Montego Bay, Marriage & Messy Growth #HMAY Ep. 256
How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 19 August 2025
⏱️ 43 minutes
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Summary
What do you do when the man you want to be feels out of reach? 💍🇯🇲
Recorded in Montego Bay while Glen and Yvette celebrate 15 years 🎉, a listener writes in before his own 10-year anniversary: he’s lost motivation, avoids hard conversations, and feels inconsistent in faith and intimacy after weight gain. Without a positive male role model, he’s under a heavy cloud and asking how to lead his family God’s way. ✝️
- We talk:Glen shares that year 10 was rough too; therapy in 2020 helped him initiate sex and hard conversations again. 🧠💬
- “Father yourself”: restructure your inner voice with accountable self-talk and kindness while you grow the man. 🗣️❤️🌱
- Make it practical: schedule sex 📅, commit to a 30-minute walk 🚶♂️🚶♀️, and listen to a podcast together to spark real dialogue. 🎧
- Progress over perfection: trim TV and gaming 📺🎮, make one right decision at a time ✅, and stop treating growth like a deadline. ⏳
- Partnership in real life: give your spouse room to change 🔄, ask specifically for what you need 📝, and contribute to comfort without mind-reading. 🧩
Have you ever rebuilt confidence in the middle of a marriage? 💬 What first step actually moved the needle for you?
Episode 256 is live from Jamaica 🇯🇲 during Glen and Yvette’s 15th-anniversary trip 🎉.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | we're here in holwell jamaica montigo bay |
| 0:05.0 | hello my name is mrs melland i'm belittany and we're here with episode 256 of how married are you okay my name is Mrs. Melan. And I'm Belief Mel. And we're here with episode 256 of How Married Are You? |
| 0:24.1 | Okay, my name Belief is Yvette. |
| 0:25.9 | We married 15 years. |
| 0:27.9 | Live in California, we got four kids. |
| 0:30.3 | Relationship scary is very necessary. |
| 0:32.8 | We share our love with struggles. |
| 0:34.1 | We ask how married are you. |
| 0:35.8 | Every Tuesday and Thursday, sh shoddy if you're listening |
| 0:39.1 | you're in the wedding party it's okay if you want to put your hands up we've got the questions |
| 0:44.5 | we got the answer it's chocolate baby story time chocolate baby story time it's chocolate |
| 0:51.6 | baby story time. One, two, three. |
| 0:58.7 | It's chocolate baby story time. |
| 1:03.2 | Had a pleasure of kicking it with Anaya yesterday. |
| 1:07.3 | And I was telling you about this conversation, but they didn't hear it, so I'll let them |
| 1:10.3 | know. |
| 1:12.6 | I was like, Anaya, what do you love to do with your brothers |
| 1:15.4 | what about Theo |
| 1:16.5 | and it took her |
| 1:18.3 | very long to answer |
| 1:20.0 | she was like uh competitions |
| 1:23.0 | and I was like |
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