If He Says He’s ‘Not Ready to Commit,’ BELIEVE HIM—How to Tell If He’ll Ever Commit | Matthew Hussey (Fan Fav)

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🗓️ 6 May 2025

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on September 8, 2021. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm stoked to have the incredible Matthew Hussey back for the third time. We're diving into a super important topic: commitment. Ladies, if you've ever wondered about the struggles of getting someone to commit, or if you're second-guessing your current relationship, Matthew is here with the insights you need to tackle these burning questions. In this episode, we're discussing the effects of social media and dating apps on modern relationships, and the impact they have on our commitment issues. Plus, we're breaking down the practical steps and conversations we need to have to assess if we're on the same page with our partner. Trust me, this is something every woman needs to arm herself with. Matthew is going to walk us through understanding our own patterns and teaching us how to invest wisely in relationships without burning out. So buckle up, because you're about to get the lowdown on where you stand, and empower yourself to make choices that bring you joy and fulfillment. Don't miss this episode where we talk about giving and receiving energy in relationships, the necessity of understanding our past to impact our future positively, and the importance of timing in the commitment equation. SHOWNOTES 00:00 "Giant Red Flags in Relationships" 00:24 Matthew Hussey Introduction 00:29 Discussing Commitment in Modern Society 00:58 Effects of Social Media on Commitment 03:25 Challenges of Dating Apps 04:50 The Impact of Effort in Attraction 06:36 Navigating Commitment Discussions 07:29 Understanding Self-Patterns in Relationships 08:14 Differentiating Giving and Ignoring 09:10 Time Management in Investment 11:10 Approaching Conversations About Commitment 12:04 Timing in Relationship Conversations FOLLOW MATTHEW HUSSEY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/matthewhussey Website: https://www.howtogettheguy.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:54.4	I'm not sure I'm ready for a relationship.
0:57.1	That is a giant red flag.
0:59.9	They are telling you today, I am going to hurt you.
1:04.1	In case you didn't hear, I am going to hurt you.
1:09.2	They're telling you to your face that you are going to get your heartbroken
1:14.0	here. Welcome to the show, Matt. I'm very honored to be back a third time. Well, I'm so
1:24.8	freaking glad to have you on today. Very specifically, today I want to talk to you about commitment.
1:30.3	Because the one thing that I'm finding from a lot of women that I'm hearing is how do I get him to commit?
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