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Dear Shandy

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Society & Culture, Relationships, After Shows

4.93.3K Ratings

Overview

Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!

499 Episodes

Perfect Match S3 Recap: Ep 10 (Finale) - Ep 406

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 3 finale, aka episode 10! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:25 - Finale Kick Off 10:02 - Final Dates 15:57 - Tribal Council 26:56 - Compatibility Challenge 38:17 - Who We Would Go For 39:16 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 7 Recap & Review - Ep 405

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 7. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Shop Sharleen’s favorite bras and underwear at https://www.skims.com - Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:47 - Episode 7 Kick Off 5:14 - Relationship Test 11:12 - Evening 45:25 - The Next Day 55:26 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 59:00 - Voting + Rose Ceremony 1:01:37 - Preview 1:02:26 - Andy’s A-Game 1:02:24 - Episode MVP 1:03:35 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 August 2025

Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 7-9 (Batch 2) - Ep 404

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the Season 3 cast of Netflix's Perfect Match, so they're today they're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 7-9! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY30 at checkout for 30% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:55 - The Men’s Mixer, Cont’d 9:51 - Women’s Mixer 16:10 - Evening 22:51 - 3 Days Left 31:32 - 2 Days Left 40:40 - 1 Day Left 51:55 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 6 Recap & Review - Ep 403

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:08 - Episode 6 Kick Off 4:17 - Rose Ceremony 7:59 - Big Announcement 8:57 - The Next Day 9:40 - High Low What Do You Know 24:39 - Bailey & Jeremy’s Date 31:49 - Evening 40:07 - The Next Day 44:39 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 52:23 - Rose Ceremony 56:24 - Preview 56:51 - Episode MVP 59:24 - Andy’s A-Game 1:00:37 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 August 2025

Unpacking Netflix's 'Perfect Match' With Clayton Echard - Ep 402

Today we're joined by the man, the legend: CLAYTON ECHARD. Clayton gives us the scoop and no-holds-barred truth on filming Netflix's Perfect Match, and what he was thinking when matching with you-know-who! LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know Clayton and think you will, too! More Clayton: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/claytonechard - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@clayton.echard - Podcast: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheCoverPodcast Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Clayton Echard! 2:22 - Clayton = Drama? 4:21 - Did The Perfect Match Cast Feel Different? 12:13 - Juliette 14:05 - Rachel 29:52 - Would He Do Anything Differently? 34:46 - Backlash 37:08 - Favorite & Least Favorite Thing About Filming Perfect Match Vs The Bachelor 39:15 - Rapidfire 42:55 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2025

Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 1-6 (Batch 1) - Ep 401

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the Season 3 cast of Netflix's Perfect Match, so they're today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-6! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:52 - Day 1 13:56 - Day 2 15:55 - Day 3 18:41 - Day 4 25:25 - Day 5 38:41 - Day 6 51:40 - Day 7 57:05 - Day 8 58:02 - Day 9 1:04:28 - Day 10 1:06:35 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 400!!!

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 5. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:25 - Episode 5 Kick Off 12:52 - Lea’s Date With Jonathon 18:47 - Back At Paradise 23:15 - Juicy Scene 29:35 - Nancy’s Date With Gary 32:44 - Bird Mating Dance Chemistry Test 41:18 - BIP VIP Suite 46:06 - Back At Paradise 52:21 - Day 10 55:11 - Faith’s Date With… Kathy? 57:19 - Allyshia’s Date With Sean 58:15 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 59:18 - Preview 1:02:49 - Shandy’s Episode MVP 1:03:51 - Andy’s A-Game 1:05:19 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 July 2025

Q&A! Threesome Confusion & Giving Mom Dating Advice - Ep 399

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Can you say "no" to attending your friend's destination wedding? Is it appropriate to give your 60-year old mother dating advice? What should you say when your friend wants to set up her friend with YOUR ex husband? And what to do when threesomes with your husband have left you wanting more?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for up to 50% off your nightguard! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY30 at checkout for 30% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:43 - Q1: Can I Say “No” To My Close Friend’s Destination Wedding? 8:55 - Q2: Does My 60-Year Old Mother Need My Dating Advice? 20:05 - Q3: Threesomes With My Husband Have Left Me With More Questions Than Answers—Help! 40:43 - Q4: My Friend Says Wants To Set My Ex-Husband Up With Her Other Friend—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 July 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 398

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4. Thank you to our sponsors... Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:02 - Episode 4 Kick Off 6:02 - Gary 13:49 - Kat & Dale 19:49 - Gary’s Date With Leslie 22:01 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 41:25 - Rose Ceremony 44:30 - Aftermath 45:33 - The Next Day 47:25 - Lea & Nancy 48:17 - Faith 48:49 - Preview 51:29 - Credits 53:39 - Episode 4 MVP 54:22 - Andy’s A-Game  54:40 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 397

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.pestly.co and use code SHANDY30 at checkout for 30% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:50 - Episode 3 Kick Off 4:07 - Night 5 Rose Ceremony, Cont’d 6:50 - Day 6 7:58 - The Goldens Arrive 11:01 - Andrew Spencer 18:55 - Andrew’s Date With Bailey 21:04 - Two Truths & One Lie 21:56 - Paradise Resumes 23:14 - Day 7 30:00 - Sean 36:33 - Sean’s Date With Jill 37:11- Back At Paradise 38:39 - ‘I Know What You Did Last Summer’ Exercise 43:29 - Kathy & Keith 44:26 - Paradise Resumes 46:57 - Episode MVP 48:02 - Andy’s A-Game 49:27 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 49:49 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 16 July 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 396

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2. Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY for up to 40% off best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Mousekeeping 2:10 - Episode 2 Kick Off 8:54 - Parisa & Alli Jo 11:55 - Chemistry Test 23:24 - Paradise Resumes 33:35 - Parisa/Brian & Alli Jo/Jonathon Double Date 35:09 - Jill 37:29 - Lexi & Justin 41:17 - Susie 42:54 - The Double Date Returns 47:02 - Day 5 49:08 - Brian “Clears The Air” With Zoe 51:50 - Paradise Resumes 55:58 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 58:50 - Rose Ceremony 1:06:10 - Episode MVP 1:06:52 - Andy’s A-Game 1:07:41 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 July 2025

Bachelor In Paradise Ep 1 Recap - Ep 395

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping?  3:27 - Overall Thoughts  6:18 - Contestants 21:17 - Paradise Is Open 23:17 - Evening 25:07 - Jess & Spencer 25:59 - Day 2 29:10 - Dale 33:28 - Dale’s Date With Kat 35:19 - Back At Paradise 41:29 - Evening 47:10 - Sam’s Date With Jess 48:08 - Back At Paradise 49:04 - Day 3/Justin’s Date With Lexi 50:12 - Evening 50:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 54:39 - Rose Ceremony 58:06 - Preview 1:00:12 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:00:53 - Episode MVP 1:02:05 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 July 2025

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 395

Shandy is back with Bachelor In Paradise, Season 10 recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://dupe.com/{insert product url} and instantly find less expensive alternatives for free! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping?  3:27 - Overall Thoughts  6:18 - Contestants 21:17 - Paradise Is Open 23:17 - Evening 25:07 - Jess & Spencer 25:59 - Day 2 29:10 - Dale 33:28 - Dale’s Date With Kat 35:19 - Back At Paradise 41:29 - Evening 47:10 - Sam’s Date With Jess 48:08 - Back At Paradise 49:04 - Day 3/Justin’s Date With Lexi 50:12 - Evening 50:46 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 54:39 - Rose Ceremony 58:06 - Preview 1:00:12 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed 1:00:53 - Episode MVP 1:02:05 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 July 2025

The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Finale & Reunion - Ep 394

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the second batch, aka episodes 8-9, plus the Reunion! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans! - Try Remi risk-free at https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for up to 50% off your nightguard! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping 1:35 - AJ & Britney 7:31 - Bridget & Kyle 13:57 - Ashley & Marita 18:40 - Haley & Pilar 22:06 - Cocktail Party 28:27 - Haley & Pilar, Cont’d 29:58 - Haley & Magan Talk 34:24 - Dayna & Magan 42:55 - Dayna & Mel Talk 49:05 - Dayna & Magan, Cont’d 52:59 - Marie & Mel 57:10 - Reunion 57:54 - Reunion: AJ & Britney 1:01:36 - Reunion: Ashley & Marita 1:04:39 - Reunion: Marie & Mel 1:06:45 - Spotify Playlist 1:07:27 - The Definition Of Sex 1:11:38 - Reunion: Bridget & Kyle 1:11:48 - Reunion: Haley & Pilar 1:12:06 - Reunion: Dayna & Magan 1:14:35 - Shandy’s Season MVP 1:17:08 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 July 2025

The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 2 - Ep 393

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 2 (Part 1 dropped yesterday)! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY for up to 40% off best-selling temperature-regulating sheets, apparel, and more! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Continued From Part 1 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Magan 3:40 - Ultimatum Receivers “Party” 6:34 - Ultimatum Givers “Party” 12:37 - Marie Confronts Mel 16:45 - Mel Reports To Dayna 17:45 - Matching Tattoos 19:05 - Haley & Magan, Cont’d 21:22 - The Changeover 28:19 - Trial Marriage: Bridget & Kyle 29:13 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Britney 30:47 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Marita 31:24 - Trial Marriage: Marie & Mel 32:53 - Trial Marriage: Haley & Pilar 35:28 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Magan 44:32 - Who We Liked Best And Now Least/Vice Versa 46:13 - Shandy’s Predictions 48:47 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2025

The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 1 - Ep 392

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is recapping The Ultimatum: Queer Love Season 2. They're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-7, in two parts. This is Part 1 (Part 2 drops tomorrow)! Thank you to our sponsors... Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping/Disclaimer 1:51 - Joanna Garcia Swisher 3:37 - The Couples’ Final Night/Morning 8:27 - Speed Dating 13:24 - Cocktail Party 14:22 - Magan Visits Dayna 15:47 - Dating Week 22:40 - The Choice 30:29 - Trial Marriage: Britney & Marita 33:03 - Trial Marriage: Ashley & Bridget 36:37 - Trial Marriage: Kyle & Pilar 51:25 - Trial Marriage: AJ & Marie 59:07 - Trial Marriage: Dayna & Mel 1:06:58 - To Be Continued… Part 2 Drops Tomorrow! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 June 2025

Q&A! His Bad Oral Hygiene 💀 & How To De-Friend Your Hinge Date - Ep 391

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is it socially acceptable to send your friends and family a gift registry to celebrate your law school commencement? If you promised an old friend you'd dedicate your novel to her, is it OK to change your mind? If you became platonic friends with a Hinge date, is it acceptable to want to de-escalate that friendship, and how should you go about it? Finally, what to do when you love your man but NOT his poor oral hygiene?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:40 - Q1: I’d Like To Celebrate My Law School Graduation With A Gift Registry—Thoughts? 19:55 - Q2: I Promised A Friend I’d Dedicate My Book To Her But I’ve Changed My Mind—Help! 28:20 - Q3: How Do I Drop My Hinge-Date-Turned-Friend?  39:36 - Q4: I Love Him But Not His Poor Oral Hygiene—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 19 June 2025

Caller 📞 Sessions! "I'm In Love With My Married Business Partner!" - Ep 390

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Natalie is in the deep depths of heartbreak after the guy she thought was her future abruptly ended things. Because his reasons were logistics-based, would she be foolish to wait for him? Our second caller, Carlie, has a thriving business but is haunted by her secret feelings for her married business partner. Are these feelings something she should act on, or is there a way to manage or overcome them? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off your annual membership! - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY to take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Natalie! 20:41 - Shandy Debrief 23:46 - Welcome To Caller Carlie! 55:01 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 June 2025

Q&A! Her Eyelashes Are Distracting & Whether Or Not To BLOW His Cover - Ep 389

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you learn you were "cuttable" from the guest list, should you still bother going to the wedding? If you're engaged but not actually sure about marriage, is that your gut talking or typical wedding cold feet? If you know for a fact that your friend's fiancé has a habit with the "White Lady", do you tell the friend? And your platonic friend is wonderful but her eyelash extensions are holding her back—do you tell her, and if so, how?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:39 - Q1: I Was “Cuttable” From The Guest List; Should I Still Go? 5:03 - Q2: I Wasn’t Invited To A Wedding & Have Never Felt So Excluded—Help! 17:33 - Q3: My Gut Is Telling Me I Can’t Marry Him, But… 27:25 - Q4: Should I BLOW The Whistle On My Friend’s Fiancé’s Extracurricular Activity Of Choice? 46:31 - Q5: My Friend’s Eyelash Extensions Are Over The Top—How Do I Tell Her? Referenced Bachelorette Recap (about natural nails): https://youtu.be/YjNpLxsRqh4?si=x8vMnHKlxLvIBH4E If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 5 June 2025

Caller 📞 Sessions! "He Can't Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?" - Ep 388

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Emily who has been in a casual long distance situationship with a guy who claims he needs to be single. However, his dating app activity says otherwise and his actions seem to show he really cares. She's caught real feelings... should she see where this "fling" goes, or is this guy a giant red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily! 36:57 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2025

Q&A! Your Dad Kills Squirrels & Therapy Policing - Ep 387

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you always beat your man at the board games he introduced you to, how can you mend his love of them? If your friend loses the key to your building that you gave her as a favor, does that deserve punishment? Is it OK to "therapy police" your husband? And if you find out your dad has been killing squirrels in his spare time, what should you do?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for at least 15% off any annual membership! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 3:55 - Q1: Beating My BF At Board Games Has Made Him Lose Interest In His Hobby—Help! 13:04 - Q2: Should I Ignore My Friend’s Birthday Because They Ignored Mine? 21:16 - Q3: My Friend Lost The Key To My Building That I Gave Her As A Favor—Shandy, What Would You Do? 27:09 - Q4: My Husband And I Always Fight About This—Am I In The Wrong? 36:44 - Q5: My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help! 48:05 - Q6: Am I Wrong For “Therapy-Policing” My Husband? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2025

The Sidebar: Sinners, Juice Inflation, Cops On Phones & Patrick Schwarzenegger - Ep 386

SIDEBAR IS BACK, BABY! This series was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to read yours in the comments! Shandy saw their quarterly in-theater movie—what did they think? Is it possible to get better at holding your pee? Can you guess the cost of two juices in NYC? Are police officers staring at their phones while on the job? Did Shandy like White Lotus Season 3? Are commercials good for you? What are YOUR favorite commercial jingles? What is the least delicious type of potato? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping & a free rechargeable frother! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Shandy In-Theater Movie Review 6:19 - Peeing 8:25 - White Lotus Season 3 12:24 - Patrick Schwarzenegger 13:40 - The Cost Of Juice 16:11 - Cops On Their Phones 19:26 - Recognizing Faces 26:15 - Waiting 29:39 - Guns N’ Roses 32:07 - Commercials 38:06 - Fingerling Potatoes If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — ⁠https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2025

Love Is Blind's Joey & Sara Tell All - Ep 385

SURPRISE!!! Today we're joined IN STUDIO by Love Is Blind's Joey and Sara! Going into this recording we truly had no idea what was going to happen. Would this be a group friend hang or a Tell All-turned-Love Fest?? Today Joey and Sara officially set the record straight on the dating rumors and what it has been like being on the receiving end of so much online hate. Sara shares her side of the story when it comes to Monica's betrayal accusations, and Joey shares the ways in which he's been misunderstood. LOTS of fun, laughs, and juicy tea in this conversation. We loved getting to know the REAL Sara and Joey and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - The first 1000 Shandies get a $100 credit at https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or by using code SHANDY at sign up! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! More Sara: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/saracarton_ - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@saracarton More Joey: - Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/joeykid34 - TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@joey_exotic Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome Joey & Sara! 4:00 - Are They Or Aren’t They Dating?? 7:53 - Monica 21:58 - The Love Square 25:08 - Online Hate, The Hardest Parts & Misconceptions 41:42 - That Bachelor Audition 44:07 - Exclusivity 46:27 - They Rank Their Relationship 47:56 - How They Complement Each Other 49:56 - How They Annoy Each Other 54:31 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined  1:10:17 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2025

Money Advice For Uncertain Times With Ramit Sethi - Ep 384

He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich! Our first episode with Ramit: https://youtu.be/G4jCHDdi4XA?si=zhGP3fAbTj8-1OC2 Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! More Ramit: The Book, 'Money For Couples': https://amzn.to/42TOdZp Youtube:    / @ramitsethi   Instagram:   / ramit   Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Website: https://ramitsethi.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi, Again! 2:40 - Why A Book For Couples? 3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money 7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending 13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start 18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?” 22:35 - Keeping Money Separate 26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses 37:20 - Lifestyle Creep 39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers 42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest? 45:04 - “Now Is Different” 46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin? 48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?” 53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?” 54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!) 57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

Money For Couples (& A Possible Recession) With Ramit Sethi - Ep 384

He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich! Our first episode with Ramit: https://youtu.be/G4jCHDdi4XA?si=zhGP3fAbTj8-1OC2 Thanks to our sponsors: - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.skims.com/SHANDY to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Ultimate Bra Collection! More Ramit: The Book, 'Money For Couples': https://amzn.to/42TOdZp Youtube:    / @ramitsethi   Instagram:   / ramit   Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Website: https://ramitsethi.com Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Ramit Sethi, Again! 2:40 - Why A Book For Couples? 3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money 7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending 13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start 18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?” 22:35 - Keeping Money Separate 26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses 37:20 - Lifestyle Creep 39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers 42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest? 45:04 - “Now Is Different” 46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin? 48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?” 53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?” 54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!) 57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2025

Caller 📞 Sessions! "How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?" - Ep 383

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah! 40:30 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 24 April 2025

Q&A! Is Flirting A Dying Art? & Money Manipulation - Ep 382

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY for a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help! 15:23 - Q2: I’m Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out? 32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name? 46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go? If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2025

Caller 📞 Sessions! "My Parents Don't Approve Of My Poly Lifestyle—Help!" - Ep 381

Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by Hannah who is juggling a lot in her personal life: a loving husband, 2 kids AND a loving girlfriend. But while things seem peachy, Hannah's parents—with whom she's extremely close—do NOT approve. How can she gain their acceptance of her poly lifestyle? Or how can she learn to accept their lack of acceptance? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email [email protected] for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsor! - Go to https://www.masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off any annual membership! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hannah! 24:43 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 10 April 2025

The Bachelor's Carolina Tells All - Ep 380

At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor! Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Head to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Head to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Carolina: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itscarolinasofia - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itscarolinasofia Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Carolina! 1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette? 2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”? 6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”? 9:24 - That Dancing Group Date 11:44 - Things Grant Said 15:15 - Relationship Management 18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture 24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes 35:12 - Juliana 38:44 - The Scotland Group Date 43:10 - Dina 48:50 - Women Tell All 51:06 - True Friends 51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant 53:49 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 April 2025

Love Is Blind's Meg & Mason Tell All - Ep 379

Today we're joined by Love Is Blind's Meg and Mason, aka the couple we WISH we got to watch make it to the altar! Shandy is thrilled to welcome Meg and Mason IN STUDIO for this candid conversation! Today Meg and Mason dish on their relationship (are they or aren't they dating??), what it was like watching the show back, and whether or not they wish they'd stayed on all season. Meg shares how it *really* felt watching back Mason and Madison's scenes, and they share whether or not Madison is the reason they broke up. We learn what got cut from the Reunion as well as their true thoughts on those "receipts"! Lots of fun (and tea) in this conversation—we loved chatting with these two and think you will too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com/SHANDY and use SHANDY at checkout for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! More Meg: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meggofueggo - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@meggofueggo More Mason: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masonhoracek - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@masonhoracek Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Meg & Mason! 4:29 - Why Now And Not Then? 8:11 - Their Private “Big Reveal” - good spot for thumbnail 10:09 - First Impressions 13:46 - Did They Date Other People? 15:56 - Watching It All Back 20:09 - Madison 35:25 - Mason’s Response To Viewers Who Felt He Led On Both Women 38:05 - Do They Wish They’d Stayed On The Show For The Experience? 42:26 - The Reunion 55:32 - The Receipts 57:44 - How Mason Ended Up On The Show 59:52 - How They Complement Each Other 1:01:40 - Would They Have Met Without The Show 1:03:43 - How They Fight 1:05:57 - The Newlyweds Game 1:14:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 April 2025

The Sidebar: Severance S2, Pretty Privilege & Andy's Worst You're Welcome - Ep 378

NEW EPISODE SERIES ALERT!!! Dear Shandy has been faithfully relationship-focused for 4.5 years, but we've decided it's about time there was a dedicated space for all the long lost topics and tangents. The Sidebar was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to hear about yours in the comments! What did Shandy think of season 2 of Severance? Would you ever go skiing alone? Do Canadians get road rage? Is reaching at the dinner table really so bad? What was Andy's worst ever "you're welcome"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors.... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY for 15% off! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping + a free rechargeable frother! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 3:32 - Severance Season 2 (Spoiler Alert) 20:42 - Skiing Alone 25:12 - Laughing Alone 29:27 - Canadians In Cars 33:11 - Reaching At The Dinner Table 36:22 - Andy’s Worst You’re Welcome 41:03 - What Dogs Think About When They Do Tricks 42:58 - Pretty Privilege If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 March 2025

Bachelor Recap: Finale | Grant's Coin Toss & A Golden Surprise - Ep 377

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down the Season 29 Finale & After The Finale Rose! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY for 30% off your first order plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:28 - Finale Kick Off 6:45 - Litia Meets Grant’s Family 14:40 - Juliana Meets Grant’s Family 19:06 - Juliana Final Date 20:29 - Litia’s Final Date 26:52 - The Next Day 28:59 - Neil Lane 33:47 - The Breakup 38:02 - Litia Hot Seat 44:10 - The Proposal 44:41 - After The Final Rose 51:02 - Bachelor In Paradise Announcement 59:54 - Overall Thoughts/Revisiting Our Bet 1:02:46 - Andy’s A-Game 1:03:15 - Fashion 1:04:39 - Shandy Word Watch 1:05:35 - Reviewing Our Night One Predictions 1:07:48 - Discussion With Our Shandies If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2025

Q&A! Prince Skid Mark Charming & Fighting Over Reality TV - Ep 376

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Is there a polite way to tell your friends not to bring their messy kids to your new place? Is the way your partner criticizes reality TV contestants' looks a red flag? If you and your partner of nearly 20 years simply cannot agree on where to live, what to do? And finally, what to do if your partner doesn't seem to care about his hygiene! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:18 - Q1: My Friends Want To Bring Their Messy Kids To My Brand New Condo—Help! 13:54 - Q2: My Husband & I Fight Over Reality TV—Help! 32:54 - Q3: We Differ On Where We Want To Live—Is This A Dealbreaker? 54:21 - Q4: I Love My Boyfriend But Not His Skid Marks—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Fantasy Suites Are Just A Fantasy - Ep 375

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suites for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use code FACTORPODCAST for 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 8 Kick Off 4:33 - Juliana 11:24 - The Next Morning 14:44 - Zoe 19:52 - The Next Morning 23:41 - Litia 36:56 - The Next Morning 39:16 - Rose Ceremony 48:22 - Grant With His Family 49:45 - Andy’s A-Game 53:36 - Fashion 56:02 - Shandy Word Watch 59:02 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 March 2025

Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Carolina Vs Dina, The Battles Rages On - Episodes 374

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Women Tell All for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:23 - Women Tell All Kick Off 16:45 - Alexe 18:50 - Sarafiena 21:20 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives 24:08 - Dina 27:15 - Carolina 33:34 - Grant 40:23 - Snow White Sponsored Segment 46:11 - Andy’s A-Game 47:26 - Fashion 49:17 - Shandy Word Watch 54:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Carolina Vs Dina, The Battle Rages On - Episodes 374

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down Women Tell All for season 29! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY when signing up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 6:23 - Women Tell All Kick Off 16:45 - Alexe 18:50 - Sarafiena 21:20 - Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives 24:08 - Dina 27:15 - Carolina 33:34 - Grant 40:23 - Snow White Sponsored Segment 46:11 - Andy’s A-Game 47:26 - Fashion 49:17 - Shandy Word Watch 54:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Love Is Blind Recap: Weddings & Reunion | Daniel And Taylor Prevail - Ep 373

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the Weddings & Reunion for Season 8! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:37 - Ben & Sara 16:03 - Joey & Monica 31:58 - Dave & Lauren 37:31 - Devin & Virginia 50:45 - Mason & Meg (& Alex & Madison) 1:02:15 - Danile & Taylor 1:10:12 - Odds & Ends If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 March 2025

Q&A! Dirty Dreams = Cheating?, Group Text Hell & Being Second Choice - Ep 372

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you keep having dirty dreams about a friend's husband, is that a type of cheating? Are you too picky for not entertaining men who pursue you "second", *after* showing interest in your friend? If you get a work opportunity that feels better suited to a friend, should you hand over the job? And the age old question: what to do when trapped in Group Text Hell?!! Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Introduction 1:29 - Q1: How Do I Decline My Grandmother’s Offer Of Her Engagement Ring? 11:54 - Q2: I Keep Having Dirty Dreams About A Friend’s Husband—Help! 25:14 - Q3: Am I Too Picky For Not Wanting To Be Second Choice? 35:29 - Q4: Am I A Bad Friend If I Accept This Work Opportunity? 53:22 - Q5: I’m Trapped In Group Text Hell—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Searching For Grant Ellis, Searching For Hometowns - Ep 371

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 6 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to http://fastgrowingtrees.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:16 - Episode 6 Kick off 3:21 - Juliana’s Hometown 10:10 - Zoe’s Hometown 27:18 - Litia’s Hometown 38:58 - Dina’s Hometown 43:57 - Los Angeles 47:10 - Rose Ceremony 49:49 - Andy’s A-Game 50:05 - Fashion 50:33 - Shandy Word Watch 53:43 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 March 2025

Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-12 | Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Ep 370

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 10-12! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://calm.com/SHANDY for 40% off unlimited access to Calm's entire library! - Go to https://www.thuma.co/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.ThriveMarket.com/SHANDY and get 30% off your first order, plus a FREE $60 gift! - Go to https://www.acorns.com/SHANDY or download the Acorns app to get started! Time Stamps: 0:00 - (No) Housekeeping 0:23 - Joey & Monica 9:21 - Devin & Virginia 25:24 - Daniel & Taylor 36:23 - Dave & Lauren 47:53 - Alex, Madison, Mason, Meg 56:26 - Ben & Sara 1:09:01 - Ben & Sara Wedding 1:15:13 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Lone Wolf & His Distressed Damsels - Ep 369

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 5 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Visit https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off of TRIO! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 5:22 - Episode 5 Kick Off 7:56 - Juliana’s 1-On-1 21:31 - Group Date 37:46 - Litia’s 1-on-1 45:15 - Rose Ceremony 50:40 - Andy’s A-Game 51:07 - Fashion 53:09 - Shandy Word Watch 55:37 - Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2025

Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Dave Puts The Ass In Honduras - Ep 368

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 7-9! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/FACTORPODCAST and use FACTORPODCAST to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 1:08 - Joey & Monica 14:10 - Devin & Virginia 28:29 - Daniel & Taylor 49:08 - Dave & Lauren 1:07:29 - Ben & Sara 1:15:27 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | The Ladies Take Bull From Grant & Co In Madrid - Ep 367

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 4 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or enter code SHANDY at sign up to skip the waitlist! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://prose.com/DEARSHANDY for 50% off your first subscription order today! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 4:57 - Episode 4 Kick Off 9:08 - Dina’s 1-On-1 15:09 - Back At The Hotel 16:41 - Group Date 42:37 - Serafiena’s 1-On-1 48:52 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 1:06:19 - Rose Ceremony 1:07:14 - Andy’s A-Game 1:07:39 - Fashion 1:08:49 - Shandy Word Watch 1:10:30 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 February 2025

Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods; Love Triangles Galore - Ep 366

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind! Today we're breaking down the first batch of season 8, episodes 1-6! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://www.mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping + a rechargeable frother! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! Time Stamps: 1:41 - Joey & Monica 9:02 - Ben & Sara 18:55 - Devin & Brittany 24:23 - Devin & Virginia 31:07 - Mason & Meg 40:09 - Mason & Madison 57:37 - Mason & Meg Final Scene 1:05:28 - Alex 1:05:46 - Alex & Madison 1:18:16 - Dave 1:19:04 - Dave & Molly 1:26:06 - Dave & Lauren 1:33:27 - Daniel & Taylor 1:38:56 - 24 Hours Later 1:42:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 February 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Grant's Mansion Of Tears - Ep 365

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 3 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.skims.com to shop SKIMS best intimates including the Fits Everybody Collection! - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com:/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40%! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 8:24 - Episode 3 Kick Off 9:22 - Group Date #1 27:06 - The Next Day 30:13 - Carolina’s 1-On-1 34:37 - The Next Day/Beverly 39:23 - Group Date #2 43:59 - Evening/Litia’s Dinner 45:37 - Back At The Mansion 47:25 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party/Prom 55:14 - Rose Ceremony 55:39 - Andy’s A-Game 56:02 - Fashion 57:43 - Shandy Word Watch 59:27 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2025

Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364

One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation! Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one! Thank you to our sponsor! - Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order! More Emily Nagoski: - Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU - Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski - TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoski Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski! 3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths 7:34 - Mismatched Libidos 12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions 15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More 17:43 - Sense Of Obligation 26:38 - Orgasm 41:12 - Control 43:51 - Long Term Relationships 48:10 - Body Confidence 50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks 52:58 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 - Carolina & Zoe Shoot Their Villain Shot - Ep 363

Shandy is back with their world-famous Bachelor recaps! Today they're breaking down episode 2 of Grant Ellis' season! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! - Go to https://www.thuma.com/SHANDY to receive $100 off your first bed purchase! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsors... - Go to https://www.furanostudio.com and use code SHANDY30 for 30% off! - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:38 - Episode 2 Kick Off 4:06 - Group Date #1 21:13 - The Next Day 21:48 - Alexe’s 1-On-1 27:53 - Group Date #2 38:20 - Rose Ceremony Cocktail Party 40:47 - Rose Ceremony 42:58 - Andy’s A-Game 44:33 - Fashion 46:10 - Shandy Word Watch 48:40 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 February 2025

LOVE FEST! Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Talk NYC Apartment Hunting And Throw Pillows - Ep 362

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today Shandy is joined by The Golden Bachelorette herself, the one and only Joan Vassos, and her fiancé, Chock Chapple! Today Joan and Chock chat apartment hunting in NYC, their early relationship hurdle, and of course, how they fight! Plus, Andy gets to ask Chock about his name! Finally, a delightfully juvenile Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.apostrophe.com/SHANDY and use our code SHANDY to get your first visit for only five dollars! - Go to https://helixsleep.com/DEARSHANDY to get 20% off Sitewide + 2 FREE Dream Pillows with any mattress purchase! - Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50 and use code SHANDY50 to get 50% off your first box plus free shipping! - Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! - Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! More Joan: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/joan_vassos TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@joanvassos More Chock: https://www.instagram.com/chockchapple TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@cchapple Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Joan & Chock! 2:08 - The Name Chock 4:47 - Was It Love At First Sight? 8:34 - Three Adjectives 10:38 - New York & Decorating 13:28 - How They Complement Each Other 18:33 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined For Themselves 24:15 - Early Hurdle 30:16 - How They Fight 34:41 - Beliefs That Have Changed 42:02 - The Newlyweds Game 52:17 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Listen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 January 2025

Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Lone Wolf Grant Ellis Seeks His Mate - Ep 361

Shandy is back with The Bachelor, Season 28 recaps! Today we're breaking down episode 1, aka the big premiere! Thank you to our sponsors... - Go to https://www.jolieskinco.com/SHANDY for free shipping on all orders! - Go to https://sundaysfordogs.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY at checkout for 40% off your first order! - Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! - Go to https://www.thrivemarket.com/SHANDY to get 30% off your first order plus a free $60 gift! - Go to https://graza.co/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for 10% off your first order! Thanks to our Word Watch sponsor... - Go to https://www.branchbasics.com and use code SHANDY for 15% off your order! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping 2:48 - Episode 1 Kick Off 12:07 - Limo Exit Wins/Fails 18:57 - Grant’s Toast 19:59 - Notable 1-On-1 Time 44:11 - First Impression Rose 44:26 - Rose Ceremony 44:36 - Previews 45:28 - Andy’s A-Game 47:01 - Fashion Police 49:36 - Shandy Word Watch 53:06 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 January 2025

Confessions With 'The Ultimatum''s Nicholas Tramontin - Ep 360

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick Nick Tramontin's brain since we recapped his season of The Ultimatum, and that day is officially here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled everyone's favorite Tortured Artist agreed to join us! Today Nick shares the most common misconceptions about him, whether or not he thinks Netflix plied him with alcohol on purpose, his HONEST thoughts on Sandy, Mariah and Vanessa. We also find out whether or not it's possible to make great art without being a little bit "tortured". Bonus: We get the dirt on Bob Ross and Nick judges Andy's own "La Banane" painting! 🍌 We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! - Go to https://fatty15.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout for 15% of your 90 day subscription starter kit! - Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! - Go to https://www.drinkAG1.com/DEARSHANDY to get a FREE $76 gift with your first subscription! - Go to https://www.zocdoc.com/SHANDY to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today! More Nicholas: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicholas.tramontin/ - Art: https://nmtcollection.com/ Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Nicholas Tramontin! 1:50 - Why He Went On The Ultimatum 5:30 - Did He Really Want To Marry Sandy? 7:15 - Have He And Sandy Ever Been To A Swingers Party? 8:12 - What Did He Learn About Himself? 9:26 - Does He Feel Like The Show Preyed On Him Regarding Alcohol? 10:45 - What Response Has Surprised Him? 11:07 - Vanessa 15:25 - What Did He Expect To Happen? 16:05 - His Homeschooling 16:57 - Does He Wish He’d Left The Show 18:21 - Mariah 20:20 - What Has He Learned About Human Nature? 22:28 - Most Common Misconception 27:54 - His Art 32:25 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Tortured? 34:48 - Does He Feel His Paintings From The Show Were Some His Better Work? 35:50 - Is It Ever Hard Letting His Art Go? 38:08 - Who Is His Favorite Artist? 41:00 - “Dating An Artist Is Hard” & The Creation Of Art 43:45 - Is To Be An Artist To Be Sensitive? 44:30 - Dogs 45:39 - His Girlfriend 46:39 - Does He Feel Gratitude To Sandy? 47:47 - Rapid Fire 49:49 - Does He Believe In Ultimatums? 51:05 - Is He A Cuckold? 51:45 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 23 January 2025

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