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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

872: Surviving Infidelity Together

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Christianity, Kids & Family, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality

4.61.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Learn about one of the most devastating challenges a marriage can face and what you can do when you're confronted with infidelity. | “Forgiveness is not about forgetting. It is about letting go of another person's throat.” —Paul Young Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From Naples, Florida, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:31.3

We're being busy is overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-8-7665663, or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com.

0:37.9

In today's episode, we're addressing one of the most devastating challenges of marriage can face, infidelity. We'll explore the statistics, the impact, and more importantly, how couples can

0:43.6

rebuild and create an even stronger marriage after betrayal. And one aspect of recovery after

0:50.7

betrayal is forgiveness. And there's this quote from William Paul Young that says,

0:54.0

forgiveness is not about forgetting.

0:57.3

It's about letting go of another person's throat.

1:00.7

And as I talk to couples and, you know, get into, that's a visual, but it is getting into

1:06.0

this place.

1:07.0

And it, I mean, part of the reason for that such a strong quote is because a topic like infidelity

1:11.8

stirs up a lot of strong, strong emotions.

1:14.9

Yep.

1:15.4

Right?

1:15.7

And before we get into that, we start every episode with a hug.

1:19.0

And a hug is an opportunity for us to celebrate what you are doing in your marriage,

1:23.2

transformations, breakthrough, and even just fun that you're having.

1:26.3

And this comes, this hug comes from an Instagram post that we were tagged in that says,

1:30.2

Mondays my husband and I lead a couple's church group.

1:33.4

We are centering our group this season on a book called The Six Pillars of Intimacy that

1:38.1

One Extraordinary Marriage wrote.

1:40.0

Amen.

1:40.7

Thank you so much.

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