From Estero, Florida, this is one extraordinary marriage show.

Where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guest work out of wondering when you're going to get some.

Creators of the Six Pillars of Intimacy, I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at

858-8-8765663 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com.

In today's episode, we're talking about why Valentine's Day brings up so many emotions

in marriage and how couples can move beyond pressure, disappointment, and comparison toward

meaningful connection.

There's an anonymous quote that says, romance isn't about getting it right for one day. It's about

choosing each other in small ways over time. I would just add to that, but there can be a lot of

pressure around one day. And that's what we're going to be talking about in today's episode.

But first, we start every show, every episode with a hug. And hug is really an opportunity for us to,

to celebrate you, for us to share what you're doing and how you're being intentional in your

marriage because I think you all derive, and we do too, so much from hearing what others do.

And this hug comes from a post that was in the one family private Facebook group that says,

Sending Hugs.

I'm not a New Year's Resolution Guy, but after listening to your recent podcast on your

2025 countdown from six, my wife and I did ours.

And wow, what an impact in just a few short months she first introduced me to

the one extraordinary marriage podcast in october of 2025 we had just celebrated our 20th anniversary

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