This is a Fan Fav episode. Sarah Jakes Roberts brings a raw honesty and magnetic vulnerability to this episode that truly moved me. We dive deep into some of her darkest battles—shame, self-worth, judgment, and those insidious whispers telling us we’re not enough. Sarah reveals how being pregnant at 14 and living as the very public daughter of Bishop T.D. Jakes shaped, challenged, and ultimately expanded her sense of what’s possible. Together, we peel back the layers on toxic thinking, betrayal, loving yourself after your lowest moments, and how to transform your “leftovers” into glory. Whether you feel lost, broken, or just in need of some truth-telling wisdom, Sarah delivers it straight. SHOWNOTES Sarah opens up about her struggles with worthiness, shame, and identity (00:00:08) The turning point: reframing scars as sources of wisdom instead of shame (00:02:29) Letting the poison out: why you must confront negative self-talk instead of hiding it (00:07:46) “The leftovers”: Sarah’s powerful analogy for creating abundance from what’s left after trauma (00:05:57) Building self-worth from the inside out and talking back to your inner critic (00:16:19) The impact of betrayal and reframing blame to fuel your own healing (00:33:13) How to draw boundaries—yes, even with family—and choose who qualifies to influence you (00:37:32) Incubating hope: how to protect and grow your inner dreams, even when no one else believes (00:25:54) From toxic relationships to flourishing partnership: Sarah’s journey to love and protecting your space (00:18:38) The definition of success, and daring to become the next version of yourself (00:43:00) FOLLOW SARAH JAKES ROBERTS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahjakesroberts/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SarahJakesRoberts/ Website & Community: https://womanevolve.com/ You have to check out Sarah’s work—her book, her podcast, her voice—the transformation she evokes is next level. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 18 July 2025
Lisa Bilyeu and intimacy expert Shan Boodram continue their deep dive into the art of seduction—moving from the signature personalities like “the Star” and “the Centerfold,” to building enduring wow factor and how to keep attraction alive in long-term relationships. Shan reveals how confidence is built not through massive, overwhelming change, but small “rivers of confidence” that are unique to your culture, personal style, and chosen sexual icon. Lisa and Shan discuss aging, attracting as your most authentic self, avoiding society’s ageist traps, and how to ground self-worth outside of fleeting appearance or sex appeal. They close with a frank conversation about the “seven year itch,” explaining why we lose the spark in relationships and exactly what to do about it—drawing from the latest science and real-world intimacy wisdom. Shan leaves listeners with practical, transformational advice on sexual self-ownership, pleasure, and how to reignite connection—both with your partner and yourself. SHOWNOTES35:02 The Centerfold — Gender-Bending, Nonconformity & Seductive Uniqueness45:16 How to Identify Your Unique Seduction Strengths56:00 Shan on Aging, Sexiness, and Sade as Her Next Icon1:06:39 The Work of Relationships: Keeping the Wow Factor Alive1:15:45 Shan’s Resources, Masterclass, and Where to Find Her FOLLOW SHAN BOODRAM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboodramTwitter: https://twitter.com/shanboodramWebsite: https://www.shanboodram.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 17 July 2025
In this empowering first half of our two-part episode, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes Shan Boodram—a certified intimacy expert, sexologist, author, and host—to unpack the art and science of seduction for women. Shan isn’t your average sexologist; she's here to debunk myths around seduction and reveal why true connection goes far deeper than any superficial tricks. Drawing inspiration from Robert Greene’s The Art of Seduction and her own clinical research, Shan shares the nine proven ways women can be highly seductive—and why each one works. As Lisa and Shan dive in, they reveal everything from the power of first impressions and the psychology behind the “siren,” to the overlooked potency of genuine interest and playing to your personal strengths. They also shine a light on the darker side of seduction—manipulation—and share actionable tips on building authentic confidence, owning your sexuality, and breaking free from societal norms. Whether you’re looking to harness your inner charm or simply show up more powerfully in your relationships, this episode is your blueprint. SHOWNOTES00:00 Introduction: Meet Shan Boodram, Intimacy Expert & Sexologist01:30 First Impressions: Warmth + Competence Formula12:45 Addiction, Inconsistent Reward, and the Sunk-Cost Fallacy21:55 How Your Inner Child Energy Attracts Others30:04 The Croquette — Mystery, Teasing, and Negging32:29 Living Apart Together: Creating Mystery in Relationships FOLLOW SHAN BOODRAM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shanboodram/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shanboodramTwitter: https://twitter.com/shanboodramWebsite: https://www.shanboodram.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 16 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. What up, homies? Lisa here, and today I am crazy excited to bring you a conversation with my total badass friend, Jenna Kutcher—CEO, mom, and host of the Gold Diggers podcast. We dive deep and get real about why so many women (including us!) end up stuck, unhappy, or living a life of “shoulds” instead of our truest desires. Jenna dishes the truth about people-pleasing, numbing out our feelings, ignoring the whispers inside us, and how we can get radically honest to become the hero of our own stories. Think of this episode as the pep talk—and the permission slip—you’ve been waiting for. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – How Lisa and Jenna’s friendship began with insecurity and mutual admiration 02:01 – Why so many women feel stuck and the power of asking, “How are you REALLY?” 04:55 – Why we’re scared to ask (or answer) the hard questions about our happiness 06:52 – Quick and simple ways to check in with yourself and tune into your body 08:01 – Unsent messages: Why ignoring your body and feelings is dangerous 13:01 – The “wake-up call” moment and how Jenna realized she needed to make a change 16:14 – Visualizing your life five years from now—and if you really want it 19:08 – How to create a safe space for honest self-reflection and feeling your emotions 42:30 – Boundaries as the hero of your life: Why saying “no” keeps you in alignment 47:24 – The myth of momentum, “shoulds,” and trusting yourself to set boundaries FOLLOW JENNA KUTCHER: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennakutcher/ Website: https://jennakutcher.com Book: https://howareyoureallybook.com Podcast: Goal Digger Podcast (https://jennakutcherblog.com/category/goal-digger-podcast/) FOLLOW LINDSEY STIRLING: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindseystirling/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LindseyStirling Website: https://www.lindseystirling.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 15 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Ever found yourself spiraling into a cycle of comparison that leaves your confidence in tatters? You’re not alone, homie. In this episode, I (Lisa) sit down with the amazing Melissa Ambrosini for an unfiltered conversation on “comparisonitis,” that self-destructive habit we all struggle with. Melissa doesn’t just bring empathy and her own raw stories—from harrowing moments as a dancer to her challenges with motherhood—she drops a tactical, four-step ACES framework to interrupt the self-comparison spiral. Together, we get radically real on body image, self-sabotage, social media triggers, breaking generational cycles, and modeling self-love for our kids. If you’re desperate for practical steps to finally stop comparing and start thriving as the best version of YOU, this is your antidote. SHOWNOTES 00:01:25 – Melissa relives the brutal world of dance auditions and how constant comparison slowly chipped away her self-worth 00:04:04 – How disordered eating and depression can be a fallout of comparison (and Melissa’s journey to healing) 00:06:49 – The epidemic of body comparison in the age of social media—and why boundaries matter 00:12:24 – The ACES technique: Melissa’s four-step tool to reset your mindset in moments of comparison 00:18:04 – Melissa’s personal story of infertility, supporting friends, and the power of “eliminating the trigger” 00:29:47 – Radical communication: How to honor where you are without letting shame destroy relationships 00:41:14 – The danger of numbing and self-sabotage as ways to avoid difficult emotions 00:44:54 – How to reframe your self-talk and break free from childhood comparison stories 00:48:32 – The final step: Shifting your state and anchoring your energy in self-worth 00:54:34 – Where to find the “antidote” to comparisonitis and keep healing with Melissa FOLLOW MELISSA AMBROSINI:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melissaambrosiniWebsite (books, meditations, podcast): https://melissaambrosini.comPodcast: The Melissa Ambrosini ShowComparisonitis Book: https://melissaambrosini.com/comparisonitis FOLLOW LINDSEY STIRLING: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindseystirling/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LindseyStirling Website: https://www.lindseystirling.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 14 July 2025
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: November 16, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, you're in for a mind-blowing episode with the incredible, resilient, and ever-inspiring Lindsey Stirling! If you've ever felt crushed by life's adversities or worried that you're not good enough, then this episode is for you. Lindsey, the sensational dancing violinist, opens up about being told she wasn't good enough on national television, and how she overcame that crushing moment to become the powerhouse she is today. She's also getting real with us about her struggles with anorexia and mental health and shares her journey to self-love and healing. Ladies, we're diving deep into not just picking ourselves back up but totally owning our stories. Lindsey is here with some amazing nuggets on resilience, handling criticism, and finding the strength to be your true self. So grab that notebook and pen because Lindsey Stirling is about to drop some serious wisdom on how to own your life and your impact. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Rising Above: Lindsey Stirling's Triumph 05:31 Journey to Mastery 14:28 Embracing the Impossible 20:51 Silent Struggle with Self-Hate 23:44 Obsessive Thoughts About Eating 27:23 The Illusion of Weight and Happiness 32:54 Rewiring Self-Perception 38:12 "Finding Strength in a North Star" 48:25 The Dual Power of Gratitude 49:18 Balancing Gratitude with Ambition 59:39 Recognizing and Overcoming Abuse 01:03:24 Realization and Breakup After Show 01:07:32 Unique Christmas Album Takes on Classics 01:11:17 "Angels Inspire and Guide Me" FOLLOW LINDSEY STIRLING: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lindseystirling/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/LindseyStirling Website: https://www.lindseystirling.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ****************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ****************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 13 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. I’m diving deep with licensed therapist and boundary-building powerhouse Nedra Glover Tawwab to break down the sneaky, destructive patterns of gaslighting and how you can take your power back. If you’ve ever questioned your own sanity, found yourself apologizing when it’s not your fault, or felt stuck replaying “should have said” conversations in your head—this is the episode you can’t afford to miss. With Nedra’s signature clarity, honesty, and actionable advice, we cover how to spot manipulation in real time, the critical difference between assertiveness and aggression, the core role childhood plays in our conflict style, and—most importantly—how to cultivate the unshakeable confidence to set boundaries and reclaim your peace. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – The subtle signs of gaslighting and how to spot manipulative behaviors early 00:53 – Building the confidence to stand up for yourself in toxic relationships 02:12 – Why questioning your own sanity may signal gaslighting—and how to reality-check yourself 05:23 – The hidden cost of always apologizing (even when it’s not your fault) 07:35 – Classic gaslighting tactics: Deflection, lack of apology, and rewriting history 10:47 – The danger of taking on all the blame: Patterns, self-betrayal, and breaking the cycle 14:59 – How Nedra found the courage to finally stop apologizing for things that weren’t hers 19:54 – Nedra’s “practice makes progress” approach to building assertiveness 23:27 – Assertive vs. aggressive: How to stand up for yourself without crossing the line (and what to do when you’re unfairly labeled) 27:58 – Breaking free from people-pleasing: Owning your preferences and ditching the need to “win” every fight FOLLOW NEDRA GLOVER TAWWAB: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nedratawab/ Website: https://www.nedratawab.com/ Book: Set Boundaries, Find Peace: https://www.nedratawab.com/set-boundaries-find-peace CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 11 July 2025
In Part 2 of our deep-dive conversation with Dr. Thema Bryant, Lisa Bilyeu continues to explore the essential steps to healing your heart and elevating your sense of self. This episode addresses the complexities of forgiveness—untangling it from forced reconciliation and explaining why wisdom and boundaries are vital in protecting your peace. Dr. Thema also gives actionable advice on how to navigate toxic family dynamics, overcome self-blame, and practice self-compassion. Shifting gears, the discussion heads into the world of dating after heartbreak, with Dr. Thema outlining not just the “red flags,” but—importantly—the “green lights” that indicate healthy, fulfilling relationships. From emotional safety, vulnerability, and self-awareness to fun, balance, and mutual support, she details the traits to seek in both yourself and others for thriving love. The episode wraps with practical tips from Dr. Thema’s book on building authentic connection, loving yourself first, and setting up your life for sustainable joy—no matter where you are in your healing journey. SHOWNOTES 22:05 How society pressures victims, not offenders, about forgiveness 23:55 Why victim-blaming silences survivors 25:19 Navigating fear, guilt, and “forced forgiveness” with parents and partners 28:10 Redefining your role in your family of origin 30:20 How to forgive yourself and practice self-compassion 33:06 Self-sabotage: carrying survival strategies into new seasons 34:59 How awkward and uncomfortable healing can feel 36:11 Venturing into dating: Red flags vs. green lights 36:26 The 15 green light traits for healthy relationships 39:24 Do political and core beliefs matter in compatibility? 41:24 Navigating vulnerability—being open without manipulation 45:06 Physical and emotional safety as the foundation of intimacy 48:26 Time, investment, and sustaining connection 51:27 Balancing independence and togetherness 54:06 Spotting when a partner is undermining your shine 56:57 Negotiating happiness and when "hard work" is the wrong kind 59:12 Tactical steps to "upgrade your love life": Daily self-love, nature, boundaries, creativity, affirmation, routines, and more 1:04:25 Where to find Dr. Thema Bryant and resources for deeper healing FOLLOW DR. THEMA BRYANT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.thema/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.thema Website: https://www.drtaymabryant.com Podcast: The Homecoming Podcast CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 10 July 2025
In this powerful episode of Women of Impact, Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the trailblazing psychologist, author, and current President of the American Psychological Association, Dr. Thema Bryant. Renowned for her expertise in trauma recovery and healing, Dr. Thema joins Lisa to dive into the realities of heartbreak, betrayal, and emotional pain—and, most importantly, how to begin rebuilding your sense of self after it all feels shattered. Dr. Thema unpacks why recognizing and accepting our pain is the first step toward genuine healing, dismantling the lies we’ve been told about ourselves, and stepping out of shame and denial. From discussing the damaging waiting game for an apology, to offering insights from narrative therapy, she guides listeners to reclaim agency in their lives and shift their internal narratives. If you’ve struggled with toxic hope, anger, or the burden of forgiveness, this episode is packed with essential truths to help you break free. SHOWNOTES 00:00 What to do when your heart is broken 00:32 The importance of admitting you're hurting 01:32 The danger of denial and how it feeds shame 02:32 Healing and the ripple effect on your relationships 03:11 Surrounding yourself with the right people 03:29 Why waiting for an apology keeps you stuck 04:41 Restorying your life through narrative therapy 05:46 Moving from “why” to “what now” 06:17 Dismantling core negative beliefs 07:11 How to detect the lies you’ve absorbed 08:31 The “hope as handcuffs” trap 09:26 Differentiating between joint and solo hope in relationships 10:45 Recognizing empty words vs. changed behavior 11:47 The double-edged sword of anger and revenge 12:22 Constructive vs. destructive anger 13:49 Breaking the revenge spiral and centering yourself 16:06 Real-world examples of holding on to old wounds 17:05 External messages and body image: it's not all your fault 18:30 Forgiveness redefined: forgetting, speed, and reconciliation FOLLOW DR. THEMA BRYANT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.thema/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr.thema Website: https://www.drtaymabryant.com Podcast: The Homecoming Podcast CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 9 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. I’m sitting down again with the incredible Dr. Nicole LePera—The Holistic Psychologist—for a radically honest conversation about self-sabotage, self-betrayal, and how our subconscious habits keep us stuck for YEARS if we don’t wake up and intervene. Dr. Nicole doesn’t just break down the science; she offers the practical tools and tiny first steps you need to start making change, even if you’ve failed a thousand times before. With her signature compassion and “no more hiding” approach, Nicole shows us how overthinking, meaningless routines, and people-pleasing quietly sabotage our dreams. But, most importantly, she gives you a roadmap out. It’s time to reconnect to that inner voice, build unstoppable self-trust, and finally become the hero of your own life—no matter your history. SHOWNOTES 00:01 – What self-sabotage REALLY is and why “overthinking” betrays your inner wisdom 00:11 – Where self-betrayal comes from: The subconscious’s addiction to the familiar 00:27 – Creating space from your thoughts: Why you don’t need to “think less,” just think differently 00:41 – The daily “small promises” that actually break the cycle of self-defeat 00:55 – Overwhelm and emotional safety: How to start healing without retraumatizing yourself 01:15 – Self-sabotage vs. self-betrayal: How ignoring your needs ends up running your entire life 01:29 – Building ongoing self-awareness and spotting your own “tells” 01:52 – Navigating relationships as your needs (and self) evolve—and why communication is everything 02:15 – Meaning as your anchor: How reconnecting with purpose pulls you out of any spiral 02:36 – Why you’re not “broken,” and how tiny acts of self-trust change everything FOLLOW DR. NICOLE LEPERA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist/ Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ Book: How to Do the Work Join the SelfHealers Community: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/selfhealers-circle/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 8 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. From growing up in a world where women were told to disappear and serve—and taught their worth was only found in silence and subservience—to writing a book called Brazen and stepping into the world as an empowered entrepreneur, Julia Haart’s story is one of radical transformation, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of freedom. In this episode, I sit down with Julia to uncover how she faced—and still faces—the deeply ingrained fears and shame of her upbringing, how she redefined her worth, and her honest truth that confidence isn’t the absence of fear, but having the courage to act anyway. With raw stories, stubborn hope, and practical wisdom, Julia lays out how to break free from limiting beliefs, rewrite your narrative, and boldly claim your own power—even when every part of you wants to retreat to the background. SHOWNOTES Growing up trained to disappear: why invisibility was the measure of a “good” woman (00:00:00) The spiritual “high” of self-negation—and its hidden costs (00:04:21) Confronting core beliefs: discovering your cage is made of thoughts, not steel (00:08:13) Small rebellions that matter: fighting back by refusing to be uncomfortable for someone else’s rules (00:17:25) Surviving the impossible: why Julia didn’t give up—thanks to her daughter’s courage (00:21:15) The lifelong process of “deprogramming” and how even Julia still catches herself people-pleasing (00:34:17) Forgiveness, patience, and living as a work in progress—letting go of shame bit by bit (00:38:17) Taking bold leaps while still feeling fear: what it really means to be “brazen” and how to attack new opportunities (00:43:14) Why being a lifelong learner is non-negotiable for growth and reinvention (00:46:39) Final lessons: why your only fence is in your mind, and it’s time to break free (00:30:02, referenced later in conversation) FOLLOW JULIA HAART: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliahaart Book: Brazen, available at major booksellers including Barnes & Noble TV show: My Unorthodox Life on Netflix CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 7 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. When life knocks you down—how do you get back up? In this episode, I'm joined by Rachel Hollis, whose name is synonymous with resilience. We dig deep into everything it really takes to rise stronger from heartbreak, setbacks, and the toughest chapters of our lives. Rachel gets real about her own journey—surviving a tumultuous childhood, tragedies, business failures, divorce, and the public eye. More importantly, she lays out the exact steps that helped her build an unbreakable sense of strength, self-trust, and the courage to evolve—again and again. Whether you’ve lost faith in yourself, are battling negative self-talk, or wonder if you’ll ever feel whole again, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom, vulnerable stories, and the unapologetic truth every woman needs to hear to keep showing up and become the hero of her own life. SHOWNOTES 0:00 – Why building resilience is the ultimate superpower for women 3:16 – How looking back at your own history can unlock your strength 7:24 – The price of not processing pain, shame, or mistakes 11:10 – Getting up for others vs. healing for yourself: breaking the codependency cycle 17:38 – Rachel’s secret: Evolution as her core value, and how it fuels resilience 26:51 – Learning to trust your gut after it’s been broken, and training self-intuition 52:03 – The powerful impact of emotional eating and how to break the shame cycle 1:23:35 – When brain fog and hormone imbalances cripple our self-worth 1:46:46 – Why understanding your cycle isn’t optional—it’s your 5th vital sign 1:52:13 – The key to real resilience: Knowing, loving, and rooting for yourself—one step at a time FOLLOW RACHEL HOLLIS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msrachelhollis/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/msrachelhollis Website: https://thehollisco.com/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rachel-hollis-podcast/id1245763628 CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 6 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. You think you can spot a lie? Think again. In this episode, I’m joined by the incredible Vanessa Van Edwards—body language and human behavior expert, and founder of Science of People. Vanessa lays out the five fundamental cues to help you spot deception, debunks what you think you know about liars, and walks us through real-life tactics to not only detect lies, but to make sure we come across as our most honest and confident selves. From the science behind morning honesty and the power of congruence, to the difference between nervousness and deception, get ready for tangible, game-changing habits you can use right away. Grab your notebook, this is one you’ll keep coming back to. SHOWNOTES The shocking statistics: Why we misdetect lies 46% of the time 00:02:05 – The "Morning Morality Effect": Why morning is the best time for honesty 00:04:20 – The Pollyanna Principle: How assuming the best actually makes you a sharper liespotter 00:05:24 – Congruence: The number one cue liars can't fake 00:12:07 – Baselining and nervous baselining: How to set a “truth benchmark” for everyone you meet 00:19:15 – Red flags: 30+ behavioral clues that signal deception 00:28:08 – Why a single cue isn’t enough—look for clusters of three in body language 00:29:59 – Circling back and confirmation questions: Tactics to get to the truth with grace 00:41:05 – Laying out “truth rules” in relationships and how to create honest communication 00:47:31 – Shame touches and lip purses: Nonverbal cues that reveal discomfort, embarrassment, or withheld truth FOLLOW VANESSA VAN EDWARDS:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwardsTwitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwardsWebsite: https://www.scienceofpeople.comBook: Cues by Vanessa Van Edwards (Amazon)Lie Detection Course: https://www.scienceofpeople.com Ready to become your own lie detector? Listen in and start spotting the truth—everywhere. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 4 July 2025
Continuing the masterclass on confident communication, Part 2 of Lisa Bilyeu’s transformative interview with Kwame Christian dives even deeper into the actionable side of navigating life’s toughest conversations. This half is your tactical toolkit for boundary-setting, breaking free from people-pleasing, and leveling up your negotiation skills—both with others and with yourself. Kwame and Lisa walk through the overlooked power of having a conversation “about the conversation”—from inviting others into dialogue with respect for timing, to tackling the tricky dynamics of dueling truths and differing upbringings. You’ll discover how to pivot conflicts into cooperative journeys, decode body language for deeper understanding, and master the art of healthy detachment in the face of disrespect. Plus, Kwame reveals the core negotiation issue most women face (and how to finally advocate for what you truly want), the script for when someone refuses to listen, and the surprising power of indifference. Insightful, practical, and empowering, this episode leaves you ready to be the hero of your own life—no matter who’s on the other side of the table. SHOWNOTES32:41 Moving From Blame to Collaboration: Real-Life Relationship Examples40:43 Negotiating Your True Wants vs. Society’s Expectations46:11 Negotiating with Your Own & Others’ Inner Toddlers52:00 The Two Worlds: Internal State vs. What You Say1:12:16 Lessons in Self-Respect and the Power of Indifference FOLLOW KWAME CHRISTIAN:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kwamechristian/Twitter: https://twitter.com/Kwame_ChristianPodcast: Negotiate AnythingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristianWebsite: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 3 July 2025
Lisa Bilyeu is joined by two powerhouse guests: Dr. Ann Burgess, a pioneering criminal profiler who helped shape the way the FBI tracks predators, and renowned attorney Karen Conti, whose experience spans defending some of the most infamous criminal minds. Together, they unravel the verdict in the highly controversial Sean “Diddy” Combs trial, where Diddy was found not guilty on three out of five serious charges, including sex trafficking—leaving many questioning whether justice was truly served or if power protected the powerful once again. Lisa, Dr. Ann, and Karen dive deep into what happened in the courtroom, shedding light on the complicated realities of coercion, consent, and the manipulation so often at play in cases involving abusive power dynamics. They discuss how the defense’s strategies, jury demographics, and society’s collective misunderstandings about coercive control may have influenced the outcome, and what needs to change to better support survivors and educate the public—especially juries—about these forms of abuse. Despite the heartbreak over not-guilty verdicts, the episode also highlights the significance of the guilty charges and the bravery of women like Cassie and “Jane” who came forward, risking everything to break the silence. This conversation is a call to action: to keep learning, to keep supporting survivors, and to make sure this isn’t a story that repeats itself. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Understanding Jurors' Perception Challenges 07:14 Unusual Leadership Dynamics Analyzed 13:25 Jane's Case: Legal vs. Illegal 21:22 "Yes People Enable Abusers" 33:35 "Psychology and Testimony Analysis" 44:00 "Championing Survivors' Voices" CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 3 July 2025
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with acclaimed negotiation expert and bestselling author Kwame Christian to unravel the secrets of navigating emotionally charged conversations with confidence and clarity. Whether it’s setting boundaries with your partner, responding calmly to dismissal at work, or standing firm when you’re accused of being selfish, Kwame brings concrete tools and science-backed strategies to the table for every woman who’s ever wished she could “say the right thing” in difficult moments. Kwame and Lisa dissect how the real challenge in tough conversations often begins long before a word is spoken, revealing the transformative framework of “compassionate curiosity.” Together, they explore how to name your emotions to regain your composure, why lowering your expectations of others can be a superpower, and the art of pausing at critical moments to shift the entire direction of a conversation. Whether you struggle with people-pleasing, boundary-setting, emotional floods, or gaslighting—this episode will give you a playbook you’ll revisit again and again. SHOWNOTES01:12 Naming Your Feelings: Compassionate Curiosity Explained01:58 The Science of Emotional Flooding05:38 The Power of Emotional Preparation12:32 Recognizing Manipulation & Keeping Your Power18:17 The Exact Template for Boundary Conversations21:37 “Turning the Titanic” and Letting Others Arrive at Truth26:32 Divorce the Outcome, Marry the Process FOLLOW KWAME CHRISTIAN:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kwamechristian/Twitter: https://twitter.com/Kwame_ChristianPodcast: Negotiate AnythingLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristianWebsite: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 2 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Taking back control over your mind, and ultimately your life, starts with understanding just how powerful your thoughts really are. In this episode, I sit down with the legendary Marisa Peer—therapist, author, and creator of Rapid Transformational Therapy—to unpack the roots of negative self-talk, why so many of us default to self-criticism, and the three core needs that shape our confidence, purpose, and relationships. Marisa doesn’t just deliver theory—she gives practical language shifts, transformative childhood insights, and actionable strategies for catching, questioning, and rewriting the beliefs that hold women back. Truth: If you’ve ever struggled with feeling “not enough,” procrastination, anxiety, or toxic relationship patterns, this is your blueprint for breaking the cycle and creating a new, empowered story. SHOWNOTES How thoughts—not feelings—lay the foundation for your actions and life outcomes 00:03:47 – Why your words literally shape your reality (and body!) 00:08:38 – Understanding our hardwired pull toward the familiar—and how to make self-love natural 00:11:36 – The three essential needs every child (and adult) must fulfill: love, significance, purpose 00:26:30 – How to withstand negativity from others and train your brain to protect its own peace 00:28:52 – Procrastination decoded: Why we fear rejection and how to break free 00:35:21 – Using language to empower children (and yourself) through any crisis 00:54:08 – Discovering the “what lies beneath” method to tackle self-sabotage at its root 01:04:13 – The power of words: Why “retreat” serves you better than “lockdown” 01:11:43 – A real-life exercise: Changing the narrative in your mind and watching your reality shift FOLLOW MARISA PEER:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marisapeertherapy/Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarisaPeerWebsite: https://marisapeer.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 1 July 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Faith Jenkins—celebrated attorney, former Manhattan prosecutor, and current host of Divorce Court and Killer Relationships—joins me for one of the most powerful conversations we’ve ever had about love, relationships, and why so many seemingly solid unions unravel. Faith lays it all out: the hidden issues from our past that quietly sabotage our relationships, the role of resentment and unspoken expectations, and how the external pressure to “just pick someone” can land you in heartache—or worse. With deep candor about her own 20-year journey as a single woman, Faith reveals the self-work, boundaries, and radical honesty required to not only find love but to build a relationship that actually lasts. From the dangers of settling to the critical importance of therapy and emotional maturity, Faith shares the blueprint behind her new book, Sis, Don’t Settle. This episode is a masterclass in learning to love yourself first, embrace rejection without losing your self-worth, and choosing a partner who adds to your happiness instead of completing it. If you want to break cycles of heartbreak and step boldly into lasting, authentic love, this is the conversation you’ve been waiting for. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – You can be the total package at the wrong address: Why singleness isn’t a defect 01:16 – The real roots of breakups and divorce: People don’t have relationship problems, they bring personal problems into relationships 05:50 – Bringing happiness to your ever after: Why you must own your own joy before seeking a partner 08:44 – The three choices in dating: Accept, reject kindly, or (don’t!) try to rebuild someone 11:53 – Resentment: The silent destroyer of love and how ignoring red flags leads to disaster 15:47 – The cost of staying too long: Why “choosing history over happiness” keeps you trapped 18:56 – Are you both committed to the same commitment? The (often unasked) question that saves relationships 24:45 – Faith’s journey to love after 40: Letting go of cynicism and writing her own “love manifesto” 36:48 – The danger zone: How external pressure and timelines push women to settle 46:17 – Doing your due diligence: Why Faith went to therapy before saying yes to forever FOLLOW FAITH JENKINS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/judgefaithjenkinsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/JudgeFaithJenkinsTwitter: https://twitter.com/FaithJenkinsEsq CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 30 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Health and wellness icon JJ Virgin joins me for a no-holds-barred conversation on the BIGGEST weight loss lies that have been holding us back for decades. We’re cutting straight through the BS—debunking the toxic myths around calories, hormones, belly fat, and what “healthy” actually means for women. JJ opens up about her own journey, the science that changed her thinking, and delivers detailed, actionable advice for reclaiming metabolic health in a world obsessed with the scale. If you have ever felt hopeless staring at the number on the scale, confused by conflicting diet advice, or tired of being told it’s all “calories in, calories out”—this episode will empower you with the truth, the tools, and the science you need to finally take control of your health. Grab a notepad—this one’s packed! SHOWNOTES 00:00:00 — Why women MUST start prioritizing their health (and why our old beliefs are failing us) 00:03:06 — The lie about belly fat and “laziness”—what’s REALLY going on with women’s bodies 00:05:36 — Why “calories in, calories out” is total BS—and what actually drives weight loss and gain 00:09:32 — How scales can sabotage your self-worth, and what measurements actually matter 00:17:38 — Fasting, hormone cycles, and why most health studies ignore women’s real needs 00:29:05 — How much protein do women REALLY need? (Spoiler: It’s probably way more than you think) 00:32:38 — The #1 thing you may be sacrificing that’s making weight loss impossible: SLEEP 00:44:20 — JJ’s personal story: Challenging impossible odds, and the power of choosing your own belief system 01:03:38 — Genetics vs. lifestyle: The real reason our health has changed (hint: It’s NOT your DNA) 01:24:49 — Why self-worth—and putting ourselves first—is the ultimate key to a healthy life FOLLOW JJ VIRGIN: Website: https://jjvirgin.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jj.virgin/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/jjvirgin Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JJVirginOfficial/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JJVirginAllAccess For more Women of Impact episodes on health, click the bell so you don’t miss the next conversation that could change your life. Be the hero of your own story—start with your health! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co SleepMe: Visit https://sleep.me/woi to get your Chilipad and save 20% with code WOI. Try it risk-free with their 30-night sleep trial and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 29 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. From the very start of this conversation, I was fired up! I brought Dr. Aviva Romm on Women of Impact—an M.D., midwife, herbalist, and author of Hormone Intelligence—to unravel the web of confusion and shame that keeps so many women feeling powerless about their hormones, periods, and health. Aviva exposes the damaging myths we’re taught, reveals how our cycles impact everything from our confidence to our career momentum, and—let me tell you—it’s not about “just suffering” through being a woman. Get ready to find out the best times in your cycle for asking for a raise, why you may want to hide your credit card before your period, and how you can start tracking your unique “normal” so you feel confident, not crazy. Aviva and I dive deep, get super tactical, and, real talk, help you reclaim your power—because knowledge is, truly, power. SHOWNOTES The truth about what’s “normal” vs. what’s common when it comes to women’s hormones and periods How environmental factors—including antibiotics and toxins—affect your hormonal health from childhood Why feeling moody, suffering, or being “out of control” isn’t actually normal for women The life-changing impact of tracking your cycle for confidence, career moves, and emotional well-being Planning your life around your menstrual cycle: confidence highs, energy peaks, and when to avoid shopping sprees How gut health, food choices, and the microbiome influence mood, hormones, and overall vitality The critical link between self-blame, misdiagnosis, and delayed treatment for issues like endometriosis Dispelling myths around birth control: what your doctor probably never told you about side effects How to nurture a positive relationship with your body, pleasure, and sexual desire through each hormone phase Turning lifestyle changes—not quick fixes—into real, lasting hormonal balance and personal empowerment FOLLOW DR. AVIVA ROMM:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.avivarommWebsite: https://avivaromm.comHormone Intelligence book & bonuses: https://avivaromm.com/book CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2025
Welcome back to Part 2 of our transformative conversation with April Mason on "Women of Impact." In this half, Lisa and April dive into the essential traits every woman needs to master her self-worth, set boundaries, and stop settling for less—from respecting your own time to building individuality, authenticity, and uncompromising standards in relationships. April breaks down her 24 core traits for feminine self-mastery, illustrating how deep self-respect not only influences the dating world but ripples out into parenting, career, and personal fulfillment. April unpacks the often-overlooked superpowers of sensitivity, warmth, and charisma, guiding listeners to reconnect with their bodies and heal deep-rooted trauma. There’s an honest look at the struggle of putting your own name on the "building," literally and figuratively, and the ongoing work that real change requires. April and Lisa share actionable ideas for cultivating self-ownership and internal validation, putting the power back in your own hands for love, business, and life itself. If you’re ready to take practical steps toward your next level, this is your blueprint. SHOWNOTES 24:05 April’s 3-Step Approach to Triggers (Recap) 28:14 Respect: The #1 Trait and Why Women Struggle to Own It 29:33 Respecting Your Own Time, Commitments, and Boundaries 34:01 Individuality as the Root of Confidence and Relationship Success 35:23 Why Women Lose Their Uniqueness and How to Reclaim It 37:05 Navigating Criticism, People-Pleasing, and Staying True to Yourself 40:02 The “Dripping Effect”: Why Early Red Flags Escalate Over Time 41:53 How to Cultivate a ‘Husband-Quality’ Pool—and Weed Out the Wrong Ones 43:32 The Four Pillars of Womanhood: Femininity, Spirituality, Sensuality, Wisdom 44:03 The Power and Purpose of Sensitivity (Not Unbotheredness) 46:44 Recognizing and Healing Nervous System Trauma 47:27 Daily Self-Check-Ins for Emotional Awareness 47:47 The Value of Charisma and Why Women Need It 48:43 April’s Story: Putting Her Name on the Building and Overcoming Fear 54:01 The Ongoing Work of Healing and Self-Ownership 59:32 Compassion, Boundaries, and Avoiding Over-Giving 1:00:41 Where to Learn More: All Things Feminine Social Club FOLLOW APRIL MASON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealaprilmason/ Website: https://allthingsfeminine.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 26 June 2025
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with April Mason—femininity coach, relationship strategist, and founder of the All Things Feminine Social Club—to dig deep into the art of commanding respect without losing your cool or sacrificing your dignity. April brings two decades of experience helping women and men transform their approach to love, self-worth, and personal agency. In this first half, April shares practical strategies for navigating relationship challenges, outlining how women can tune into their bodies, avoid fruitless arguments, and make empowered decisions about alignment in love and life. Lisa and April pull back the curtain on April’s personal journey from self-described “man eater” to a woman comfortable in her own skin, weaving tales of hard-won lessons and transformation. April explains the importance of distinguishing between intuition and fear, how to spot red flags (and why so many of us are drawn to them), and the critical first steps women must take to get out of the pattern of negotiating their self-worth. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Commanding Respect Without Losing Your Cool 00:48 Healing, Nervous System, and Knowing When to Step Back 02:39 Why April Never Has “The Talk” About Relationships 03:53 How Men Show Their Intentions—And Why You Shouldn’t Have to Ask 05:28 Subtle Techniques for Effective Communication with Men 07:13 Why April Stopped Working Primarily with Women 10:11 From “Man Eater” to Authenticity: April’s Journey 13:29 Why Women Don’t Ask for What They Want (April’s “Steps Story”) 14:44 Chivalry and the Power of Asking for Help 14:51 Navigating Fear vs. Intuition in Relationships 16:36 The Appeal of Emotionally Unavailable Men—And How to Grow Beyond It 18:55 Recognizing Red and Green Flags (and How Inner Work Changes Your Choices) 23:21 How Childhood Wounds Get Triggered in Dating 23:29 April’s 3-Step Trigger Response Model: Assess, Accept, Decide FOLLOW APRIL MASON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealaprilmason/ Website: https://allthingsfeminine.com CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 25 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Ever felt like setting boundaries is just too damn hard? I hear you, and honestly, you’re not alone! So many of us women struggle to stand our ground—then end up feeling resentful, invisible, or straight-up used. That’s why I sat down with legendary psychotherapist and “Boundary Boss” Terri Cole to break down exactly why we freeze, people-please, and self-abandon—and, most importantly, how to stop. Terri gets brutally honest about the root causes of poor boundaries, from family expectations to people-pleasing patterns, and gives us the roadmap for becoming our own damn advocates. With real talk, tactical steps, and compassion for every woman still learning to use her voice, Terri reveals the warning signs of weak boundaries (they’re not what you think!), the power of resentment as your wake-up call, and scripts for even the most awkward family encounters—hello, narcissistic mothers and nosy Aunt Betty! Get ready to ditch guilt, drop the drama, and start setting limits that honor YOU. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – Why boundary setting triggers insecurity, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment 02:29 – Resentment as a red flag: How to spot disordered boundaries in your life 06:44 – Taking responsibility for your “50%” and the art of clear, proactive communication 14:18 – Childhood conditioning, people-pleasing, and the roots of boundary struggles 36:28 – High-functioning codependency: Why “superwomen” still give too much 51:28 – Suppressed anger, the power of naming your feelings, and setting stronger boundaries 1:09:06 – Scripts for handling invasive relatives & rude questions at family gatherings 1:19:33 – Narcissistic mothers: Signs, hard limits, and how to protect your energy 1:28:44 – Relationship boundaries: From stating your needs to enforcing consequences and non-negotiables 1:29:43 – Making boundaries a language—why practice and self-compassion change everything FOLLOW TERRI COLE: Instagram: https://instagram.com/terricole Website: https://www.terricole.com Book: https://boundarybossbook.com Ready to become a BOUNDARY BOSS? Let’s go! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 24 June 2025
today we take a deep dive into the darkest allegations surrounding Sean "Diddy" Combs, as the prosecution nears its end. I’m joined by criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards and Sarah Edmondson—whose experiences inside NXIVM give us absolutely raw, firsthand insight into coercive control, manipulation, and survival. Together, we break down the blueprint of racketeering, sex trafficking, forced labor, and how abusers weaponize power—all while tackling the media’s misunderstandings and society’s persistent victim-blaming. With chilling real-life parallels, behind-the-scenes analysis, vulnerable personal stories, and a critical look at high-profile defense tactics, this is a must-listen for anyone ready to fully understand the stakes of this groundbreaking case—and why real accountability matters. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – Chilling opening allegations, the gravity of the charges, and introducing guests Laura Richards and Sarah Edmondson 00:44 – Explaining RICO, racketeering, and the eight predicate offenses central to the Diddy case 02:18 – Sarah Edmondson’s NXIVM experience: how coercive control takes root and how grooming happens 05:32 – The danger of female “lieutenants” in criminal enterprises and why women don’t guarantee safety 10:58 – Media bias, victim-blaming, and breaking down Bill Maher’s controversial take on Cassie’s testimony 20:31 – Why text messages can’t prove consent when coercion is in play—and what people misunderstand about leaving abuse 28:26 – The eight predicate offenses unpacked: sex trafficking, bribery, forced labor, witness tampering, transportation, kidnapping, arson, and drug distribution 33:24 – Why “consensual” participation doesn’t always equal true consent under the law 40:55 – The everyday terror women face, why so many “good men” still miss the point, and the urgent need for education 48:26 – Has the prosecution proven its case? Laura Richards gives her breakdown offense by offense 50:37 – Where to connect with Laura, Sarah, and deep-dive further into criminal analysis and healing FOLLOW LAURA RICHARDS: Podcast: Crime Analyst Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/crimeanalyst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/crimeanalyst/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@crimeanalyst YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@crimeanalyst FOLLOW SARAH EDMONDSON: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahedmondson/ Website: https://www.sarahedmondson.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 23 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. From housewife to building a billion-dollar business and now empowering women everywhere, I’m Lisa Bilyeu—and I know firsthand how powerfully our beliefs about beauty, worth, and confidence shape every part of our lives. In this deeply inspiring episode of Women of Impact, I sit down with my dear friend and extraordinary boudoir photographer Lindsey Hahn. After walking away from the glitzy Hollywood photography scene, Lindsey dedicated her career to helping real women unearth their confidence, see their own beauty, and truly embrace self-love—inside and out. We dig into what’s really behind the images that make women feel powerful, why only 4% of women consider themselves beautiful, and how you can transform your mindset, your self-talk, and even your own scars into the foundation of unshakable self-worth. This episode is packed with practical tips, raw stories, and permission to finally see yourself—flaws and all—with new eyes. SHOWNOTES From glam celebrity shoots to soul-centered photography: Lindsey’s journey to purpose (00:00:38) Why Lindsey walked away from a “dream job” that felt hollow inside (00:01:33) Real stories behind boudoir: How intention and vulnerability unlock transformation (00:06:32) Only 4% of women feel beautiful—what Lindsey does to change that stat for her clients (00:06:03) Power poses, self-talk, and the “mirror effect”: Psychology behind feeling beautiful (00:08:41) Healing after trauma: How photography, affirmations, and safe spaces build self-esteem (00:15:12) Lindsey’s experience with scars, health crises, and why she now sees them as her strength (00:20:23) Motherhood and body image: How Lindsey plans to teach her daughter self-love (00:25:07) The radical impact of seeing yourself through new eyes—and the daily rituals that help (00:28:10) Lindsey’s soon-to-launch women’s retreats: Combining mindfulness, movement, and photography for total transformation (00:31:28) FOLLOW LINDSEY HAHN: Website: https://lindseyhahn.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/lindseyhahnphoto Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 22 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Lori Gottlieb just brought her absolutely game-changing wisdom to Women of Impact, and trust me, this is one you don’t want to miss. We dove deep into why you’re not as “stuck” as you think, how your old stories are shaping your current reality, and the really wild truth about what it actually takes to change (spoiler: it’s not “just knowing” better!). Lori gets radically honest about pain, envy, self-sabotage, and even how to love well. She shares her own breakthroughs as both therapist and client, and lays out tangible hacks to rewrite your life story—one real, imperfect step at a time. Get cozy, get ready—and get real with yourself—as we unpack the tools for authentic transformation, genuine connection, and the habits that will finally help you step more fully into your power. SHOWNOTES Why you must give up the hope of having had a better childhood to move forward Unreliable narrators: How your perspective can trap you in a limited life story Feeling vs. knowing: Why insight alone won’t change your life Idiot compassion vs. wise compassion: How to actually support yourself and others The uncomfortable truth about change—and why losing the familiar is so hard Pain vs. suffering: How we create unnecessary suffering and what to do instead Why following your envy is the secret to unlocking your true desires Breaking free from “comparison traps” and focusing on your own growth One small step at a time: The real path to transformation and purpose How to stop repeating unhealthy relationship patterns and finally experience true connection FOLLOW LORI GOTTLIEB:Website: https://lorigottlieb.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lorigottlieb_authorTwitter: https://twitter.com/LoriGottlieb1Listen to Lori’s Podcast, “Dear Therapists”: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/1119-dear-therapists-68511527/Read her Dear Therapist Column (The Atlantic): https://www.theatlantic.com/author/lori-gottlieb/TED Talk: https://www.ted.com/speakers/lori_gottlieb CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 20 June 2025
After laying a powerful foundation in Part 1, Lisa and Charles now take the conversation deeper into mastering practical, emotional, and social types of dialogue—skills crucial for creating healthy, thriving relationships both at home and at work. Charles shares essential strategies for recognizing the type of conversation you’re in, matching your partner’s emotional state, setting boundaries, and knowing when to walk away for your own wellbeing. This segment covers tools for expressing your needs, handling toxic or manipulative patterns (like “kitchen sinking” or being steamrolled), and how to foster genuine connection—even during disagreements. Charles and Lisa discuss nonverbal cues, the role of humor and laughter in building bonds, the neuroscience of emotional synchronization, and how to invite deeper conversation through “deep questions.” SHOWNOTES26:46 Emotional Conversations—The Power of Self-Awareness36:38 When Someone Won’t Communicate: Knowing When to Walk Away42:05 Social Conversations: Acknowledgement and Belonging52:09 Synchronization: Neuroscience of Connected Conversation65:32 When You’re Furious, Get Curious: Transforming Conflict with Questions FOLLOW CHARLES DUHIGG:Website: https://charlesduhigg.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/cduhiggInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlesduhiggLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlesduhigg/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 19 June 2025
Lisa Bilyeu sits down with Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist and best-selling author Charles Duhigg, known for "The Power of Habit" and his latest book, "Super Communicators." Charles joins Lisa to unpack the art of high-stakes communication—especially for women who face belittling, dismissive, or outright toxic interactions. Drawing from expert research and practical tools, Charles equips listeners with real-world strategies to confidently respond to disrespect, set boundaries, and reclaim their conversational power. Lisa and Charles dissect scenarios every woman has faced: being dismissed with demeaning remarks or told to “smile more.” They break down the nuances between well-intended but clumsy comments and those intended to hurt, and dive into how to respond with strength and grace in both cases. SHOWNOTES01:03 The Two Types of Offenders: Ignorance vs. Malice10:09 The Three H’s: Helped, Hugged, or Heard17:21 Vulnerability as Strength in Conversation24:55 The Three Types of Conversations: Practical, Emotional, Social FOLLOW CHARLES DUHIGG:Website: https://charlesduhigg.comTwitter: https://twitter.com/cduhiggInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlesduhiggLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/charlesduhigg/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 18 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. On this episode, I’m joined by renowned relationship and sex expert, Dr. Laura Berman, to get to the heart of what drives attraction, love, and desire. Dr. Laura sheds light on why those first-date butterflies may actually be your body’s warning signal—and how our old wounds and subconscious patterns sneak into our relationships. We go deep on navigating chemistry, uncovering our personal love maps, recognizing when trauma is running the show, and rewriting the scripts that keep us stuck. Dr. Laura brings her signature warmth, science-backed wisdom, and practical tools for building emotional and physical intimacy—from healing childhood wounds, to manifesting the partnership and feelings you truly desire, to reigniting passion in long-term love. Whether you’re just starting to date again or struggling inside a decades-long marriage, this conversation is packed with aha moments you won’t want to miss. SHOWNOTES The truth about “love at first sight” vs. “lust at first sight”—and why butterflies signal something deeper [00:02:03] How to tell the difference between chemistry, anxiety, and real connection Why we keep repeating unhealthy patterns—and how to break free from “repetition compulsion” [00:06:43] Practical tools for tuning into your body and listening to its wisdom on dates The basement of shame: How unhealed childhood wounds shape our relationships and attachment styles How to “invite your wounds to tea”—embracing self-compassion to heal past trauma [00:22:11] Manifesting love: Why how you want to feel matters more than ticking off boxes The sex/romance stalemate: Breaking down gender differences in intimacy and how to bridge the gap [00:48:35] Reclaiming your sexuality—why self-stimulation is key for women’s pleasure and empowerment Scheduling sex, stoking connection, and creating lasting intimacy in long-term relationships FOLLOW DR. LAURA BERMAN:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraberman/Website: https://drlauraberman.com/Podcast: The Language of Love—available on your favorite podcast platformsYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drlaurabermanTwitter: https://twitter.com/drlauraberman CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 17 June 2025
Ever found yourself questioning if what you’re experiencing in a relationship is love or something much, much darker? Maybe you’re stuck in that endless cycle—feeling cherished one moment, then manipulated, trapped, and isolated the next—wondering if the confusion, anxiety, and even shame are somehow your fault? Well homie, it’s time we tear that damn illusion to pieces. In this episode, we’re shining the brightest spotlight into the shadows with legendary criminal profiling expert Dr. Ann Burgess. As the Diddy trial takes an incredibly dark turn, Dr. Ann is back to break down the cycle of abuse heard in jaw-dropping detail through Jane’s testimony—so NO woman ever has to fall prey to these toxic patterns again. There’s a blueprint to how abusers operate, and it DOESN’T always show up as bruises. The cycle is sneaky: devotion turns to obsession, “love” is weaponized for control, and you’re left doubting your reality. But fam, we are DONE letting shame or manipulation keep us silent. We dig deep into: - The hidden signs of the cycle of abuse and how they can masquerade as love, devotion, or even gifts - Confidence-shattering tactics used by abusers—including humiliation, degrading “tests,” gaslighting, and manipulation - How financial control and dependency become another weapon to keep you trapped - Why those weird gut feelings and “something isn’t right” moments are your most powerful warning signals - What to do if you recognize yourself in Jane’s (or Cassie’s, or Mia’s) story—from crisis centers to finding your voice and support system - Crucial advice for breaking free: how to test back, regain leverage, and build the courage to leave AND, we’re joined by PopCrimeTV’s Lauren Conlin, host of Pop Crime TV—who’s been planted in the courtroom EVERY SINGLE DAY of the Diddy trial, witnessing history unfold. Lauren brings you the unfiltered, inside scoop on everything: - What it’s really like inside the packed federal courtroom (yes, paparazzi and Kanye West drama included!) - Exclusive updates and reactions straight from the courthouse—no sugarcoating, no spin, just truth - Her raw observations of Cassie, Mia, and Jane as they give their testimonies, and the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways Diddy responds to each survivor - The complex, emotional undercurrents affecting the jury—and what’s really happening when celebrity power comes face-to-face with justice for women If you or someone you know is experiencing Domestic Violence, help is available. Please call the DV Hotline at (800) 978-3600 for support and resources. Check out Dr. Ann Burgess’ books: Pre-order her upcoming book: Expert Witness: https://a.co/d/2BzlPIl Order her book that’s out now, A Killer by Design: https://a.co/d/doInYVB Follow Lauren Conlin: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@PopCrimeTV Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenemilyconlin/ Website: https://popcrime.tv/ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/laurenconlin Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 16 June 2025
You know that relentless, negative inner voice—the DJ spinning tracks on “Beat Yourself Up FM?” Yeah, I’ve got one, too. But what if I told you there’s a way to finally change that channel and replace it with compassion? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kristin Neff, a true pioneer in self-compassion research, who’s not only studied the science for years but has also used it to navigate her own life’s biggest challenges—including motherhood and her son’s autism diagnosis. Together, we break down why self-compassion is an absolute superpower, how it’s different from self-esteem, and the real-world (not fluffy!) ways you can start putting compassion into practice—especially when you’re going through hard times. Whether you fear that self-kindness is “selfish,” worry it’ll make you lazy, or struggle to silence your inner critic, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies and powerful re-frames you need to hear. SHOWNOTES Why our inner negative voice is so persistent—and how self-compassion can help us turn the volume down 02:53 – The difference between self-esteem and self-compassion (and why compassion is more reliable) 09:43 – Common myths about self-compassion: self-pity, selfishness, complacency, and more 10:43 – Moving from “woe is me” self-pity to true self-compassion through common humanity 13:40 – Why comparing your suffering (up or down) can actually backfire and how to find balance 17:56 – Why self-compassion isn’t selfish and how it actually helps you support others better 24:19 – The science behind self-soothing touch (and how to actually use it when it feels weird) 29:24 – Using second-person and terms of endearment when speaking to yourself: practical tips 39:59 – How fierce self-compassion (aka “Mama Bear” energy) leads to healthy boundaries and motivation 41:06 – Healing after abuse: what to do when self-compassion feels scary or triggers “backdraft” FOLLOW KRISTIN NEFF:Website: https://self-compassion.orgGuided meditations, practices, and research: https://self-compassion.org/category/exercisesTwitter: https://twitter.com/neffselfcompassFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/selfcompassionInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/Neffselfcompassion (For more resources, trainings, and to test your self-compassion, visit her website above.) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 15 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. On this episode of Women of Impact, I (Lisa Bilyeu) invite you to take a raw, real, and actionable journey into the core of self love, self discovery, and what it means to truly prioritize yourself. Joined by powerhouse women—including Mel Robbins and other inspiring voices—we strip back the pressure of “just love yourself” and dig deep into the practical tools, honest struggles, and daily habits it takes to actually build self-acceptance and confidence from the inside out. With unfiltered conversation, candid stories, and advice you can use today, we break down the difference between knowing who you are and loving who you are, tackling everything from the shame spiral to the importance of journaling, honoring your victories, and standing strong in your identity—no matter what life hands you. SHOWNOTES 00:00:00 – Defining self love: Treating yourself as well as you treat your most loved person 00:00:32 – How meditation and journaling spark self discovery and identity beyond others’ opinions 00:02:25 – The power of supportive relationships: Learning from partners who model self-acceptance 00:04:44 – Facing life’s punches: Developing resilience through setbacks, not just pep talks 00:09:49 – Journaling as self-creation: Practical exercises for connecting with your future self 00:13:04 – Why just “loving yourself” isn’t enough—and the liberating step of acceptance 00:17:01 – Discovering what truly fulfills you beyond roles, titles, or external validation 00:20:35 – Unpacking childhood wounds around worth, appearance, and identity—and the power of healing before the fall 00:22:44 – Redefining wealth and worth: Why fulfillment must go deeper than money or success 00:24:08 – Everyday self love in practice: The humblebrag challenge and rewiring your own narrative CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW MEL ROBBINS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/melrobbinsWebsite: https://melrobbins.com/ FOLLOW JAY SHETTY (Referenced in the episode): Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayshetty/ Website: https://jayshetty.me/ You’ll walk away with practical tools and the belief—you’ve got this, girl. Now let’s love ourselves out loud, one honest moment at a time. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 13 June 2025
Picking up where they left off, Lisa and Kendra G dive even deeper into the lies women are told—and tell themselves—about love, relationships, and self-worth. Part 2 gets into the nitty-gritty of how to stop comparison, heal from toxic relationships, and become the kind of woman everyone wants to be around: truly confident, truly unshakeable. Kendra and Lisa tackle the hardest truths about being “too picky,” the myth that women aren’t “complete” until chosen, and how unrealistic expectations derail happiness. They also get vulnerable, discussing the aftermath of heartbreak, the slow erosion of self-esteem in bad relationships, and the moment-to-moment battles to refuse to lower your standards. Expect actionable wisdom on self-assessment, rebuilding after a breakup, and making sure your confidence is built on YOUR foundation—not someone else’s validation. Plus, a little fun as they talk about Kendra’s dating app and spicy new card game! SHOWNOTES 24:24 “Not complete until chosen”—the grand remix, choosing yourself 25:43 The myth of “never give up on someone” & what real love requires 26:41 Are you too picky? When preferences become obstacles to happiness 29:40 Men’s and women’s double standards in dating—and why they both count 34:51 Expectation vs. standards: Community voting on loyalty, trust, money, and more 36:54 How to assess your real dating pool and sexual market value 39:08 Giving men grace for vulnerability—hormones, self-esteem, and support in partnerships 41:42 Why your preference isn’t your worth (and neither is anyone else’s opinion) 46:24 The honesty trap: Why we say we want it, but can’t always handle the truth 49:01 The signature questions from Kendra’s show & the “three flaws” challenge 54:23 Stop giving wifely benefits to boyfriends: Knowing when you’re negotiating your worth 56:48 Navigating comparison, heartbreak, and rising after toxic relationships 59:32 How to remind yourself you’re worthy—no matter your relationship status or setbacks 1:07:32 Using disrespect as fuel for growth, and trusting YOUR own red flags 1:13:06 Redefining single: The battle for your life after breakup 1:14:19 Chanel bags don’t go on sale—why you shouldn’t discount yourself, either 1:15:35 Game time: Kendra’s card game and spicy honesty 1:17:00 Money, marriage, and what REALLY matters in partnership 1:18:44 Would you ever get married again? And laying down the shame around being single 1:19:58 Where to follow Kendra G and join the movement GUEST SOCIALS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendragmedia/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KendraGMediaApp & Website: https://kendrag.singles/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 12 June 2025
On this electrifying episode of Women of Impact, host Lisa Bilyeu welcomes the powerhouse media personality and dating expert Kendra G, known for her refreshingly real perspective on relationships and her popular dating show. Kendra G has been a leading voice in reshaping how women view their value in the dating world—and she’s here to deliver some truth bombs that might just change how you approach love, men, and your own self-worth. In Part 1 of this special two-part conversation, Kendra and Lisa break down the modern dating landscape, from the rise of social media and shifting power dynamics to the stark realities of “preferences” and “worth.” Kendra unpacks why so many strong, successful women still find themselves single, the double standards between men’s and women’s dating standards, and why knowing your non-negotiables is essential. Prepare for an unfiltered, empowering deep dive into why your worth is never tied to anyone else’s preference, and the mindset shifts you need to thrive—single or partnered. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Why are strong women still single? 00:16 The disconnect between women’s expectations and men’s preferences 01:17 Navigating the reality of what men want vs. what you deserve 02:44 How dating changed with social media—and what “power” women still have 04:16 The importance of being okay with being single in order to date healthily 06:17 How financial independence changes what women will tolerate 08:04 Why refusing to conform is powerful—and what happens if you do 10:37 The “invisible man” problem and how your standards might narrow your dating pool 11:36 Shocking stats: Women’s height preferences vs. reality 12:44 The difference between worth and preference for both men and women 14:10 Real talk: Who’s actually courting you, and what does your “dating pool” reveal? 15:53 What wealthy men really want—and what “peace” in relationships can mean 18:15 Giving yourself grace and planning your own happiness, married or single 19:53 Infidelity, self-worth, and why honesty from day one matters FOLLOW KENDRA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendragmedia/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KendraGMediaApp & Website: https://kendrag.singles/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 11 June 2025
From housewife to the co-founder of a billion-dollar company, I know intimately what it means to face fear, self-doubt, and that nagging voice inside that says you’re not enough. That’s why I’m thrilled to share my conversation with Radhi Devlukia-Shetty on this episode of Women of Impact. With her blend of heart, honesty, and hard-won wisdom, Radhi opens up about her journey—growing up heavyset, navigating body image in a world obsessed with “skinny,” and breaking free from external validation through meditation, journaling, and radical self-discovery. She reveals how leaving home and starting over in a new country forced her to face her fears head-on, and how she built a relationship with herself step-by-step. From conscious cooking to confronting the discomfort of leading in business, Radhi’s story is a roadmap for any woman wants to find her strength—not in spite of her vulnerabilities, but because of them. SHOWNOTES Radhi shares her experience growing up heavyset and the early effects of body image and external validation on self-worth The pivotal influence of home support and how meditation led her to real self-love Letting go of the “Why me?” victim loop and shifting perspective for growth Practical tools: time-limited processing of emotions, journaling, and turning criticism into useful self-reflection Overcoming the fear of the unknown: moving across continents, letting go of comfort and security, and learning self-sufficiency Journaling as a tool for understanding your own thoughts, qualities, and embracing imperfection How to honor your emotions without wallowing in them: actionable tips to process then move forward Facing career challenges: stepping into leadership as a vegan recipe developer, navigating male-dominated spaces, and setting boundaries The power of embracing imperfection in both personal life and career—take the leap and learn from the mess-ups CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW RADHI DEVLUKIA-SHETTY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukiaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radhidevlukiashettyWebsite: https://www.radhidevlukia.coTwitter: https://twitter.com/radhidevlukiaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 10 June 2025
In this powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact, host Dr. Ann Burgess is joined by renowned criminal profiler Dr. Ann Burgess (yes, both as host and guest!) to break down the harrowing testimonies emerging from the Diddy trial. Focusing on the voices of women who have faced extreme danger and abuse, the episode exposes not just the acts themselves, but also the social and psychological mechanisms that keep survivors silent and trapped. Together, Dr. Burgess and Dr. Burgess delve into the chilling details of Brianna Bongoulan’s and Cassie’s experiences, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma responses and the realities of coercive control. Listeners are taken step by step through the dynamics of abusive relationships, the difficulties women face in coming forward, and the bystander dilemmas that keep entire communities quiet. Dr. Burgess shares expert insights into the physiology of trauma, societal victim-blaming, and the layered complications for friends and witnesses. If you’re looking for clarity on why women don’t or can’t “just leave,” and want to empower yourself or others with real-life strategies, don’t skip part one of this episode. SHOWNOTES 00:00 - Chilling overview: Diddy’s alleged actions and why breaking silence matters00:26 - Introducing Dr. Ann Burgess: expertise in criminal profiling00:42 - The week's testimonies and the critical need to understand trauma00:57 - Beginning with Brianna Bongoulan’s harrowing account01:35 - Analyzing the extreme danger and survival tactics in abusive situations03:37 - Physical and psychological aftershocks: photos, night terrors, and manipulation04:33 - Why women freeze: terror, trauma physiology, and the impossibility of escape06:06 - Addressing the question “Why go back?”—the reality of control07:20 - What if it happens to your friend? Bystander fear and the limits of intervention08:39 - Friends, fear, and the complexities of staying silent10:26 - How abusers choose and control: tactics, patterns, and courtroom manipulation11:02 - Real-time: Diddy’s behavior with the judge and jury—more manipulation revealed12:55 - Moving to “Jane’s” testimony and the anatomy of long-term abuse13:36 - The psychology of love bombing and being drawn in14:37 - The progressive trap: from excitement to entrapment CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2025
In this powerful two-part episode of Women of Impact, host Dr. Ann Burgess is joined by renowned criminal profiler Dr. Ann Burgess (yes, both as host and guest!) to break down the harrowing testimonies emerging from the Diddy trial. Focusing on the voices of women who have faced extreme danger and abuse, the episode exposes not just the acts themselves, but also the social and psychological mechanisms that keep survivors silent and trapped. Together, Dr. Burgess and Dr. Burgess delve into the chilling details of Brianna Bongoulan’s and Cassie’s experiences, emphasizing the importance of understanding trauma responses and the realities of coercive control. Listeners are taken step by step through the dynamics of abusive relationships, the difficulties women face in coming forward, and the bystander dilemmas that keep entire communities quiet. Dr. Burgess shares expert insights into the physiology of trauma, societal victim-blaming, and the layered complications for friends and witnesses. If you’re looking for clarity on why women don’t or can’t “just leave,” and want to empower yourself or others with real-life strategies, don’t skip part one of this episode. SHOWNOTES 00:00 - Chilling overview: Diddy’s alleged actions and why breaking silence matters00:26 - Introducing Dr. Ann Burgess: expertise in criminal profiling00:42 - The week's testimonies and the critical need to understand trauma00:57 - Beginning with Brianna Bongoulan’s harrowing account01:35 - Analyzing the extreme danger and survival tactics in abusive situations03:37 - Physical and psychological aftershocks: photos, night terrors, and manipulation04:33 - Why women freeze: terror, trauma physiology, and the impossibility of escape06:06 - Addressing the question “Why go back?”—the reality of control07:20 - What if it happens to your friend? Bystander fear and the limits of intervention08:39 - Friends, fear, and the complexities of staying silent10:26 - How abusers choose and control: tactics, patterns, and courtroom manipulation11:02 - Real-time: Diddy’s behavior with the judge and jury—more manipulation revealed12:55 - Moving to “Jane’s” testimony and the anatomy of long-term abuse13:36 - The psychology of love bombing and being drawn in14:37 - The progressive trap: from excitement to entrapment CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Dr. Lisa Mosconi joins me on Women of Impact to completely reframe how we think about the female brain—and debunk the damaging myth that “bikini medicine” (the idea that women are just men with breasts and ovaries) should guide our health and treatment. We dig into why women are almost twice as likely to develop Alzheimer’s, the striking gaps in research and medical care, and the massive ways that hormones, lifestyle, and stress impact women’s cognitive health, starting from puberty through menopause and beyond. Dr. Mosconi unpacks the science behind everything from sleep and exercise to diet, stress, and pregnancy’s overlooked impact on brain plasticity. With practical advice, radical truths, and real hope, this episode is the playbook for every woman who wants to understand—and fiercely protect—her own mind. SHOWNOTES Why women are nearly twice as likely to develop Alzheimer’s—and why no one’s talking about it 00:01:04 – The myth of “bikini medicine” and the failure to study women’s brains How Ambien became a dangerous example of ignoring female biology in medical research 00:07:11 – XX brain basics: Why women’s brains don’t age—or respond—like men’s The unique risks women face: anxiety, depression, migraines, stroke, and autoimmune disorders Puberty, pregnancy, perimenopause: How women’s brains transform across a lifetime The impact of diet, exercise, caffeine, and hormones on the female brain (and what to do) Why exercise lowers dementia risk by 30% for active women after 35 How stress sabotages women’s brains more than men’s—and real strategies to fight back CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa FOLLOW DR. LISA MOSCONI:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_mosconi/Website: https://www.lisamosconi.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 8 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. When it comes to handling triggers, setting boundaries, and staying composed when all you want to do is LOSE it, trust me—I’ve been there! In this episode, I’m answering your questions about how to respond (not react!) when people push your buttons, ways to shut down rude behavior with calm clarity, and how to set boundaries without losing your empathy or self-respect. I’m breaking it down step-by-step, sharing the exact scripts and mindset tricks I use (and practice—again and again!) so you can navigate even the toughest conversations with confidence. No sugarcoating, just honest, actionable advice from my own hot-headed, work-in-progress journey. SHOWNOTES How to stay calm and composed in the moment—even if you’re a self-described “hothead” (00:00:00) Lisa’s step-by-step script for handling inappropriate or rude comments (00:02:57) Why replaying your “cringe” moments is key to growth—not shame (00:01:09) The real reason empathy isn’t your problem (and what is) when you’re feeling manipulated (00:08:36) A powerful exercise for setting healthy boundaries with family (00:11:06) How to resist getting swept up in someone else’s anger or emotional state (00:15:03) De-escalation strategies for handling people who are seeing red—whether you know them or not (00:19:28) Tools for catching negative emotions in the moment and choosing to respond, not react (00:33:38) Scripts and phrases to calmly defend yourself—without guilt (00:29:11) Why it’s all about being proud of how you show up for yourself, even if you mess up (00:31:54) CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 6 June 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. What stops us from finding real love? Is it bad luck, a broken picker… or the fantasy that “chemistry” is the only thing that matters? In this conversation, I sit down with love and relationship expert Spirit to crack open the truths most of us never hear about compatibility, new relationship energy, forgiveness, and how to build a lasting partnership—even when the butterflies fade. Spirit and I go deep on the difference between chemistry and compatibility (and why confusing the two is a recipe for disaster), how resentment builds if we avoid hard conversations, and what real forgiveness actually looks like. Plus, we get tactical: how to work through grudges, make better “agreements” as a couple, and reignite connection after years together. This episode is packed with real talk, practical tools, and myth-busting must-knows for anyone who wants extraordinary love—not just the fairy tale. SHOWNOTES 00:00 – Spirit on compromise: “If I win and you lose, our relationship loses” 00:16 – Chemistry vs. compatibility: Why sparks don’t equal sustainability 03:03 – The science of new relationship energy—and how it tricks us 05:39 – Questions to ask while dating: Interviewing for your “life mate” 10:07 – Why sex clouds judgment and prolongs “love drunk” states 14:59 – Spirit’s take on forgiveness: Why you can heal without granting instant access 22:22 – Making agreements as a team—and what happens when you clash 27:45 – The power of compromise: Creating solutions where both partners win 33:14 – Who’s responsible for moving past resentment? Why it’s always teamwork 51:47 – 3 immediate steps to start unwinding resentment and reigniting connection FOLLOW SPIRIT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talk2spirit/Twitter: https://twitter.com/talk2spiritWebsite: https://talk2spirit.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 5 June 2025
Today, we're digging DEEP into a topic that's as terrifying as it is necessary—how to spot the warning signs when someone isn't who they seem to be. Seriously, this episode had me clutching my pearls and simultaneously feeling more empowered than ever. I’m bringing you someone who has literally walked into the darkest places on earth—prisons, forensic hospitals, you name it—and come out without losing her compassion or her curiosity. Dr. Gwen Adshead is a forensic psychotherapist, author of "The Devil You Know," and all-around badass when it comes to deciphering what really lies beneath the “mask of normalcy.” We talk about manipulative personalities, red flags in relationships, attachment styles, and build out a legit tool belt for keeping our power and protecting ourselves from harm. Ladies, if you’ve ever felt like you missed the signs, if you’ve ever asked yourself, “What did I not see coming?” or just want to build the skills to stand tall no matter who’s in front of you—THIS is the episode you need. Grab your notebook, because Dr. Gwen drops truth bombs, actionable red flags, and shows you how to keep your cool even in the most toxic situations. Let’s get STRONGER and SAFER together. You ready? SHOWNOTES 00:00 How Evil Can Wear a Mask: Spotting Dangerous Traits 00:06:39 The "False Mask of Normalcy" and Why We Miss the Signs 00:07:00 11 Red Flags That Reveal Who's Behind the Mask 00:19:09 What is Attachment Theory? And Why It Matters for Women 00:22:02 Why Pregnancy Triggers Domestic Violence 00:29:23 Rule Breakers and Risk Factors 00:32:08 Grandiosity, Narcissism, and Dangerous Audacity 00:34:46 Why Absolute Thinking Becomes a Trap—For Us AND Them 00:37:05 False Victimhood as Manipulation 00:39:34 How to Talk to a Psychopath: Staying Emotionally Sober 00:43:44 Protecting Your Sense of Reality 00:45:10 Building Your Personal Tool Belt: Never Let Anyone Take Your Power! FOLLOW DR. GWEN ADSHEAD: Book: The Devil You Know (available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Devil-You-Know-Gwen-Adshead/dp/198213480X ) BBC Lectures: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m001rm8y (also available via YouTube search) Academic Profile: https://scholar.google.com/scholar?q=Gwen+Adshead CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2025
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: December 28, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast. Today, buckle up because we're having an intimate heart-to-heart with someone who knows exactly what it means to be a freakin' badass at life while spilling all the beans on how to live courageously – none other than Jen Cohen! Let me tell you, girl, stepping into your power has never been clearer than when Jen breaks it all down. She’s the successful host of the "Habits and Hustle" podcast, and she’s here to give us a masterclass on owning your confidence, even when you feel like you’ve run out. We’re diving into her new book, "Bigger, Better, Bolder" where Jen lays out the principles to keep us showing up like the Wonder Women we are, on our hardest days. Listen up, because this isn't just about blowing smoke; Jen talks about why facing rejection is always going to trample over regret, and how it gets real when she tells us how to step into our own stories. So, you better grab your notebooks because Jen Cohen is bringing the fire, and trust me, you don’t want to miss out on unlocking the confidence and boldness that’s inside every single one of us. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Confidence Principles from Jen Cohen 07:28 "Seizing the Moment with Mark Cuban" 12:44 Reframing Boldness: Serving Others 15:46 "Self-Actualization and Living Richly" 20:39 Build Your "Bold of Directors" 26:11 "Be the CEO of Your Life" 35:26 "Overcoming Self-Doubt Strategies" 38:06 Average: Your Secret Superpower 42:05 Struggle Breeds Success 52:04 "Recognizing and Flipping Habits" 53:14 Powerful Morning Routines Boost Success 01:00:40 Ebb and Flow Superpower 01:07:06 "Importance of Open Communication" 01:11:29 "Prioritizing Goals and Energy" 01:17:32 Optimizing Life by Simplifying Breakfast 01:24:42 "Know Thyself for Success" 01:26:18 Prioritize Sleep or Morning Workout? CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women FOLLOW JEN COHEN: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjencohen/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@therealjencohen Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 3 June 2025
Picking up where we left off in our special Diddy series, joined by my incredible co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards, and special guest Dr. Nadine Macaluso, we’re breaking the silence around the alleged pattern of power, coercion, and abuse at the heart of the Diddy trial—examining not just high-profile testimony, but the psychological traps and real-world barriers that keep women trapped in cycles of fear. We dig deep into survivor testimony, workplace coercion, trauma bonding, and the mind games that keep victims and witnesses silent. More than a recap—this episode arms you with risk assessment tools, actionable guidance, and hope for reclaiming your voice. SHOWNOTES The shocking world behind the headlines: A new level of control, violence, and manipulation [00:00:00] Capricorn Clark’s testimony—kidnapping, death threats, forced overtime, and pay withheld [00:00:48] The “spider’s web” of coercive control: Why victims can’t just leave (risk management 101) [00:02:35] The DASH model: Laura’s tool for assessing real danger and protecting yourself or loved ones [00:06:28] Witnesses trapped: Workplace bystanders, Dante Nash, and the myth of “just a bad romance” [00:17:20] Trauma bonding & blame-shifting: Why the cycle of hope and fear keeps people hooked [00:17:58] The paralyzing power of shame: What stops women from speaking up, and how to reclaim your power [00:30:34] Mia’s experience—boundary erosion, sexual assault, and normalized fear inside Diddy’s world [00:37:58] Consent, free will, and survival strategies when power balances are abused (dissecting “forced sex” vs rape) [00:42:12] What needs to happen for real justice: Pattern recognition, closing arguments, and next steps for survivors [00:54:08] FOLLOW LAURA RICHARDS Website: https://thelaurarichards.com DASH Risk Assessment Tool: https://riskchecklist.com Podcast & Community: https://patreon.com/crimeanalyst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecrimeanalyst/ FOLLOW DR. NADINE MACALUSO Website: https://www.drnadinemacaluso.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.nadine.macaluso/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/drmacaluso CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2025
Picking up where we left off in our special Diddy series, joined by my incredible co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards, and special guest Dr. Nadine Macaluso, we’re breaking the silence around the alleged pattern of power, coercion, and abuse at the heart of the Diddy trial—examining not just high-profile testimony, but the psychological traps and real-world barriers that keep women trapped in cycles of fear. We dig deep into survivor testimony, workplace coercion, trauma bonding, and the mind games that keep victims and witnesses silent. More than a recap—this episode arms you with risk assessment tools, actionable guidance, and hope for reclaiming your voice. SHOWNOTES The shocking world behind the headlines: A new level of control, violence, and manipulation [00:00:00] Capricorn Clark’s testimony—kidnapping, death threats, forced overtime, and pay withheld [00:00:48] The “spider’s web” of coercive control: Why victims can’t just leave (risk management 101) [00:02:35] The DASH model: Laura’s tool for assessing real danger and protecting yourself or loved ones [00:06:28] Witnesses trapped: Workplace bystanders, Dante Nash, and the myth of “just a bad romance” [00:17:20] Trauma bonding & blame-shifting: Why the cycle of hope and fear keeps people hooked [00:17:58] The paralyzing power of shame: What stops women from speaking up, and how to reclaim your power [00:30:34] Mia’s experience—boundary erosion, sexual assault, and normalized fear inside Diddy’s world [00:37:58] Consent, free will, and survival strategies when power balances are abused (dissecting “forced sex” vs rape) [00:42:12] What needs to happen for real justice: Pattern recognition, closing arguments, and next steps for survivors [00:54:08] FOLLOW LAURA RICHARDS Website: https://thelaurarichards.com DASH Risk Assessment Tool: https://riskchecklist.com Podcast & Community: https://patreon.com/crimeanalyst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecrimeanalyst/ FOLLOW DR. NADINE MACALUSO Website: https://www.drnadinemacaluso.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.nadine.macaluso/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/drmacaluso CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2025
Picking up where we left off in our special Diddy series, joined by my incredible co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards, and special guest Dr. Nadine Macaluso, we’re breaking the silence around the alleged pattern of power, coercion, and abuse at the heart of the Diddy trial—examining not just high-profile testimony, but the psychological traps and real-world barriers that keep women trapped in cycles of fear. We dig deep into survivor testimony, workplace coercion, trauma bonding, and the mind games that keep victims and witnesses silent. More than a recap—this episode arms you with risk assessment tools, actionable guidance, and hope for reclaiming your voice. SHOWNOTES The shocking world behind the headlines: A new level of control, violence, and manipulation [00:00:00] Capricorn Clark’s testimony—kidnapping, death threats, forced overtime, and pay withheld [00:00:48] The “spider’s web” of coercive control: Why victims can’t just leave (risk management 101) [00:02:35] The DASH model: Laura’s tool for assessing real danger and protecting yourself or loved ones [00:06:28] Witnesses trapped: Workplace bystanders, Dante Nash, and the myth of “just a bad romance” [00:17:20] Trauma bonding & blame-shifting: Why the cycle of hope and fear keeps people hooked [00:17:58] The paralyzing power of shame: What stops women from speaking up, and how to reclaim your power [00:30:34] Mia’s experience—boundary erosion, sexual assault, and normalized fear inside Diddy’s world [00:37:58] Consent, free will, and survival strategies when power balances are abused (dissecting “forced sex” vs rape) [00:42:12] What needs to happen for real justice: Pattern recognition, closing arguments, and next steps for survivors [00:54:08] FOLLOW LAURA RICHARDS Website: https://thelaurarichards.com DASH Risk Assessment Tool: https://riskchecklist.com Podcast & Community: https://patreon.com/crimeanalyst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecrimeanalyst/ FOLLOW DR. NADINE MACALUSO Website: https://www.drnadinemacaluso.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.nadine.macaluso/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/drmacaluso CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2025
Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on: February 16, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dig deep, break down barriers, and build the life of our dreams! Today, I'm bringing you a mega-inspiring convo with a true force of nature, Payal Kadakia! Guys, if you've ever felt tethered by expectations or like the world is pulling you away from your true passion—listen up. Payal Kadakia, the brains and the beating heart behind ClassPass, is here to drop some serious wisdom. She's navigated the complexities of cultural identity and societal pressures to create a billion-dollar company—all while staying true to her love for dance! It’s all about finding your freedom train and getting the hell off the one that doesn’t serve you. We're diving into the expectations train, exploring how Payal hit the brakes on what she 'should' do and started carving her own unique path. Trust me; this episode is all about unlocking your identity, embracing your true calling, and being bold enough to pursue it. So, whether you’re an entrepreneur at heart fighting against the tide or someone who’s ready to just own your unique self, Payal’s story is the blueprint you’ve been waiting for! SHOWNOTES 00:00 Dance: A Path to Personal Fulfillment 05:13 Living Authentically Without Guilt 07:43 "From Corporate to Entrepreneur: A Journey" 09:56 Embracing Dual Identity Through Dance 13:48 Balancing Dual Communities 16:22 Dance Teacher Role Reversal 21:42 Overcoming Pressure to Prioritize Ambition 22:36 Setting Boundaries for Emotional Health 27:14 "Finding Your True North" 30:32 Embracing Risk with a Plan B 32:41 "Living by 'Must' Drives Success" 38:48 Embracing Emotions, Reviving Momentum 41:47 Cultural Passion Fuels Unicorn Success 44:39 "Facing Failure Head-On" 45:54 "Transform Fear into Action" 50:25 Overcoming Self-Doubt in Business 54:08 Balancing Professional and Personal Success 55:54 Quarterly Goal-Setting for Impact 59:02 "Check Out This Book!" FOLLOW PAYAL KADAKIA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/payal/ Website: https://lifepassbook.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Netsuite: Download the new e-book Navigating Global Trade: 3 Insights for Leaders at http://NetSuite.com/women ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO WOMEN OF IMPACT AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS: apple.co/womenofimpact ********************************************************************** FOLLOW LISA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 1 June 2025
Picking up where we left off, I’m diving into the vital question everyone keeps asking: “If it was that bad, why didn’t she just leave?” With my incredible co-host, criminal behavioral analyst Laura Richards by my side, we unpack the real mechanics behind coercive control, trauma bonding, and why leaving an abusive relationship is never as simple as it seems. Laura breaks down expert testimony, practical warning signs, and how cultural myths keep victims trapped—while offering tangible ways for women to identify and reclaim their autonomy. In this episode, we spotlight the power of knowledge, advocacy, and why changing the law is crucial for women’s safety. Whether you’re questioning your own relationship or looking to help a friend, this show delivers deeply personal insights and concrete tools for recognizing manipulation and abuse. SHOWNOTES Why victims of abuse can’t “just leave”: The truth behind manipulation and entrapment [00:00:46] Dr. Dawn Hughes’s court testimony—explaining trauma bonding, cycles of abuse, and coping mechanisms Grooming, love bombing, and why abusers alternate between charm and cruelty [00:03:38] Violent resistance and why “fighting back” can be even more dangerous The law’s failure to recognize coercive control—and its real-world impact on survivors Laura’s checklist: Signs you’re in a coercively controlling relationship The isolating power of charm, threats, and double standards in abusive dynamics Economic and sexual abuse as tools to limit agency and sustain dependency [00:25:02] The trauma bond: Why crisis can push victims closer to abusers, not further away Where to get more information and support—including quizzes, resources, and direct expert help CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 30 May 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. What up, my homies! It’s your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome right back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we call out the BS, build our confidence, and go after the life we freaking deserve. If it’s your first time vibing with us, what up, my homie? If you’re a returning OG, I’m SO freaking grateful you’re here—let’s level up together! Today I’m bringing you something raw, real, and probably the kick in the butt you need to drop the fake confidence act and step into your honest, badass self. We’re diving into another electrifying Instagram Live Q&A where I break down how to embrace your confidence without crossing over into cocky territory—and trust me, we get super real about what that means, how to draw the line, and why you never have to dull your shine for anyone. This episode is jam-packed with: Practical confidence-building strategies Setting boundaries (especially when people comment on your body) Navigating the difference between real confidence and bravado (and why sometimes you need to fake it till you make it, guilt-free) Forgiving yourself, letting go of needing anyone else’s validation, and stepping into a whole new version of you—at ANY age. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro—Welcome and Why Confidence Matters 00:53 Free 4-Step Confidence Workshop Announcement 01:42 Why Ratings/Reviews Mean Everything for the Podcast 03:04 Q&A Starts: How to Exude Confidence without Looking Cocky 06:06 Setting Boundaries When Others Comment on Your Body 12:47 The Power of Writing Your Boundary Scripts 13:10 Confidence vs. Competence—How to Tell & the “Fake It” Debate 14:58 When Confidence Looks Like Narcissism 15:20 Loving Yourself Unconditionally & Building Internal Validation 20:18 Validation Through Achievements vs. Internal Worth 21:26 "Be So Good, They Can’t Ignore You"—Best Advice Ever (And Handling Rejection) 26:40 Relationship Qs—“Should I Go Back After a Great Date?” 28:39 How to Know If Ending a Relationship Was Right 31:25 Rebuilding Confidence After Lifelong Self-Loathing 33:46 Habits & Boundaries as Stepping Stones to Self-Worth 37:14 Wrap Up—Stay Tuned, Submit Your Qs, and Build Your Confidence! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2025
When a man’s words and actions just don’t add up, your gut kicks in—but is it intuition, or paranoia? I’m Lisa Bilyeu, and in this episode, I sit down with world-renowned interrogator and body language expert Scott Rouse, who’s trained with the FBI, to break down the subtle cues that reveal if someone’s being honest, hiding something, or even manipulating you. From decoding mixed signals and love bombing to learning the red flags of a true psychopath, Scott gives us a toolkit for self-protection and radical self-trust. This is essential wisdom for every woman who wants to feel safe, seen, and strong—whether you’re dating, doing business, or just tuning up your radar for the people in your life. SHOWNOTES Is he being faithful or just hiding it? How details and “qualifiers” in answers give away dishonesty [00:00:29] Why psychopaths don’t show fear—and how to spot them through body language and the “psychopathic stare” [00:01:16, 00:11:19] The dangers of love bombing: How predators mirror your voice & mannerisms to build false connections fast [00:03:09] Matching and mirroring: When is it bonding, when is it manipulative? [00:05:12] Nonverbal red flags in relationships: Closed posture, lingering eye contact, asymmetrical smiles, and self-soothing moves [00:06:52–00:13:30] What your intuition is telling you when someone is “too nice”—and why you must trust it [00:24:20] Does alcohol make people worse liars? Quick-fire myth-busting on deception [00:26:59] How Scott’s FBI interrogation tactics—like “us against them”—can reveal truths in any relationship [00:18:09–00:21:54] Watch for sudden tension, withdrawal, or “stepping back” during key questions—they’re distancing from the lie [00:14:07–00:15:52] Building your confidence: Never let anyone make you doubt what you’re sensing or seeing in your own life [00:27:40] FOLLOW SCOTT ROUSE:Website: https://scottrouse.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BehaviorXThe Behavior Panel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheBehaviorPanel CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 28 May 2025
This is a Fan Fav episode. Strap in, my friends—because today is a masterclass on navigating conversations with the narcissists in our lives. Whether it’s a parent, a partner, a boss, or a long-time friend, licensed clinical psychologist and viral expert Dr. Ramani is back in the Women of Impact hot seat. She’s breaking down exactly what NOT to do when faced with manipulation—and giving us the practical tools to protect ourselves, set unbreakable boundaries, and finally take back our power. We’re diving deep into the emotional landmines of narcissistic communication, how to break the cycle of defending and explaining, why your psychological “passwords” must be guarded, and how to find support and healing—even if you’re not ready or able to walk away. Get ready for real talk, revolutionary strategies, and the reminder that you never have to serve up your pain to someone who will weaponize it against you. SHOWNOTES The real impact of words: Why “sticks and stones” is a harmful myth 00:06:25 – How to recognize and respond when someone tries to invalidate your reality Dr. Ramani’s DEEP technique: Don’t Defend, Engage, Explain, or Personalize The dangers of sharing your deepest vulnerabilities with a narcissist 00:13:44 – Weaponized vulnerability: When your wounds become someone else’s ammunition Narcissistic parents and partners: Why history repeats itself and how to break free Can you ever be happy in a narcissistic relationship? What joy looks like with limits 00:32:09 – “Hang time” and why breaking away gets harder the longer you stay Top mistakes to avoid: Never call out a narcissist, and always have an exit strategy Practical steps, resources, and daily support from Dr. Ramani’s powerful online community FOLLOW DR. RAMANI: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani Website: https://www.doctor-ramani.com/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to https://www.vitalproteins.com and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to https://bioptimizers.com/impact and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2025
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