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You Had Me at Black

You Had Me at Black

You Had Me at Black

Society & Culture, Black Stories, Personal Journals, Arts, Performing Arts, Black Storytelling, Storytelling Podcast, Documentary, Black History Month, Black Podcast, Black Voices

4.0982 Ratings

Overview

You Had Me at Black is where Black Millennials tell the true-life stories you won't see on TV.

113 Episodes

You're Invited: Entering Our Next Chapter

I've spent the last few years recovering from burnout, and conceiving a new future for You Had Me at Black - one I'm eager to share with you.

Transcribed - Published: 9 June 2025

The Bigger Picture

Khennedi heads to a protest in the summer of 2021, armed with nothing but her cell phone. Almost from the moment they arrived, things began to unravel. Please note this episode deals with the trauma of police brutality.

Transcribed - Published: 28 April 2021

PK Problems

Growing up as a PK, Danny always planned to start a ministry of his own. But once he started to lead a congregation, his thinking around what it means to start a church began to unravel.

Transcribed - Published: 14 April 2021

Glue is Thicker Than Water

As the older sister, Secunda was in charge of making sure the chores got done after school before her mom got home. One afternoon, her brother challenged her, unraveling her sense of authority and the sibling pecking order.

Transcribed - Published: 7 April 2021

Liquid Therapy

Fresh out of grad school, Blake faces a devastating loss that unraveled everything he tired to hold together by a thread for too long. This story deals with loss, addiction, and suicidal thoughts.

Transcribed - Published: 31 March 2021

My Art Will Go On

A bad breakup unraveled everything Nate thought he had planned. After realizing he couldn't drink it away, he decided to follow his instincts.

Transcribed - Published: 24 March 2021

Doggie Tricks

This story comes Errinn, who was terrified of dogs. Everything unraveled when her boyfriend brought one home.

Transcribed - Published: 10 March 2021

The Gut Gets What the Gut Wants

This story comes from Tobi. They found reason after reason to ignore the warning signs of a toxic job, until everything unraveled.

Transcribed - Published: 3 March 2021

Date at the Museum

This story comes from Carl. Carl was happy living his single life. That is, until his boy set him up on a date, and his happy singlehood unraveled.

Transcribed - Published: 24 February 2021

Panic at the Pyramids

This story comes from Taylor. She's an avid and adventurous traveler who happens to live with Sickle Cell Disease. She grew up trying to downplay the physical constraints of the disease, but on a vaction in Mexico, her act unraveled.

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2021

Welcome Back to You Had Me at Black

Welcome to a new season of You Had Me at Black! This season's theme is "unraveling." You'll stories from all kinds of folks about the moments they confronted things they ignored and pushed aside for too long. These stories are about the work; the messiness between our valleys and peaks; the healing. We can't wait for you to hear what happened.

Transcribed - Published: 17 February 2021

Rewind: Finding Sonshine

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Kwynn searches for a reason to live after losing her child and partner.

Transcribed - Published: 25 November 2020

Rewind: The Floor is on Fire

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Deborah saves her coins and stays with a friend-of-a-friend on a trip. She quickly learns that "you get what you pay for."

Transcribed - Published: 18 November 2020

Rewind: The Problem with Precaution

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Kevin (fka Erk tha Jerk) learns the hard way to be careful what you wish for

Transcribed - Published: 11 November 2020

Rewind: Sanctified Gangsta

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Fed up by the way his grandmother dresses him, 8th grade Meechie joins the BDs, a Chicago-area gang, to buy new clothes.

Transcribed - Published: 4 November 2020

Rewind: Saratonin

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Newly single after a 5-year relationship ended, she decides to try a new style of dating, and learns more about love than she did in the 5 years prior.

Transcribed - Published: 21 October 2020

Rewind: Finding Dragon

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. Eric's trip to Cuba takes an unexpected twist when he's forced to confront skeletons from his past.

Transcribed - Published: 14 October 2020

Rewind: Yogi Awakening

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. In this rewind story, Marlon is fresh off a divorce and takes a retreat that arouses him in away he never felt before.

Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2020

Rewind: Theo's Mixtape

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. In this rewind story, Theo, a former child singer, finds himself in a pinch the afternoon of a big audition.

Transcribed - Published: 7 October 2020

REWIND: The Dates Add Up

As we gear up for a new season, let's revisit some of our favorite stories from the past. In this rewind story, CeeJaye's one-night hook up results in unexpected and life-altering changes.

Transcribed - Published: 30 September 2020

At the House: Escape

In our final cycle of our 'At the House' series, we hear seven stories about breaking free from people and situations that didn't serve them.

Transcribed - Published: 5 August 2020

At the House: Sliding in the DMs

This week we wanted to lighten the mood and take a peak into your DMs. Partly because we're curious, partly because we're a little messy. Here are four stories about the times something's popped off in the DMs.

Transcribed - Published: 22 July 2020

At the House: Urban Legends

We pay homage to our ancestors with stories about folklore and urban legends from across the diaspora.

Transcribed - Published: 8 July 2020

At the House: Radical Imagination

In the midst of this unprecedented uprising, seven people share stories about moments where they experienced complete freedom.

Transcribed - Published: 24 June 2020

At the House: Acts of Resistance

Seven people share stories about the times they've resisted, in ways big or small. Let this be a reminder of who you are, and what you're made of.

Transcribed - Published: 10 June 2020

At the House: Acts of Resistance Story Call

We've changed the topic for the next cycle of At the House to Acts of Resistance. Submit your story by Wednesday, June 3.

Transcribed - Published: 30 May 2020

At the House: Memorable Moments with Teachers

Between Teacher Appreciation Week and distance learning, folks have spent more time reflecting on the role teachers played in their lives. We hear from six people about their memorable encounters with teachers. Catch Part 2 on the While Black podcast on Sunday, May 31.

Transcribed - Published: 27 May 2020

At the House: Family Discoveries

Over the last few weeks, some of us have spent more time with family than we have in a long time. Others have been forced to interact with our family members in new ways. Today we hear from 6 people who learned some cool, quirky, and inspiring things about their family members.

Transcribed - Published: 13 May 2020

At the House: LOVE

The first week of our At the House series is about love. We hear from six people about the times when they knew it was real.

Transcribed - Published: 29 April 2020

Welcome to At the House

You Had Me at Black and While Black are teaming up to bring you At the House, a biweekly miniseries inspired by... you know what. Part One of At the House premiers Wednesday, April 29 on You Had Me at Black. Check out Part Two on While Black on Sunday, May 3.

Transcribed - Published: 26 April 2020

Spring Finale: New Leash on Life

Welcome to our Spring Finale. We'll be back with the rest of the season this fall. This week we hear from Regine. One night she wakes up in the middle of the night to her mother screaming. What happens next forces her entire family to confront a new normal.

Transcribed - Published: 17 April 2019

Help Gone Haywire

This week's story comes from Stephanie, a mother racing against time and the system, to get her kids back. Here's what happened.

Transcribed - Published: 10 April 2019

Sarahtonin

This week’s story comes from Sarah. Newly single after a 5-year relationship ended, she decides to try a new style of dating, and learns more about love than she did in the 5 years prior.

Transcribed - Published: 3 April 2019

Michelangelo Corleone

Fearing for his life, Mike runs away from his family.

Transcribed - Published: 28 March 2019

Chicken Spot Popped

Alicia bags a date at the chicken spot, and things pop off.

Transcribed - Published: 20 March 2019

Acing Lessons on Sexual Liberation

Paula's date from Plenty of Fish goes awry and launching her on a journey of self-love and liberation.

Transcribed - Published: 13 March 2019

Joy Trafficking - Season 6 Premier

Welcome to Season 6 of You Had Me at Black! This season we recorded all of our stories over Skype, which allowed us reach people in places we wouldn't have been able to otherwise. This week's story comes from Kelly, who grew up in predominantly white Utah. She never knew what her parents did for a living, then one day the cops showed up at her door.

Transcribed - Published: 6 March 2019

REWIND: You're Not Worth It, But My Light Bill Is

After an inappropriate situation at work, Brea her asserts her right to be the Angry Black Woman.

Transcribed - Published: 27 February 2019

REWIND - The Medicine of the Mind (Countdown to Season 6)

Mark takes an impromptu and life-changing trip - or what's formally known as an Ayahuasca- in Peru.

Transcribed - Published: 20 February 2019

REWIND - Black Cinderella (Countdown to Season 6)

Ianne searches for a reciprocal love that puts them at the center of their own love story.

Transcribed - Published: 13 February 2019

REWIND - Lit as a Feather (Countdown to Season 6)

10 year-old Jazz learns the heard way why adults tell us not to play with matches.

Transcribed - Published: 6 February 2019

Picking up Dust

A young woman discovers her husband texting her younger sister, forcing her to dust off skeletons in her closet.

Transcribed - Published: 26 September 2018

Forever 4-21

Kham gets into the college of his dreams but can't afford tuition. Until he has a great idea on 4-20. What starts off as a plot to make some quick cash turns into a full-on operation.

Transcribed - Published: 19 September 2018

The Homegoing Team

After receiving heartbreaking news about her mother, Deena is forced to make sense of her new normal.

Transcribed - Published: 12 September 2018

The Dates Add Up

CeeJaye's one-night hook up results in unexpected and life-altering changes.

Transcribed - Published: 5 September 2018

P*ta Brenda

Celia gets into it with her landlord, Brenda.

Transcribed - Published: 29 August 2018

Voice of Gratitude

At five years old, Richard gets adopted by his kindergarden teacher.

Transcribed - Published: 22 August 2018

Everything Must Go

Krystal puts the pieces of her life back together after a painful divorce.

Transcribed - Published: 15 August 2018

Leaving the Kingdom

Joi makes a difficult decision between living the life her mother expected and defining life for her self.

Transcribed - Published: 8 August 2018

Sanctified Gangsta

Fed up by the way his grandmother dresses him, 8th grade Meechie joins the BDs, a Chicago-area gang, to buy new clothes.

Transcribed - Published: 1 August 2018

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