Emotional Let Down

Learn about the emotional let down that comes after something you’ve anticipated and the impact this can have on your marriage. | “Let down is inevitable but if you close the distance so is connection. So is joy.” —Mia McKenzie Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 May 2025

857: Male Hormonal Transition

Learn about the concept of andropause—age-related hormonal transition in men, similar to what is sometimes called "male menopause". | “If menopause is the silent passage, 'male menopause' is the unspeakable passage. It is fraught with secrecy, shame, and denial. It strikes at the core of what it is to be a man.” —Gail Sheehy Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today The Penis Book Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 April 2025

856: Orgasm for Your Health

Learn about the health benefits of orgasms, from stress reduction, improved sleep to strengthened immunity and deeper connection. | “Every orgasm helps increase anti-aging hormones and reduce your mortality." —Dr. Jolene Brighten Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today 596: Headache Before Orgasm Menopause Shouldn't Suck Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 April 2025

855: Make Space for Extraordinary Connections

In this episode we’re talking about a journey filled with extraordinary connections, individual growth, and amazing moments. | “The great difference between voyages rest not with the ships, but with the people you meet on them.” —Amelia Barr Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 April 2025

854: Your Marriage Bucket List

Learn about the power of creating a marriage bucket list that brings excitement to your marriage and then go make them happen. | “Stop dreaming about your bucket list and start living it.” —Annette White Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery Coaching Exclusively for Husbands with Tony Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 April 2025

853: Outside the Comfort Zone

Learn about stepping outside your comfort zone and what this could do for you, your spouse, and for your marriage. | “Your world will expand for every step you take outside your comfort zone.” —Maria Irving Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 April 2025

852: Sex Challenge #19—What Happened

Learn about unexpected insights, obstacles, and how being intentional continues to transform our marriage after another sex challenge. | “Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen.” —Michael Jordan Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery 001: 60 Day Sex Challenge Buy Überlube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 March 2025

851: Hot Flashes, Hormones and Your Husband

Learn about the impact that hot flashes, hormones and other menopause symptoms have on you, your spouse, and your marriage. | “My belief is that it’s a privilege to get older. Not everybody gets to get older.” —Cameron Diaz Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Menopause Shouldn't Suck Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025

850: Sexual Arousal

Learn about what the two of you can do to strengthen your sexual intimacy as you create sexual arousal in one another.| “Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do.” —Johann Wolfgang von Goethe Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The Penis Book The Vagina Bible Überlube Evree Intimate Massage Cream Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

849: Pornography Kills Intimacy

Learn about how pornography systematically destroys the intimate connection between spouses, creating barriers to genuine sexual intimacy. | “Porn isn’t harmless. Research shows that watching porn leads to a decrease in marital satisfaction, emotional separation and can double the likelihood of divorce. No website, video or images are worth damaging your marriage.” —Matt & Heather Cook Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Apply for Marriage Coaching Porn Free Man Masterclass Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

848: Little Actions, Big Changes

Learn about how many little actions done consistently and over time can create big changes in your marriage. | “Great things are not done by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together. And great things are not accidental, but must certainly be willed.” —Vincent Van Gogh Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2025

847: Make Time For One Another

Discover practical strategies to make time with your spouse as you deepen your connection even in the midst of life's busyness. | “There’s only one thing more precious than our time and that’s who we spend it on.” —Leo Christopher Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery 843: When Words Get In The Way Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 February 2025

846: The Intersection of Emotional Intimacy and Sexual Intimacy

Learn about how the powerful connection between your emotional and sexual intimacy can transform your marriage. | “Life happens at intersections.” —Jack Dorsey Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Intimacy Mastery Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2025

845: Where Do I Get Help

Learn about where to get help for your marriage when you need to find trusted resources, professional support, and effective solutions. | “Courage isn’t just standing alone, it’s also reaching out when you need it.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Days of Sex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 February 2025

844: Romance the One You Love

Discover the power of romancing the one you love to reignite passion, deepen connection, and strengthen your marriage. | “The word 'romance,' according to the dictionary, means excitement, adventure, and something extremely real. Romance should last a lifetime.” —Billy Graham Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: RSLOVE Sexy Women's Lingerie 7 Tips for Writing the Perfect Love Note to Your Spouse 28 Romantic Conversation Prompts to Deepen Your Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 January 2025

843: When Words Get In The Way

Learn about ways to break through communication barriers and deepen your connection when words get in the way. | “The power of a few well chosen words and a change in tone may completely transform a phrase.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 633: The Words You Speak Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 January 2025

842: Breaking the Silence in the Bedroom

Learn about why one often overlooked aspect in marriage is the role of vocalization and sounds during intimate moments. | “Your voice is a unique instrument that has the power to touch hearts and move souls.” —Anonymous s it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Days of Sex When Harry Met Sally - I'll Have What She's Having 809: Responsive Desire Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 January 2025

841: Living Like Roommates

Learn about how address a situation that a lot of couples find themselves dealing with—living like roommates. | “If you are not connecting with your spouse on a daily basis, you are exchanging your soulmate for a roommate.” —Maggie Reyes Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 001: 60 Day Sex Challenge Man in the Mirror — Michael Jackson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 January 2025

840: NEW YEAR, NEW FOCUS

Start the year with a new focus as you address those areas that you and your spouse can work on in the new year. | “We all get the same 365 days. The only difference is what we do with them.” —Hillary Depiano Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Monthly Planner Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 31 December 2024

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