You WILL Project Your Past Onto Your Partner. #HMAY Ep. 288
How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 14 April 2026
⏱️ 48 minutes
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How do you keep your past from ruining your present?In this episode,,we respond to a newlywed wrestling with a real question: How do you not project what you saw growing up onto your marriage?And the truth is… you probably will.We talk about:Why projection is almost unavoidable in relationshipsHow to recognize when it’s happeningThe difference between your partner’s behavior vs. your past woundsWhy therapy, mentors, and self-awareness matterHow childhood experiences shape how you love, trust, and fearWe also unpack the deeper layer:Are you raising children… or trying to heal your inner child through them?Good Fathers Jacket: https://shop.temicoker.co/products/good-fathers-varsity-jacket?variant=46481445748928 Code: GoodFathersMatter Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/anaya778725Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First 📘🔥https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Yvette’s Email List 💌🌿https://yvettehenry.com/join-the-listRelease Rest Remain Bible Reading Plan 🙏🏽📖https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/64646Premarital Advantage 💍🧠https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2Black Men’s Meeting 🖤🗣️https://partiful.com/e/kuXEBUC7PHfydRmI3sz4?HMAY Amazon Storefront (affiliate) 🛒✨https://www.amazon.com/shop/howmarriedareyou?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_aipsfshop_0EGMQR9KJ94D8YGCDMV7&language=en-USWAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon: https://patreon.com/HMAYSupport us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcastCONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/howmarriedareyou/Glen: https://www.Instagram.com/beleafmelYvette: https://www.Instagram.com/mrsmelaninChocolate Babes: https://www.instagram.com/chocolatebabies/WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:https://www.youtube.com/c/BeleafInFatherhoodtv/Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
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| 0:00.0 | This episode was full of knowledge. |
| 0:02.9 | This was a great episode. |
| 0:04.9 | Don't sleep on this episode. |
| 0:07.1 | This one? |
| 0:21.2 | My name is Mrs. Melanin. |
| 0:22.1 | And I'm Believe Mel. |
| 0:26.4 | And we're here with episode 288 of How Married Are You? |
| 0:28.5 | Okay, my name Belief is Izzy Vett. |
| 0:30.0 | We married 15 years. |
| 0:32.7 | In California, we got four kids. |
| 0:33.9 | Relationship's scary. |
| 0:35.1 | It's very necessary. |
| 0:36.5 | We share a love with struggles. |
| 0:38.2 | We ask how married up. |
| 0:43.2 | Every Tuesday and Thursday, shoddy. If you're listening, you're in a wedding party. |
| 0:48.3 | It's okay. If you want to put your hands up, you've got the questions. We got the answers. It's chocolate baby story time. |
| 0:51.3 | It's chocolate baby story time. It's chocolate baby story time |
| 0:56.3 | One, two, three and |
| 0:58.7 | It's chocolate baby story time |
| 1:04.0 | We're back home, y'all |
| 1:06.1 | From our RV road trip |
| 1:08.9 | Yeah |
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