I Want Friends, He Wants Peace #HMAY Ep. 275
How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
4.9 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 13 January 2026
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, we talk honestly about something we’re still learning how to navigate in our own marriage: celebration, hosting, and friendship.
We unpack a real disagreement between us — one where gathering people, creating moments, and hosting feels meaningful and necessary to one of us, while the other experiences those same moments as pressure, disruption, and emotional overload. Neither of us is wrong, but the tension between those needs has shown up more than once over the years.
We share what that conflict actually looked like, how it connected to deeper questions about friendship, emotional capacity, and being known, and what it took for us to repair without one of us shrinking or the other feeling dismissed.
This conversation is about learning each other again, choosing honesty over peacekeeping, and figuring out how to stay connected without losing yourself in the process.
Resources & Links
Release Rest Remain
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Yvette’s Email List
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Release Rest Remain Bible Reading Plan
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Father Yourself First
https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555
Audiobook
Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available.
Premarital Advantage
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | When you are someone who enjoys making any excuse to celebrate and you marry someone like Glenn, |
| 0:08.8 | that's hard. |
| 0:23.8 | Hello, my name is Mrs. Melan. |
| 0:24.6 | And I'm Belief Mel. |
| 0:29.2 | And we're here with episode 275 of How Married Are You? |
| 0:30.9 | Okay, my name Belize. This is a very married 15 years. |
| 0:33.2 | Live in California. |
| 0:34.3 | We got four relationships. |
| 0:36.5 | Scary. |
| 0:37.1 | Very necessary. Shut shut i love up struggle |
| 0:39.4 | ask how married are every two day and thursday shoddy if you're listening you're in a wedding |
| 0:45.4 | party it's okay if you want to put your hands up you got the questions we got the answer |
| 0:51.1 | chocolate baby story time uh-huh chocolate baby story time it's chocolate baby story time. Uh-huh. Chocolate baby story time. |
| 0:56.4 | It's chocolate. |
| 0:57.0 | Baby Storytime. |
| 0:59.2 | One, two, three. |
| 1:01.2 | And... |
| 1:04.4 | It's chocolate baby story time. |
| 1:13.0 | You want to talk about last night? |
| 1:13.9 | Oh my gosh. |
| 1:14.5 | Yes. |
| 1:23.5 | So I decided I wanted to be a little bit creative and unlock the creatives in all of us. You guys may have seen a trend on TikTok where people draw each other. And so my thought was, |
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