Confidently Insecure

✨ mental health • feminism • community living • relationships ✨In today’s episode we’re diving headfirst into the big messy questions: what does it mean to build a life outside of men and outside of society’s “timeline”?I break down the Bird’s Nest community (a women-only living space where companionship > coupledom), the rise of the 4B movement in South Korea (spoiler: no men, no marriage, no babies, no problem?), and how timeline grief sneaks up on us when we realize we’re not living the script we were handed.We’ll talk money (aka financial independence = freedom), self-discovery, and why reinvention at literally ANY age is not only allowed, it’s necessary. Plus: I got featured in the Wall Street Journal (!!) so yeah, we’re celebrating that too.🔑 takeaways:Community living is changing the way women think about love + supportThe 4B movement is feminism… turned up to 11“Timeline grief” is real, but it doesn’t have to own youFinancial independence = the sexiest thing you can give yourselfReinvention is always on the table 🕒 chapters: 00:00 Intro 04:34 Bird’s Nest Community 12:50 The Dynamics of Male Relationships 17:40 4B Movement: A Feminist Stance 25:10 Timeline Grief + Personal Reflection 32:48 Financial Independence + Future Planning💬 Drop me a comment if you’ve ever felt timeline grief, if you’d move into a Bird’s Nest house, or if you’re secretly (or not so secretly) 4B curious. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Published: 25 August 2025

In this week’s episode, we are officially 35 — which means we'reold enough to know better but still young enough to make terrible choices...INSERT JADE EGG LITERALLY. We reflect on what this birthday actually feels like (spoiler: it’s not the crisis we thought it would be), gush about foster dog Fred... Plus, BOOK CLUB IS BACK as we dive into some recent books with badass female leads and why representation isn’t just a buzzword — it’s literally shaping how we see ourselves. Come for the birthday tea, stay for the vagina jokes and unsolicited life advice. Chapters 00:00 Celebrating 35: A Birthday Reflection03:14 Viral Moments and Social Media Fame05:51 Family Dynamics and Expectations09:17 Adventures in Self-Care and New Experiences13:06 T-Swift and Celebrity Culture16:21 Book Club: Exploring New Reads25:34 Closing Thoughts and Listener Engagement Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 18 August 2025

This week on Confidently Insecure, I sit down with returning friend of the pod, author, and cosmic hype queen Madi Murphy to talk about her brand-new book In the Cosmic Zone: Embodying the 12 Astro Archetypes to Unleash Your Genius & Activate Your Authentic Self.We get into: 🌟 Why astrology should ALIGN you, not define you 🦁 The Leo Season mantra: “I need to be seen” — and why that’s not narcissism, it’s power 📅 How to actually use each zodiac season to fuel your goals ⚖️ What it means to create harmony, reclaim your power, and trust your damn self 💼 The Capricorn reminder that your life is your legacy 💥 Madi’s David vs. Goliath court case against Starbucks (yes, she won) 💡 How to turn cosmic wisdom into daily, doable actionWhether you’re astrology-curious, a chart-reading pro, or a total skeptic, this episode is your permission slip to step into your cosmic zone and start living like the main character.🎧 Grab your notebook, your birth chart, and maybe a sequin jacket — the stars (and Madi) have some things to say to you. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 11 August 2025

A CONTROVERSY!!!! or is it all that controversial when you hear the facts? Child-free living has never looked more desirable, but countries all over the world are SO DESPERATE to make people BONE!!! What do you think, confidantes? Lets explore the societal, financial, and personal implications of choosing not to have children. Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Child-Free Movement01:46 Understanding Child-Free vs. Childless07:15 Personal Reflections on Being Child-Free09:30 Financial Considerations of Parenthood13:19 The Role of Partners in Parenting Decisions14:41 Concerns About the State of the World15:59 The Village Concept in Modern Parenting18:18 The Pressure of Family Expectations20:24 The Risks of Pregnancy and Childbirth21:24 Declining Birth Rates and Societal Implications23:57 Global Trends in Birth Rates26:58 Incentives for Childbirth Around the World30:34 Critique of Societal Pressures on Women31:48 Community Perspectives on Being Child-Free Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 4 August 2025

Is love supposed to travel this far?? This week, we break down the chaos, science, and comedy of long-distance relationships.From sexting over glitchy WiFi and jealousy spirals in different time zones, to real success stories that prove LDRs can work—this episode is your ultimate guide to emotionally surviving (or walking away from) long-distance love. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: A Week in the Life02:32 Leo Season: Embracing Confidence and Creativity05:29 Fostering Fred: A Journey of Love and Care11:09 Long-Distance Relationships: A Personal Reflection18:40 The Science of Long-Distance Love28:51 Pros and Cons of Long-Distance Relationships37:19 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 July 2025

THE BABY GOES WHERE??!!! BREASTMILK CAN DO WHAT?!?! Yeah. prepare to have your mind absolutely BLOWN by these facts about BIRTHING A HUMAN CHILD! But first up...updates on trump, weird packages, and screaming. yep. Chapters 00:00 Emerging from a Funk02:26 Navigating Bisexual Dilemmas05:47 Exciting New Ventures and Merchandise08:01 Exploring the New Show: Building the Band15:19 Diving into Childbirth Education29:17 Reflections and Giveaways Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 July 2025

IS IT TRUE?! IS THE GHOST OF JAMES DEAN THE HOTTEST OF ALL TIME?! Well....not in our humblest of opinions!! Plus, we're fostering a new dog and launching new merchandise! The conversation transitions into reflections on pop culture, mental health, and creativity, particularly in relation to the pressures of traditional Hollywood. And finally we CUMlminates in a lively discussion about the recent 'Hottest Men' list, exploring themes of attractiveness, representation, and cultural impact. tell us in the comments who is missing from this list?! Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Housekeeping02:30 Mental Health and New Projects05:05 Pop Culture Reflections10:37 The Hottest Men List Discussion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 July 2025

WE FRAACKIN DID IT!!! the next book is DONE!! This week - we got some good house keeping updates followed by AN EXCLLUUUUSIVE SNEEEEEEEEAK PEEEEEK into the chapter all about patriarchal programming...would you get this book even if you werent dealing with heartbreak?! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 July 2025

DROP THOSE CREDIT CARDS AND PUT YOUR HANDS WHERE I CAN SEE THEM!!! This episode we're talking about the oh-so-adulty financial stress and broader implications of a potential recession (Wtf is a recession anyway???). The discussion covers the definitions and indicators of a recession, coping mechanisms, and practical budgeting strategies (which were made by yours truly so you know they WORK!). TAKEAWAYS: takeawaysNaming your feelings around money is crucial.Recession can be viewed as a reset rather than a ruin.It's important to talk about financial stress openly.Indicators of recession can be seen in pop culture.Budgeting buddies can help manage financial anxiety.Micro luxury budgeting allows for small indulgences.Visualizing finances can aid in understanding spending habits.Coping mechanisms are essential during economic uncertainty.Understanding the definition of recession helps in navigating fears.Cultural reflections reveal a collective anxiety about finances. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates08:21 Exploring Travel and Home Exchange12:07 Understanding the Recession29:50 Budgeting Hacks for Tough Times32:50 Navigating Financial Stress During Recession35:09 Recession as a Reset: Embracing Change36:07 Community Support and Engagement in Tough Times Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 June 2025

BRING OUT YOUR DEAD!!!!! In this episode, we delve into the often-taboo subject of death, exploring personal fears, societal attitudes, and the funeral industry's practices. We emphasize the importance of discussing death openly, planning for it, and considering alternative burial methods. The conversation also highlights cultural differences in how death is perceived and celebrated, advocating for a more positive and less fearful approach to the inevitable. THE MORE YOU KNOW KIDDOS!!!! Chapters 00:00 Embracing the Inevitable: A Conversation on Death04:54 Navigating Grief and Loss in Adulthood11:08 The Funeral Industry: A Costly Business18:13 Cultural Perspectives on Death and Grieving25:34 Planning for Death: Conversations and Considerations32:00 Alternative Approaches to Afterlife and Burial Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 June 2025

CAAIIIIIIIOO BELLA!!!!!!! This episode, Kelsey shares her experiences while vacationing in Rome (PIZZA!!) , reflecting on the joys of solo travel, the disconnection from news and politics, and the beauty of embracing i-n-d-e-p-e-n-d-e-n-c-e!!! Tells us - what are your solo travel tips?? Whats the best gift you gave a lover?! Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2025

ITS OUR FAVORITE TIME OF YEAR MATCHED WITH OUR FAVORITE SPECIAL CONPOD SEGMENT: a PRIDE THEMED Hoes Throughout History! This week, we celebrate Pride Month by sharing the remarkable story of Dr. Mary Edwards Walker, a pioneering figure in women's rights and medicine. Theres SO MUCH DRAMA from Walker's defiance of gender norms, her contributions during the Civil War, her experiences as a prisoner of war, and her lasting legacy in the fight for women's rights and gender equality. ENJOY GHAYS!!! Chapters00:00 Celebrating Pride Month02:59 The Life of Dr. Mary Edwards Walker05:52 Breaking Gender Norms09:09 Civil War Contributions11:58 Captivity and Resilience14:47 Post-War Activism and Legacy Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 June 2025

SEND THIS TO YOUR LOVER! YOUR PARTNER! ANYONE THAT BLEEDS!!! Take a trip with Kelsey down the various phases of the menstrual cycle, discussing the physical and emotional changes that occur during each phase! BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T TEACH US THIS SHIT IN HIGH SHOOL! From the menstrual phase to ovulation and the luteal phase, Kelsey provides insights into self-care tips and how partners can support individuals during these times. Cause yall know about the importance of understanding one's body and tracking the menstrual cycle for better health and relationship dynamics, right?!?! Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2025

THE FEMALE TAX!!! HORNY DRAGONS!!! THIS PODCAST HAS IT ALL!!! Join kelsey and the athelete (@regitfit) to recap the rein faire in all its busty glory as we as playing the trending game where MEN try to guess FEMININE products! Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Feedback on Previous Episode03:01 Experiences at the Renaissance Fair05:50 Costume Choices and Preparation for the Fair09:09 The Horny Atmosphere and Kinky Tales12:14 Games and Challenges: Guessing Feminine Products26:55 Wrap-Up and Future Plans Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 19 May 2025

READY TO QUIT THE CORPORATE GIRLY LIFE and follow your dreams?! That's exactly what this week's guest, @DanaTeller did! Growing up with actor brother, Miles Teller, Dana lived a very unique position being "celebrity adjacent". But, being the FUNNIEST performer in the family comes with an impossible to be ignored path...Dana shares her experiences and insights as she navigates her new career path, emphasizing the need for self-advocacy and authenticity in the creative process...and helps us laugh along the way! Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates02:49 The Impact of Live Performances05:57 Books and Their Influence08:59 Celebrity Life and Its Challenges11:49 The Journey of a Sibling to Fame15:02 The Pivot to Comedy18:04 Navigating the Comedy Scene20:47 The Importance of Personal Experience in Comedy24:33 Embracing Change and Taking Risks30:05 The Power of Authenticity in Comedy36:51 Growing Up in Florida: A Unique Perspective40:24 Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth46:10 Defining Identity Beyond Traditional Norms Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 12 May 2025

LISTEN UP CONFIDANTES!! If there is ONE BOOK you could get your significant other to read - ITS THIS ONE!!! This conversation delves into the complexities of sexual desire, focusing on the dual control model, which highlights the importance of both accelerators and brakes in sexual arousal!!! WHICH IS SOMETHING VERY BASIC WE ALL SHOULD'VE LEARNED IN SCHOOL! The discussion explores the differences between spontaneous and responsive desire, the impact of stress on libido, and the concept of non-concordance where the body and mind may not align in sexual situations. -- AKA YOU'RE NOT THAT WEIRD AFTERALL! READ EMILYS BOOK HERE!https://www.bookmoonbooks.com/item/rPCoGQ_-yAW7UjERLZaHhw Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Dual Control Model05:54 Desire Styles: Spontaneous vs. Responsive12:04 The Impact of Stress on Libido18:01 Non-Concordance: Body vs. Mind24:07 Redefining Pleasure and Communication in Sex Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 5 May 2025

HELP!!! IM OLD!!! WHAT THE HELL?! when did this happen?? turns out...you're getting old in sooo many tiny little sneaky ways that the OLD you will HATE YOU FOR! Lets explore the complexities of aging and the science of longevity. You'll learn about trength training, the role of mitochondria, and the impact of chronic inflammation on health. BEST OF ALL! You'll get practical steps to take to combat aging...bc we're all gunna die so lets try and slow down the process shall we?! Chapters 00:00 Embracing Aging: A Personal Reflection03:10 The Science of Aging: Understanding Our Bodies06:04 Preventing Injuries: The Importance of Strength Training09:12 The Underlying Causes of Aging: A Deeper Look12:02 Mitochondria: The Powerhouses of Aging14:51 Chronic Inflammation: The Silent Killer18:07 Practical Steps to Combat Aging20:54 The Role of Nutrition in Aging23:45 The Importance of Sleep and Recovery27:11 The Future of Anti-Aging: A Holistic Approach Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2025

Remember when police responded to a false report of an active shooter situation at my home? Welp! I DO! The discussion delves into the emotional and psychological impact of the event, the inadequacies of police communication, and the broader implications of swatting as a dangerous prank. It's a doozy journey of coping with trauma, the importance of personal safety, and the lessons we learned from this experience Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 April 2025

PUT ON THOSE GLASSES AND OPEN UP THOSE PAGES! We're introducing the 'Emotionally Horny Book Club', where we discuss three books that explore themes of sexuality, dating, and emotional health! THE BIG THREE THAT MATTER! Kelsey dives into the narratives of 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane, 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men' by Blythe Robertson, and 'Open Deeply' by Kate Laurie, offering insights and saucy personal reflections on each. Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the New Studio!03:27 Exciting Film Premiere in Miami06:46 Reflections on Art and Society10:09 The Journey of Moving and Unpacking16:51 Introducing the Emotionally Horny Book Club20:36 Exploring 'Boy Slut' by Zachary Zane34:22 Navigating Dating with 'How to Date Men When You Hate Men'40:24 Understanding Open Relationships with 'Open Deeply' Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2025

don't look!!! or do....but don't be surprised when what you see is a pile of doggy doo doo on the screen aka KELSEY IN DEPRESH MODE!!!! aka moving, breaking up with your thrupple and trying to naavigate a good ole episode of depression <3 what are your hacks? Our Sponsors: * Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://avocadogreenmattress.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcast * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 31 March 2025

KELSEY IS MOVING!! She's literally un-studioed aka it's all in boxes and being moved to a gorgeous, fresh new space!!! Pls enjoy this repost of the most popular episode of the year!Kelsey got an abortion and WE’RE TALKING ABOUT IT bc abortions are health care )and much more common than you may think) 😎 Find out all about Kelsey’s whole experience while Zach tries desperately to make the episode about him 🥰🥰 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2025

SOUND THE ALARMS!! WE'RE GETTING INTO SOMETHING NEW TODAY, KIDS! Manga...it's always intrigued us but we never understood it...which is why we brought in THE expert herself - the hilarious, beautiful and manga-obsessed JOYCE LOUIS-JEAN. She's here to discuss her experience with the Try Guys, aspirations for reality TV, and the intriguing world of manga and anime! She helps us explore its diverse genres, particularly focusing on queer narratives like Yuri and Boys Love (BL). Trust me...you'll understand the hype SOON.Follow Joyce! https://www.instagram.com/atribecalledjoyce/?hl=en Chapters:00:00 Introduction and Daylight Saving Time03:00 The Evolution of Online Authenticity06:08 Building a Brand in a Changing Landscape08:54 The Try Guys and Personal Connections11:49 Reality TV Aspirations15:03 The Grapes of Risk18:47 Diving into Manga21:51 Joyce's Anime Journey25:13 Manga vs. Anime: The Fan Debate26:27 The Allure of Manga and Storytelling31:05 Exploring Queer Manga: Yuri and BL34:49 The Weird and Wonderful World of Manga42:45 Complex Relationships in Manga46:03 Recommendations for Manga Newbies Our Sponsors: * Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://avocadogreenmattress.com * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcast * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 17 March 2025

CAN WE GET AN IWD REDO?! After realizing NO ONE in her life celebrated IWD this past weekend, Kelsey decides to revisit the best things women have done this past year INCLUDING her buying 25 bins off facebook marketplace from an absolute criminal. 00:00Celebrating International Women's Day24:04The History and Significance of Women's Day39:02Modern Achievements and Ongoing Struggles for Women Our Sponsors: * Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://avocadogreenmattress.com * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcast * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2025

CAN WE GET AN IWD REDO?! After realizing NO ONE in her life celebrated IWD this past weekend, Kelsey decides to revisit the best things women have done this past year INCLUDING her buying 25 bins off facebook marketplace from an absolute criminal. 00:00Celebrating International Women's Day24:04The History and Significance of Women's Day39:02Modern Achievements and Ongoing Struggles for Women Our Sponsors: * Check out Avocado Green Mattress: https://avocadogreenmattress.com * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcast * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2025

LETS ANSWER ALL YOUR LISTENER QUESTIONS: jealousy, boundaries, HOW TO GET THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE!! "It's going to be messy. It's going to be beautiful.""Communication, baby, communication, communication, communication.""Jealousy doesn't equal bad.""Boundaries are things you decide you need.""Emotional check-ins are mandatory.""You can always go back to non-monogamy.""You can always go back to that why.""The greatest gifts are on the other side of fear.""You never want to force yourself into something that just isn't right." Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/factorpodcast * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2025

DON'T BE ASHAMED!! WE ALL HAVE THEM!!! Sexual fantasies have been around since the first person who had a BRAIN AND EYEBALLS...(maybe not even eyeballs??) from astrology and comedy to mental health and sexual fantasies. But before we dive straight into dream land...Our dear friend Kevin Sullivan (@TheKevinSullivan) discuss the challenges and triumphs of content creation, the impact of mental health, and the importance of comfort in exploring fantasies. hehehehehehe FOLLOW KEVIN: www.tiktok.com/@thekevinsullivanhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-broke-gays/id1385761544 Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/kelsey50off * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2025

What could go wrong on a family ski trip to Aspen filled with hot paramedics, the flu, and a bucket list filled with champagne? LISTEN IN TO FIND OUT JUST HOW INSANE THIS FAMILY SKI TRIP WAS!!!!!! 00:00Introduction and Personal Updates02:48Valentine's Day Celebrations and Spa Experience08:48Family Ski Trip to Aspen15:03Skiing Adventures and Injuries21:53Post-Injury Reflections and Family Dynamics24:06The Ski Accident and Concussion30:06Family Dynamics and Adjustments36:12The Cloud9 Champagne Party40:42Mom's Ankle Injury and Hospital Visit46:24Reflections on the Trip and Future Plans Our Sponsors: * Check out Effecty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://www.effecty.com * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/kelsey50off * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2025

RYAN'S BAAAAACK! Yall loved him so much you know I had to bring him back to help me decipher the art of a D*CK PIC!!! The details behind consensual and....what to say when you get them unsolicited! SO get our your thinkin' caps and lets chat the social dynamics surrounding the sharing of intimate images. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Connection03:12 Mental Health and ADHD Journey05:59 Stress and Tax Season Woes08:51 The Nature of Opinions and Misinformation11:49 The Importance of Acknowledging Ignorance15:00 Hot Takes vs. Medium Takes18:12 The Art of Dick Pics and Communication24:35 The Art of Dick Pics27:47 The Psychology Behind Sharing Intimate Photos31:23 Navigating Consent and Expectations34:57 The Legal Landscape of Unsolicited Images39:18 Exploring Sexuality and Representation43:43 The Impact of Pornography on Perception45:21 Creative Responses to Unsolicited Dick Pics Our Sponsors: * Check out Factor: https://factormeals.com/kelsey50off * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 10 February 2025

Join me and expert cutie-patootie @BeatriceHazlehurst from @unconvergirlpodcast explore the intricacies of celebrity journalism, the challenges of forming adult friendships in Los Angeles, and the ethical dilemmas faced by journalists in the age of clickbait culture.Beatrice Hazlehurst | @beatricehazlehurst | https://www.instagram.com/beatricehazlehurst/?hl=en(UN)COVER GIRL | @uncovergirlpodcast | https://www.instagram.com/uncovergirlpodcast/ Just in case!  spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6Je3KLQqvsfkzxPjFEQnLqApple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/un-cover-girl/id166732670400:00 Introduction to Celebrity Journalism and Friendship06:04 The Challenges of Male Friendships11:46 The Ethics of Celebrity Interviews18:07 The Impact of Clickbait Culture27:10 The Trump Effect: Media Influence on Politics32:12 Celebrity Gossip: The Drama Unfolds39:50 The Allegations: A Closer Look at the Lawsuit49:55 The Fallout: Careers on the Line Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 3 February 2025

SOUND THE ALARMS!!! Our first guest host of the year is the hilariously iconic RYANN GRAHAM (@gudguyryry) talkings politics and peen. what else could you want??  Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 27 January 2025

We've LOVED having our bestie ZNT here for the last 2 years and we can't wait to see what he does next with Good Morning Sodomites!!! FOLLOW HIM ON ALL THE THINGS!!! P.S. we talk TIKTOK BAN, ZACHS NEW DATE, AND FIRES IN LA! but mostly we just love on zachy <3 Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 20 January 2025

In this episode, we’re exposing the corporate monstrosity that is Nestlé, because if anyone’s profiting off baby formula, slavery, and water theft, it’s them. So grab a snack (preferably not from Nestlé) and get ready for a wild ride through corporate corruption, because we’re about to make sure you’ll never look at your coffee the same way again!!!!!!!!!!! Our Sponsors: * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: https://happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 6 January 2025

HAPPY NEWW YEARRRRR CONFIDANNNTTTSSS - or are we that happy?!!? IDK!!! Kelsey discusses her feelings about New Year's resolutions, the importance of self-discovery, and the impact of relationships on her journey. Kelsey babbles about fashion choices, unexpected pregnancy, abortion, career challenges, relationship growth, and creative pursuits!!!! DID YOU HAVE ANY CASUAL PROFOUND GROWTH???!! LET US KNOW IN THE COMMENTS<3 Chapters: New Year Reflections and Personal Growth03:02Career Milestones and Achievements05:54Challenges and Self-Discovery09:09Relationships and Personal Connections11:55Creative Ventures and New Experiences14:48Navigating Career Uncertainty18:04Therapy and Mental Health Journey21:14Embracing Change and Future Aspirations26:55Fashion and Self-Expression29:47Impact of Abortion on Career and Income31:09Reflections on Work and Self-Worth33:53Relationship Growth and Love35:47Revisiting Stand-Up Comedy37:31Solo Retreat and Creative Clarity38:56Navigating Birthdays and Self-Worth40:38New Projects and Political Engagement42:36Stand-Up Tour and Personal Growth44:32Pitching Projects and Career Accomplishments45:31Retreat Decisions and Future Directions48:24Year-End Reflections and Future Aspirations Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 December 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach talk the logistics of threesomes, getting h-word in an escape room, Zach’s BJ reviews 💦 AND what the Confident Bottom community REALLY thinks about Luigi 🥵❤️ Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 December 2024

This week, K&Z tackle the topics of zach's newest grindr date not getting a word in, kelsey's new thrupple crush, and the UHC ..uh...situation?? Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 December 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach recount their Friendsgiving movie extravaganza and discuss the best way to crush on potential lovers 🦃🎥🍿 PLUS Kelsey tells Zach all about the dangers of fast fashion and landfills over-flowing with the impulse decisions of those of us who like to BUY NOW 🫠🫠 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 December 2024

This week Zach gives the confident bottoms some ALTERNATIVES ways to celebrate turkey day and Kelsey leads us all through a game of GOBBLE, BURN or FIXIN’!! 🦃🔥🔨 PLUS Zach does something he can’t even talk about on the pod… yet 😏😏😏 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2024

This week Kelsey takes Zach wayyyy back in time to highlight one of the most incredible women in US (world?!) History: IDA B. WELLS 🤩 this trailblazer of investigative journalism defied all odds and left us a message of hope in the face of adversity 🥹 this story is timely as ever and hot as heck!!! Plus Zach talks about his anal Pap smear 😌 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 18 November 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach do everything they can to avoid talking about THE EVENT, so get ready to hear about crooked 🦷 🦷, seasonal 🍪🍪, near death 🐶 walks, and illicit behavior in department stores 🫢🫢 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2024

SCAMS, fraud, f-slurs and MORE!!!!!!! Kelsey & the Athlete go over this week's pop culture stories by trying CHISME ☕ ☕ ☕  Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2024

OMG OMG sweet sweet ZNT is out of town on tour (GO CHECK OUT THE CITIES HES IN NEAREST TO YOU!) and so Kelsey had to call in for backup...aka...yall getting an episode to MEET THE ATHLETE HIMSELF!!! From non-monogamy, to advice in your 30's, this episode is sure to make you fall in love Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Curex: getcurex.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 28 October 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach discuss the stress of keeping your peepers looking young and fresh 🫦 PLUS it’s Zach’s BIRTHDAY and he’s literally never looked more immature 👹 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Curex: getcurex.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 21 October 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach chat *lightly* about how to co-exist with people who may in fact be voting against your very existence 🫨🫠😶‍🌫️ PLUS a recap of life on the road for your two fav confident comedians 😎🥰 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Curex: getcurex.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 14 October 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach cool down from a whirlwind trip to the north Bay Area for comedy shows 😂😂 PLUS Kelsey lists the most iconic romantic male leads of all time 🙌🏻 Our Sponsors: * Check out Anisa Beauty and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.anisabeauty.com * Check out Birdy Grey and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: www.birdygrey.com * Check out Curex: getcurex.com * Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code KELSEY for a great deal: happymammoth.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach discuss the incredible LET THEM theory from Mel Robbins which allows people to make mistakes, grow AND remove the anxious burden of control for YOU 🥹 plus Zach shares the slortiest thing he’s maybe ever done?? 👹👹 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 30 September 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach agree for the first time ever in the history of the pod: CUDDLING (to go to sleep) SUCKS 😤\U0001fae2 It’s sweaty, arms fall asleep, and god forbid you need to 💨 SO cuffing season be damned cuz your two favorite blondes want to keep things moving in the bedroom (plus who can even stand to sleep with a 175lb bro taped to your back?!) Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 23 September 2024

This week Kelsey gives Zach the rundown of what women spend on BEAUTIFICATION in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond (guess who doles out the most of their sweet sweet cash 🤑🤑🤑) PLUS Kelsey absolutely destroys the hair of one of ConPods best friends \U0001fae3 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 16 September 2024

This week Kelsey asks Zach a WILD question: “what would you do if you couldn’t have S-E-X?!” His answer may shock and offend, but the discussion that follows is helpful, honest and (intellectually) horny \U0001fae6 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 9 September 2024

This week Kelsey and Zach return to their roots with an episode of ALL dating no filter style advice \U0001faf6🏻 from binge-drinking on dates to dumping unemployed partners, this ep is SEXY, SMART, and completely INSANE \U0001fae8 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 2 September 2024

Hello Confident Bottoms! This week Kelsey and Zach are keeping us feeling SNATCHED with an informative (and yes, hilarious) rundown of the two cosmetic treatments that have us in a beautiful chokehold \U0001f979 PLUS Kelsey and Zach talk stand up and the power of keeping secrets 🤫 Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/confidently-insecure/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcribed - Published: 26 August 2024