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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

882: The Silent Treatment

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Health & Fitness, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Sexuality

4.41.7K Ratings

🗓️ 21 October 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Learn about one of the most common and destructive patterns of conflict in marriage...the silent treatment. | "Being noticed is so close to being loved, that sometimes they feel the same. Being ignored is just as powerful." —Dr. Kipling Williams Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Conflict Resolution Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From Mysterio, Florida, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:04.2

We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guest work out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-8-7665663 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com.

0:31.6

In today's episode, we're addressing the silent treatment, one of the most common and destructive patterns of conflict in marriage.

0:38.9

We're diving into the research and giving you practical tools to break this cycle.

0:44.1

And there's a quote from Dr. Kipling Williams that says, being noticed is so close to being

0:49.3

loved that they sometimes feel the same. Being ignored is just as powerful.

0:56.0

So I'm just going to let that sit there as we jump into today's episode and part of what we're

0:59.4

going to be talking about in regard to the silent treatment.

1:02.5

But we start every episode with a hug.

1:04.3

And a hug is an opportunity for us to celebrate what you are doing in your marriage, where

1:09.0

you're being intentional, the actions that you've taken.

1:11.2

And this hug comes from a post that was in the one family private Facebook group that just

1:15.5

starts with, we have the most epic we did it moment. And it is such a beautiful redemption story.

1:21.9

25 years after we first said, I do, we did it again to my husband. I love you and am so overcome and undone by

1:30.9

our love and adventure together. Thank you for loving me. One extraordinary marriage, thanks for

1:35.8

loving us. With three children, all adults now and our first grandbaby on the way, I can truly say

1:41.2

what a beautiful legacy our first vows brought us and how the second set of

1:45.1

vows means just as much because it represents the life we've lived in between both.

1:50.0

The ups and downs, the trials, the errors, the highs, the heartaches, the winds and tragedies,

1:54.4

the celebrations, the milestones, through sickness and health, the mundane to the most epic

1:59.4

adventures, it's all worth it.

2:01.6

Here's to another many, many decades.

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