876: What Kind of Lover Am I?

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Health & Fitness, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Sexuality

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2025

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Let's tackle two uncomfortable questions every married couple should ask themselves that could transform their intimacy. | “Honesty is the highest form of intimacy.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From Estero, Florida, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.
0:04.2	We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guest work out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the
0:22.5	hug hotline at 858-8-8765663 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com.
0:31.5	In today's episode, we're tackling two uncomfortable questions every married couple should ask.
0:37.1	What kind of lover am I? And would I want to
0:40.2	be intimate with a lover like me? And as we talk about that, I just want you to think about this quote,
0:45.8	that honesty is the highest form of intimacy. And as we, you know, as you think about that in
0:51.5	regard to this episode, maybe it's about being honest with
0:54.2	yourself, right? What kind of lover are you? But before we get there, we start every episode with a hug,
1:00.8	and this hug comes from a comment that was in the one family private Facebook group in regard
1:05.2	to last year's Six Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway. Which would have been this year's?
1:10.6	Oh, yeah.
1:12.3	It's so funny that once it happens, it just automatically, in my mind, like, gets
1:16.6	relegated to the year.
1:17.5	That happened in April.
1:19.2	It's still 2025, people.
1:20.6	It's a new school year.
1:21.9	It kind of feels like 2026.
1:23.2	Anyway, here's what the hug was.
1:25.3	It said, we went last year year and after 27 years of marriage,
1:29.4	it was truly one of our best trips as a couple.
1:33.7	No kids to focus on, just the two of us.
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