Women of Impact

Have you ever wondered what truly makes a woman irresistibly seductive? What if everything you’ve been told about pleasure (your own, your partner’s, and the whole dance of desire) was rooted in centuries-old wisdom you’ve probably never heard before?Ladies, I am honored to welcome the incredible Seema Anand: Kama Sutra scholar, author, and the internet’s “patron saint of pleasure”, to the show. This episode is an absolute must for every woman who wants to reconnect with her sensual power, understand the roots of seduction, and break free from outdated notions of what it means to be “good,” “attractive,” or even “enough.” Together, we dive deep into the ancient teachings of the Kama Sutra (trust me, you’ve never heard it quite like this!). Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or just ready to reclaim your pleasure on your own terms, this one brings the real talk you’ve secretly craved. SHOWNOTESOvercoming shame around “imperfections”: Age spots, birthmarks, and self-worthTactical tips from the Kama Sutra: Why lover’s quarrels are essentialHow the Kama Sutra centers women’s pleasure (and why it matters for both partners)Women’s agency: setting boundaries and taking the leadTouch as connection; why “naked cuddling” mattersThe 24 “erotic nerves” and up-leveling pleasureBed death, losing intimacy as partners and parents, and reviving connectionCreating “us time” and relationship foreplay in daily lifeSafety as a non-negotiable for seduction and pleasureFantasies, shame, and why your wildest thoughts say nothing about your character Thank you to today’s sponsors:Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisaHomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Seema Anand:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seemaanandstorytelling YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SeemaAnandStorytellingBooks: “The Arts of Seduction” and “Speakeasy” (find on all major platforms) Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 3 June 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this AMAZING conversation with my brother from another mother, Matthew Hussey!!And if you thought part 1 was good, we were just getting started!! In part 2, Matt and I keep going deeper into how to find and attract the right partner for you without lowering your standards or being inauthentic.We cover:- The 4 levels of importance & why they are leading you to waste time investing on the WRONG guy- How to avoid seeing everything as a red flag after heartbreak- Why getting vulnerable and sharing your insecurities with your partner is SO important- The importance of compassion and understanding in a relationship, but too much empathy can actually be dangerous- The healing powers of the RIGHT relationship- And so much more!!  So don't miss out on the final part of this eye-opening conversation with Matthew Hussey. And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://matthewhussey.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-ImprovementSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another AMAAAAAZING episode of Women of Impact to help you stop wasting time with wrong guys (or gals) and break the cycle that has you stuck in the same broken patterns every single time!In today’s episode I’m joined again by dating & relationship expert (and my long-time homie), Matthew Hussey. And today Matt is here to call out the bad relationship tips out there and instead give you a blueprint to ACTUALLY find love in your life and STOP doing the destructive things that are sending the WRONG message and keeping you in unhappy, and even toxic, relationships!  In this episode, we’re diving into:- The toxic dating advice out there that’s doing you more harm than good- How your fear of being alone is keeping you trapped in unhealthy relationships- Why what attracts a partner doesn’t always attract the RIGHT partner - Why you constantly invite bad people into your life & how you can break out of the cycle- How your mind plays tricks on you when it comes to relationships & safety- How to distinguish between expectations in a partner that will make you happy & those that just feed your ego And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! So listen closely guys, this conversion with Matt is filled with SOOOOO many dating insights that you can use right away TODAY to make the small changes in your life that will actually make a big difference in your love life and help you find the right partner for you!  Follow Matthew Hussey:Website: https://matthewhussey.com/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteamFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey/Order “Love Life”: https://lovelifebook.com/ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 1 June 2026

Ever been in a relationship that left you questioning your own reality? That left you feeling like you’ve completely lost yourself, doubting every gut instinct and walking on eggshells because emotional manipulation made you forget how to trust yourself? If you’re nodding right now, this episode is for YOU. In today’s deeply raw, honest, and healing podcast, I open up about how to start rebuilding trust in yourself after toxic relationships, especially narcissistic ones. This one’s all about walking with you through the real confusion and aftermath of emotional manipulation: The gaslighting, the self-doubt, the pain, and (more importantly) the steps you can actually take to heal. I break down tactical, practical tips (the real stuff that works, NOT just feel-good inspiration), including how to rebuild your gut instincts, how to spot red flags in friendships and romantic partnerships, and how to stop gaslighting yourself after someone else has manipulated your reality. I also share golden nuggets from top experts like Dr. Peter Salerno, and how to rebuild something he calls your “reality confidence.” Get ready to take notes, because we’re getting into actual, actionable steps that will change your life. SHOWNOTES: “I Don’t Trust My Own Instincts”: How to Rebuild After Manipulation The Tactic That Retrains Your Gut: Spotting Early Warning Signs Building Reality Confidence: The Five Steps to Reclaim Your Truth “Why Do I Still Miss My Toxic Ex?”—How to Break Emotional Addiction Step-by-Step: How to Give Yourself the Validation You Crave Healing & Growth: Outgrowing People Without the Guilt Making the Tough Choice: Your Goals vs. People-Pleasing Setting Boundaries, Scripts & Non-Negotiables (When Friends or Family Resist) Loving from a Distance: Yes, It’s Still Love After Narcissistic Abuse: Learning What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like The List-Making Habit: What You Don’t Want vs. What You Do Want Attachment Styles 101: How to Pick (and Become) a Safe Partner Building (and Earning) Real Trust, One Action at a Time Thank you to today’s sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 29 May 2026

Think all psychopaths look like cold-blooded villains? Think again. In Part 2, we dive into the chilling case of Gen Z singer D4vid, examine how manipulative people slip under the radar, and (most importantly) arm you with strategies to spot and outmaneuver manipulators in love and life. World-renowned human behavior and body language expert Mark Bowden returns to show us the power tactics used by narcissists and psychopaths, how "quick set intimacy" works, and what questions to ask yourself to stay safe on dates and in relationships. We’ll break down why manipulators seem to read your deepest desires, how “love bombing” and gaslighting can hijack your confidence, and why you have to pay attention not just to what people do, but to what they DON’T do. Mark even roleplays the exact tactics predators use, so you can see through the smoke and mirrors for yourself. If you want to make your boundaries ironclad and never be played again, this episode is your armor. Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Learn more from Mark Bowden, the world’s #1 Communication Keynote Speaker and expert in Body Language and Human Behavior. Watch deep-dive video breakdowns on his YouTube @MarkBowden1. Website: https://truthplane.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/truthplane/  Social Handles: @truthplaneTikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en⁠ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website:⁠ https://www.lisabilyeu.com⁠ Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook:⁠ https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 28 May 2026

Ever wonder if you’ve secretly dated a psychopath? Statistically, one in twenty people has psychopathic traits, and if you’ve been in the dating game for long, chances are you’ve run into one and didn’t even know. This episode is here to give you tools that could literally save your heart, your sanity, and possibly your life. I’m joined by the world’s #1 Communication Keynote Speaker and expert in Body Language and Human Behavior, Mark Bowden, who’s here to teach us how to spot psychopaths, decode lies, and protect yourself from manipulators before it’s too late. We break down the infamous Chris Watts case, dissecting the chilling body language and story inconsistencies that revealed the shocking truth. Mark gives us the ultimate five-point checklist for detecting deception, shares why some people don’t show empathy, and teaches you how to read the red flags even when someone’s acting like the perfect partner. This is a masterclass in self-defense of your mind, your emotions, and your intuition. SHOWNOTES Statistical reality: 1 in 20 have psychopathic traits. Chris Watts introduced as case study. What grief, concern, and anger look like (and what it means when you don’t see them). Five things to watch for when detecting lies: changing stories, pronoun shifts, tense changes, oaths/euphemisms, and repeating questions.  Real-time analysis of Chris Watts’ story: blame shifting, lack of distress, and loss of energy. Over-protesting innocence: when it signals guilt, plus the importance of conversational stakes. The psychology behind power, narcissism, and why some choose destruction over divorce. Unmasking the inner world: how psychopathic people process “unfairness” and why they act out.  How to assess guilt: what to do when your gut says “something’s off.” Understanding charm as a ruse: the D4vid case and why “safe” can be smoke and mirrors. The SCAN method: suspend judgment, context, ask, new judgment, and why it can save you. Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Learn more from Mark Bowden, the world’s #1 Communication Keynote Speaker and expert in Body Language and Human Behavior. Watch deep-dive video breakdowns on his YouTube @MarkBowden1. Website: https://truthplane.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/truthplane/  Social Handles: @truthplane Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING  episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante.  And we are digging even deeper into the tactics con-men and toxic people use to target and manipulate you, and how you can protect yourself and shut down the abuser before it’s too late.  Andrew is NOT holding back, guys!!  We get into:  - The system an abuser will use to SLOWLY manipulate you  - Why it’s SO important to be cautious about who you trust and not let new people in too quickly - How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims   - How master manipulators use seduction, intimacy and sex to control you  - Understanding the foundation and context behind seemingly suspicious behaviors in a person - How you can slow things down, protect yourself, and make decisions in your best interest   - And SOOO much more!! The odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed,  and learning these tactics can actually help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 26 May 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this FASCINATING  episode of Women of Impact with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante.  And we are digging even deeper into the tactics con-men and toxic people use to target and manipulate you, and how you can protect yourself and shut down the abuser before it’s too late.  Andrew is NOT holding back, guys!!  We get into:  - The system an abuser will use to SLOWLY manipulate you  - Why it’s SO important to be cautious about who you trust and not let new people in too quickly - How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims   - How master manipulators use seduction, intimacy and sex to control you  - Understanding the foundation and context behind seemingly suspicious behaviors in a person - How you can slow things down, protect yourself, and make decisions in your best interest   - And SOOO much more!! The odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed,  and learning these tactics can actually help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 26 May 2026

If you’re anything like me and are obsessed with true crime and serial killer documentaries then guys, THIS episode is for you!!! Today’s episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY PACKED with information and tactics so you can spot manipulators and their sleazy grooming process BEFORE they can sink their teeth into you!!  Too many women feel helpless and powerless in situations where they realize they fell for the wolf in sheep's clothing. The reality is, 1 in 10 people are either a psychopath, sociopath, or a narcissist. And while there are differences between the 3 types of abusers, one thing they all have in common is that they will manipulate and con you for their benefit.  This episode, with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, is here to educate and equip you to take control and protect yourself from people who don’t have your best intentions at heart.  Andrew is the absolute expert in spotting these con-artists and has spent years of his life and career studying them! So he is super experienced, knowledgeable, and practical when it comes to spotting & shutting down manipulators.  We cover SOOO much in this episode, including: - The 3 warning signs someone is the “1 out of 10” and is actively trying to manipulate and control you - The natural vulnerabilities most women have to being conned, and how to put up guardrails to protect yourself so you can avoid becoming a victim - How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed, and whether it’s protecting yourself from a toxic romantic relationship, or protecting your grandma from a “helpful” neighbor that seems a little TOO friendly, learning these tactics can help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life.  Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 25 May 2026

If you’re anything like me and are obsessed with true crime and serial killer documentaries then guys, THIS episode is for you!!! Today’s episode of Women of Impact is ABSOLUTELY PACKED with information and tactics so you can spot manipulators and their sleazy grooming process BEFORE they can sink their teeth into you!!  Too many women feel helpless and powerless in situations where they realize they fell for the wolf in sheep's clothing. The reality is, 1 in 10 people are either a psychopath, sociopath, or a narcissist. And while there are differences between the 3 types of abusers, one thing they all have in common is that they will manipulate and con you for their benefit.  This episode, with former CIA spy Andrew Bustamante, is here to educate and equip you to take control and protect yourself from people who don’t have your best intentions at heart.  Andrew is the absolute expert in spotting these con-artists and has spent years of his life and career studying them! So he is super experienced, knowledgeable, and practical when it comes to spotting & shutting down manipulators.  We cover SOOO much in this episode, including: - The 3 warning signs someone is the “1 out of 10” and is actively trying to manipulate and control you - The natural vulnerabilities most women have to being conned, and how to put up guardrails to protect yourself so you can avoid becoming a victim - How real world con artists like the Tinder Swindler, Dirty John, Ted Bundy, and Elizabeth Holmes target and hunt for their victims  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! Seriously guys, the odds of you coming across a con artist is virtually guaranteed, and whether it’s protecting yourself from a toxic romantic relationship, or protecting your grandma from a “helpful” neighbor that seems a little TOO friendly, learning these tactics can help you STOP the con before it starts and even potentially save your life.  Learn your spy superpower: https://everydayspy.com/spyquiz Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 25 May 2026

Ever wonder what really keeps a 26-year relationship strong when everyone else is telling you “just wait, it fades”? Or how you protect your boundaries when family gets toxic, or what to do if you feel “less than” beside your brilliant, articulate partner? Homie, this is your episode. In today’s episode, I’m going all-in, 100% real, answering your top questions about love, loyalty, betrayal, boundaries, sex, and what it truly takes to create a relationship that lasts (and feels amazing from the inside).  From navigating in-laws who question your worth, to fighting that gut-crushing insecurity when you don’t feel smart enough, I’m giving you my cheat codes, my battle scars, and the real conversations I’ve had with my husband after 26 years together. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How I broke free from the insecurity of feeling “less smart” than my husband Setting unshakeable boundaries (even when it’s your partner’s family crossing the line) Preventing your triggers from ruining your relationship: step-by-step The truth about cheating: why it’s never about your worth Creating bulletproof intimacy and never letting your sex life quietly die How to actually heal after betrayal and trust again without losing yourself SHOWNOTES The Real Story Behind My 26-Year Marriage: Ups, Downs, and What Changed Everything Can Relationships Survive If Only One Person Wants to Grow? “I Hate My Role!”: When You Need to Change Who You Are in a Relationship Feeling Insecure When Your Partner Is Smarter or More Articulate Discovering Your Own Superpowers and Building True Partnership The Surprising Pool Hall Lesson That Shifted Our Relationship Power Dynamic Shifting Out of Inferiority and Building Real Confidence Turning Jealousy Into Admiration, and the Work You Must Do Protecting Your Relationship From Toxic Family and Criticism Why You Must Set Boundaries With In-Laws (And How To Do It With Respect) How To Deescalate Triggers and Navigate Major Differences With Your Partner Recognizing Red Flags: My Exact Game Plan for Trigger Pivots Agreeing To Disagree… And When Value Differences Mean It’s Time To Walk Can You Actually Prevent Cheating? (And Why It’s Never About Your Worth) How Important Is Sex and Intimacy, And The Pact That Changed Everything “Bed Death” Is Real: How We Keep Intimacy Alive for Decades Healing After Betrayal: Owning Your Role Without Losing Your Worth Trust Is Earned, Never Given: What To Do Before Loving Again Thank you to this week’s sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2026

Ever wonder what really keeps a 26-year relationship strong when everyone else is telling you “just wait, it fades”? Or how you protect your boundaries when family gets toxic, or what to do if you feel “less than” beside your brilliant, articulate partner? Homie, this is your episode. In today’s episode, I’m going all-in, 100% real, answering your top questions about love, loyalty, betrayal, boundaries, sex, and what it truly takes to create a relationship that lasts (and feels amazing from the inside).  From navigating in-laws who question your worth, to fighting that gut-crushing insecurity when you don’t feel smart enough, I’m giving you my cheat codes, my battle scars, and the real conversations I’ve had with my husband after 26 years together. Here’s exactly what we dive into: How I broke free from the insecurity of feeling “less smart” than my husband Setting unshakeable boundaries (even when it’s your partner’s family crossing the line) Preventing your triggers from ruining your relationship: step-by-step The truth about cheating: why it’s never about your worth Creating bulletproof intimacy and never letting your sex life quietly die How to actually heal after betrayal and trust again without losing yourself SHOWNOTES The Real Story Behind My 26-Year Marriage: Ups, Downs, and What Changed Everything Can Relationships Survive If Only One Person Wants to Grow? “I Hate My Role!”: When You Need to Change Who You Are in a Relationship Feeling Insecure When Your Partner Is Smarter or More Articulate Discovering Your Own Superpowers and Building True Partnership The Surprising Pool Hall Lesson That Shifted Our Relationship Power Dynamic Shifting Out of Inferiority and Building Real Confidence Turning Jealousy Into Admiration, and the Work You Must Do Protecting Your Relationship From Toxic Family and Criticism Why You Must Set Boundaries With In-Laws (And How To Do It With Respect) How To Deescalate Triggers and Navigate Major Differences With Your Partner Recognizing Red Flags: My Exact Game Plan for Trigger Pivots Agreeing To Disagree… And When Value Differences Mean It’s Time To Walk Can You Actually Prevent Cheating? (And Why It’s Never About Your Worth) How Important Is Sex and Intimacy, And The Pact That Changed Everything “Bed Death” Is Real: How We Keep Intimacy Alive for Decades Healing After Betrayal: Owning Your Role Without Losing Your Worth Trust Is Earned, Never Given: What To Do Before Loving Again Thank you to this week’s sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 22 May 2026

Part 2 If you’ve ever doubted your intuition (or stayed silent because you feared no one would believe you) part two is your wakeup call. Dr. Leslie Dobson is back, and we’re going even deeper into the psychology of predators, the chilling reality of institutional betrayal, and the step-by-step ways you can rebuild your confidence and protect yourself after trauma. We talk through what it really takes to keep yourself AND your loved ones safe, how to recognize when you’re being groomed or manipulated (even inside seemingly safe relationships), and why women HAVE to put themselves first: No apologies, no justifications. Leslie's stories will haunt you, but her strategies will empower you. We’re not here for fear, we’re here for the truth, the tactics, and the unapologetic confidence every woman deserves. From the darkest corners of the web to the everyday power moves you need as a woman in this world, this is the real talk your future self will thank you for. SHOWNOTES Navigating Dangerous Encounters & Defusing Command Hallucinations Connection as a Weapon: How Psychopaths Mirror Your Empathy Stepping Up and Owning the Room: Defying Learned Helplessness Why Female Psychopaths Are Even Scarier (and Harder to Spot) The Epstein, Maxwell, and Institutional Grooming Playbook Uncovering the “R*pe Prison”: Systems That Protect Predators The Dark Web, Betrayal, and How Husbands Hide Double Lives The Power of Baselining, and How to Spot Subtle Shifts in People Around You Can Sexual Deviance Evolve Over Time? The Human Capacity for Evil (and How to Own Your Darkness) What Makes One Psychopath Kill and Another Manipulate Millions Rebuilding Confidence: From Physical Tools to Emotional Healing Overcoming Trauma and Finding Your Support Team How to Trust Again After Seeing the Worst in Humanity When No One Believes You: Finding Your Voice and Re-educating Your Circle Thank you to this week’s sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Book: “The Friend Cleanse: How to identify energy vampires, set boundaries & balance your glass of life” https://a.co/d/0ghtZh2d  Follow Dr. Leslie Dobson: Website: https://drlesliedobson.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlesliedobson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlesliedobson Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 21 May 2026

Part 2 If you’ve ever doubted your intuition (or stayed silent because you feared no one would believe you) part two is your wakeup call. Dr. Leslie Dobson is back, and we’re going even deeper into the psychology of predators, the chilling reality of institutional betrayal, and the step-by-step ways you can rebuild your confidence and protect yourself after trauma. We talk through what it really takes to keep yourself AND your loved ones safe, how to recognize when you’re being groomed or manipulated (even inside seemingly safe relationships), and why women HAVE to put themselves first: No apologies, no justifications. Leslie's stories will haunt you, but her strategies will empower you. We’re not here for fear, we’re here for the truth, the tactics, and the unapologetic confidence every woman deserves. From the darkest corners of the web to the everyday power moves you need as a woman in this world, this is the real talk your future self will thank you for. SHOWNOTES Navigating Dangerous Encounters & Defusing Command Hallucinations Connection as a Weapon: How Psychopaths Mirror Your Empathy Stepping Up and Owning the Room: Defying Learned Helplessness Why Female Psychopaths Are Even Scarier (and Harder to Spot) The Epstein, Maxwell, and Institutional Grooming Playbook Uncovering the “R*pe Prison”: Systems That Protect Predators The Dark Web, Betrayal, and How Husbands Hide Double Lives The Power of Baselining, and How to Spot Subtle Shifts in People Around You Can Sexual Deviance Evolve Over Time? The Human Capacity for Evil (and How to Own Your Darkness) What Makes One Psychopath Kill and Another Manipulate Millions Rebuilding Confidence: From Physical Tools to Emotional Healing Overcoming Trauma and Finding Your Support Team How to Trust Again After Seeing the Worst in Humanity When No One Believes You: Finding Your Voice and Re-educating Your Circle Thank you to this week’s sponsors! Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com Monarch: 50% off your first year with code WOI https://monarch.com Book: “The Friend Cleanse: How to identify energy vampires, set boundaries & balance your glass of life” https://a.co/d/0ghtZh2d  Follow Dr. Leslie Dobson: Website: https://drlesliedobson.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlesliedobson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drlesliedobson Follow Lisa Bilyeu: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 21 May 2026

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Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2026

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Transcribed - Published: 20 May 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this BADASS episode with retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, divorced mom of 3, AND 8-figure business owner, my homie Dr. Sonja.  Dr. Sonja is sharing even MORE personal stories, DEEP insights, and mind-blowing tips to help you step up to the plate in your life and not let fear hold you back.  We dive into:  - The 7 warrior woman traits you need to find your POWER and live your life on your own terms!!  - How to decide if you want to stay on the “battlefield” situation that’s going on in your life  - The HEALTHY discipline method to get you where you want to be  - The power of the RIGHT self-care routine FOR YOU - How you can be a strong, powerful woman AND be with a man that takes care of you - The beautiful possibilities that come AFTER you have the courage to leave!! This episode is sooooo good guys, so don’t miss the conclusion of this amazing interview with Dr. Sonja! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 19 May 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this BADASS episode with retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, divorced mom of 3, AND 8-figure business owner, my homie Dr. Sonja.  Dr. Sonja is sharing even MORE personal stories, DEEP insights, and mind-blowing tips to help you step up to the plate in your life and not let fear hold you back.  We dive into:  - The 7 warrior woman traits you need to find your POWER and live your life on your own terms!!  - How to decide if you want to stay on the “battlefield” situation that’s going on in your life  - The HEALTHY discipline method to get you where you want to be  - The power of the RIGHT self-care routine FOR YOU - How you can be a strong, powerful woman AND be with a man that takes care of you - The beautiful possibilities that come AFTER you have the courage to leave!! This episode is sooooo good guys, so don’t miss the conclusion of this amazing interview with Dr. Sonja! And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 19 May 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and get ready for an inspiring and super insightful episode of Women of Impact that is all about how to actually change your life so you’re always moving towards living a life with more purpose and confidence and that’s actually authentic to YOU!!  Today’s guest is sharing her step-by-step roadmap that she’s taught to thousands of women to do just that, it’s my homie, Dr. Sonja!  Dr. Sonja is a retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, a mother of 3, and an 8-figure business owner. From the battlefield to the boardroom, this woman is a TOTAL BADASS, and she has overcome SOOOO many challenges in her life – including a long, painful divorce – BUT despite all of that she has endured and she’s sharing her stories and lessons to help women like you and me learn from her hardships and be able to get back up every single time you get knocked down!! In this episode we’re talking all about:  - How to endure, even when it gets SOOO damn hard, and not let feeling ashamed or guilty stop you back from LIVING YOUR BEST DAMN LIFE!!! - The 4 aspects you should focus on to move towards something that will bring you purpose in life  - How to build your resilience (it’s a SKILL SET) - The difference between being strong vs. powerful - The power that comes from harmonizing your life instead of balancing it - What to focus on when you feel like quitting & giving up  - How to make the most out of the lessons and journey of your life - Dealing with the different “battlefields” in your life and how you can look at them differently  - What to do when you are tempted to just settle with the hand you're dealt  - And so much more!!  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! This episode is FULL of tactical tips and takeaways to elevate your life, so make sure to listen up homie, because it’s NEVER too late to be a warrior woman, but you HAVE TO take action to make it happen!!! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 18 May 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and get ready for an inspiring and super insightful episode of Women of Impact that is all about how to actually change your life so you’re always moving towards living a life with more purpose and confidence and that’s actually authentic to YOU!!  Today’s guest is sharing her step-by-step roadmap that she’s taught to thousands of women to do just that, it’s my homie, Dr. Sonja!  Dr. Sonja is a retired U.S Army Major and combat veteran, a mother of 3, and an 8-figure business owner. From the battlefield to the boardroom, this woman is a TOTAL BADASS, and she has overcome SOOOO many challenges in her life – including a long, painful divorce – BUT despite all of that she has endured and she’s sharing her stories and lessons to help women like you and me learn from her hardships and be able to get back up every single time you get knocked down!! In this episode we’re talking all about:  - How to endure, even when it gets SOOO damn hard, and not let feeling ashamed or guilty stop you back from LIVING YOUR BEST DAMN LIFE!!! - The 4 aspects you should focus on to move towards something that will bring you purpose in life  - How to build your resilience (it’s a SKILL SET) - The difference between being strong vs. powerful - The power that comes from harmonizing your life instead of balancing it - What to focus on when you feel like quitting & giving up  - How to make the most out of the lessons and journey of your life - Dealing with the different “battlefields” in your life and how you can look at them differently  - What to do when you are tempted to just settle with the hand you're dealt  - And so much more!!  And that’s just in part 1 of this 2 part episode! This episode is FULL of tactical tips and takeaways to elevate your life, so make sure to listen up homie, because it’s NEVER too late to be a warrior woman, but you HAVE TO take action to make it happen!!! Follow Dr. Sonja Stribling: Website: https://drsonjabrands.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamdrsonja/ Order “From the Battlefield to the Boardroom”: https://a.co/d/c5VdypN Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: ⁠https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu⁠  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 18 May 2026

Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer. Thank you to today’s sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2026

Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.lisabilyeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section. That’s 100% a scammer. Thank you to today’s sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 15 May 2026

Real talk: How do you quit falling for dangerous charmers, manipulative narcissists, or men who only reveal their true colors after you’re already invested? Welcome to Part 2 of my mind-blowing conversation with Dr. Gad Saad: Evolutionary Behavioral Scientist, best-selling author, and relentless unraveler of human behavior. We go ALL IN on the psychology of self-sabotage, how to finally take ownership of your choices, and why your “type” might be holding you back. In this unmissable second half, we dissect self-serving bias, breaking destructive patterns, and how to stop being your own worst enemy. Plus: what is “Alpine Divorce” (and why is it blowing up right now!), what the heck is the dark triad, the evolutionary roots of psychopathy, sperm wars, why men AND women cheat, and how your bundle of traits determines lifelong happiness. It’s not just about finding the right partner: It’s about understanding YOURSELF and protecting your heart before it gets broken (again). SHOWNOTES Why Empathetic Women Fall for Narcissists How Childhood and Attachment Styles Influence Your Choices Ambition as Bait: How Predators Use Your Dreams Against You Lisa’s Personal Story: From People-Pleaser to Powerhouse What Is an “Alpine Divorce” and Why Is This Trend SO Messed Up? The Dark Triad (And Why You Need to Watch for It) Machiavellianism: Always Bad, or Sometimes Useful? Why Are Some People Psychopaths? The Evolutionary Argument Personality Types, Tribe Dynamics & Why “One Size” Does NOT Fit All Why Evolution Didn’t Erase Psychopathy Would You Rather Face a Bear or a Man in the Woods? (The SURPRISING Answer) What Women REALLY Fear, and What Evolution Says About It Why Women Cheat (and When). Science vs. Stereotype The Sperm Wars Theory & Hidden Truths of Monogamy Do Men Cheat When Their Wives Are Pregnant? How Fatherhood Changes Male Testosterone (and Behavior) When Men’s Testosterone Spikes, And What It Means for Your Relationship When Winning (Or Losing) Drives Sex and Violence Why We Choose the Wrong Men: The Problem with Shallow “Types” The Secret to Lasting Relationships: Bundle of Attributes > One Trait Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 14 May 2026

Real talk: How do you quit falling for dangerous charmers, manipulative narcissists, or men who only reveal their true colors after you’re already invested? Welcome to Part 2 of my mind-blowing conversation with Dr. Gad Saad: Evolutionary Behavioral Scientist, best-selling author, and relentless unraveler of human behavior. We go ALL IN on the psychology of self-sabotage, how to finally take ownership of your choices, and why your “type” might be holding you back. In this unmissable second half, we dissect self-serving bias, breaking destructive patterns, and how to stop being your own worst enemy. Plus: what is “Alpine Divorce” (and why is it blowing up right now!), what the heck is the dark triad, the evolutionary roots of psychopathy, sperm wars, why men AND women cheat, and how your bundle of traits determines lifelong happiness. It’s not just about finding the right partner: It’s about understanding YOURSELF and protecting your heart before it gets broken (again). SHOWNOTES Why Empathetic Women Fall for Narcissists How Childhood and Attachment Styles Influence Your Choices Ambition as Bait: How Predators Use Your Dreams Against You Lisa’s Personal Story: From People-Pleaser to Powerhouse What Is an “Alpine Divorce” and Why Is This Trend SO Messed Up? The Dark Triad (And Why You Need to Watch for It) Machiavellianism: Always Bad, or Sometimes Useful? Why Are Some People Psychopaths? The Evolutionary Argument Personality Types, Tribe Dynamics & Why “One Size” Does NOT Fit All Why Evolution Didn’t Erase Psychopathy Would You Rather Face a Bear or a Man in the Woods? (The SURPRISING Answer) What Women REALLY Fear, and What Evolution Says About It Why Women Cheat (and When). Science vs. Stereotype The Sperm Wars Theory & Hidden Truths of Monogamy Do Men Cheat When Their Wives Are Pregnant? How Fatherhood Changes Male Testosterone (and Behavior) When Men’s Testosterone Spikes, And What It Means for Your Relationship When Winning (Or Losing) Drives Sex and Violence Why We Choose the Wrong Men: The Problem with Shallow “Types” The Secret to Lasting Relationships: Bundle of Attributes > One Trait Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 14 May 2026

You guys know I am obsessed with understanding why we do the things we do, especially the things that get us hurt. And today’s guest is the perfect guide. Dr. Gad Saad is an evolutionary behavioral scientist, professor, bestselling author, and one of the world’s boldest truth-tellers when it comes to the hard science behind jealousy, abuse, attraction, and the dark side of human relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why the “bad boy” draws you in, why jealousy can be so dangerous, or why some relationships escalate into control and even violence, this is the episode you need. Dr. Saad pulls no punches, and you’ll be SHOCKED by how much of your love life can be explained by ancient evolutionary pressures. In Part 1, we dig deep into the evolutionary truths behind why women are repeatedly drawn to the same red-flag men, why men get so possessive and jealous, and the biological reasons behind dangerous behavior in relationships. Get ready to have your mind blown (and maybe cringe a little) as we unpack child abuse, infidelity, the real meaning of jealousy, red flags to watch for, and why “dangerous” is sometimes so damn attractive. SHOWNOTES Why Your Husband Is Statistically the Most Dangerous Person In Your Life Child Abuse, Step-parents & the Cinderella Effect The Lion Analogy: Brutal Nature, Brutal Lessons Different Types of Abuse: Stepmother vs. Stepfather Why Men Evolved Jealousy & Rage Over Infidelity Evolutionary Explanations Aren’t Excuses Lisa’s Story: Taking Ownership After Staying Silent How to Vet for Jealousy: Traits & Red Flags Controlling Partners: When Jealousy Becomes Dangerous Situational vs. Dispositional Jealousy & Fundamental Attribution Error Opposites Attract? Or “Birds of a Feather”? (What Actually Works) The Height Rule: Why Almost No Women Pick Shorter Men What Makes “Alpha” Men So Risky? (From Lions to Epstein) Ostrich Parasitic Syndrome: Why We Ignore Red Flags Why Some Women Fall for Predators: Ambition, Gut Instinct, and Dangerous Men Parental Investment Theory & Women’s “Calibration” The Fantasy vs. The Reality of Taming Bad Boys “Mate Value” and Why High-Value Women Don’t Settle for Red Flags Why High-Status Men Cheat (and What Unlocks Male Power) What Women Really Want: Social Dominance, Empathy, and the Right Amount of Power When Power Spills into Abuse Why Certain Famous Men are Sex Symbols for Some, Not All The Real-Life “Fifty Shades” and the Power of Arrogance Sneaky F*cker Strategies: How “Soft Boys” Manipulate Empathy Serial Killer Tactics: The Wounded Bird Routine Lisa’s Real-Life Crime Story: Trusting Your Gut, Not Your Empathy Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 13 May 2026

You guys know I am obsessed with understanding why we do the things we do, especially the things that get us hurt. And today’s guest is the perfect guide. Dr. Gad Saad is an evolutionary behavioral scientist, professor, bestselling author, and one of the world’s boldest truth-tellers when it comes to the hard science behind jealousy, abuse, attraction, and the dark side of human relationships. If you’ve ever wondered why the “bad boy” draws you in, why jealousy can be so dangerous, or why some relationships escalate into control and even violence, this is the episode you need. Dr. Saad pulls no punches, and you’ll be SHOCKED by how much of your love life can be explained by ancient evolutionary pressures. In Part 1, we dig deep into the evolutionary truths behind why women are repeatedly drawn to the same red-flag men, why men get so possessive and jealous, and the biological reasons behind dangerous behavior in relationships. Get ready to have your mind blown (and maybe cringe a little) as we unpack child abuse, infidelity, the real meaning of jealousy, red flags to watch for, and why “dangerous” is sometimes so damn attractive. SHOWNOTES Why Your Husband Is Statistically the Most Dangerous Person In Your Life Child Abuse, Step-parents & the Cinderella Effect The Lion Analogy: Brutal Nature, Brutal Lessons Different Types of Abuse: Stepmother vs. Stepfather Why Men Evolved Jealousy & Rage Over Infidelity Evolutionary Explanations Aren’t Excuses Lisa’s Story: Taking Ownership After Staying Silent How to Vet for Jealousy: Traits & Red Flags Controlling Partners: When Jealousy Becomes Dangerous Situational vs. Dispositional Jealousy & Fundamental Attribution Error Opposites Attract? Or “Birds of a Feather”? (What Actually Works) The Height Rule: Why Almost No Women Pick Shorter Men What Makes “Alpha” Men So Risky? (From Lions to Epstein) Ostrich Parasitic Syndrome: Why We Ignore Red Flags Why Some Women Fall for Predators: Ambition, Gut Instinct, and Dangerous Men Parental Investment Theory & Women’s “Calibration” The Fantasy vs. The Reality of Taming Bad Boys “Mate Value” and Why High-Value Women Don’t Settle for Red Flags Why High-Status Men Cheat (and What Unlocks Male Power) What Women Really Want: Social Dominance, Empathy, and the Right Amount of Power When Power Spills into Abuse Why Certain Famous Men are Sex Symbols for Some, Not All The Real-Life “Fifty Shades” and the Power of Arrogance Sneaky F*cker Strategies: How “Soft Boys” Manipulate Empathy Serial Killer Tactics: The Wounded Bird Routine Lisa’s Real-Life Crime Story: Trusting Your Gut, Not Your Empathy Thank you to our sponsors: HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 OneSkin: 15% off with code LISA at https://oneskin.co/lisa Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa Follow Dr. Gad Saad X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/GadSaad YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/ Book: “The Parasitic Mind” (and pre-order “Suicidal Empathy”) FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 13 May 2026

If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s chaos, or worried that “genius” gives people a hall pass for bad behavior, Part 2 is your game-changer. In the second half, ex CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and I dive even deeper into the psychological maze of Kanye West. From his infamous Sway interview to his viral Piers Morgan clashes, we dissect the moments that had everyone screaming “Narcissist!”, and reveal why the truth is far more complicated, painful, and urgent for every woman dealing with emotional instability in her world. We dig into the impact of brain injury, bipolar disorder, and why some people never develop the filters that keep their emotions (and outbursts) in check. Most importantly, we talk about what to do when love collides with someone’s untreated (or undiagnosed) mental health struggles, and how to protect yourself when patterns are clear but solutions aren’t. Here’s how you spot the difference between manipulation and genuine developmental challenge, and why YOU are always your own hero. SHOWNOTES “I am the most impactful artist of our generation”—how to decode self-aggrandizement The Sway interview: repetition, rage, and spectrum behaviors No eye contact, mic awareness—signs of autistic spectrum Creative talent meets developmental challenge: Where the myths fall apart Emotional escalation and de-escalation: The validation pattern Body language: manufactured confidence, defensive posture, and what’s different (Piers Morgan) Answering like a child: What the “look at my view” moment really tells us Cognitive struggle, stalling, and stunted adaptation Male competition, showmanship, and abrasive deflection Shifted tone, no aggression, and dissociative energy—possible signs of medication The letter: Car accident, frontal lobe injury, and newly diagnosed bipolar I Excuses vs. explanations: What medical trauma DOES and DOESN’T excuse Shared responsibility: How to protect yourself, love wisely, and make the safest next decision Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 12 May 2026

If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s chaos, or worried that “genius” gives people a hall pass for bad behavior, Part 2 is your game-changer. In the second half, ex CIA spy Andrew Bustamante and I dive even deeper into the psychological maze of Kanye West. From his infamous Sway interview to his viral Piers Morgan clashes, we dissect the moments that had everyone screaming “Narcissist!”, and reveal why the truth is far more complicated, painful, and urgent for every woman dealing with emotional instability in her world. We dig into the impact of brain injury, bipolar disorder, and why some people never develop the filters that keep their emotions (and outbursts) in check. Most importantly, we talk about what to do when love collides with someone’s untreated (or undiagnosed) mental health struggles, and how to protect yourself when patterns are clear but solutions aren’t. Here’s how you spot the difference between manipulation and genuine developmental challenge, and why YOU are always your own hero. SHOWNOTES “I am the most impactful artist of our generation”—how to decode self-aggrandizement The Sway interview: repetition, rage, and spectrum behaviors No eye contact, mic awareness—signs of autistic spectrum Creative talent meets developmental challenge: Where the myths fall apart Emotional escalation and de-escalation: The validation pattern Body language: manufactured confidence, defensive posture, and what’s different (Piers Morgan) Answering like a child: What the “look at my view” moment really tells us Cognitive struggle, stalling, and stunted adaptation Male competition, showmanship, and abrasive deflection Shifted tone, no aggression, and dissociative energy—possible signs of medication The letter: Car accident, frontal lobe injury, and newly diagnosed bipolar I Excuses vs. explanations: What medical trauma DOES and DOESN’T excuse Shared responsibility: How to protect yourself, love wisely, and make the safest next decision Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 12 May 2026

You know those moments when you’re transfixed by someone’s words, but what’s lurking underneath is screaming for your attention? Or when you wonder, is this person unpredictable out of passion, pain… or something darker? Today’s episode is the breakdown you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA spy, elite operations officer, and real-life human lie detector. Together, we analyze the one and only Kanye West (Ye): his outbursts, emotional swings, the public meltdowns. Is Kanye simply a misunderstood creative genius? Dealing with undiagnosed mental health struggles? Or is he, as many headlines have suggested, a classic narcissist? We use real clips, direct transcripts, and Andrew’s expertise in body language and behavioral analysis to pull back the curtain on one of pop culture’s most polarizing figures. This is your crash course in influence literacy, learning to spot red flags and decode the truth: Whether you’re dealing with a superstar, a partner, or your own inner circle. And trust me, by the end, you will never look at these behaviors the same way. SHOWNOTES Outbursts, danger, and childish tantrums—what’s really going on? Andrew analyzes emotional outbursts vs. creative personality Is this mental health, narcissism, or something else? Clues from Kim Kardashian: When personalities change Chemical imbalance, neurodivergence, and non-physical aggression Autism spectrum, developmental issues, and family reactions Validation, childlike reactions, and the power of emotional response Breakdown: Manipulation vs. intimidation: Narcissist or something deeper? Medication, hospital visits, and the suppressed self Kris Jenner’s calm: Recognizing long-term family patterns Why validation works and how patterns help partners cope Storming off: The sensory overload escape Why not all coping mechanisms are intentional Hollywood, interviews, and new layers of Kanye behavior Body language breakdown: aggression, openness, confusion Structured thinking, repetition, and spectrum tells The man-child trap: Obligation vs. manipulation in relationships Repetition, grandiose demands, and the difference between narcissistic and developmental thinking Mimicry, mental stunting, and what disrupted Kanye’s growth Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 11 May 2026

You know those moments when you’re transfixed by someone’s words, but what’s lurking underneath is screaming for your attention? Or when you wonder, is this person unpredictable out of passion, pain… or something darker? Today’s episode is the breakdown you didn’t know you needed. I’m joined by Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA spy, elite operations officer, and real-life human lie detector. Together, we analyze the one and only Kanye West (Ye): his outbursts, emotional swings, the public meltdowns. Is Kanye simply a misunderstood creative genius? Dealing with undiagnosed mental health struggles? Or is he, as many headlines have suggested, a classic narcissist? We use real clips, direct transcripts, and Andrew’s expertise in body language and behavioral analysis to pull back the curtain on one of pop culture’s most polarizing figures. This is your crash course in influence literacy, learning to spot red flags and decode the truth: Whether you’re dealing with a superstar, a partner, or your own inner circle. And trust me, by the end, you will never look at these behaviors the same way. SHOWNOTES Outbursts, danger, and childish tantrums—what’s really going on? Andrew analyzes emotional outbursts vs. creative personality Is this mental health, narcissism, or something else? Clues from Kim Kardashian: When personalities change Chemical imbalance, neurodivergence, and non-physical aggression Autism spectrum, developmental issues, and family reactions Validation, childlike reactions, and the power of emotional response Breakdown: Manipulation vs. intimidation: Narcissist or something deeper? Medication, hospital visits, and the suppressed self Kris Jenner’s calm: Recognizing long-term family patterns Why validation works and how patterns help partners cope Storming off: The sensory overload escape Why not all coping mechanisms are intentional Hollywood, interviews, and new layers of Kanye behavior Body language breakdown: aggression, openness, confusion Structured thinking, repetition, and spectrum tells The man-child trap: Obligation vs. manipulation in relationships Repetition, grandiose demands, and the difference between narcissistic and developmental thinking Mimicry, mental stunting, and what disrupted Kanye’s growth Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Andrew Bustamante: Website: https://everydayspy.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EverydaySpyPodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/everydayspy Twitter: https://twitter.com/everydayspy FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 11 May 2026

You ever get hit with that gut-wrenching moment when your bestie ghosts you for zero reason, or you’re stuck in a toxic group chat that makes Mean Girls look like a Disney movie? Or maybe you’re STILL overanalyzing that friendship you let go of a decade ago and wondering… did I really do the right thing? Homie, grab your coffee and let’s talk. Because today, it’s just YOU and ME! And we’re getting real about all the juicy, complicated, and heartbreaking friendship dilemmas you sent in for our very first Q&A episode! I’m peeling back all the layers on friendship breakups, boundaries, frenemy betrayal, toxic family, ghosting, and why trusting yourself is the first step to never abandoning who you really are. If you’ve ever felt alone, confused, stuck, or alone in a room full of “friends”… This is YOUR episode. And if you love this, smash that follow button, slide into my DMs with your burning questions, and let’s make this the most supportive, unfiltered space on the internet. SHOWNOTES When to Let Go Of a Friendship (And How to Know It Was the Right Call) Setting Boundaries with Toxic In-Laws (or Anyone!) Getting Ghosted By Your Friend: Surviving Without Blaming (or Losing) Yourself How to Set Boundaries Without Drowning in Guilt The Phone-Off Weekend: My Bravest Boundary Move Ever Dealing With Pushback & Teaching Others to Support Your Needs Why True Friends Show Up Even When Plans Change Ending the Cycle of Confusion, Guilt & Second-Guessing Understanding you can’t “fix” other people—only YOUR response How to show up strong after betrayal… and still let in the good ones Thank you, EVERY single one of you, for sending in your most vulnerable questions and stories. You are NOT alone in this! Want more? Make sure to follow, share your story, and DM me on Instagram! This Q&A series is just getting started. FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2026

You ever get hit with that gut-wrenching moment when your bestie ghosts you for zero reason, or you’re stuck in a toxic group chat that makes Mean Girls look like a Disney movie? Or maybe you’re STILL overanalyzing that friendship you let go of a decade ago and wondering… did I really do the right thing? Homie, grab your coffee and let’s talk. Because today, it’s just YOU and ME! And we’re getting real about all the juicy, complicated, and heartbreaking friendship dilemmas you sent in for our very first Q&A episode! I’m peeling back all the layers on friendship breakups, boundaries, frenemy betrayal, toxic family, ghosting, and why trusting yourself is the first step to never abandoning who you really are. If you’ve ever felt alone, confused, stuck, or alone in a room full of “friends”… This is YOUR episode. And if you love this, smash that follow button, slide into my DMs with your burning questions, and let’s make this the most supportive, unfiltered space on the internet. SHOWNOTES When to Let Go Of a Friendship (And How to Know It Was the Right Call) Setting Boundaries with Toxic In-Laws (or Anyone!) Getting Ghosted By Your Friend: Surviving Without Blaming (or Losing) Yourself How to Set Boundaries Without Drowning in Guilt The Phone-Off Weekend: My Bravest Boundary Move Ever Dealing With Pushback & Teaching Others to Support Your Needs Why True Friends Show Up Even When Plans Change Ending the Cycle of Confusion, Guilt & Second-Guessing Understanding you can’t “fix” other people—only YOUR response How to show up strong after betrayal… and still let in the good ones Thank you, EVERY single one of you, for sending in your most vulnerable questions and stories. You are NOT alone in this! Want more? Make sure to follow, share your story, and DM me on Instagram! This Q&A series is just getting started. FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 8 May 2026

If you’ve ever stared at your phone, rereading a text from a so-called friend and thinking, “Am I crazy, or is she actually sabotaging me?”... Homie, THIS is the brutal-but-liberating episode you need. Part 2 dives HEAD FIRST into the most insidious, covert tactics that female narcissists and manipulators use to keep you confused, isolated, and doubting your own self-worth. Licensed psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno seriously takes us to school on how reputation poisonings, smear campaigns, and performative loyalty can destroy your confidence in ways a bad boyfriend never could. We go deep into survival strategies, how to rebuild your self-trust, spot toxic patterns (even with family. Yes, we go FULL IN on mother-daughter dynamics), and the concrete steps that can get you OUT for good. This part is ALL about healing, reclaiming your reality, and setting unbreakable boundaries. SHOWNOTES: How Smear Campaigns Start Before You Even Meet Golden Child, Scapegoat, and Narcissistic Mothers Reputation Poisoning—Being Judged Before You Even Walk In How to Rebuild Your Reality Confidence, Step by Step Name the Behavior: Why Language Changes EVERYTHING Spotting the Pattern: Liking or Not, It’s Still There Accept It Was Intentional: The Truth About Manipulation How to Validate Your Perceptions & Stop Gaslighting Yourself Setting Boundaries: Contracting with Yourself for Integrity First Steps Out: Education, Community & Freedom Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 7 May 2026

If you’ve ever stared at your phone, rereading a text from a so-called friend and thinking, “Am I crazy, or is she actually sabotaging me?”... Homie, THIS is the brutal-but-liberating episode you need. Part 2 dives HEAD FIRST into the most insidious, covert tactics that female narcissists and manipulators use to keep you confused, isolated, and doubting your own self-worth. Licensed psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno seriously takes us to school on how reputation poisonings, smear campaigns, and performative loyalty can destroy your confidence in ways a bad boyfriend never could. We go deep into survival strategies, how to rebuild your self-trust, spot toxic patterns (even with family. Yes, we go FULL IN on mother-daughter dynamics), and the concrete steps that can get you OUT for good. This part is ALL about healing, reclaiming your reality, and setting unbreakable boundaries. SHOWNOTES: How Smear Campaigns Start Before You Even Meet Golden Child, Scapegoat, and Narcissistic Mothers Reputation Poisoning—Being Judged Before You Even Walk In How to Rebuild Your Reality Confidence, Step by Step Name the Behavior: Why Language Changes EVERYTHING Spotting the Pattern: Liking or Not, It’s Still There Accept It Was Intentional: The Truth About Manipulation How to Validate Your Perceptions & Stop Gaslighting Yourself Setting Boundaries: Contracting with Yourself for Integrity First Steps Out: Education, Community & Freedom Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 7 May 2026

You know those friendships where you keep giving and giving but somehow end up feeling drained and confused every single time? Or the “bestie” who makes sly comments that just don’t sit right, but you talk yourself out of it because… girl code? I have BEEN there, and today is the day we’re finally breaking it all DOWN. For this very special deep dive I called in Dr. Peter Salerno licensed psychotherapist, author, and a true expert on narcissism, manipulation, and what happens when toxic “friendships” start eroding your confidence and warping your reality. You guys have seriously flooded my inbox about female narcissists, toxic girl groups, and why it’s so damn hard to spot the sabotage when it’s coming from another woman. So buckle up: Part 1 is THE must-listen guide to understanding the dark tactics that thrive in female friendships, from weaponized secrets all the way to emotional blackmail. SHOWNOTES What Makes a Female Narcissist Different? Why Do We Trust Women More? Cultural Blind Spots Exposed The Engine of Narcissism in Friend Groups Weaponizing Secrets & False Confiding How Narcissists Use “Girl Code” as a Weapon Healthy Skepticism - How to Protect Yourself from Emotional Manipulation Passive Aggressive Jokes vs. Covert Aggression Triangulation: Pitting Friends Against Each Other The Power of Loyalty & How It Gets Exploited Self Doubt, Gaslighting and the Shame Spiral When Things Turn DARK: Borderline, Psychopathy, and Group Retaliation Friendship Betrayal, Cognitive Dissonance, and Second Guessing Yourself Performative Friendships vs. the Real Thing How Friendship “Cult Leaders” Make You Doubt Your Own Reality Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 6 May 2026

You know those friendships where you keep giving and giving but somehow end up feeling drained and confused every single time? Or the “bestie” who makes sly comments that just don’t sit right, but you talk yourself out of it because… girl code? I have BEEN there, and today is the day we’re finally breaking it all DOWN. For this very special deep dive I called in Dr. Peter Salerno licensed psychotherapist, author, and a true expert on narcissism, manipulation, and what happens when toxic “friendships” start eroding your confidence and warping your reality. You guys have seriously flooded my inbox about female narcissists, toxic girl groups, and why it’s so damn hard to spot the sabotage when it’s coming from another woman. So buckle up: Part 1 is THE must-listen guide to understanding the dark tactics that thrive in female friendships, from weaponized secrets all the way to emotional blackmail. SHOWNOTES What Makes a Female Narcissist Different? Why Do We Trust Women More? Cultural Blind Spots Exposed The Engine of Narcissism in Friend Groups Weaponizing Secrets & False Confiding How Narcissists Use “Girl Code” as a Weapon Healthy Skepticism - How to Protect Yourself from Emotional Manipulation Passive Aggressive Jokes vs. Covert Aggression Triangulation: Pitting Friends Against Each Other The Power of Loyalty & How It Gets Exploited Self Doubt, Gaslighting and the Shame Spiral When Things Turn DARK: Borderline, Psychopathy, and Group Retaliation Friendship Betrayal, Cognitive Dissonance, and Second Guessing Yourself Performative Friendships vs. the Real Thing How Friendship “Cult Leaders” Make You Doubt Your Own Reality Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth: code COZYLISA for 20% off https://cozyearth.com IQ Bar: 20% off and FREE shipping, text LISA to 64000 Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa HomeServe: Plans start at just $4.99 a month https://homeserve.com Follow Dr. Peter Salerno: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpetersalerno Website: https://www.drpetersalerno.com YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drpetersalerno Books: Amazon search “Dr Peter Salerno” FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 6 May 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this absolutely FIRE episode of Women of Impact with the ultra-inspiring marketer, entrepreneur, and frikin’ resilient confident badass, Coach Stormy!!  And she is sharing with us allllll her secrets to unbelievable resilience. Even as she faced the death of her mother, divorce and postpartum depression, and went from her highest highs to her lowest lows, she embraced her SPICE, got vulnerable, and rebuilt herself better than before!  We also talk about:  - Strategies to take ownership of your life and your dreams (instead of stuffing them in the closet!!) - Her tactics for killing your ego so you can finally become unstoppable - And sooooo many more gems of wisdom!  So my homie, don't miss out on the final part with my girl, Coach Stormy.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 4 May 2026

Welcome back to part 2 of this absolutely FIRE episode of Women of Impact with the ultra-inspiring marketer, entrepreneur, and frikin’ resilient confident badass, Coach Stormy!!  And she is sharing with us allllll her secrets to unbelievable resilience. Even as she faced the death of her mother, divorce and postpartum depression, and went from her highest highs to her lowest lows, she embraced her SPICE, got vulnerable, and rebuilt herself better than before!  We also talk about:  - Strategies to take ownership of your life and your dreams (instead of stuffing them in the closet!!) - Her tactics for killing your ego so you can finally become unstoppable - And sooooo many more gems of wisdom!  So my homie, don't miss out on the final part with my girl, Coach Stormy.  And if you're loving Women of Impact, please take a moment to leave us a review or rate the show. Your feedback is incredibly valuable! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 4 May 2026

Have you ever looked at someone who’s crazy successful and thought, “Wow, they must be one in a BILLION, and there's NOOOO way I can be or do that”???  Well, my homie, get ready because today's episode of Women of Impact is all about showing you that YOU absolutely can be that anomaly too, no matter wherever you're starting from. It’s totally possible homie, IF, and that’s a BIG IF, you have the right mindset, the right strategies, and the right approach.  And that’s why today I’ve brought on the amaaaaaazing frikin’ badass Coach Stormy. She is known for her massive success in marketing and direct sales, but few know she grew up with a lot of adversity (including drugs, stripping, food stamps, and more).  Get ready to learn what it takes to be the anomaly, because Coach Stormy is breaking down: - Exact steps she took to rebuild herself AND her confidence to go from being a teen mom stripping and on food stamps, to a multi-million dollar entrepreneur and inspiration to women around the world - Her R-I-C-H strategy that you can use to stay grounded, authentic, and focused on your journey to transform your life and become a more confident badass - Tactics you can use to stand up for yourself in a respectful way when someone disrespects you - Actual steps you need to take to go from your lowest low, to developing amazing, resilient, badass confidence!!!  Once you’re done absorbing the FIRE wisdom from Coach Stormy, you’ll be ready to start rebuilding your life IMMEDIATELY and believe for a frikin’ fact that no matter where you are right now, you can change your life if you take responsibility and make it happen! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 3 May 2026

Have you ever looked at someone who’s crazy successful and thought, “Wow, they must be one in a BILLION, and there's NOOOO way I can be or do that”???  Well, my homie, get ready because today's episode of Women of Impact is all about showing you that YOU absolutely can be that anomaly too, no matter wherever you're starting from. It’s totally possible homie, IF, and that’s a BIG IF, you have the right mindset, the right strategies, and the right approach.  And that’s why today I’ve brought on the amaaaaaazing frikin’ badass Coach Stormy. She is known for her massive success in marketing and direct sales, but few know she grew up with a lot of adversity (including drugs, stripping, food stamps, and more).  Get ready to learn what it takes to be the anomaly, because Coach Stormy is breaking down: - Exact steps she took to rebuild herself AND her confidence to go from being a teen mom stripping and on food stamps, to a multi-million dollar entrepreneur and inspiration to women around the world - Her R-I-C-H strategy that you can use to stay grounded, authentic, and focused on your journey to transform your life and become a more confident badass - Tactics you can use to stand up for yourself in a respectful way when someone disrespects you - Actual steps you need to take to go from your lowest low, to developing amazing, resilient, badass confidence!!!  Once you’re done absorbing the FIRE wisdom from Coach Stormy, you’ll be ready to start rebuilding your life IMMEDIATELY and believe for a frikin’ fact that no matter where you are right now, you can change your life if you take responsibility and make it happen! Follow Coach Stormy: Website: https://stormywellington.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachstormy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachstormy?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@coachstormy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 3 May 2026

There are SO many pressures that are put on us women – like to get married, to have kids, to have an amazing career – ALL at the same time and before it’s “too late”.  So it’s sadly no surprise at all how many women end up succumbing to the MASSIVE pressures and just give up on finding Mr. Right, or the job that they’re actually passionate about, and settle in the hopes that it will make everyone else (even the mailman) happy.  And we all know how that goes, right?? You end up living everyone else's life and you are left feeling like an empty shell of that amazing woman that you either used to be or the woman that you know that you can be! So on this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to bring on someone who stood her ground despite the INSANE pressures, broke the mold of what everyone expected of her, and got back up, even when life kept knocking her down!  This inspiring woman has it ALL - the career, the marriage, and the family - without giving in or settling. BUT (and of course there’s a catch), she didn’t do it until she was frikin’ 48 years old and most people said it was too late for her.  Today’s guest is journalist, talk show host, and author Tamron Hall!!  Now homies, you KNOW I believe in my core that age is just a number and you should NEVER let it stop you from making your dreams come true, and Tamron couldn’t be a better frikin’ role model to learn from!  In this episode, we dig into:  - How to maintain your confidence and get back up, even when you’ve been fired, left ANOTHER bad relationship, or feel like you’re “past your prime” - Why you need to bet on yourself if you want to actually make changes in your life   - Tamron’s genius way of thinking about everything in your life as preparation  - How to handle people calling you difficult  - How to stay open to a man coming into your life, even when you think it’s “too late” for you - And so much more!!   Let me tell you guys, by the end of this episode, you will know exactly what you need to do to, no matter what age you are, to take your power back in your life, not let challenges knock your confidence down, and do what you need to frikin’ do to make your dreams a reality WITHOUT settling or succumbing to anyone else's pressures in life!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2026

There are SO many pressures that are put on us women – like to get married, to have kids, to have an amazing career – ALL at the same time and before it’s “too late”.  So it’s sadly no surprise at all how many women end up succumbing to the MASSIVE pressures and just give up on finding Mr. Right, or the job that they’re actually passionate about, and settle in the hopes that it will make everyone else (even the mailman) happy.  And we all know how that goes, right?? You end up living everyone else's life and you are left feeling like an empty shell of that amazing woman that you either used to be or the woman that you know that you can be! So on this episode of Women of Impact, I wanted to bring on someone who stood her ground despite the INSANE pressures, broke the mold of what everyone expected of her, and got back up, even when life kept knocking her down!  This inspiring woman has it ALL - the career, the marriage, and the family - without giving in or settling. BUT (and of course there’s a catch), she didn’t do it until she was frikin’ 48 years old and most people said it was too late for her.  Today’s guest is journalist, talk show host, and author Tamron Hall!!  Now homies, you KNOW I believe in my core that age is just a number and you should NEVER let it stop you from making your dreams come true, and Tamron couldn’t be a better frikin’ role model to learn from!  In this episode, we dig into:  - How to maintain your confidence and get back up, even when you’ve been fired, left ANOTHER bad relationship, or feel like you’re “past your prime” - Why you need to bet on yourself if you want to actually make changes in your life   - Tamron’s genius way of thinking about everything in your life as preparation  - How to handle people calling you difficult  - How to stay open to a man coming into your life, even when you think it’s “too late” for you - And so much more!!   Let me tell you guys, by the end of this episode, you will know exactly what you need to do to, no matter what age you are, to take your power back in your life, not let challenges knock your confidence down, and do what you need to frikin’ do to make your dreams a reality WITHOUT settling or succumbing to anyone else's pressures in life!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 1 May 2026

So you want to know if your partner, or your boss, or literally ANYONE, is lying to your face? Welcome to the masterclass. In Part 2 with Lena Sisco, we go even deeper into the art of lie detection, breaking down the infamous Bill Gates interviews, and teaching you the “triangle of truth” every woman needs. You’ll learn exactly how to decode red flags in body language, rate of speech, and verbal dodging in real-time… no lie detector needed. We get fiercely practical too: you’ll uncover the invisible biases that trap smart women into trusting the wrong people, plus the 4 reasons why people lie (and what each motive reveals about the person across from you). Want to know the key question to crack ANY liar? Or the one body movement that exposes deception 100% of the time? It’s all here: With scripts, breakdowns, and pop culture case studies so you’ll never be blindsided by a manipulator again. SHOWNOTES How reading body language reveals your own hidden insecurities NBC Interview: Gates’ admission, omission, and the smirk that says everything The “cat ate the canary” grin: What every liar leaks Frozen faces, head turns, and why body orientation screams avoidance The 6 subconscious biases that get women hurt: Stereotype, similar-to-me, halo effect, “if they’re doing it,” bond, and confirmation The cult playbook: How charisma + credibility can fool anyone Groupthink, the bond bias, and losing your intuition Why knowing your own bias matters as much as reading the other person The four reasons people lie—and how to recognize each motive Can people believe their own lies? Why not even psychopaths are exempt Why polygraphs fail (and how to spot a liar without one) How to use lie type to shape your questions and crack the truth The biggest mistake women make: Minimization, and why never to use it The script & strategy: How to actually confront your partner about cheating The step-by-step checklist for confronting lies (and when to run) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  FOLLOW LENA SISCO: Website:https://lenasisco.com LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenacsisco/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ ⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 30 April 2026

So you want to know if your partner, or your boss, or literally ANYONE, is lying to your face? Welcome to the masterclass. In Part 2 with Lena Sisco, we go even deeper into the art of lie detection, breaking down the infamous Bill Gates interviews, and teaching you the “triangle of truth” every woman needs. You’ll learn exactly how to decode red flags in body language, rate of speech, and verbal dodging in real-time… no lie detector needed. We get fiercely practical too: you’ll uncover the invisible biases that trap smart women into trusting the wrong people, plus the 4 reasons why people lie (and what each motive reveals about the person across from you). Want to know the key question to crack ANY liar? Or the one body movement that exposes deception 100% of the time? It’s all here: With scripts, breakdowns, and pop culture case studies so you’ll never be blindsided by a manipulator again. SHOWNOTES How reading body language reveals your own hidden insecurities NBC Interview: Gates’ admission, omission, and the smirk that says everything The “cat ate the canary” grin: What every liar leaks Frozen faces, head turns, and why body orientation screams avoidance The 6 subconscious biases that get women hurt: Stereotype, similar-to-me, halo effect, “if they’re doing it,” bond, and confirmation The cult playbook: How charisma + credibility can fool anyone Groupthink, the bond bias, and losing your intuition Why knowing your own bias matters as much as reading the other person The four reasons people lie—and how to recognize each motive Can people believe their own lies? Why not even psychopaths are exempt Why polygraphs fail (and how to spot a liar without one) How to use lie type to shape your questions and crack the truth The biggest mistake women make: Minimization, and why never to use it The script & strategy: How to actually confront your partner about cheating The step-by-step checklist for confronting lies (and when to run) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  FOLLOW LENA SISCO: Website:https://lenasisco.com LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenacsisco/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ ⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 30 April 2026

Do you ever get the gut feeling someone’s lying…but you can’t quite prove it? Or worry that you’re missing all the red flags because the liar in your life is just that convincing? Then today’s episode is about to be your best weapon. I’m sitting down with the incredible Lena Sisco, former Department of Defense interrogator and literal human lie detector. She’s faced off against terrorists, cheaters, and manipulative masterminds, and now, she’s giving YOU the tools to decode deception in any relationship. We’re tearing back the curtain on lie detection: body language, micro-expressions, the four types of lies, and the sneaky “text bridges” and red flags cheaters use to get away with it. Plus, get the tools to build unbreakable psychological safety and trust in high-stakes conversations. We even break down viral cheating scandals and call out exactly what liars do on camera! No one is off limits. Buckle up, because you’ll never watch an interview, go on a date, or ask your partner a tough question the same way again. SHOWNOTES The #1 question to ask your partner if you suspect cheating Inside Lena Sisco’s background as a military interrogator and deception expert The science of “overselling” and why liars embellish simple answers Getting confessions: The power of trust and psychological safety Why never forcing a confession is the key to honest answers How to build trust in the first five minutes Reading personality and motivations through conversation Analyzing body language: Real-time breakdowns The Bill Gates & Epstein Scandal: Dissecting Melinda Gates’ interview What stress really looks like: swallowing, lip purses, blinking Four Types of Lies: Omission, false statements, embellishments, distortion Text bridges: The “and then…” excuse cheaters always use Why body language is a science (and how Botox throws it off!) Deep dive: Smirks, muscle tension, palms, and unspoken contempt The power of words and avoidance: “Those people,” withholding details Red flags in responses: Over-explaining and evasion Why congruency is everything (words + body + tone) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  FOLLOW LENA SISCO: Website:https://lenasisco.com LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenacsisco/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 29 April 2026

Do you ever get the gut feeling someone’s lying…but you can’t quite prove it? Or worry that you’re missing all the red flags because the liar in your life is just that convincing? Then today’s episode is about to be your best weapon. I’m sitting down with the incredible Lena Sisco, former Department of Defense interrogator and literal human lie detector. She’s faced off against terrorists, cheaters, and manipulative masterminds, and now, she’s giving YOU the tools to decode deception in any relationship. We’re tearing back the curtain on lie detection: body language, micro-expressions, the four types of lies, and the sneaky “text bridges” and red flags cheaters use to get away with it. Plus, get the tools to build unbreakable psychological safety and trust in high-stakes conversations. We even break down viral cheating scandals and call out exactly what liars do on camera! No one is off limits. Buckle up, because you’ll never watch an interview, go on a date, or ask your partner a tough question the same way again. SHOWNOTES The #1 question to ask your partner if you suspect cheating Inside Lena Sisco’s background as a military interrogator and deception expert The science of “overselling” and why liars embellish simple answers Getting confessions: The power of trust and psychological safety Why never forcing a confession is the key to honest answers How to build trust in the first five minutes Reading personality and motivations through conversation Analyzing body language: Real-time breakdowns The Bill Gates & Epstein Scandal: Dissecting Melinda Gates’ interview What stress really looks like: swallowing, lip purses, blinking Four Types of Lies: Omission, false statements, embellishments, distortion Text bridges: The “and then…” excuse cheaters always use Why body language is a science (and how Botox throws it off!) Deep dive: Smirks, muscle tension, palms, and unspoken contempt The power of words and avoidance: “Those people,” withholding details Red flags in responses: Over-explaining and evasion Why congruency is everything (words + body + tone) Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  FOLLOW LENA SISCO: Website:https://lenasisco.com LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/lenacsisco/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lenasisco11/  FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 29 April 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it’s about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it’s about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it’s about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcribed - Published: 27 April 2026

It’s Lisa Bilyeu and on this episode of Women of Impact I've got the amazing Stephanie Okafor with me, and oh boy, are we diving deep and getting real! This episode is all about shaking up what you think you know about submission in relationships. It's not what you think—it’s about strength, respect, and being a total badass in your partnership. Stephanie gets raw and personal, sharing her journey and some seriously eye-opening biblical insights on what it really means to be vulnerable and respectful in love. We hash out why trust and transparency are crucial, how to tackle past traumas head-on, and the magic of truly understanding each other's love languages. SHOW NOTES 00:00 Intention in relationships shapes expectations and dynamics. 05:48 Defensive response to feeling overlooked and undervalued. 11:32 Understanding and trusting each other's leadership. 17:53 Respect boundaries, avoid infidelity, nurture healthy relationships. 21:22 Healthy conversations vital for understanding beyond social media. 31:35 Balancing work, home, and personal dreams. 33:13 Supporting men's struggle with career and identity. 39:41 Prioritize love for self and others. 42:45 Hiding secrets, open up for healing. 48:00 Realizing childhood trauma affects desire for children. 53:42 Understanding behavior enables honest communication in relationships. 01:03:31 Trust and communication are crucial in marriage. 01:09:22 Christian perspective on women's role in marriage. 01:14:12 Learning healthy marriage for women is crucial. 01:18:12 Behavior reflects beliefs; address unhealthy marriage issues. 01:22:48 Mother's advice on independence and love impact. 01:27:44 Women have the right to desire what they want, and should take care of themselves. 01:35:21 Planning to stay together, aging makes spouse attractive. 01:41:06 Embrace change and growth in relationships. 01:44:39 Understanding each other like a fire analogy. 01:49:42 Pregnant woman suffers, finds relief in dream. 01:53:08 Learn manipulative tactics or become empowered, choose now. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Transcribed - Published: 27 April 2026