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🗓️ 4 November 2025
⏱️ 93 minutes
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Shandy is thrilled to welcome Theresa Nist for an EXCLUSIVE in-studio conversation. You know Theresa as the winner of the mega-hit season 1 of The Golden Bachelor. She wound up engaged to Gerry Turner, their televised wedding was watched by millions, but they announced their divorce only 3 months later. What *really* happened behind the scenes, after the wedding, and after the cameras turned off?
In light of Gerry's new tell-all book describing his version of events, Theresa sits down with Shandy for her most raw, unfiltered interview to date. How did it feel for Theresa to learn that Gerry wondered if he should have chosen his runner-up, Leslie? Did she mislead Gerry about quitting her career, did she misrepresent her finances, and did she read "How To Win The Bachelor" during filming, as he claimed in the book? Did she really make Gerry sleep on the sofa?! Theresa is normally very private but could not stay silent in light of the book's many accusations. Do not miss her brutally honest account.
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Past Dear Shandy episodes covering Gerry & Theresa:
- Love Fest: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=LOOwxXqEToxIpIBY
- Golden Divorce: https://youtu.be/PyiFysUZJMc?si=OzqnEI2Ee4_gm8gS
Time Stamps:
0:00 - Welcome To Theresa Nist
10:08 - Leslie
19:32 - Temper
22:22 - “East Coast Mentality”
27:44 - Finances, Her Work, The Prenup
42:18 - Lifestyle
45:00 - House Shopping
47:50 - Her Home
49:26 - Physical Intimacy
55:50 - Her Intentions
1:05:59 - Her Character
1:16:05 - Regrets
1:20:18 - Message To Gerry
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| 0:00.0 | I never planned on saying anything about what happened between us. |
| 0:04.8 | So many people asked me, and I would just say, you know, you can't really know a person in the amount of time, like in four weeks. |
| 0:13.6 | And I would leave it at that. |
| 0:15.0 | And honestly, it was really a matter of if you have nothing good to say, just don't say anything. |
| 0:19.9 | And I didn't want to hurt him. |
| 0:22.5 | And so I just left it the way it was. But now, I mean, he's written a book and he said things. |
| 0:29.0 | And now I can't ignore it. And now I think that I really have no choice but to respond. |
| 0:37.4 | Dear Shandy. |
| 0:41.4 | Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners. |
| 0:43.8 | Hello, Andy. |
| 0:45.0 | Hello. |
| 0:45.6 | You're on my right today. |
| 0:46.9 | I am. |
| 0:47.5 | How are you doing? |
| 0:48.4 | I'm dressed in my finery for this special occasion. |
| 0:51.3 | Yes, a very special occasion. |
| 0:52.9 | We're excited about our guests today, who we have had on the podcast. |
| 0:58.1 | Minus one. |
| 1:01.3 | Andy. |
| 1:02.8 | Oh. |
| 1:03.8 | Too soon? |
| 1:05.8 | Yes, we have had her on the podcast before with someone else, but that is part of why we have her on again |
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