This episode dives into one major listener question: Are we unequally yoked? A 31-year-old Christian single mom writes in, deeply in love and preparing for engagement — but scared that her Protestant faith and her partner’s Eastern Orthodox roots might create cracks later. We unpack theology vs. lifestyle, how beliefs show up in everyday routines, and what unity actually looks like when two people worship differently but love Jesus fully. We also share a joyful, chaotic Chocolate Baby Storytime from a commercial shoot involving $15k cameras, water balloons, and children who absolutely refused to listen 😂. And… BIG NEWS: Yvette is officially an author! We talk through her new 30-day devotional Release, Rest, Remain: A 30-Day Devotional to Embrace Abiding Over Striving and why this rhythm has helped her heal, surrender, and stay grounded. Plus, a vulnerable update from our “4th baby mama” listener and a needed reminder that shame from strangers online is not your inheritance. This one is heartfelt, thoughtful, funny, and full of real clarity for anyone navigating faith, family, and long-term commitment. ✨ What You’ll HearChocolate Baby Storytime: commercial-set chaos, kids, cameras, and water balloonsYvette’s new 30-day devotional & the story behind Release, Rest, Remain: A 30-Day Devotional to Embrace Abiding Over StrivingIs this relationship truly unequally yoked? Breaking down Protestant vs. Eastern OrthodoxTheology differences vs. lifestyle differences — what actually impacts a homeThe “4th baby mama” follow-up + why the internet’s shame has no authority over you📚 Resources & LinksOrder Yvette’s Devotional:👉 Release, Rest, Remain: A 30-Day Devotional to Embrace Abiding Over Striving: https://a.co/d/4ATlBWO Father Yourself First (Glen’s Book):👉 https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 🎧 Audiobook:Glen narrates the full audiobook wherever audiobooks are sold. 📍 Follow @beleafmel for tour dates, signings & updateshttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmel 💍 Premarital Advantage (PMA):Tools for dating, engaged, or rebuilding coupleshttps://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 🖤 Saturday Men’s Group (Black men | 7 a.m. PT):Join the Father Meet-Uphttps://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1 🌿 Patreon Community:Longer episodes + behind-the-scenes + mentorship tierswww.patreon.com/HMAY 💬 Join the ConversationHave you ever dated someone from a different church tradition?What helped you find unity — or clarity that it wasn’t the right fit?Drop your story below. Your insight might guide someone today. ❤️ If This Helped YouLike, subscribe, and share with someone navigating faith differences, parenting, or big relationship decisions.
Transcribed - Published: 9 December 2025
This episode centers on two powerful listener emails — one from a man afraid his insecurity is destroying a healthy relationship, and another from a woman untangling herself from a four-year situationship filled with hidden children, heartbreak, miscarriages, and blurred co-parenting lines.We talk honestly about trust, emotional safety, soul-ties, red flags, and why some relationships can’t be prayed into health.Around the emails, we also share a hilarious family moment involving an accidental birds-and-bees talk at dinner, and a quick update on the book tour and Patreon goals.This one is vulnerable, grounded, and full of clarity for anyone trying to love better and choose wiser. ✨ What You’ll HearHow insecurity dims your partner’s lightTaking thoughts captive vs. letting fear run the relationshipWhy “she’s too friendly” might be about you, not herWhat emotional safety looks like in datingA jaw-dropping story about hidden kids, lies, and postpartum abandonmentWhy F-boy patterns repeat — and how to break yoursThe truth about co-parenting with someone who won’t commitHow to protect your heart while still raising your child wellCommunity updates + how your support keeps the show going📚 Resources & LinksOrder the book:👉 Father Yourself Firsthttps://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 Audiobook:🎧 Glen narrates the full audiobook wherever audiobooks are sold. Tour dates & signings:📍 Follow @beleafmel for ATL, LA, NYC + morehttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmel Premarital Advantage (PMA):💍 Tools for dating, engaged, or healing singleshttps://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 Saturday Men’s Group (Black men | 7 a.m. PT):Join the Father Meet-Uphttps://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1 Patreon Community:🌿 Longer episodes + ad-free + behind-the-sceneswww.patreon.com/HMAY 💬 Join the ConversationWhat was the moment you realized a relationship wasn’t safe for your heart?Drop it below — your wisdom might free somebody. ❤️ If This Helped YouLike, subscribe, and share with someone navigating trust, blended families, or heartbreak healing.
Transcribed - Published: 2 December 2025
In this episode, we read an email from a listener who loves her boyfriend but doesn’t feel like his first choice. We talk insecurity vs. truth, attraction, healing from past relationships, and how to discern if you’re being chosen or just convenient. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime with a family rap session, camping trip confessions, and updates on Premarital Advantage, Father Yourself First, and the Saturday men’s group for Black men. ✨ What You’ll Hear When “I’ve got a wandering eye” is actually a confession The difference between normal attraction and shopping for better options Why journaling your story brings clarity Feeling chosen vs. feeling like a backup plan How past trauma shapes dating patterns Why inexperience can actually be a dating superpower Choosing your “hard” while still protecting your heart 📚 Resources & Links Order the book: 👉 Father Yourself First https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 Audiobook: 🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available. Tour dates & signings: 📍 Follow @beleafmel https://www.instagram.com/beleafmel Premarital Advantage: 💍 Worksheets & guidance for dating, engaged, or newlywed couples https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 Dating to Marry – “The List” (FREE): 📝 Available on the homepage https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT) Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoom https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1 Patreon Community: 🌿 Bonus convos & behind-the-scenes https://www.patreon.com/HMAY 💬 Join the ConversationHave you ever felt like someone’s option instead of their choice? What brought you clarity? Drop it in the comments. ❤️ If This Helped You Like, subscribe, and share with a friend navigating faith, dating, and emotional honesty.
Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2025
We’re talking to a solo mom who wrote in real honest: should she try again with her son’s dad? We unpack trust after hurt, how healing changes what you want, and why “for the baby” is not a dating strategy. We keep it tender, tell the truth, and give some practical next steps. Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime, cleanse life, and Lily the dog leaving sticky-note reminders like a tiny furry manager. This one is warm, real, and rooted in wisdom. Pull up a chair. ✨ What You’ll Hear • Naming hurt without living in it • Signs of real change vs wishful thinking • Co-parenting well even if romance is paused • Why a no-dating season can be a reset for your soul • What a rebuild plan should include if you try again • A marriage quote that reframes starting over with the same person • Community updates, Patreon goals, and how to get plugged in 📚 Resources & Links Order the book:👉 Father Yourself Firsthttps://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 Audiobook:🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available. Tour dates & signings:📍 Follow @beleafmel for ATL, NYC, LA and morehttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmel Premarital Advantage:💍 Questions and worksheets for dating, engaged, and newlywedshttps://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT)Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoomhttps://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1 Patreon Community:🌿 Bonus convos and behind-the-sceneswww.patreon.com/HMAYhttps://www.patreon.com/HMAY 💬 Join the Conversation What boundary or practice helped you heal after a breakup? Drop it in the comments. Somebody needs your wisdom. ❤️ If This Helped You Like, subscribe, and share with a friend who is navigating co-parenting, faith, and second chances.
Transcribed - Published: 18 November 2025
She wrote in heartbroken: six months in, different faith practices, sex after planning to wait, and an “I love you” he stopped saying. Then her dad talked to the boyfriend who admitted he didn’t plan to marry her and wanted to “see what else is out there.” We respond with care and clarity: nothing was wasted, learn the lesson, forgive, and choose wisely next time. We also talk sibling dynamics at home, privileged kids and holiday expectations, Glen’s new book release, and practical ways to discern alignment before you get too far in. ✨ What You’ll Hear 💭 “Nothing was wasted” reframed: hurt, anger, embarrassment, and self-compassion💬 Saying “I love you” too soon vs living it with actions🙏🏾 Dating with different faith practices and holiday habits❤️ Why alignment on core values matters before marriage🧠 Premarital questions that save time, money, and heartbreak📖 Father Yourself First book release and tour👥 Community for Black men who need a safe place to land 📚 Resources & LinksOrder the book:👉 Father Yourself Firsthttps://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Audiobook:🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available.Tour dates & signings:📍 Check Glen’s Instagram for ATL, NYC, LA + more — @beleafmelhttps://www.instagram.com/beleafmel Premarital Advantage:💍 Questions and worksheets for dating, engaged, and newlyweds.https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT):Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoom 👇🏾https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1 Patreon Community:🌿 Access bonus convos and behind-the-scenes content — www.patreon.com/HMAYhttps://www.patreon.com/HMAY 💬 Join the ConversationWhat is one lesson you learned from a relationship that didn’t work out? Drop it in the comments below. ❤️ If This Helped YouLike the video, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs wise counsel on dating, faith, and commitment.
Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2025
📘 ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! A listener writes in about the woman he loves—smart, beautiful, and ready for marriage… except she believes a man should pay for everything while she saves her own money “for security.” She says a woman shouldn’t spend on an able-bodied man. He calls it an escape route. Now he’s wondering: is this financial boundary a red flag or just her way of protecting herself after trauma? We talk:💬 “You can’t build a marriage while keeping one foot out the door.” — Glen breaks down why financial distrust is often emotional distrust in disguise.💰 How “wife allowance” culture and social media talking points are warping partnership into transaction.❤️ The difference between protecting yourself and refusing to be a team.🧱 Why unhealed trauma around money can become the foundation of your marriage — and eventually its fault line.🙏🏾 Yvette shares how witnessing her own mother’s financial vulnerability shaped her drive for independence—and how healthy transparency healed that fear in marriage. Would you marry someone who refuses to combine money with you? 🤔 Episode 267 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in and share your thoughts!
Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2025
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! Father Meet- Up Zoom Link What do you do when you catch your husband on the Ring camera talking about another woman… and realize the fairytale you’ve built together might’ve never been real? 💔 This week’s listener letter, “Broken Pieces,” comes from a wife and mother of four who discovered her husband’s long-term emotional affair—one that started years ago and only came to light by accident. Now, even after counseling, her trust is shattered and she’s asking: do I keep fighting for this marriage, or is it time to let go? We talk:💬 Why emotional affairs can be just as devastating as physical ones—and why men often underestimate their impact.💔 Yvette on what it really takes to rebuild trust after betrayal and why healing can’t be rushed to “get back to normal.”🧠 Glen breaks down why many husbands confuse regret with repentance—and the work required to earn back safety.⚖️ How couples therapy can stall if both people aren’t equally honest about the damage done.🙏🏾 The hard truth: forgiveness and reconciliation aren’t the same thing—and you can choose one without the other. Have you ever stayed after discovering something you could never unhear? Episode 266 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in.
Transcribed - Published: 29 October 2025
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! What do you do when the man you love keeps hitting pause on the future you planned together? 💍 After six years—three long-distance, three living together—a listener’s boyfriend still hasn’t proposed or started premarital counseling. She feels more like a roommate than a partner, while he insists they’ve “gone backwards” and need to fix their foundation before moving toward marriage. Now she’s wondering: is this a season to rebuild… or a sign it’s time to walk away?We talk:💬 "When a man says ‘not right now,’ he often means ‘not you.’” – Glen breaks down what “not ready” really signals about a man’s heart and leadership.⚖️ How living together before commitment can blur standards and stall clarity about the relationship’s direction.❤️ Why comfort can replace pursuit—and what women lose when they stop being chosen.🧱 Yvette’s reminder: “You can’t fix the foundation while living in the house.” If it’s shaky now, marriage won’t steady it.🙏🏾 The difference between hoping he’ll grow and accepting he’s not growing with you. Have you ever stayed too long waiting for someone to be ready? ⏳ Episode 265 of How Married Are You? is live—tap in, share your story, and tag a friend who needs this convo.
Transcribed - Published: 21 October 2025
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! What if your independence isn’t a strength—but a shield? 💔 A 28-year-old listener has never been in a romantic relationship, and she wonders if years of self-reliance have made her “too independent” to ever need (or want) marriage. With rejection scars, a deep love of solo life, and questions about purpose, partnership, and faith, she asks: Is marriage more than companionship? Or is it simply not for everyone? We talk:✨ Why independence can morph from healthy to isolating if it keeps you from risking intimacy💡 The difference between “prescribed marriage” and truly desiring a covenant partnership🙏🏾 How encounters with God reshape our view of self-worth, sex, and relationships🌱 What it looks like to prepare for marriage without idolizing it—or fearing it❤️ Why learning to receive love can be harder (and holier) than giving it Have you ever worried you’re too independent for love? Episode 264 is live—tap in and share your story in the comments! #HowMarriedAreYou #RelationshipTalk #FaithAndLove
Transcribed - Published: 14 October 2025
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY: https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555 “Help Me Get My Husband Off the Couch” For the last five years, one wife has been going to bed alone—while her husband voluntarily sets up camp on the couch 🛋️. What started as late-night gaming turned into a full-blown routine, even when they lived in a studio apartment just three feet apart. Now she’s asking: Is this just a bad habit… or a deeper signal about intimacy, stress, and their marriage? We talk: 💤 Why “comfort” isn’t the real reason many men retreat to the couch 🔥 How sexual frustration and unspoken resentment can quietly drive distance 🛑 Why calling it “just a bad habit” misses the deeper layers of disconnection 👀 The possibility of porn, avoidance, or hidden nighttime routines fueling the cycle ❤️ Why a marriage bed matters—not just for sleep, but for connection, vulnerability, and unity Ever had a partner avoid the bed? Did it turn out to be comfort… or conflict? Episode 263 is live—tap in and share your story in the comments! #HowMarriedAreYou #MarriageTalk #CouchConfessions
Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2025
“Am I going to be a lazy mom?” A 23-year-old listener is glowing with excitement about her first pregnancy 👶🏾—but beneath the joy, fear lingers. Raised tough, she worries she won’t be nurturing enough, won’t have the energy, won’t measure up. Her 25-year-old husband is steady and supportive, but she’s left asking: How do I step into motherhood when doubt whispers louder than confidence? We talk:💡 Why parenting starts in the womb—and how small daily choices already shape connection🛑 The lie of the “lazy mom” and why rest is a requirement, not a weakness💸 Facing financial fears with faith and resilience instead of scarcity thinking🍼 How breastfeeding, bonding, and even “missed invitations” become training grounds for grace🌱 Learning to parent yourself first so you can parent your child with confidence and compassion Have you ever doubted you’d be “enough” as a parent? How did you find your footing? Episode 262 is live—join the conversation and share your story! #HowMarriedAreYou #ParentingWithGrace #Episode262
Transcribed - Published: 1 October 2025
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY! A listener married young and in love; years later, pregnant with a toddler at home, she’s watching her husband drift from faith, hide the marriage online, and surround himself with bad influences. Birthdays and Mother’s Days go ignored, passwords are gone, and therapy suggests an ultimatum. Is she clinging to hope—or ignoring what she already knows? We talk:🕊️ Redemption starts with repentance and confession—and two willing people.🚩 Public secrecy is a signal: removing your spouse from socials isn’t “privacy,” it presents you as single—trust what that communicates. 🧭 Gaslighting check: move as if you know the truth, and seek clarity wisely (community, receipts, even a P.I. if safe)—but remember, you can’t unsee what you find. 👥 Character over position: look for someone submitted to mentors, community, and growth; that’s more telling than job titles or labels. 🧩 Forgiveness ≠ reconciliation: you can extend grace without staying; with kids, co-parenting may continue, but covenant requires honesty and change. Have you ever had to choose clarity over comfort in a relationship? What did repentance look like in real life? Episode 261 is live—tap in and share your story.
Transcribed - Published: 23 September 2025
PRE-ORDER FATHER YOURSELF FIRST TODAY Is wanting vulnerability the same as being ready to hold it? A newlywed (90-something days in!) loves her husband but admits his past trauma makes openness slow. Then the Holy Spirit hits her with two checks: “Can you handle what he gives you?” and “Steward well what he gives you.” We unpack what “safe space” really costs: capacity, patience, and practice. 💛 We talk:🧩 Capacity ≠ desire: Wanting all the feelings isn’t the same as being able to carry them—growth over pass/fail.📦 Steward what you have: Treat disclosures like a fragile package—follow “handling instructions,” even if unspoken.🤫 Sometimes love is quiet: Hold space, resist fixing, let him finish, respond later with care.🧑🏾🤝🧑🏾 He needs his people: Spouse ≠ only container—think therapist, mentors, men’s community, real accountability.🛡️ Protect each other & the mission: Boundaries are holy; honesty and safety can coexist. How did you build capacity to be a safer place for your partner’s truth? Drop a tip for the wedding party. Episode 260 is live—tap in!
Transcribed - Published: 16 September 2025
A brother wrote in after a three-year long-distance rollercoaster where tough talks turned into silence and her parents turned hostile. He prayed for an approval and called it a sign while every other sign said no. We laugh, we side-eye, and we keep it loving but honest. 😂🙏🏾 We talk:🙅🏾♂️ Stop over-spiritualizing dating. God is not a vending machine or a green light on command.🚫🏠 Racism in your own home is a hard no. You cannot change being Black and you shouldn’t try to survive where you aren’t respected.🤐 Silence is not depth. Stonewalling and hiding are patterns, not personality quirks.🎆 Chemistry is fireworks. 🧯 Compatibility is fire safety. Choose the relationship that chooses you back.🧹 Unfollow, block, and heal. Get a real therapist and find mentors 10 to 15 years ahead in the season you want, where mutual respect is obvious. Ever turned a red flag into a “sign” and had to course-correct later? Tell us how you knew. Episode 259 is live.
Transcribed - Published: 9 September 2025
A 27-year-old listener in a three-year poly relationship wants simple guardrails—tell me when you’re out with someone else, if you’re spending the night, and shut it down if they try to edge me out. He resists, agrees begrudgingly, then doesn’t follow through. She’s financially stuck, sharing a cramped place he pays for, and wonders when it’s time to plan her exit. 🛡️💔 We talk:“You wrote us knowing where we stand. Our counsel is to get out.”“He wants more. You want depth. What you desire and what you accept are two different things. One has to change.”“You’re asking for safety, transparency, communication, covering, stability. Those are far easier to build with one person.”“If you truly want that lifestyle, seek voices who live it. We don’t. Our vision is covenant and wholeness.”“The goal in marriage is loving each other into fullness. Fragments won’t make anyone whole.” Have you ever stayed where your needs weren’t respected because leaving felt impossible? What boundary finally moved you toward safety? Episode 258 is live—tap in and tell us your story.
Transcribed - Published: 4 September 2025
Is God’s will bigger than girl code? ✝️ When a listener in her church circle and her friend’s ex catch real feelings, the trio dynamic—and a friendship—hangs in the balance. She’s prayed the feelings away, he confessed he wants to pursue her, and everyone’s watching to see whether wisdom or worry wins. 💔 We talk:“They didn’t guard their hearts.” Staying close after a breakup kept hope alive and blurred boundaries.“Church culture can blur the lines.” You can’t call dibs on people, and friendship circles can make feelings messy.“You want to be with somebody who wants to be with you.” Maturity releases what isn’t yours and resists possessiveness.“Let the Lord’s voice be the loudest in your ear.” Not girl code or guy code—God’s guidance first.“You’re free to pursue if it’s mutual.” Ask, “What’s your plan and how will this be different,” and accept that you might “lose a friend for your future husband.” Have you ever dated within the friend group? How did you balance loyalty and love? Episode 257 is live—tap in and tell us where you draw the line.
Transcribed - Published: 26 August 2025
What do you do when the man you want to be feels out of reach? 💍🇯🇲 Recorded in Montego Bay while Glen and Yvette celebrate 15 years 🎉, a listener writes in before his own 10-year anniversary: he’s lost motivation, avoids hard conversations, and feels inconsistent in faith and intimacy after weight gain. Without a positive male role model, he’s under a heavy cloud and asking how to lead his family God’s way. ✝️ We talk:Glen shares that year 10 was rough too; therapy in 2020 helped him initiate sex and hard conversations again. 🧠💬“Father yourself”: restructure your inner voice with accountable self-talk and kindness while you grow the man. 🗣️❤️🌱Make it practical: schedule sex 📅, commit to a 30-minute walk 🚶♂️🚶♀️, and listen to a podcast together to spark real dialogue. 🎧Progress over perfection: trim TV and gaming 📺🎮, make one right decision at a time ✅, and stop treating growth like a deadline. ⏳Partnership in real life: give your spouse room to change 🔄, ask specifically for what you need 📝, and contribute to comfort without mind-reading. 🧩 Have you ever rebuilt confidence in the middle of a marriage? 💬 What first step actually moved the needle for you? Episode 256 is live from Jamaica 🇯🇲 during Glen and Yvette’s 15th-anniversary trip 🎉.
Transcribed - Published: 19 August 2025
What do you owe a friend when romance enters the chat? 💔 A listener matched with a guy and told her girls how excited she was—only to learn weeks later that one of them secretly liked him, talked to him, and went on a date. The friend admitted it only after he ghosted her and showed zero remorse. Now the question is clear: where’s the line between shooting your shot and protecting the friendship? We talk:Take inventory: this isn’t the friend you share that kind of news with.Friend vs. homie: keep the group vibe if you want, but downgrade access to your heart.If someone says “I’m hurt,” you acknowledge it—even if you disagree.Loyalty matters: don’t compete with your friends for attention, affection, or “the cupcake.”Years don’t equal trust: 15 years of history doesn’t excuse shady choices. Ever had a friend cross the line on dating etiquette? 🚩 Tell us where you draw the boundary. Episode 255 is live—drop your take in the comments! #HowMarriedAreYou #Friendship #GirlCode #Podcast 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 12 August 2025
What happens when the "perfect boyfriend" suddenly explodes? 😳 A listener writes in about her kind, generous dream man—until he shouted, cursed, and loomed over her at 3 AM after she said she felt left out of his hobby-club mixer. Childhood memories of an angry step-dad came rushing back, and now she wonders: if rage shows up once, will it move in after I do? Glen and Yvette weigh safety, trauma, and how much grace is too much. We talk:🚩 He played himself—no one should talk to a partner like that, Glen says, urging her to trust the fear signal.🛑 Glen’s first instinct: leave if he scares you—therapy can’t fix disrespect you tolerate.🔄 Yvette on trauma stacking and how tiny slights pile up until the midnight blow-up feels massive.🎯 Glen explains that if he invites you, he needs you in the hobby—not policing him.🧭 The hosts’ blueprint for clear expectations, compartmentalized friendships, and mentors before marriage. Have you ever loved someone who seemed perfect—until the anger flared? 💥 What told you it was time to walk away or stay? Episode 254 is live—tap in and share your story with #HowMarriedAreYou #HMAY254!
Transcribed - Published: 5 August 2025
Can a prophetic word outweigh chemistry that’s already lit the fuse? 🕯️ One listener writes in torn between a four‑year, on‑again‑off‑again love and the fear he’s missing the real woman God promised. Childhood trauma, church expectations, and a couple of busted boundaries all collide as he wonders: am I the problem—or am I over‑spiritualizing everything? We talk: 🗣️ Make a decision—then make it right.🔍 Consider the source: weigh any prophecy against your own walk with God.🚧 Boundaries only work when you enforce them as the leader.🧠 Your body doing what it’s designed to do isn’t evil—how you act on it matters.🕺🏾 Love her to perfection: argue well, get therapy, keep working the plan. Ever had to choose between a “word from God” and the relationship right in front of you? 💌 Episode 253 is live—tell us how you found clarity! #HowMarriedAreYou #RelationshipRealTalk
Transcribed - Published: 29 July 2025
Can love survive emotional whiplash and a husband who leaves you on the curb? 😶🌫️ One listener kept chasing a woman who ping‑ponged between “just friends” and “let’s try again.” Another rushed into marriage for a missions trip—only to discover her new spouse measures quality time in bedroom minutes and once made her walk home after a joke. Both are wondering: Am I crazy for calling it quits—or crazy for staying We talk: 🙏🏾 “You deserve a clear conversation, not constant confusion.”🛑 Why loneliness inside a relationship can hurt more than being single.👥 The lifesaving power of accountability and community—don’t partner with someone who avoids both.🔄 “Make a decision, then make it right—fear can’t drive your love life.”🗓️ Practical rescue plan: schedule date nights, schedule sex, and get real counseling before calling the movers. Have you ever begged for clarity—or begged for a simple date night? 💭 Drop your story and wisdom below—Episode 252 is live now! #HowMarriedAreYou #HMAY
Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2025
A 26‑year‑old listener feels sparks 🔥 with a 35‑year‑old pastor, but her dad and step‑mom insist, “He’s too old!” Now she’s weighing wisdom, faith ✝️, and a widening generation gap 🕰️. Can she trust her own maturity—and God’s timing—over her family’s fears? We talk: 🙏🏾 Why shared faith, values, and life vision matter more than the number on a birth certificate🚩 How repeating “much younger” partners can hint at deeper immaturity or control issues📝 Using premarital coaching and mentors to see compatibility with clear eyes—not just butterflie 👨👩👧 Balancing family concerns with wisdom from couples who live the kind of marriage you want🌱 Spotting true maturity through character and growth, not calendar years Ever crossed a 10‑year age gap? ⏳ What convinced you it could work—or that it couldn’t? Episode 251 is live—tap in and share your story in the comments! 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 15 July 2025
What do you do when you realize nobody’s coming to save you? 🧠💔📉 In this episode, we hear from a 24-year-old man who's been in a relationship for almost a decade—but feels like he’s barely shown up for any of it. He moved across the country to be with the love of his life. She’s held down the bills, the home, and the hope. And while he battles depression, anxiety, and a lack of discipline, he's asking the hard questions: How do I stop drowning in self-pity? How do I become the man she deserves… and the man I want to be. Glen and Yvette dig deep on this one. We talk:Why nobody’s coming to save you—and why that’s actually freeingWhat it means to father yourself firstHow to stop “trying” and start planningBuilding discipline when you’ve never been modeled itAnd why love isn’t a crutch—it’s a call to rise. If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own life—or like you’re falling behind the partner who believes in you—this one’s for you. Episode 250 is live. Tap in and tell us:What helped you take control when you finally got tired of waiting? 👇🏾
Transcribed - Published: 9 July 2025
What do you do when the glue of your family is gone—and everything starts to come undone? 🕊💔 In this episode, we hear from a listener grieving the loss of her mother… while also navigating a painful shift in her relationship with her sister. They’ve survived so much together—abusive relationships, single motherhood, and even the loss of their fiancés just weeks apart. But now, in the wake of their mother’s death, grief is exposing the cracks: an imbalance in caregiving, a new boyfriend causing tension, and a fear that their bond may not survive this chapter. Yvette and Glen hold space—and offer clarity. We talk: What is codependency—and does it apply here?When you’re the “strong one” and it’s quietly breaking youThe hard (but freeing) truth about defining relationships with familyHow grief can also be an identity reckoninAnd why it's okay to find “family” outside your family If you’ve ever lost someone and felt like you were losing more than one person in the process—this one’s for you. Episode 249 is live. Tap in, breathe deep, and tell us:What boundaries have helped you stay grounded during a season of loss? 👇🏾
Transcribed - Published: 1 July 2025
When your parents’ lifestyle makes you uncomfortable—what do you do? 🤯 In Episode 248, we read an email from a woman trying to navigate a very complicated family dynamic. After growing up loosely Christian, she’s now leaning more into her faith—but her mom and stepdad have recently entered a polyamorous relationship and moved a third partner into the family home… a woman who also happens to work with her dad. 😳 She’s feeling overwhelmed, grossed out, and unsure how to handle visits or conversations without compromising her values or cutting ties completely. So what does it mean to respond in a godly way—without enabling what you don’t agree with? We talk about:Why you don’t need to know every messy detail 🧼How to love people where they are, not where you wish they’d be ❤️And the real freedom that comes from accepting you can’t change anyone but yourself 🙏🏾 Tap in for a raw, real convo—and then join us in the comments:How do you set boundaries without being harsh or judgmental? 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 30 June 2025
What do you do when the creativity dries up? 🎤📱💭 In this episode, we hear from a female rapper who’s feeling stuck. She went from writing multiple songs a week… to barely one every few weeks. She’s working in a beige windowless room, caring for a loved one recovering from a stroke, and feeling creatively drained—while also lowkey addicted to her phone. She’s asking for help. For hope. For a spark. 🔥 Glen—our resident rapper—takes the lead on this one.We talk:Writing what’s real—even when what’s real is sadCreating without the pressure to post Why your gift deserves disciplineAnd how phone addiction might be robbing you of the output you’re made forIf you’ve ever felt the well run dry, or you’ve doubted your voice as a creative—this one’s for you. Episode 247 is live. Tap in, get encouraged, and drop a comment below:What helps YOU keep creating when you’re in a dry season? 👇🏾 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 17 June 2025
This week, we’re responding to two emails—both full of tension, questions, and heart. First up:A man writes in, self-conscious about being seen as a “toxic male.” 😓He wants to correct things in his relationship—like how the house is cleaned—but he’s struggling with how to say it and whether he even should.He’s worried about being part of the problem…But is he overthinking society’s expectations and missing what’s actually going on in his own relationship? Then we hear from a woman with a difficult dilemma:She overheard something serious about her friend’s marriage—infidelity. 💔The friend knows what’s happening in her marriage, but she hasn’t shared it directly.So now, the question is:Do you bring it up? Or do you stay quiet and show support another way? Glen and Yvette weigh in on why some people stay silent about their pain, and how to be a safe, steady friend—even when you know something you weren’t meant to hear. 🧏🏾♀️ Episode 246 is now live—watch and join us in the comments:What would you do if you knew something about your friend’s marriage…but they didn’t tell you themselves? 👇🏾 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 10 June 2025
What do you do when your marriage feels like your biggest regret? 😔 This week, we hear from a husband who’s at his breaking point. He says he can’t be himself around his wife. He loves her, but he doesn’t like her—and after years of deception, emotional distance, and barely any intimacy, he’s not sure there’s anything left to fight for. She's told some big time lies about about finances and debt.They have major differences in parenting styles.They’ve had sex a handful of times in five years.They've tried counseling, but she barely shows up to the process.Now he’s wondering: Is she just waiting on me to walk away? In this episode:💔 We reflect on the difficulty of marriage🙅🏾♀️ Yvette shares moments when she was ready to walk away🧩 We talk about what to do when the going gets tough🙏🏾 Plus, a call to prayer when your home feels like it’s falling apart This one’s honest, painful, and powerful for anyone navigating relationship regret, communication issues, or spiritual disconnection in marriage. Watch now and join the conversation in the comments:Have you ever felt like giving up on your relationship?What helped you hold on—or helped you let go? 👇🏾
Transcribed - Published: 3 June 2025
What if your family background feels like something you’ve had to escape—like you came from bad cloth—and now you’re trying to build a life from something new? 🧵 That’s the story behind this week’s email—from a man who cut ties with his manipulative, chaotic family and is now dating a woman whose family seems to have it all together. Respectable. Traditional. “Good cloth.” But the longer he’s around them, the more he notices the snags. Microaggressions. Anti-Black comments. Quiet superiority. Now he’s asking:How do I protect my future family from this too? In this episode:✂️ Glenn opens up about drawing hard lines with his own family💬 Yvette reflects on coming from a “cleaner cloth”—and what still gets revealed over time🛑 We talk about boundaries, bias, and how to protect the culture of your home📍Plus, advice for having real conversations with your partner’s family—even if you’re not married yet This one is vulnerable, honest, and deeply relevant if you’re thinking about what you want to pass on… and what has to stop with you. Watch now and join us in the comments:Where have you had to draw the line with family?And what do you want to protect your kids from—no matter who it comes from? 👇🏾 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2025
This week’s email hits deep. A wife writes in, asking for advice on how to encourage her husband to go to therapy to address childhood trauma. But he’s resistant—and it’s not just personal… it’s cultural. 🌍🧠 Glen & Yvette open up about the stigma around therapy in Caribbean communities and how that resistance can impact marriages, healing, and connection. 🇯🇲💬 They also get real about their own journey with therapy—what helped, what hurt, and how they’ve learned to show up for each other while doing the work. If you’ve ever wrestled with therapy, felt stuck trying to support a partner, or wondered how your upbringing shapes your healing process—this one’s for you. Tap in, listen close, and join the conversation. 👂🏾💭Drop your thoughts in the comments:Have you or your spouse ever resisted therapy? What helped shift the perspective? Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!We love building this community with you. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2025
Sisters. Podcasts. Beef. And… a flying water bottle?! 🥴💥 This week, we’re diving into a wild email from a listener caught in some serious sister drama. Two sisters started a podcast together, but when one decided she was done, things got messy.👉🏾 One sister wanted control.👉🏾 The other was tired of being told what to do.👉🏾 Then came the accusations—flaky, bossy, better-than-you vibes.👉🏾 And yes, a water bottle got thrown (missed, but still…). Now, the sister writing in wants to make things right, but everyone else seems ready to just move on like it didn't happen. So what do you do when the people you love don’t wanna deal with the real issues? Tap in to hear our take, and let us know what you’d do in her shoes. 🎧 Watch Episode 242 now.📝 Drop a comment with your thoughts. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 13 May 2025
Are all the husbands out here flopping… or are we just not hearing the whole story? 🤔💭 In this episode, we read another email from a wife who’s had it. Her man’s doing the bare minimum, communication is a mess, and she’s at her breaking point. But after reading a bunch of emails like this lately, we had to pause and ask: Is it really always the man? Or are we missing something? We talk about how easy it is to misjudge a whole situation when you’ve only got one side, and we get real about some of our own relationship moments where both people thought they were right—but nobody was actually hearing each other. Tap in for the conversation, stay for the callout—we need more men to speak up and share their side. ✍🏽👂🏾 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 6 May 2025
Sometimes you gotta move to find your peace. 🏡✨ Last year? Whew. It was a whole lot.We moved out to the farm thinking it was gonna be this beautiful new chapter for our family… and listen — some of it was. 🌻 But some of it? Straight up survival mode. 💀Fast forward to now — we’re in Fallbrook.And it finally feels like home. 🖤🌴We’re breathing different. Living different. Smiling different.God really knows how to set you up when you trust Him with the whole story. 🙏🏾 Thanks for rocking with us through all the ups and downs.This next chapter? We ready. 🏁 Drop a comment and tell us — what’s a season you thought would go one way but ended up growing you in a way you never expected? We’d love to hear your story. 🖤 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 29 April 2025
“My man only brushes his teeth once a week… and still wanna kiss me in the mouth?!” 😩🪥 This listener wrote in with a situation that had us both shook—and honestly?Sis, you’re not asking for too much. She’s pregnant 🤰🏾, in PJs most days, not feeling her cutest—and her husband is still calling her beautiful and trying to love on her real close.The only problem? His breath is breathin’. 💨👃🏽 She’s brought it up, but he says brushing isn’t his focus right now. He’s thinking about bills, baby prep, and just trying to make it through.But affection without hygiene? That’s a tough love language to translate. In Episode 239, we talk about:🗣️ When the “little things” feel big🧼 Why personal care isn’t shallow—it’s sacred💞 How to hold space for your spouse and still speak your trut😤 Navigating love when the vibes ain't vibin' 🎥 Watch the full episode to hear our take—and why we think she’s more than fair for bringing it up. Comment below:What’s one “small” thing in your relationship that turned into a BIG conversation? ORAL B TOOTHBRUSH LINK: https://bit.ly/4m3EyZp 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 22 April 2025
He gave up his best friend for love… but was it worth it? 💍💔And what do you do when marriage hits hard just four months in? 😬 In this episode, we’re diving into two real-life relationship updates that had us both nodding... and hollering. 😭😂 First up: remember the fiancé who asked her man to choose between her and his female best friend? 👀 Well—he called back with an update.Spoiler: there's a wedding date on the books 💒... but was the friendship loss worth it? Then, we hear from a newlywed who’s four months into marriage and struggling.They did all the prep—counseling, mentorship, community—but real life ain’t reading like the workbook. 📖💥Now she’s wondering: did I marry the wrong man? Or is this just part of the process? We’re sharing the truth about what Year One really felt like for us, what kept us going, and how to know when it’s time to press in—or possibly peace out. Tune in for the real, the raw, and the reminders that choosing love takes work... but you’re not alone. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 15 April 2025
What do you do when God is the one exposing the truth in your marriage? 😳💔 In Episode 237, we’re diving into one of the wildest calls we’ve received yet. A woman finds out her husband has a hidden child, a secret past, and no desire to tell the truth—so God starts revealing it in her dreams. 👀 We talk trust, spiritual red flags, emotional safety, and the power of redemption—even when it feels impossible. Plus, what do you do when you’re still in love with someone from your past? Whew. Let’s talk about it. 🎧 Tap in for real stories, real faith, and real conversations that just might hit you right where you are. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 8 April 2025
Feeling like you’re always the bigger person in your relationship? The optimist, the problem solver, the one carrying all the weight? 😮💨 In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle that dynamic—how to keep going without burning out, set boundaries without resentment, and create balance in your relationship. Because love shouldn’t feel one-sided. Tap in and let’s talk about it. 💬 Ever felt like you’re carrying more of the relationship? Drop a 🙋🏽♀️🙋🏾♂️ in the comments! 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 1 April 2025
Is he marriage material? 💍 In today’s episode, we tackle the question of whether emotional connection is enough to build a future. Her man is her best friend, they vibe as artists, but he’s a hermit who won’t make an effort for her social life, family, or future plans. 🧐Yvette and Glen break down what she should be asking herself and him—and share how misalignment showed up in their own relationship. 🎤 How do you know when your partner isn’t on the same page?🎤 What questions should you ask to understand if they’re ready for marriage? Watch the full episode and drop your thoughts in the comments! ⬇️ 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 25 March 2025
Worried your wedding night might be whack? 😩 One listener wrote in with a big concern—she’s marrying a virgin and is nervous about what that means for their intimacy. So we’re diving ALL the way in on what it really looks like to navigate intimacy when experience levels don’t match. Yvette shares what it was like being a virgin bride—not just the emotions, but the mechanics (or lack thereof 😭). We get real about our awkward first night, our struggles with incompatibility, and how we finally figured it out. Because let’s be real… being “experienced” doesn’t mean anything if you’re still learning a brand-new person. This episode is raw, honest, and full of the convos we wish we had before marriage. Tap in now! ⬇️ 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025
In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life dilemmas y’all are facing—like when to make sacrifices for your partner, how to balance your career with your relationship, and when to put dreams on hold (or go for it all). 💭💍 Some of the questions we’re tackling:“Should I give up my grad school dreams for my partner?” 🤔“Can you really have a career and a successful marriage without losing yourself?” 💼💖“How do you know when it’s time to sacrifice for love, or go after what you want?” We’re keeping it 100 about relationships, career goals, and those hard decisions. Drop your thoughts below and let’s talk about how you handle love and dreams. 💬 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IG Glen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025
What do you do when trust is broken, expectations aren’t met, and life just keeps piling on—loss, grief, addiction, betrayal, finances, job stress—like, can we catch a break?! 😩💸 We’re getting real in this episode:💭 When is it time to walk away—from a marriage, a career, or any situation that is no longer honoring or beneficial?💭 What does leadership & responsibility really look like when the pressure is on?Marriage, career, LIFE—sometimes it’s too much. 😮💨💭 If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just straight-up lost on what to do next, this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen in now & let’s figure this out together! ⬇️ 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! The WebsiteThe Email listContact Us: [email protected] Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629Leave a Review Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US:Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon.Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal. CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast IGGlen's IGYvette's IGChocolate Babies IGFrank the Puppet's IG Yvette Unplugged Podcast WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025
Is being in love necessary for a marriage that lasts? Or is love as a choice enough? In this episode, we’re breaking down emotional attraction, physical chemistry, and what happens when life gets real—bills, kids, family drama, and overstimulation included. 😮💨 We’re talking about:✅ Can love as a verb create attraction?✅ What to do when the spark fades.✅ How to stay connected when life is overwhelming.✅ The role of emotional and physical attraction in marriage. If you’ve ever wondered, “What are we even doing?”—this one’s for you. Let’s talk! 🎙️💡
Transcribed - Published: 27 February 2025
Is being in love necessary for a marriage that lasts? Or is love as a choice enough? In this episode, we’re breaking down emotional attraction, physical chemistry, and what happens when life gets real—bills, kids, family drama, and overstimulation included. 😮💨 We’re talking about:✅ Can love as a verb create attraction?✅ What to do when the spark fades.✅ How to stay connected when life is overwhelming.✅ The role of emotional and physical attraction in marriage. If you’ve ever wondered, “What are we even doing?”—this one’s for you. Let’s talk! 🎙️💡
Transcribed - Published: 27 February 2025
Episode 228 of #howmarriedareyou discusses listener's voicemail message, where a young man is struggling with his fiancée's demand that he cut ties with his long-time best friend, who is a woman. @yvetteunplugged and @BeleafInFatherhood provide their perspectives on navigating relationships and boundaries in marriage. They also share personal anecdotes about their own marriage, including instances where they had to establish boundaries with friends and family members, and how that impacted their relationship.
Transcribed - Published: 19 September 2024
Unplugged Retreat is sold out! please join Yvette's Email list at https://YvetteHenry.com 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/join-the-list/ Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-married-are-you/id1405158204 Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon: https://patreon.com/HMAY Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/howmarriedareyou/ Glen: https://www.Instagram.com/beleafmel Yvette: https://www.Instagram.com/mrsmelanin Chocolate Babes: https://www.instagram.com/chocolatebabies/ Frank the Puppet: https://www.Instagram.com/FrankPuppet Yvette Unplugged Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/yvette_unplugged/ WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD: https://www.youtube.com/c/BeleafInFatherhoodtv/ Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 24 July 2024
50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/join-the-list/ Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-married-are-you/id1405158204 Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon: https://patreon.com/HMAY Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/howmarriedareyou/ Glen: https://www.Instagram.com/beleafmel Yvette: https://www.Instagram.com/mrsmelanin Chocolate Babes: https://www.instagram.com/chocolatebabies/ Frank the Puppet: https://www.Instagram.com/FrankPuppet Yvette Unplugged Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/yvette_unplugged/ WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD: https://www.youtube.com/c/BeleafInFatherhoodtv/ Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 24 July 2024
50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/join-the-list/ Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-married-are-you/id1405158204 Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon: https://patreon.com/HMAY Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/howmarriedareyou/ Glen: https://www.Instagram.com/beleafmel Yvette: https://www.Instagram.com/mrsmelanin Chocolate Babes: https://www.instagram.com/chocolatebabies/ Frank the Puppet: https://www.Instagram.com/FrankPuppet Yvette Unplugged Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/yvette_unplugged/ WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD: https://www.youtube.com/c/BeleafInFatherhoodtv/ Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
Transcribed - Published: 24 July 2024
In this episode of "How Married Are You?" (Episode 223), hosts Mrs. Melanin and Beleaf discuss a variety of personal and family stories, including the challenges of balancing work and family life, the nuances of communication within marriage, and dealing with emotionally charged situations. They share anecdotes about their children's requests and misunderstandings, and emphasize the importance of understanding and patience in relationships. The episode also includes the most important things you need to do to divorce proof your marriage.
Transcribed - Published: 19 July 2024
Unplugged Retreat is sold out! please join Yvette's Email list at https://YvetteHenry.com to find out about upcoming Events. 50% OFF of our E-Course, The Premarital Advantage!! View it here: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2 The Website: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/ The Email list: https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com/join-the-list/ Contact Us: [email protected] Leave Us a Voicemail: +1 727-619-4629 Leave a Review: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-married-are-you/id1405158204 Every week we share with you all exactly how married we are. Now it's your turn! Leave us a voicemail at +1 727-619-4629 or send a voice message to our DM's on the #HMAY Instagram. WAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon: https://patreon.com/HMAY Support us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcast CONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM: HMAY Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/howmarriedareyou/ Glen: https://www.Instagram.com/beleafmel Yvette: https://www.Instagram.com/mrsmelanin Chocolate Babes: https://www.instagram.com/chocolatebabies/ Frank the Puppet: https://www.Instagram.com/FrankPuppet Yvette Unplugged Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/yvette_unplugged/ WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD: https://www.youtube.com/c/BeleafInFatherhoodtv/ Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/hmay/message
Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2024
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