Dear Shandy

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 3 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://lolablankets.com and use code SHANDY for 40% off!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:57 - Episode 1424:00 - Episode 1531:49 - Episode 1753:10 - Episode 181:04:50 - Episode 191:21:38 - Predictions1:23:11 - Shandy Word Watch1:26:38 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 25 June 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Several friends never respond to your texts—Is this the new social norm, or are you doing something wrong? If you put your foot in your mouth on an early date, is there any recovering? The guy you like *seems* interested but never makes a move—does Shandy still stand by the old adage "If He Wanted To, He Would"? And if you love your fiancé but his flatulence is a damper on the romance, what to do?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:24 - Q1: Our Texts To Friends Are Going Unanswered—Is This Normal? 21:34 - Q2: I Put My Foot In My Mouth On The Second Date—Can I Recover From This?26:05 - Q3: I Like The Guy But Nothing’s Happening—Do You Still Believe “If He Wanted To, He Would”?46:06 - Q4: His Bathroom Issues Give Me the Ick—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 19 June 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 2 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY to get $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsors!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://skims.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your $75+ purchase! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:49 - Episode 811:54 - Episode 935:25 - Episode 1153:57 - Episode 121:09:56 - Episode 131:21:14 - Predictions1:22:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:25:45 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 18 June 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! You asked for Love Island, and now you shall receive! Today Shandy is breaking down Week 1 of Season 8. Thank you to our sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://zazzle.com for 25% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! Thank you to our WORD WATCH sponsor!- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code shandy for 70% off your Welcome Kit! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:51 - Episode 122:35 - Episode 231:32 - Episode 339:55 - Episode 458:27 - Episode 51:09:37 - Episode 61:18:22 - Episode 71:29:20 - Predictions1:31:29 - Shandy Word Watch1:35:09 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 11 June 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. A special thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help!24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds?36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help!52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 5 June 2026

Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatch Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! More Dave:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9- TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9 Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!3:20 - What Happened With Sophie9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?21:09 - Life After TV24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo?29:37 - Ranking Cast Members30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’?31:16 - Rapid Fire38:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE! Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony44:19 - Surprise Couple47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions49:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 21 May 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7!  Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:06 - Episode 633:53 - Episode 71:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions1:14:44 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5!  Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:16 - Episode 126:10 - Episode 235:32 - Episode 356:14 - Episode 41:07:53 - Episode 51:19:11 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 14 May 2026

Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance. Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order! More Jordana & Jared:- The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast- Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham- Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreid Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast!0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs?9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More?11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous25:22 - Leaving The House31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow39:06 - Would You Rather If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 7 May 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your Welcome Kit today!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping1:54 - Q1: At What Age Can I Stop Sending My Nephews Money?17:08 - Q2: My Friend Put No Thought Into Setting Me Up—Am I Being Too Sensitive?33:00 - Q3: My Boyfriend Loves Doing Standup But Keeps Stealing My Jokes—Help!50:30 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Is Addicted To Making AI-Generated Photos Of Our Family—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 30 April 2026

*Special Announcement*Dear Shandy will be moderating Amy's Book Launch Event in NYC on May 5th, 2026! For more info visit: https://luma.com/unsingle It's not every day we bring back a Hot Topic guest, but when Amy Chan writes a new book, YOU BRING HER BACK. Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, Amy is a relationship expert, author, and founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamp, retreats that apply a scientific, psychological approach to healing heartbreak and rewiring dating patterns. It has been 4.5 years since we first had Amy on, and now with her new book, "Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts" (April 28, 2026), she shares the science of rewiring your brain to actually find success in your love life. Today Amy chats your unconscious patterns, how being otherwise "high-achieving" is working against you, and at what leg in the "Dating Funnel" you're getting stuck. We promise you'll never see dating the same way again after hearing Amy's insights. Watch on to get "Unsingle"! Our first episode with Amy: https://youtu.be/FRXrV7AXHwY?si=NRMBdTNNAKy1PwEg Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! More Amy:The Book, 'Unsingle': ⁠https://missamychan.com/unsingleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/missamychan Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome (Back) Amy Chan!3:30 - Unconscious Patterns6:44 - Does Being Otherwise “High-Achieving” Work Against You In Dating?11:00 - The Dating Funnel16:16 - Expanding Horizons25:34 - The Experiment27:37 - Age Gaps29:13 - Over-Icking33:15 - Chemistry49:14 - Situationships51:29 - People Pleasing54:18 - The Grass Is Always Greener56:39 - What You Can Do Now To Rewire Your Brain58:52 - Final Takeaways If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 23 April 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you love your husband but find his career boring AF, should you feign interest to spare his feelings, or be 100% honest about your disinterest? Is it acceptable to become close friends with your best friend's partner, even if your best friend doesn't approve? Has Shandy ever dated anyone who brought out the worst in them, and what are their thoughts on "breadcrumbing" in dating? Finally, if your date regularly brings you the ugliest flowers you've ever seen, does that speak to a deeper compatibility and "taste" issue? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:17 - Q1: I’m Bored To Tears When My Husband Talks About His Job—AITA?21:16 - Q2: Can I Be Best Friends With My Best Friend’s Wife?30:27 - Q3: I’m Still Hung Up On A Girl Who Brought Out The Worst In Me—Help!43:42 - Q4: My New Flame Is Great But His Taste Is Not—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 16 April 2026

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the second half of the season, episodes 6-9! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY to buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:02 - Episode 635:28 - Episode 748:33 - Episode 81:01:15 - Episode 91:23:46 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 13 April 2026

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering Temptation Island, Season 10 (or Season 2 in the Netflix era)! Today Shandy breaks down the first half of the season, episodes 1-5! #temptationisland #netflix #temptationislandnetflix Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY at checkout for the latest offer!- Go to https://poshmark.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY for $10 off your first purchase!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:22 - Episode 120:29 - Episode 232:09 - Episode 346:55 - Episode 41:13:56 - Episode 51:29:41 - Predictions1:30:46 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 10 April 2026

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the REUNION! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY for up to 43% off, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:49 - Libby & Andrew8:27 - Vanelle & Jorge14:59 - Pfeifer & Derrick17:02 - Theresa & John34:09 - Leah & Chris42:06 - Vanessa & Logan46:15 - Best Dressed46:36 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 3 April 2026

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the second batch, episodes 6 & 7, as well as the FINALE!  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:07 - Theresa & John35:14 - Pfeifer & Derrick47:54 - Leah & Chris51:17 - Libby & Andrew1:04:15 - Vanessa & Logan1:22:10 - Overall Thoughts If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 30 March 2026

Ask and you shall receive! (And better late than never?) By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering Netflix's Age Of Attraction! Today Shandy breaks down the first batch, episodes 1-5!  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in-store and get paid back for one!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of Goodwipes at Walmart! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping & Introduction7:22 - Theresa & John20:49 - Libby & Andrew34:39 - Vanelle & Jorge & Justin59:00 - Pfeifer & Derrik1:02:23 - Joleen & West1:02:36 - Leah & Chris1:06:06 - Vanessa & Logan1:18:24 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2026

Just 3 days before its scheduled premiere, The Bachelorette Season 22 starring Taylor Frankie Paul was abruptly cancelled. Many of you wanted to hear Shandy's take on the news and the shocking reason why. So today, in lieu of the Bachelorette Premiere recap that was meant to drop today, they're answering your burning questions Q&A style. Thanks to our sponsors!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your first box today!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:23 - Shandy’s Honest Thoughts When Taylor Was Announced As Bachelorette12:15 - How Did ABC Rationalize Casting Taylor?19:10 - Did You See This Coming?19:38 - Were You Looking Forward To Recapping Taylor’s Season?20:07 - Thoughts On Whether Or Not Dakota “Instigated” And Strategized The Video Release21:16 - Could Taylor’s Behavior Be “Reactive Abuse”?24:32 - Do You Think Dakota Got Paid For The Video?27:26 - How Much Do You Hold Jesse Palmer Responsible For His Complicity?29:58 - How Do You Think This Situation Would Be Treated Differently If Taylor Were A Man?31:27 - Do You Think The Show Owes The Men An Apology?34:46 - Do You Think The Season Will Air At A Later Date?38:40 - Did Shandy See The Premiere Screener And If So, Thoughts?51:40 - How Do You Think The Men Feel?55:07 - Who *Should* The Show Have Chosen?56:51 - “How Bad Of A Person Does It Make Me That I Still Want To Watch The Season?”57:21 - Do You Think All Of This Was A Ploy?59:43 - Can The Franchise Recover From This? 1:05:09 - Has Modern Dating Culture Outgrown ‘The Bachelor’?1:05:47 - How Does A Sudden Pivot Like This Affect Dear Shandy/Podcasts?1:07:46 - “Do You Feel This Is Good, To Not Give Trash Humans A Platform?”1:11:34 - Overall Thoughts On Taylor Frankie Paul1:14:50 - Deep Down Is Shandy Relieved?1:15:41 - Was Casting Taylor Frankie Paul A Mistake?1:15:50 - What Show Is Shandy Recapping Instead?1:17:13 - Would You Recap Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 23 March 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your elderly dad is juggling two girlfriends, is it acceptable to refuse to meet them? When your stepmom "forgets" your rule around holiday travel, is it better to hold firm or just keep the peace? Your boyfriend tells you you're perfect but also says he isn't "obsessed"—what's your next move? Finally, if you did a sizable favor for a friend and she never even bought you a meal as thanks, does confronting her make *you* the A-hole?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors!- Text SHANDY to 64000 to get a Pocket Hose's FREE pocket pivot and 10-pattern sprayer with the purchase of ANY size Copper Head hose!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your night guard!- Buy any two cans of Olipop in store and we’ll pay you back for one. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY !- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:45 - Q1: My Elderly Dad Is Juggling Two “Girlfriends”—Help!9:47 - Q2: My Stepmom Is Ignoring My Holiday Travel Boundaries—Help!18:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend Tells Me I’m Perfect But Also Says He Isn’t “Obsessed” With Me34:34 - Q4: My Longtime Friend Did Nothing To Acknowledge The Favor Gave Her—AITA For Confronting Her? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 19 March 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Reunion for Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://monos.com and use code SHANDY for their latest offer!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:43 - Reunion Kick Off5:02 - Christine & Vic8:12 - Amber & Jordan15:29 - Bri & Connor19:47 - S8’s Sara & Joey20:43 - Jessica & Chris33:59 - Emma & Mike42:54 - Ashley & Alex59:14 - Brittany & Devonta1:12:33 - S4’s Bliss & Zach1:17:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed1:18:53 - Overall Thoughts1:19:46 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 13 March 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering the Season 10 Finale of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 10% off for life!- Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps:Coming soon If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 5 March 2026

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today is a 2-for-1 as Shandy breaks down both the Finale and Reunion!  Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:41 - Finale16:50 - Fire Of Truth27:45 - Reunion49:59 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 1 March 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 10-11, aka Batch 3 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first system!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping0:33 - The Bowling Party, Cont’d24:54 - Christine & Vic30:58 - Amber & Jordan37:54 - Brittany & Devonta54:54 - Ashley & Alex1:20:34 - Bri & Connor1:33:53 - Emma & Mike1:46:07 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 25 February 2026

Dear Shandy's world-famous recaps are back, this time covering #TheTraitors Season 4 on #Peacock! Today Shandy breaks down episode 10. Thank you to our sponsors...- Buy two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one at https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! 0:00 - Housekeeping1:46 - Episode 1027:36 - Round Table 39:10 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 23 February 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 7-9, aka Batch 2 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY for 15% off 2 or more pairs of prescription glasses!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:03 - Christine & Vic9:34 - Amber & Jordan12:57 - Ashley & Alex43:30 - Brittany & Devonta52:05 - Emma & Mike1:03:47 - Jessica & Chris1:19:21 - Bri & Connor1:24:07 - Bowling Group Party1:40:53 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 18 February 2026

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 9.  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:57 - Episode 937:45 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 16 February 2026

Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Today they're covering episodes 1-6, aka Batch 1 of Season 10 of Netflix's Love Is Blind! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards improved mental health!- Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your first box!- Go to https://oneskin.co/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off!- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping4:02 - Christine & Vic13:09 - Amber & Jordan17:20 - Ashely & Alex35:27 - Bri & Conner (& Chris)53:57 - Chris & Jessica1:02:31 - Emma & Mike (& Conner & Steven)1:26:56- Kevan & Keya & Tyler1:44:33 - Brittany & Devonta1:51:37 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 11 February 2026

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's recaps are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 8.  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:25 - Episode 814:23 - Round Table31:39 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 9 February 2026

IT'S TIME, SHANDIES!!! Today's the day for volume 7 of our very special biannual UPDATES! When listening to our Q&As and caller episodes, do you find yourself wondering "where are they now?" Well, today is all about filling in those blanks! We called out for updates from our question-asking Shandies and many were kind enough to provide their subsequent chapters, the good and the bad! Come join us in the living room where we're on the edge of our seats! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://monos.com and use code DEARSHANDY for an extra 10% off their Monos' Valentine's Day Sale, while it lasts!- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:26 - Ep 313, Q5 From K: “Have I Been Using My Hardships As An Excuse To Not Be ’30 And Flirty’?” 10:16 - Ep 354, Q1 From K: “My Maid Of Honor Thinks I Should Have A Dry Wedding To Accommodate Our Mutual Friend—Help!” 24:15 - Ep 387, Q5 From Anonymous: “My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help!” 38:52 - Ep 388, Caller Emily: “He Can’t Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?”56:25 - Ep 429, Q4, From Anonymous: “My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting?” 1:02:23 - Ep 435, Q3, From Elle: “My Sister-In-Law Has Accused Me Of Emotionally Cheating With Her Husband—Did I Overstep?”1:13:19 - Ep 439, Caller Catherine: “Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can’t Afford?” If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 5 February 2026

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 7!  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to buy any two cans of Olipop in store and get paid back for one!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://cozyearth.com/SHANDYBOGO for buy-one-get-one PJs only available through February 8th! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:08 - Episode 721:16 - Round Table38:34 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 2 February 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why aren't there more single "Andy"s out there, and is finding one just a matter of luck? What does it mean if your parents tell you your husband is controlling, yet this is news to you? What to do when your two besties becomes enemies with each other, and you're caught in the middle? Finally, if you love your friends but not their pigsty of a house, should you still visit and stay as a gesture of love? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://oliveandjune.com/SHANDY for 20% off your first mani system!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code "SHANDY" for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order!- Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and instantly find more affordable alternatives! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:50 - Q1: Is Finding My “Andy” Just A Matter Of Luck?18:33 - Q2: Is My Husband Controlling Or Are My Parents Gaslighting Me?29:47 - Q3: My Friends Have Become Enemies & I’m Stuck In The Middle—Help!46:45 - Q4: Are Our Friends Too Filthy Or Are We Too Judgmental?  If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 29 January 2026

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episode 6!  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for 15% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:53 - Episode 632:48 - Best & Worst Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 26 January 2026

It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by TWO lovely callers. Catherine is the youngest of 4, and she wishes to celebrate her big sister's big birthday with a big trip. But should she invite their middle sister, who is unlikely to be able to afford it, but who won't handle the FOMO well? Or should she keep the trip under wraps? Our second caller, Renee, deeply regrets welcoming her friend's annoying husband into her friend group. Is it possible to hit "backspace" on introducing friends to friends? Listen on for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy's new Off The Record sessions! Thanks to our sponsors....- Go to https://www.quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 50% off your custom night guard! Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Caller Catherine!31:41 - Shandy Debrief37:47 - Welcome To Caller Renee!58:22 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 22 January 2026

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering the REUNION of Love Is Blind Germany, Season 2! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! #loveisblind #netflix #loveisblindgermany #libgermany Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4Recap for episodes 5-8: https://youtu.be/QtYEYfcKTGQRecap for Finale: https://youtu.be/LUzkFx4KHDo Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.functionhealth.com/SHANDY or use code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping4:58 - Gunnar & Josy12:41 - Andi & Yasmin20:35 - Jan & Loan25:07 - Jubriel & Wandi29:08 - Konstantin & Jessi34:12 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2026

By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 4-5!  Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:58 - Episode 414:18 - Episode 535:01 - Best Dressed If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 19 January 2026

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering the FINALE of Love Is Blind Germany, Season 2! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! #loveisblind #netflix #loveisblindgermany #libgermany Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4Recap for episodes 5-8: https://youtu.be/QtYEYfcKTGQ Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:43 - Andi & Yasmin10:01 - Gunnar & Josy16:14 - Konstantin & Jessi22:32 - Overall Thoughts22:57 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 16 January 2026

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions, and we have a bunch of FAMILY questions today! What should you do if your friend of 15 years suddenly blocks you—seemingly over a DM with the "wrong" emoji?? If your husband's bestie-turned-family-friend commits an unforgivable sin and betrays the whole family, is it better to forgive or to cut ties? If you regularly complain about your in-laws with your sister-in-law's husband, is that overstepping and boundary? Finally, what to do about the Chatty Cathy in your life that just WILL NOT STOP TALKING?? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order!- Go to https://ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 60% off your Welcome Kit when you subscribe today!- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get a free can of Olipop when you buy any two cans in store!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards better mental health today! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:17 - Q1: My Friend Of 15 Years Blocked Me (Over An Emoji??)—Help!19:57 - Q2: My Husband’s Best Friend Betrayed My Whole Family—Should I Forgive Or Cut Ties?37:05 - Q3: My Sister-In-Law Has Accused Me Of “Emotionally Cheating” With Her Husband—Did I Overstep?1:02:00 - Q4: I’m Introverted & Cannot Deal With The Chatty Cathy In My Life—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 15 January 2026

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering episodes 5-8 of Season 2 of Love Is Blind GERMANY! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! Recap for episodes 1-4: https://youtu.be/O7Eh9JTYcd4 Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://piquelife.com/SHANDY for 20% off your order! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:15 - Konstantin & Jessi15:29 - Jubriel & Wandi23:04- Gunnar & Josy34:15 - Jan & Loan41:04 - Andi & Yasmin58:21 - Who We Would Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 12 January 2026

Ask and you shall receive! By extremely popular demand, Dear Shandy's WORLD-FAMOUS RECAPS are back, this time covering season 4 of The Traitors! Today Shandy breaks down episodes 1-3! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for up to 20% off!- Go to https://masterclass.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:04 - Andy Guesses Who’s Most “Famous”5:53 - The Prize Money7:07 - Traitors10:19 - Alan Cummings16:53 - Episode 230:30 - Episode 342:54 - Shandy’s Predictions44:04 - Players To Watch If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 9 January 2026

By popular demand, Shandy is finally dipping their toes in INTERNATIONAL Love Is Blind waters! Today they're covering episodes 1-4 of Season 2 of Love Is Blind GERMANY! Ist die Liebe wirklich blind? Let's find out! Thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free Shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:04 - Konstantin & Jessi19:57 - Jubriel & Wandi (& Josy)35:41 - Gunnar & Josy49:54 - Jan & Loan58:35 - Andi & Yasmin (& Dustin, Celia, Nadia)1:14:10 - Who Would We Go For If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 8 January 2026

Today's a special day, Shandies! We polled you over on Instagram about what YOU wanted your last episode of 2025 to be: A 2025 Year In Review or a classic Q&A? It was an even split, so as many of you requested, today we're doing BOTH! Join us as we go down memory lane and recap 2025 together, AND as we answer some juicy Q&A questions along the way! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://quince.com/shandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 55% off your custom night guard plus a FREE foam gift!- GO to https://www.factormeals.com and use code SHANDY50OFF for 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:43 - Best NYC Date Night of 20254:55 - Best Escape Room of 20255:39 - Cutest Ruby Moment of 20257:00 - Favorite TV Show Of 20258:25 - Biggest Lesson Learned in 202513:08 - Q1: When Dating Multiple People, Should I Tell My Dates?27:01 - Best Meal of 202528:25 - Best Dessert of 202530:03 - Favorite Person You Met In 202530:57 - Q2: I Have A Crush On My Close Friend’s Wife—Help!48:40 - If You Could Relive One Day in 2025 What Day Would It Be?52:32 - Favorite Movie Of 202555:10 - Favorite Book Of 20251:02:16 - One Situation In 2025 Which You’re Proud Of How You Handled1:05:00 - Favorite Socks Of 20251:06:17 - Q3: I Want Kids But He’s On The Fence—How Do I Make Sure He Doesn’t Waste My Time?1:18:28 - Dream Guest Of 20261:23:08 - Which Q&A Question Of 2025 Are You Most Curious About The Outcome Of?1:25:59 - Proudest Moment Of 2025?1:32:38 - 2026 Resolution If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 18 December 2025

It's Love Fest time again, Shandies!!! 🎉 We couldn't be more delighted to welcome The Season 2 Golden Bachelor himself—International man of mystery Mel Owens—and his lovely, multi-talented winner, Peg Munson! This is a particularly unique Love Fest, because unbeknownst to Shandy, Mel and Peg watched ALL the Dear Shandy recaps of their season! And trust us, they came with NOTES. 😱 Today Mel and Peg pull back the curtain on their relationship and truth BOMBS are dropped at every turn. We get Mel's unfiltered thoughts on his infamous pre-filming podcast appearance and the very unexpected backstory of Peg's unicycle! We learn how these two complement each other, what hurdles they've overcome, and learn their incredible love and life advice. Best of all, since they watched Dear Shandy along the way, Mel and Peg aren't afraid to tell Shandy what they got right (and very, very wrong)! Finally, a hilariously disastrous Newlyweds Game that defies all the rules! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off your first order!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite pajamas at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and BOOM – it instantly finds you more affordable alternatives!- Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! Referenced clip from the Eddie Murphy movie where Mel plays Bo Chandler: https://www.instagram.com/p/DR1K6aVkTdE/?hl=en More Peg:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/peg__munsonTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@munsonpropertieslvYoutube - https://www.youtube.com/@munsonproperties More Mel:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/melowens58TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@melowens58 Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Mel & Peg!3:07 - First Impressions9:00 - The Unicycle21:16 - Mel’s Infamous Podcast Appearance 25:47 - How They Complement Each Other29:24 - Early Hurdle30:41 - How They Fight32:00 - Common Misconceptions33:47- The Aha Moment38:28 - Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed42:00 - #1 Piece Of Love Advice42:34 - Working With Eddie Murphy44:03 - Mel Knows Shandy47:28 - The Newlyweds Game1:01:50 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 11 December 2025

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your podcast co-host disagree on whether or not to release an episode, should you compromise or stick to your perfectionism? If you know a relationship is doomed, is it still worth exploring for the experience of having "loved and lost"? If your entire family has near-daily Zoom calls, are you the A-hole for not wanting to participate? And if your husband gifts you a solo sex toy for your anniversary, is it kinky or just plain rude?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions. Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY to save up to 40% through December 12!- Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards better mental health today!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://www.rocketmoney.com/SHANDY to save money and cancel unwanted subscriptions the easy way! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:59 - Q1: My Podcast Co-Host Wants To Release An Episode I Don’t Like—What Should I Do?11:12 - Q2: Is It Better To Have Loved And Lost Than To Have Never Loved At All?24:27 - Q3: My Entire Family Has A Zoom Call Almost Daily—Is This Normal & Do I Really Have To Join?49:06 - Q4: My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting? If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 4 December 2025

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! And what better way to celebrate thanks than with a double date?? That's right: It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Andrew Spencer and Alexe Godin from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise! Today Alexe and Andrew whirl into the studio despite Andrew's flight being delayed and Alexe having lost her phone! They give us a peek into the delightful chaos that is their relationship and discuss whether or not Alexe should have taken ALL the money on Paradise. We learn about the cultural differences of an American dating a Canadian, how they complement each other, and what they fight about (it's not what you think!) Finally, a hilarious mess of a Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing out loud! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.factormeals.com/SHANDY50OFF and use code SHANDY50OFF to get 50% off your first box plus free breakfast for one year!- Go to https://quince.com/SHANDY for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://www.manukora.com/SHANDY to get $150 off your first starter kit now until Dec 2!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to save 40% this weekend only from Thanksgiving through Cyber Monday!- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop! More Alexe:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexe.godinTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexe.godin More Andrew:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/andrewzspencerTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewzspencer Time Stamps:0:00 - Interviewing Two Ghosts0:55 - Welcome To Andrew!6:13 - Welcome To Alexe!9:41 - Living In Chaos11:54 - First Impressions16:46 - Cultural Differences18:49 - How They Complement Each Other23:13 - Early Hurdle24:45 - What They Fight About32:02 - The Newlyweds Game If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 27 November 2025

It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Bailey Taylor Brown and Jeremy Simon from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise! Today Jeremy and Bailey give us a peek into their relationship and how they navigated blowback from their Paradise season. We learn the ins and outs of their dynamic that you didn't see on TV, how they complement each other, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a nail-biter of a Newlyweds Game that will keep you guessing until the very end! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out! Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://www.revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Just type https://dupe.com/ before any product URL in your browser and it instantly finds you more affordable alternatives! More Bailey:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/baileytaylorbrownTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@baileytaylorbrown More Jeremy:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/j____wayTikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@j____way Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome to Jeremy & Bailey!1:21 - Living Together5:30 - First Impressions14:03 - Three Adjectives22:16 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves23:42 - How Jeremy’s Mom Handled The Show25:39 - Early Hurdle30:01 - Navigating Blowback From The Season38:15 - How They Fight43:27 - Common Misconceptions45:44 - Bailey’s True Thoughts On Jeremy’s Actions On BIP52:05 - The Newlyweds Game1:10:00 - Shandy Debrief If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunes More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 20 November 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for up to 40%!- Go to https://rula.com/shandy and take the first step towards better mental health today!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Pajamas at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.wildgrain.com/SHANDY to get $30 off your first box plus free croissants in every box! Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping + Opening Thoughts5:04 - Finale Kick Off22:44 - Cindy Hot Seat35:27 - Peg & Mel In Antigua37:55 - Proposal41:51 - After The Final Rose45:21 - Taylor Frankie Paul47:21 - Bloopers48:01 - Overall Thoughts51:20 - Shandy Word Watch If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 13 November 2025

Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suite week for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2! Thank you to our sponsors...- Go to https://drinkolipop.com/SHANDY to get $2 off a 4-pack of Olipop!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 55% off a custom nightguard plus a FREE gift! Thank you to our Word Watch sponsor...- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use promo code SHANDY for up to 40% off! Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:23 - Antigua6:12 - Peg’s Overnight18:34 - Cindy’s Overnight34:47 - Episode MVP35:19 - Andy’s A-Game35:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed36:01 - Shandy Word Watch!37:32 - Shandy’s Predictions If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 6 November 2025

Shandy is thrilled to welcome Theresa Nist for an EXCLUSIVE in-studio conversation. You know Theresa as the winner of the mega-hit season 1 of The Golden Bachelor. She wound up engaged to Gerry Turner, their televised wedding was watched by millions, but they announced their divorce only 3 months later. What *really* happened behind the scenes, after the wedding, and after the cameras turned off? In light of Gerry's new tell-all book describing his version of events, Theresa sits down with Shandy for her most raw, unfiltered interview to date. How did it feel for Theresa to learn that Gerry wondered if he should have chosen his runner-up, Leslie? Did she mislead Gerry about quitting her career, did she misrepresent her finances, and did she read "How To Win The Bachelor" during filming, as he claimed in the book? Did she really make Gerry sleep on the sofa?! Theresa is normally very private but could not stay silent in light of the book's many accusations. Do not miss her brutally honest account. Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Get up to 40% off your entire order at https://laundrysauce.com/SHANDY (their biggest sale of the year!)- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother! More Theresa:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theresa_nist- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theresa_nist Past Dear Shandy episodes covering Gerry & Theresa:- Love Fest: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=LOOwxXqEToxIpIBY- Golden Divorce: https://youtu.be/PyiFysUZJMc?si=OzqnEI2Ee4_gm8gS Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Theresa Nist10:08 - Leslie19:32 - Temper22:22 - “East Coast Mentality”27:44 - Finances, Her Work, The Prenup42:18 - Lifestyle45:00 - House Shopping47:50 - Her Home49:26 - Physical Intimacy55:50 - Her Intentions1:05:59 - Her Character1:16:05 - Regrets1:20:18 - Message To Gerry If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2025