Q&A! How To Tell Your Friends They're Filthy & Finding Your Own "Andy" - Ep 441

Dear Shandy

Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine

Tv & Film, Relationships, Society & Culture, After Shows

4.9 • 4K Ratings

🗓️ 29 January 2026

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Summary

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! Why aren't there more single "Andy"s out there, and is finding one just a matter of luck? What does it mean if your parents tell you your husband is controlling, yet this is news to you? What to do when your two besties becomes enemies with each other, and you're caught in the middle? Finally, if you love your friends but not their pigsty of a house, should you still visit and stay as a gesture of love? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:50 - Q1: Is Finding My “Andy” Just A Matter Of Luck?

18:33 - Q2: Is My Husband Controlling Or Are My Parents Gaslighting Me?

29:47 - Q3: My Friends Have Become Enemies & I’m Stuck In The Middle—Help!

46:45 - Q4: Are Our Friends Too Filthy Or Are We Too Judgmental?

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Transcript

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0:00.0	This question was made for you.
0:01.6	This Mandy knows you.
0:02.5	I was born to answer this.
0:03.7	This has come full circle.
0:04.8	We started this podcast and Amanda comes.
0:07.7	Yes.
0:08.1	And he says, Andy, here you are.
0:10.4	Yes.
0:10.9	Here is the culmination of all the work you've done.
0:13.1	Yes.
0:13.7	He respects the work.
0:14.8	He does.
0:15.2	And he gives me the opportunity to show where the work has gotten.
0:20.0	I watched you lose steam.
0:25.1	Dear Shandy.
0:29.4	Welcome back to Dear Shandy listeners.
0:31.5	Hello, Andy.
0:32.3	How are you today?
0:33.5	Doing pretty good.
0:34.3	Yeah.
0:35.4	You like Q&A Day.
0:36.5	I like Q&As.
	...

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