Dear Shandy

SURPRISE!!! Today we're joined IN STUDIO by Love Is Blind's Joey and Sara! Going into this recording we truly had no idea what was going to happen. Would this be a group friend hang or a Tell All-turned-Love Fest?? Today Joey and Sara officially set the record straight on the dating rumors and what it has been like being on the receiving end of so much online hate. Sara shares her side of the story when it comes to Monica's betrayal accusations, and Joey shares the ways in which he's been misunderstood. LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know the REAL Sara and Joey and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - The first 1000 Shandies get a $100 credit at https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or by using code SHANDY at sign up! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! More Sara: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/saracarton_ - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@saracarton More Joey: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/joeykid34 - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@joey_exotic Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Joey & Sara! 4:00 - Are They Or Aren’t They Dating?? 7:53 - Monica 21:58 - The Love Square 25:08 - Online Hate, The Hardest Parts & Misconceptions 41:42 - That Bachelor Audition 44:07 - Exclusivity 46:27 - They Rank Their Relationship 47:56 - How They Complement Each Other 49:56 - How They Annoy Each Other 54:31 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined  1:10:17 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2025

He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich! Our first episode with Ramit: https://youtu.be/G4jCHDdi4XA?si=zhGP3fAbTj8-1OC2 Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! More Ramit: The Book, 'Money For Couples': https://amzn.to/42TOdZp Youtube:    / @ramitsethi   Instagram:   / ramit   Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Website: https://ramitsethi.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi, Again! 2:40 - Why A Book For Couples? 3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money 7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending 13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start 18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?” 22:35 - Keeping Money Separate 26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses 37:20 - Lifestyle Creep 39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers 42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest? 45:04 - “Now Is Different” 46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin? 48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?” 53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?” 54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!) 57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich! Our first episode with Ramit: https://youtu.be/G4jCHDdi4XA?si=zhGP3fAbTj8-1OC2 Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! More Ramit: The Book, 'Money For Couples': https://amzn.to/42TOdZp Youtube:    / @ramitsethi   Instagram:   / ramit   Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Website: https://ramitsethi.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi, Again! 2:40 - Why A Book For Couples? 3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money 7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending 13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start 18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?” 22:35 - Keeping Money Separate 26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses 37:20 - Lifestyle Creep 39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers 42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest? 45:04 - “Now Is Different” 46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin? 48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?” 53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?” 54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!) 57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 40:30 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2025

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY for a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help! 15:23 - Q2: I’m Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out? 32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name? 46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2025

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by Hannah who is juggling a lot in her personal life: a loving husband, 2 kids AND a loving girlfriend. But while things seem peachy, Hannah's parents—with whom she's extremely close—do NOT approve. How can she gain their acceptance of her poly lifestyle? Or how can she learn to accept their lack of acceptance? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off any annual membership! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hannah! 24:43 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 April 2025

At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor! Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Head to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Carolina: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarolinasofia - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscarolinasofia Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 April 2025

Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation! Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! More Meg: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meggofueggo - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meggofueggo More Mason: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masonhoracek - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@masonhoracek Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason’s Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They’d Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 April 2025

NEW EPISODE SERIES ALERT!!! Dear Shandy has been faithfully relationship-focused for 4.5 years, but we've decided it's about time there was a dedicated space for all the long lost topics and tangents. The Sidebar was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to hear about yours in the comments! What did Shandy think of season 2 of Severance? Would you ever go skiing alone? Do Canadians get road rage? Is reaching at the dinner table really so bad? What was Andy's worst ever "you're welcome"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping + a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:32 - Severance Season 2 (Spoiler Alert) 20:42 - Skiing Alone 25:12 - Laughing Alone 29:27 - Canadians In Cars 33:11 - Reaching At The Dinner Table 36:22 - Andy’s Worst You’re Welcome 41:03 - What Dogs Think About When They Do Tricks 42:58 - Pretty Privilege If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 March 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 29 Finale & After The Finale Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:28 - Finale Kick Off 6:45 - Litia Meets Grant’s Family 14:40 - Juliana Meets Grant’s Family 19:06 - Juliana Final Date 20:29 - Litia’s Final Date 26:52 - The Next Day 28:59 - Neil Lane 33:47 - The Breakup 38:02 - Litia Hot Seat 44:10 - The Proposal 44:41 - After The Final Rose 51:02 - Bachelor In Paradise Announcement 59:54 - Overall Thoughts/Revisiting Our Bet 1:02:46 - Andy’s A-Game 1:03:15 - Fashion 1:04:39 - Shandy Word Watch 1:05:35 - Reviewing Our Night One Predictions 1:07:48 - Discussion With Our Shandies If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2025

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there a polite way to tell your friends not to bring their messy kids to your new place? Is the way your partner criticizes reality TV contestants' looks a red flag? If you and your partner of nearly 20 years simply cannot agree on where to live, what to do? And finally, what to do if your partner doesn't seem to care about his hygiene! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:18 - Q1: My Friends Want To Bring Their Messy Kids To My Brand New Condo—Help! 13:54 - Q2: My Husband & I Fight Over Reality TV—Help! 32:54 - Q3: We Differ On Where We Want To Live—Is This A Dealbreaker? 54:21 - Q4: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Skid Marks—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suites for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use code FACTORPODCAST for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 8 Kick Off 4:33 - Juliana 11:24 - The Next Morning 14:44 - Zoe 19:52 - The Next Morning 23:41 - Litia 36:56 - The Next Morning 39:16 - Rose Ceremony 48:22 - Grant With His Family 49:45 - Andy’s A-Game 53:36 - Fashion 56:02 - Shandy Word Watch 59:02 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Women Tell All for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:23 - Women Tell All Kick Off 16:45 - Alexe 18:50 - Sarafiena 21:20 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives 24:08 - Dina 27:15 - Carolina 33:34 - Grant 40:23 - Snow White Sponsored Segment 46:11 - Andy’s A-Game 47:26 - Fashion 49:17 - Shandy Word Watch 54:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Women Tell All for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:23 - Women Tell All Kick Off 16:45 - Alexe 18:50 - Sarafiena 21:20 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives 24:08 - Dina 27:15 - Carolina 33:34 - Grant 40:23 - Snow White Sponsored Segment 46:11 - Andy’s A-Game 47:26 - Fashion 49:17 - Shandy Word Watch 54:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the Weddings & Reunion for Season 8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Ben & Sara 16:03 - Joey & Monica 31:58 - Dave & Lauren 37:31 - Devin & Virginia 50:45 - Mason & Meg (& Alex & Madison) 1:02:15 - Danile & Taylor 1:10:12 - Odds & Ends If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you keep having dirty dreams about a friend's husband, is that a type of cheating? Are you too picky for not entertaining men who pursue you "second", *after* showing interest in your friend? If you get a work opportunity that feels better suited to a friend, should you hand over the job? And the age old question: what to do when trapped in Group Text Hell?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:29 - Q1: How Do I Decline My Grandmother’s Offer Of Her Engagement Ring? 11:54 - Q2: I Keep Having Dirty Dreams About A Friend’s Husband—Help! 25:14 - Q3: Am I Too Picky For Not Wanting To Be Second Choice? 35:29 - Q4: Am I A Bad Friend If I Accept This Work Opportunity? 53:22 - Q5: I’m Trapped In Group Text Hell—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:16 - Episode 6 Kick off 3:21 - Juliana’s Hometown 10:10 - Zoe’s Hometown 27:18 - Litia’s Hometown 38:58 - Dina’s Hometown 43:57 - Los Angeles 47:10 - Rose Ceremony 49:49 - Andy’s A-Game 50:05 - Fashion 50:33 - Shandy Word Watch 53:43 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.thuma.co/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY and get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.acorns.com/SHANDY or download the Acorns app to get started! Time Stamps: 0:00 - (No) Housekeeping 0:23 - Joey & Monica 9:21 - Devin & Virginia 25:24 - Daniel & Taylor 36:23 - Dave & Lauren 47:53 - Alex, Madison, Mason, Meg 56:26 - Ben & Sara 1:09:01 - Ben & Sara Wedding 1:15:13 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 5 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Visit https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:22 - Episode 5 Kick Off 7:56 - Juliana’s 1-On-1 21:31 - Group Date 37:46 - Litia’s 1-on-1 45:15 - Rose Ceremony 50:40 - Andy’s A-Game 51:07 - Fashion 53:09 - Shandy Word Watch 55:37 - Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2025

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use FACTORPODCAST to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:08 - Joey & Monica 14:10 - Devin & Virginia 28:29 - Daniel & Taylor 49:08 - Dave & Lauren 1:07:29 - Ben & Sara 1:15:27 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:57 - Episode 4 Kick Off 9:08 - Dina’s 1-On-1 15:09 - Back At The Hotel 16:41 - Group Date 42:37 - Serafiena’s 1-On-1 48:52 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:06:19 - Rose Ceremony 1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:07:39 - Fashion 1:08:49 - Shandy Word Watch 1:10:30 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 February 2025

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping + a rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Time Stamps: 1:41 - Joey & Monica 9:02 - Ben & Sara 18:55 - Devin & Brittany 24:23 - Devin & Virginia 31:07 - Mason & Meg 40:09 - Mason & Madison 57:37 - Mason & Meg Final Scene 1:05:28 - Alex 1:05:46 - Alex & Madison 1:18:16 - Dave 1:19:04 - Dave & Molly 1:26:06 - Dave & Lauren 1:33:27 - Daniel & Taylor 1:38:56 - 24 Hours Later 1:42:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 February 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 8:24 - Episode 3 Kick Off 9:22 - Group Date #1 27:06 - The Next Day 30:13 - Carolina’s 1-On-1 34:37 - The Next Day/Beverly 39:23 - Group Date #2 43:59 - Evening/Litia’s Dinner 45:37 - Back At The Mansion 47:25 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party/Prom 55:14 - Rose Ceremony 55:39 - Andy’s A-Game 56:02 - Fashion 57:43 - Shandy Word Watch 59:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2025

One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation! Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one! Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! More Emily Nagoski: - Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU - Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoski Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski! 3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths 7:34 - Mismatched Libidos 12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions 15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More 17:43 - Sense Of Obligation 26:38 - Orgasm 41:12 - Control 43:51 - Long Term Relationships 48:10 - Body Confidence 50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks 52:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.thuma.com/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:06 - Group Date #1 21:13 - The Next Day 21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1 27:53 - Group Date #2 38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 40:47 - Rose Ceremony 42:58 - Andy’s A-Game 44:33 - Fashion 46:10 - Shandy Word Watch 48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 February 2025

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple! Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Joan: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joan_vassos TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@joanvassos More Chock: https://www.instagram.com/chockchapple TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@cchapple Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock! 2:08 - The Name Chock 4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight? 8:34 - Three Adjectives 10:38 - New York & Decorating 13:28 - How They Complement Each Other 18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 24:15 - Early Hurdle 30:16 - How They Fight 34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed 42:02 - The Newlyweds Game 52:17 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 January 2025

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.thrivemarket.com/SHANDY to get 30% off your first order plus a free $60 gift! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:48 - Episode 1 Kick Off 12:07 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 18:57 - Grant’s Toast 19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 44:11 - First Impression Rose 44:26 - Rose Ceremony 44:36 - Previews 45:28 - Andy’s A-Game 47:01 - Fashion Police 49:36 - Shandy Word Watch 53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 January 2025

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Nicholas: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicholas.tramontin/ - Art: https://nmtcollection.com/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin! 1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum 5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy? 7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party? 8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself? 9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol? 10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him? 11:07 - Vanessa 15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen? 16:05 - His Homeschooling 16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show 18:21 - Mariah 20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature? 22:28 - Most Common Misconception 27:54 - His Art 32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured? 34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work? 35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go? 38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist? 41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art 43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive? 44:30 - Dogs 45:39 - His Girlfriend 46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy? 47:47 - Rapid Fire 49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums? 51:05 - Is He A Cuckold? 51:45 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 23 January 2025

Happy 2025, Shandies!!! We're excited to be reunited with you! In keeping with tradition, we're kicking off this new year with something special. That's right... we're back with volume 5 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our caller episodes and Q&As, if you find yourself wondering "where are they now?", today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to discover SKIMS intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping & News 6:05 - Episode 91, from Caller Kiera: “My Boyfriend’s Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?” 9:44 - Episode 133, Q1 from Jess: “I Always Seem To Catch The Ick From My Dates—Am I Being Too Picky?” 14:42 - Episode 184, Q5 from Anonymous: “The Guy I’ve Been Seeing For 1.5 Years Won’t Commit—Snap Me Out Of It” 19:07 - Episode 189, Q4 from Liz: “I Am In Love With A Man 28 Years Older—Am I Wasting My Youth?” 31:10 - Episode 231, Q4 from Maybe Shallow: “I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic Flaw—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow?” 35:29 - Episode 304, Q1 from One Bored Babe: “Does Healthy = Boring?” 41:55 - Episode 307, Q3 from Triply Baffled: “Strangers Constantly Ask Me A Question I Hate—How Should I Respond?” 45:55 - Episode 313, Q6 from Sarah P: “My Aunt’s Sold A Belonging Of My Grandparents’ That I Really Wanted—Should I Let This Grudge Go?” 58:35 - Episode 321, Q1 from Passenger Princess: “Is Imitation—Of My Bumble Profile—Really Flattery?” 1:02:42 - Episode 340, Q4 from Songless Bird: “My Boyfriend Dislikes My Singing So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter?” 1:05:57 - Episode 346, Q4 from KB: “I’m The Paparazzi In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help!” If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 16 January 2025

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by Love Is Blind's latest (and coolest) power couple: the iconic Taylor Krause and Garrett Josemans, now the Josemans-Krauses! Today Taylor and Garrett chat their true first impressions of one another, the early relationship hurdle they're still navigating, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a competitively uncompetitive Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Get to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.babbel.com/DEARSHANDY to save up to 60% off your subscription! More Taylor: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/chinesediscobaby TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@chinesediscobaby More Garrett: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/garrett.josemans TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@garrettjosemans Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Garrett And Taylor! 2:04 - Their Surnames 7:13 - First Impressions & How Those Have Changed 12:47 - How They Complement Each Other 17:13 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 22:10 - Early Hurdle 31:53 - Having A 5 Year Plan 33:19 - How They Fight 36:32 - Common Misconceptions 39:36 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed 42:39 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game 57:25 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the third batch of season 3, aka the Finale and Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:51 - Cliffhanger: Sandy & JR 10:44 - Ultimatum: Zaina & JR 14:37 - Ultimatum: Mariah & Caleb 20:34 - Ultimatum: Sandy & Nick 29:54 - Ultimatum: Aria & Scotty 33:58 - Reunion: Mariah & Caleb 39:54 - Reunion: Aria & Scotty 46:23 - Reunion: Zaina & JR 56:26 - Nail QR code 58:57 - Vanessa & Dave 1:14:57 - Reunion: Sandy & Nick 1:19:53 - Final Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 20 December 2024

It's our last non-recap episode of 2024 and today's all about reflecting on past year! In keeping with tradition, we're answering YOUR questions about our personal bests and worsts of 2024. THANK YOU, lovely Shandies, for yet another year of being the friends we've never met (but in some cases have!) Happy, happy holidays and see you in 2025! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to save over 35% on your order now through January 12! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/50SHANDY and use code 50SHANDY to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 4:01 - Favorite Place Visited 8:07 - Best Animal Encounter 9:17 - Favorite Meal 10:14 - Best Movie 11:00 - Best Escape Room 12:19 - Best Experience 16:09 - Favorite Pair Of Andy’s Socks 16:20 - Best Food With Cheese Eaten 19:34 - Best Thing You Spent Money On 21:28 - Worst Movie 23:21 - Worst Book 26:25 - Least Favorite Show That We Recapped 26:35 - Biggest First World Problem 28:53 - Worst Reality TV Villain 30:26 - Biggest Podcast-Related Lesson Learned 38:23 - Most Memorable Fan Encounter  41:38 - Will You Consider Becoming Full-Time Podcasters in 2025? 44:53 - Hardest Lesson 49:00 - New Routines 54:40 - Proudest Moment 57:15 - F*ck, Marry, Kill: Japan, Ireland, New Zealand? Items mentioned: 5-minute journal: https://amzn.to/4iDIHkK Nodpod eye mask: https://bit.ly/41EpJEO If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 December 2024

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps, *finally* recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the second batch of season 3, aka episodes 6-8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://acorns.com/SHANDY or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today! - Go to https://oakessentials.com and use promo code SHANDY15 for 15% off your first order plus a free gift! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:43 - Trial Marriages, Cont’d 2:01 - Zaina & Scotty 7:54 - Aria & Caleb 11:33 - Sandy & JR 17:29 - Nick 24:17 - The Changeover 37:55 - Second Trial Marriages 38:46 - Sandy & Nick 53:01 - Zaina & JR 1:00:19 - Mariah & Caleb 1:04:07 - Aria & Scotty 1:10:40 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:11:51 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:12:55 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 December 2024

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your maid of honor feels you should have a dry wedding to accommodate your mutual friend, are you the A-hole for taking issue with that? Is it normal for your boyfriend to follow numerous "Instagram models", or is it just today's culture? If you dig up past dirt on your husband's phone, who's more wrong: him for lying, or you for spying? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://www.prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:18 - Q1: My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help! 7:45 - Q2: I Hate That My Boyfriend Follows Several Instagram Models—Am I Overreacting? 24:01 - Q3: I’ve Sleuthed My Husband’s Phone And Found A Past I Can’t Get Over—Help! 43:52 - Q4: I Can’t Stand My In-Laws’ Gift Giving Etiquette—Am I Wrong? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 December 2024

Shandies, you asked, and you shall receive! By VERY popular demand, Shandy is recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 3, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:05 - Introduction 11:37 - Couples’ Final Night Together 14:44 - Speed Dating 19:02 - Dating Week 29:08 - The Choice 33:10 - Trial Marriages 1:07:25 - Girls’ Night/Boys’ Night 1:14:50 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:18:09 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:18:49 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2024

Shandies, you asked, and you shall receive! By VERY popular demand, Shandy is recapping Netflix's The Ultimatum for the first time ever! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 3, episodes 1-5! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:05 - Introduction 11:37 - Couples’ Final Night Together 14:44 - Speed Dating 19:02 - Dating Week 29:08 - The Choice 33:10 - Trial Marriages 1:07:25 - Girls’ Night/Boys’ Night 1:14:50 - Shandy’s Predictions 1:18:09 - Who We Think Is The Cuckold Couple 1:18:49 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 December 2024

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the FINALE and REUNION for season 7, aka episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Shop the Skims Holiday Shop at https://www.skims.com! - Get a free travel bag with your first OneSkin order over $79 with code TRAVELGIFT at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:20 - Alex & Tim 9:47 - Hannah & Nick 31:13 - Marissa & Ramses 48:10 - Reunion: Monica & Stephen 50:07 - Reunion: Leo & Brittany 51:23 - Ashley & Tyler 1:04:03 - Garrett & Taylor 1:09:45 - Special Announcement If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 December 2024

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! We're all told not to quit growing up, but when you're an adult making adult decisions, is it ok to be a "quitter"? Is there anything wrong with a "sexless" but otherwise happy marriage? And if your friend who owes you $1000 then has the audacity to ghost you, what should you do? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:50 - Q1: Is It OK To Be A Quitter? 10:58- Q2: Is A Sexless Marriage Destined For Failure? 25:20 - Q3: My Friend Owes Me $1000 And Is Now Ghosting Me—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 November 2024

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE gift AND a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 + 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.goodamerican.com and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:51 - Garrett & Taylor 18:08 - Monica & Stephen 36:10 - Marissa & Ramses 1:02:29 - Hannah & Nick 1:14:10 - Ashley & Tyler 1:25:39 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 November 2024

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by not one, but TWO lovely callers: Sally and Cat! Sally's situation is from several years ago but she still wonders if she was the A-hole for sharing what her husband told her about their mutual acquaintance. Where is the line when it comes to "breaking" the Bro Code, and are you the A-hole if you're the one to then share that information? Cat, meanwhile, is at a crossroads with two platonic friendships. She has felt disappointed by both friends, and being a direct person, she's willing to air her grievances head on. But with the passing of time and different priorities, are some friendships simply meant to fade? Listen on for the Shandy take! Are you interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sally! 21:21 - Shandy Debrief 26:22 - Welcome To Caller Cat! 56:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 November 2024

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 7, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to get 15% off plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.storyworth.com/DEARSHANDY to save $10 on your first purchase! - Go to https://www.lolavie.com and use code SHANDY15 to get 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:46 - Garrett & Taylor 16:12 - Ashley A & Tyler 25:13 - Monica & Stephen 40:06 - Marissa & Ramses 48:41 - Alex & Tim 1:01:40 - Leo & Brittany 1:12:09 - Hannah & Nick 1:34:23 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 19 November 2024

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down the grand Finale of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 27% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://fromourplace.com/SHANDY to get up to 40% off your order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:34 - Finale Kick Off 10:25 - Bora Bora 43:55 - After The Final Rose 50:08 - Grant If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 November 2024

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find out your therapist used to be your mother's therapist, should you "break up" with them, and if so, how? If your friend keeps asking bothersome requests of you, is there a way to get them to stop? If your partner is against marriage, is that a dream you should let go? And if you tend to play photographer to your friend group but are saddened when they never seem to reciprocate, is this a fixable friendship dynamic? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - A Very Random Introduction 3:15 - Q1: How Do I Break Up With My Therapist? 11:15 - Q2: How Do I Get My Friend To Stop Asking Me This Question? 21:04 - Q3: I Love My Partner But She Never Wants Marriage Or Kids—How Do I Bury These Dreams? 32:38 - Q4: I’m The “Paparazzi” In My Friend Group But It’s Never Reciprocated—Help! 52:18 - Q5: How Do I Befriend My Online Match-Turned-Coworker? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 13 November 2024

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down Men Tell All for the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Shop Skims Bras at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus 20% off your next month! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a free gift + a 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to http://www.lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY to get $50 off your Lomi! - Go to https://www.jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Go to https://www.fromourplace.com and enter code SHANDY at checkout to receive 10% off sitewide! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:18 - Men Tell All 36:50 - Bloopers 41:30 - Preview 44:02 - Andy’s A-Game 46:52 - Shandy Word Watch 48:34 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 November 2024

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 7 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://www.goodamerican.com and use code SHANDY to get $50 off your first pair! - Go to https://joinbilt.com/SHANDY to earn points by paying rent right now! - Go to https://hexclad.com/SHANDY for 10% off your order! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - If you’re 21+, check out the link to VIIA in our description and use the code SHANDY to receive 15% off! - Go to https://jennikayne.com and use code DEARSHANDY to get 15% off your first order! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:36 - Episode 7 Kick Off 11:58 - Guy’s Overnight 39:45 - Pascal 42:04 - Pascal’s Overnight 51:51 - Andy’s A-Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 31 October 2024

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you find yourself in a flirty dynamic with your (married) boss, is this pre-mistress territory? If your sister is interested in your brother-in-law but you question their compatibility, how honest should you be? If your friend sleeps with the ex of another friend of yours, is this friendship-ending messy behavior? And how do you make friends if you're not "pretty"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY and download the ZocDoc app for FREE! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://HelloFresh.com/FREESHANDY for 10 free meals! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:49 - Q1: Am I About To Become The Mistress? 18:39 - Q2: My Sister Is Interested In My Brother-In-Law—What Should I Do? 29:37 - Q3: My Friend’s Recent Behavior Disgusts Me—Is She Too Messy? 45:39 - Q4: Can I Avoid Visiting My In-Laws? 1:01:40 - Q5: I Wish I Had More Friends & Think It’s Because I’m Not “Pretty”—Shandy’s Advice? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 October 2024

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 6 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to http://lomi.com/SHANDY and use the promo code SHANDY for $50 off your Lomi - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:27 - Guy’s Hometown 13:14 - Pascal’s Hometown 28:50 - Jordan’s Hometown 37:09 - Chock’s Hometown 49:00 - Rose Ceremony 1:00:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:38 - Shandy Word Watch 1:02:11 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 October 2024

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 5 of the first ever Golden Bachelorette season! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://farmacybeauty.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your order! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Our Word Watch sponsors! - Get 30% off with code SHANDY30 at https://www.furanostudio.com! - Get 15% off OneSkin with the code SHANDY at https://www.oneskin.co! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:50 - Episode 5 Kick Off 12:41 - Keith’s 1-On-1 18:43 - Mark 24:55 - Back On The Date 32:58 - Group Date 39:46 - Mark’s 1-On-1 47:47 - The Next Day 50:27 - Rose Ceremony 56:06 - Andy’s A-Game 57:44 - Shandy Word Watch 1:00:36 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 October 2024

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate?  13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure? 23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend? 33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter? 55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 October 2024

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! When in a relationship, is it inappropriate to get dinner alone with your opposite-sex friend and his parents? Is closure within reach when the object of your affection was hot and cold to begin with? And if your boyfriend tells you your singing annoys him, is that a nothing burger or dealbreaker territory? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY at checkout to save up to 40%! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 Free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:00 - Q1: In A Relationship, Is Getting Dinner Alone With An Opposite-Sex Friend And Their Parents Appropriate?  13:00 - Q2: Should I Reach Out To My Hot-And-Cold Date For Closure? 23:20 - Q3: Am I The Asshole For Feeling Neglected By My Friend Since She Met Her New Boyfriend? 33:23 - Q4: My Boyfriend Told Me My Singing Annoys Him So Now I Don’t Sing Around Him—Does This Matter? 55:22 - Shandy’s Favorite Flavors If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 October 2024