You’re Not Too Much: Why Your Confidence Triggers Others & How To Handle It | Lisa Bilyeu (Fan Fav)

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 657 Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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This is a Fan Fav episode. What up, my homies! It’s your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome right back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we call out the BS, build our confidence, and go after the life we freaking deserve. If it’s your first time vibing with us, what up, my homie? If you’re a returning OG, I’m SO freaking grateful you’re here—let’s level up together! Today I’m bringing you something raw, real, and probably the kick in the butt you need to drop the fake confidence act and step into your honest, badass self. We’re diving into another electrifying Instagram Live Q&A where I break down how to embrace your confidence without crossing over into cocky territory—and trust me, we get super real about what that means, how to draw the line, and why you never have to dull your shine for anyone. This episode is jam-packed with: Practical confidence-building strategies Setting boundaries (especially when people comment on your body) Navigating the difference between real confidence and bravado (and why sometimes you need to fake it till you make it, guilt-free) Forgiving yourself, letting go of needing anyone else’s validation, and stepping into a whole new version of you—at ANY age. SHOWNOTES 00:00 Intro—Welcome and Why Confidence Matters 00:53 Free 4-Step Confidence Workshop Announcement 01:42 Why Ratings/Reviews Mean Everything for the Podcast 03:04 Q&A Starts: How to Exude Confidence without Looking Cocky 06:06 Setting Boundaries When Others Comment on Your Body 12:47 The Power of Writing Your Boundary Scripts 13:10 Confidence vs. Competence—How to Tell & the “Fake It” Debate 14:58 When Confidence Looks Like Narcissism 15:20 Loving Yourself Unconditionally & Building Internal Validation 20:18 Validation Through Achievements vs. Internal Worth 21:26 "Be So Good, They Can’t Ignore You"—Best Advice Ever (And Handling Rejection) 26:40 Relationship Qs—“Should I Go Back After a Great Date?” 28:39 How to Know If Ending a Relationship Was Right 31:25 Rebuilding Confidence After Lifelong Self-Loathing 33:46 Habits & Boundaries as Stepping Stones to Self-Worth 37:14 Wrap Up—Stay Tuned, Submit Your Qs, and Build Your Confidence! CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out. BIOptimizers: Head to⁠⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off. OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠⁠https://shopify.com/lisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:58.2	If this happens to be your first time listening to this podcast, then what up, my homie?
1:01.8	And if you've actually joined me before, guys, I'm so freaking happy you're back.
1:05.8	Now, today I have another Q&A from Instagram Live that's sure to help you stop freaking faking it and start to
1:11.7	actually live into your total badassery. Now every Thursday, guys, I go live on Instagram because
1:17.0	I really want to help women build their confidence that makes their biggest freaking audacious
1:21.4	dreams a reality. And so today I discuss how to fully embrace your confidence without
1:26.6	treading into cocky chick
1:28.3	territory. Yep, sometimes sadly we may spill over and we want to make sure that our confidence
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