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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

867: How Long Should Sex Last

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Health & Fitness, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Kids & Family, Sexuality

4.41.7K Ratings

🗓️ 8 July 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In this episode let's discuss a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world: How long should sex last? | “The goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly—it's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever time you have together.” —Anonymous Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today’s episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

From Naples, Florida, this is a one extraordinary marriage show.

0:03.8

We're being busy as overdone.

0:05.3

Romancing is fun, and scheduling sex is taking the guest work out of wondering when you're going to get some.

0:09.7

I'm Tony DeLorenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful wife, Elisa.

0:13.7

From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us.

0:17.4

It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a caller, text us on the hug hotline at

0:22.3

858-8-876-563 or send us an email to Hugs at One Extraordinary Marriage.com. In today's episode,

0:31.9

we're addressing a question that comes up in bedrooms around the world. How long should sex last?

0:39.0

And there's an anonymous quote that says, goal isn't to last forever or finish quickly. It's to connect deeply with your spouse in whatever

0:45.8

time you have together. I like that one. You know, it's going to really tie into today's episode,

0:51.0

but first, we start every episode with a hug. And a hug is an opportunity

0:55.3

for us to celebrate the two of you, to celebrate where you're taking action in your marriage

1:00.6

and even the revelations and insights that you have as you become more intentional in your marriage.

1:05.4

And this hug comes from a comment that was made in the One Family Facebook group in regard

1:09.9

to the recent episode

1:10.9

on the masks we wear.

1:12.8

This person says, I was able to listen to the episode this morning.

1:16.3

It's a critical message for newlyweds like my wife and I.

1:19.9

We've been married 21 months because knowing and learning who each of us are from the very

1:24.9

beginning and being completely safe around each other

1:27.7

to be fully known, seen, heard, and loved without having to mask who we are so that we don't

1:33.0

have to go down the road and then work backwards. I love it. Yeah. I mean, heck, for those of you who

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