From Naples, Florida, this is the one extraordinary marriage show.

We're being busy is overdone. Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Alisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call or text us on the

hug hotline at 858-8-765663 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com.

In today's episode, we're addressing the unrealistic expectation that your spouse should be a

mind reader and how this damages communication

and intimacy.

And there's a quote from Robert McCloskey that says, I know that you believe you understand

what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.

And I know a whole bunch of you right now, because I can see Tony's face,

they're like, what the heck did she just say? And that's the point. That's the point as we talk

about this episode of being able to understand and interpret and all of that kind of stuff.

Sometimes it trips us up in marriage. It trips us up when we get into this place of wanting

our spouse to be able to read our minds

or expecting that they should be able to read our minds.

And we're going to be talking about that in today's episode.

But first, we start every episode with a hug.

And this hug comes from an Instagram DM that we received that started with, I appreciate

this podcast.

Goes on, my late wife posed for boudoir and art nudes in 2006 and 2010. The experience

elevated our relationship. She felt more confident and beautiful afterwards. I think she understood

me better too. She told me that she knew I was proud of her figure. She actually wore a man's shirt,

bra, panties, sheer gown,

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