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Confidently Insecure

Calling out SH*TTY MEN ⚰️

Confidently Insecure

Kelsey Darragh

Society & Culture, Education, Comedy

4.81.8K Ratings

🗓️ 3 November 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

How do you hold people accountable without being labeled “toxic”? What if the person you need to call out… is your ex, your boss, or that one guy who still doesn’t know what emotional labor is?

In today’s episode, we’re diving into the deliciously complicated world of call out culture—and specifically how to do it with humor, honesty, and just the right amount of “how can we make men look dumb as f*ck.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Oh, God, I love that sweet, sweet sound.

0:07.9

It's Pavlovian almost.

0:10.0

I just start foaming at the mouth when I know I'm talking to you confidants.

0:13.9

Welcome to another episode of Confidently and Takeda so we're absolutely sure.

0:17.9

We don't know everything.

0:20.2

I am your host, Kelsey, mother fucking

0:22.9

Dara and boy do I have some fucking housekeeping for you guys. Okay. A lot's going on. When is

0:32.0

life normal here? I don't know. Shit. Things always seem to be happening. There's, I've been so like behind the scenes in life,

0:42.2

it feels like I'm like behind the camera that I feel like I haven't been very forward facing on

0:47.4

the social. So I just, I've been so enraptured by the documentary editing.

0:54.9

And because this is my podcast and I can do and say whatever I want and tell you all the secrets and the exciting stuff, I am going to tell y'all first that the documentary I've been working on for three years is finally going to be released on Patreon's streaming platform called Moment.

1:19.0

So Moment.com online.

1:22.1

And Moment is their live streaming app service.

1:26.6

And we will be showing an exclusive streaming live premiere

1:34.3

this year and a little bit over a month and change.

1:41.2

This is the movie I've been working on with regard to restorative justice as it pertains to sexual assault.

1:48.9

And it's chronicling the journey of fellow podcast guest Marley List. I am so excited for you guys to see my first ever feature movie debut directing.

2:02.6

And like this has been a labor of love for so long.

2:06.6

And I think it's the biggest project I've ever taken on like stakes wise.

2:11.7

Because it's the first time I've ever done something independently like this.

2:15.6

Like before when I made my big projects back at BuzzFeed are like brand deals and stuff.

2:19.1

There's always a partner on it.

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