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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

886: Art and Science of Non-Sexual Touch

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Health & Fitness, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Sexuality

4.41.7K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2025

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Learn about the art and science of non-sexual touch — how the smallest physical gestures shape connection, safety, and even desire. | “Couples who touch each other more tend to be happier. From back-rubs to gentle caresses to hand-holding, the more contact couples have, the more satisfied they tend to be.” —Kinsey Institute Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: 215: Separate Beds 603: The Kissing Game Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From Estero, Florida, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:21.0

We're being busy as overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guest work out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

0:30.8

Give us a call or text us on the hug hotline at 858-8-8765663 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com.

0:38.7

In today's episode, we're exploring the art and science of non-sexual touch, how the smallest physical gestures shape connection, safety, and even desire. Here's a quote out of the Kinsey Institute that says,

0:45.2

says couples who touch each other more tend to be happier. From backrubs to gentle caresses

0:50.6

to handholding, the more contact couples have, the more satisfied they tend to be.

0:56.2

We're going to be exploring that in today's episode, but first, we start every episode with a hug.

1:00.6

And for those of you that are brand new, a hug is an opportunity to really celebrate you

1:06.0

to celebrate what you're doing, your marriage, to maybe celebrate an aha or revelation that you've had.

1:10.6

And this hug comes

1:11.4

from a five-star review on Amazon for the book Six Pillars of Intimacy, The Secret to an

1:15.6

extraordinary marriage. And this person says, I was really struggling with anxiety in our marriage.

1:20.0

I knew something was killing me inside, but just couldn't figure out what. This book gave a lot of

1:25.0

clarity on why I was feeling so many things. I have been making small

1:29.0

steps to be more present. It hasn't been long, but I can see the small changes in how we interact.

1:36.3

I love it. Wow. And what a blessing to hear something like that from the book we wrote almost four years

1:43.1

ago now, Elisa. Actually, yeah, as this episode releases, it'll be wrote almost four years ago now alisa um actually yeah as this episode

1:46.5

releases it'll be just about four years yeah and so to see something like this um it's just what a

1:54.1

blessing to touch someone's life through what we've run what you've you've written i i was part of it

1:59.9

you know it's with tony de lorenzo but it's just

2:02.6

amazing and the piece that i love about this is i've been making small steps and i think that's

2:08.4

a beautiful part each and every week we come here to share something around the six pillars of

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