She Don't Like You Black Brother #HMAY Ep. 259
How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 9 September 2025
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
A brother wrote in after a three-year long-distance rollercoaster where tough talks turned into silence and her parents turned hostile. He prayed for an approval and called it a sign while every other sign said no. We laugh, we side-eye, and we keep it loving but honest. 😂🙏🏾
We talk:
🙅🏾♂️ Stop over-spiritualizing dating. God is not a vending machine or a green light on command.
🚫🏠 Racism in your own home is a hard no. You cannot change being Black and you shouldn’t try to survive where you aren’t respected.
🤐 Silence is not depth. Stonewalling and hiding are patterns, not personality quirks.
🎆 Chemistry is fireworks. 🧯 Compatibility is fire safety. Choose the relationship that chooses you back.
🧹 Unfollow, block, and heal. Get a real therapist and find mentors 10 to 15 years ahead in the season you want, where mutual respect is obvious.
Ever turned a red flag into a “sign” and had to course-correct later? Tell us how you knew. Episode 259 is live.
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| 0:00.0 | But man, I think about that answered prayer. |
| 0:03.9 | I'm wondering if I'm over-spiritualizing this dating stuff. |
| 0:06.8 | Be honest with me, ha-ha. |
| 0:08.2 | You are over-spiritualizing this, nigger. |
| 0:24.7 | Hello, my name is Mrs. Bellam. |
| 0:25.8 | I'm Belief Mel. |
| 0:28.5 | And we are here with episode 259 of. |
| 0:30.1 | How married are you? |
| 0:31.8 | Okay, my name Belize. This is Yvette. |
| 0:32.3 | We married 15 years. |
| 0:34.2 | Living California, we got four kids. |
| 0:36.6 | Relationships carry. It's very necessary. We show our love struggles. We ask how married all. Every Tuesday and |
| 0:43.1 | Thursday, shardy. If you're listening, you're in the wedding party. It's okay if you want to put |
| 0:48.8 | your hands up. You've got the questions. We got the answers. It time chocolate baby story time is chocolate baby story time |
| 1:00.0 | one two three and did we tell them about how Uzi lost his front tooth teeth? |
| 1:12.3 | No. |
| 1:14.6 | Crazy story. |
| 1:17.3 | Yvette was, |
| 1:18.8 | Uzi was like, I think my tooth's ready to be pulled out. |
| 1:21.6 | I was like, man, I don't know about that. |
| 1:23.4 | And he was like, okay, I think so. |
| 1:26.6 | And then Yvette was like, Uzi, just come over. Just come over here. And she tried to pull out and missed. He started crying freaking out. The thing is, he was being all timid and he wasn't close enough. And so I didn't get a good grip on it. But it was, you guys, it was one of those things where it was like, if you just flicked it the right way, it would have come off. |
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