From Naples, Florida, this is the one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy as overdone.

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Alisa.

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at

858-8-876-563 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com. In today's

episode, we're addressing what happens when you've been pretending to be someone you're not in your

marriage and how exhausting that

becomes over time.

And there's a quote from Bray Brown that says, authenticity is the daily practice of letting

go who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.

And I think as we talk about, you know, pretending to be someone else and all of that within a

marriage, you would lose some of that authenticity. And that's what we're pretending to be someone else and all of that within a marriage,

you would lose some of that authenticity.

And that's what we're going to be talking about in today's episode.

But first, we start every episode with a hug. And a hug is an opportunity for us to share your ideas, the breakthroughs that you've had,

the creative ways that you are tackling situations in your marriage.

And this hug comes from a post that was

in the one family Facebook group that says, sometimes you just have to have a sense of humor in marriage.

My husband and I were talking about fun things to do on Saturday. And I've really struggled in the

past 10 years with knowing what would be fun. I answered my husband. Honestly, I could go for a few days just you and I on a beach somewhere laying in

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