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How Married Are You?

That Girl is NOT Your Friend! #HMAY Ep. 255

How Married Are You?

Glen & Yvette Henry

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.91.4K Ratings

🗓️ 12 August 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

What do you owe a friend when romance enters the chat? 💔


A listener matched with a guy and told her girls how excited she was—only to learn weeks later that one of them secretly liked him, talked to him, and went on a date. The friend admitted it only after he ghosted her and showed zero remorse. Now the question is clear: where’s the line between shooting your shot and protecting the friendship?


We talk:

  • Take inventory: this isn’t the friend you share that kind of news with.
  • Friend vs. homie: keep the group vibe if you want, but downgrade access to your heart.
  • If someone says “I’m hurt,” you acknowledge it—even if you disagree.
  • Loyalty matters: don’t compete with your friends for attention, affection, or “the cupcake.”
  • Years don’t equal trust: 15 years of history doesn’t excuse shady choices.


Ever had a friend cross the line on dating etiquette? 🚩

Tell us where you draw the boundary. Episode 255 is live—drop your take in the comments! #HowMarriedAreYou #Friendship #GirlCode #Podcast


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Glenn's like take inventory and understand that this is not the friend you share that kind of news with.

0:07.6

This is someone that you probably- She's not even a friend.

0:09.5

She's, she's, I mean, no, she can still be a friend.

0:13.5

She's a homie.

0:14.9

As I'm thinking about it more, I'm getting more angry and I don't like I should be friends no more.

0:33.3

Hello, my name is Mrs. Melanin.

0:34.2

And I'm Belief Mel.

0:39.0

And we are here with episode 255 of How Married Are You?

0:41.7

Okay, my name Belief.

0:42.3

This is Yvette.

0:44.5

We married 14 years.

0:45.6

15.

0:47.2

Is it 15 now?

0:48.1

Yes.

0:50.3

We record these a little bit in advance.

0:51.8

So I apologize.

0:52.4

Apologies.

0:53.5

My name Belief.

0:54.1

Is this Yvette? We married 15 years. Dang. Congratulations. That's apologize. Apologies. My name Belief is this. Zvette. We married 15 years. Dang.

0:56.3

Congratulations. That's crazy. Now let that settle in for a second.

1:00.8

Fifteen. Okay. My name Belief. This is Yvette. We married. We married. We live in California and got four kids.

1:09.0

Relationship scary is very necessary share all of our struggles

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