Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
Dear Shandy
Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
4.9 • 4K Ratings
🗓️ 5 June 2026
⏱️ 75 minutes
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Summary
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Housekeeping
6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help!
24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds?
36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help!
52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap?
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | especially in today's climate with dating and online apps and all that swipe culture. |
| 0:08.5 | You little kids, get off my lawn. |
| 0:12.4 | You meddling kids. |
| 0:15.3 | Pull up those pants. |
| 0:16.3 | Yeah, go, yeah, go. |
| 0:17.7 | Yeah. |
| 0:20.5 | Get off my lawn. |
| 0:24.9 | Dear Shandy. |
| 0:29.2 | Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. Hello, Andy. |
| 0:32.0 | Hello. How are you today? Hello. |
| 0:34.2 | Hello. Some people take issue with me asking how you're doing it. Well, how are you doing? How are you doing? Oh, you're asking me? Yeah. I'm doing all right, actually. Yeah, are you? I'm actually having a day of gratitude. Really? Oh, that's great. I love when you do that. Well, I woke up today and I thought, oh, like, we have to record. |
| 0:56.1 | And then I thought, wait a minute, we get to record. We get to record. Yeah. At first I thought, oh, it's a Saturday, you know, but now I'm like, oh, my God, we get to do this on a Saturday. Oh, I like that. What a positive way to start a Q&A. Well, Andy, you had a dream you wanted to tell me about. |
| 1:10.4 | And then when you started to tell me, I was like, no, save it for the podcast. |
| 1:14.0 | Oh, yes. a Q&A. Well, Andy, you had a dream you wanted to tell me about. And then when you started to tell me, |
| 1:11.6 | I was like, no, save it for the podcast. Oh, yes. So this is a premiere. This is a world premiere. Yeah, I have not heard this dream. Even my wife. If anyone is not interested in Andy's dream, you can skip ahead in the timestamps to the first question. Yes. This should be a, I'm thinking, 90 to 120 second dream. |
| 1:27.5 | Okay. |
| 1:27.9 | So you and I were at a very unique restaurant. |
| 1:30.6 | And in this restaurant, This should be a, I'm thinking 90 to 120 second dream. |
| 1:27.8 | Okay. |
| 1:30.6 | So you and I were at a very unique restaurant. And in this restaurant, tables of two, everyone was a couple, were sitting in like four by six little waiting pools. |
| 1:40.0 | Okay. |
| 1:40.6 | So there's like a little seat in the pool, like, you know, you know, at the edge of like a hot tub. |
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