Love vs Conviction: Should She Give Up Drinking for Marriage? #HMAY Ep. 283
How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 10 March 2026
⏱️ 51 minutes
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Summary
In this video, we respond to a real question from a woman whose boyfriend, a church leader, told her he couldn't marry someone who drinks alcohol, even occasionally.Should she give up something she doesn’t personally believe is wrong in order to honor the man she loves and hopes to marry?Or is that the kind of change that must come from personal conviction, not relationship pressure?If you’ve ever wrestled with different convictions in a relationship, this conversation is for you.Drop your thoughts in the comments:Should someone change something like this for the person they love?Resources & LinksEmber mug Yvette Loves 🍵💍https://bit.ly/4lfn38iMentor Couple Wait List 🫂🖤https://forms.gle/VcUDRgf6km9kHWEK7Buy Girl Scout Cookies from Anaya 🍪💛https://digitalcookie.girlscouts.org/scout/anaya778725Release Rest Remain 📖✨https://a.co/d/ihBmSdOFather Yourself First 📘🔥https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555Yvette’s Email List 💌🌿https://yvettehenry.com/join-the-listRelease Rest Remain Bible Reading Plan 🙏🏽📖https://www.bible.com/en/reading-plans/64646Premarital Advantage 💍🧠https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2Black Men’s Meeting 🖤🗣️https://partiful.com/e/kuXEBUC7PHfydRmI3sz4?HMAY Amazon Storefront (affiliate) 🛒✨https://www.amazon.com/shop/howmarriedareyou?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_aipsfshop_0EGMQR9KJ94D8YGCDMV7&language=en-USWAYS TO PARTNER WITH US: Get special access to things we’re working on, extra content from our fam, and more on Patreon: https://patreon.com/HMAYSupport us with a one-time gift through PayPal: www.paypal.me/HMAYpodcastCONNECT WITH US ON INSTAGRAM:HMAY Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/howmarriedareyou/Glen: https://www.Instagram.com/beleafmelYvette: https://www.Instagram.com/mrsmelaninChocolate Babes: https://www.instagram.com/chocolatebabies/WATCH BELEAF IN FATHERHOOD:https://www.youtube.com/c/BeleafInFatherhoodtv/Thank you so much for tuning into this episode of How Married Are You?! See you next week!
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| 0:00.0 | Hello, there it is. |
| 0:01.2 | That's what I like. |
| 0:02.3 | Actually, you start talking. |
| 0:03.9 | Check one, two, testing one, too. Oh, let me. Okay, I have a new sound. I want to introduce. Okay. Okay, so when we suspect that someone is a player, I don't want to be a player. No, no. Maybe you're supposed to go with me |
| 0:21.0 | you're supposed to go with me |
| 0:21.1 | you're just trying to tell the people who you were |
| 0:34.6 | hello my name is Mrs. |
| 0:36.5 | And I'm Belief Mel and we're here with episode 283 of How Married Are You? Okay, my name Belief is Izzy. We married 15 years. Live in California. We got four. Relationship scary is very necessary. We share our love with struggles. We ask how married are you. |
| 0:56.5 | Every Tuesday and Thursday, Shardy. |
| 0:59.0 | If you're listening, you're in a wedding party. |
| 1:01.8 | It's okay if you want to put your hands up. |
| 1:03.0 | We've got the questions. |
| 1:04.1 | We got the answer. It's chocolate baby story time. |
| 1:07.0 | Chocolate baby story time. |
| 1:09.4 | It's chocolate baby story time |
| 1:11.9 | Hey one, two, three and |
| 1:14.5 | Guys, I want to tell you something |
| 1:17.5 | And this may be an ad |
| 1:20.5 | You know, we're going to put a little affiliate link in the thing |
| 1:23.2 | And y'all get me my ad sense |
| 1:25.0 | But for Christmas, my son, my eldest son, bought me this mug. |
| 1:33.5 | If you're not watching, this mug is the ember mug. |
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