From Estero, Florida, this is the one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guestwork out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at

858-8-765663 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com. In today's episode,

we're addressing something that 94% of you said is causing problems in your marriage

phones getting in the way of your conversations and connection with your spouse and there's a

quote from Simone veil that says attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity and as we

talk about today's episode about phones i just want you to keep that in mind that

your attention is one of the greatest gifts that you can give to your spouse.

But first, we start every episode with what we like to call a hug.

And if you're brand new here first, I just want to say thank you for tuning in and being part of the one family.

You know, a hug is really an opportunity for us to celebrate what you're doing in your marriage,

maybe how you're tackling one of the six pillars of intimacy. You're just, you know, some area where

you're being intentional. And this hug comes from a post that was in the one family private Facebook group that says,

there's a company that offers mystery picnics.

And we did ours in historic downtown grapevine, Texas.

As part of the date, you solved some puzzles that direct you to a local eatery where you pick up

part of your meal and then to a park for a picnic. Aw. It was a really fun experience. That's awesome. What a way to strengthen your recreational intimacy? And we've been to Grapevine, Texas and the downtown Grapevine, Texas. We have been. And it's like, it's like the ultimate of like scavenger hunt, progressive date, like all kind of getting smushed together.

Progressive dinner.

Progressive, well, progressive date dinner, yes.

Yes.

And so I just, I absolutely love that.

And I love when all of you are just investing that time and doing fun things with your spouse.

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