Velvet's Edge with Kelly Henderson

Kelly and Chip are back with a catch-up session full of life updates, laughs, and a deep dive into the way modern relationships are being redefined. From couples who live apart to the surprising perks of separate bedrooms, they unpack the rise of “off-kilter” domestic arrangements and why more people are choosing love on their own terms. Chip shares his perspective on how the queer community has long been ahead of the curve in rewriting the rules—and why that might be a good thing for everyone. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 11 July 2025

Dr. Kelly Coyne joins Kelly to explore the rise of unconventional domestic arrangements—think married couples who live apart, partners who sleep separately, and stay-at-home dads. As featured in The New York Times and The Washington Post, Dr. Coyne’s work challenges the traditional idea of what marriage should look like and invites us to rethink how we build relationships that actually work for us. Together, they unpack how these modern models can foster independence, intimacy, and emotional growth.  Socials: @kelly_coyne Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] Follow the podcast on Instagram: @VelvetsEdgePodcast HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 9 July 2025

Whether it’s a tense moment mid-podcast, a weird fight with your partner, or a silent meltdown over the dishwasher—this week, Kelly and Chip dig into the moments that seem small but hit surprisingly hard. Inspired by a real-time disagreement between Kelly and astrologer Marv, they explore how emotional triggers sneak into our reactions... and how it’s rarely about what we think it’s about. From ego flare-ups to awkward self-awareness, they break down: – Why that “tiny” comment felt like a personal attack – How to tell the difference between overreacting and finally reacting – What to say when you’re actually feeling hurt (and not just mad about the text) – And the art of not combusting at the cookout With the 4th of July around the corner—aka prime time for family tension and wine-fueled sensitivity—Kelly and Chip offer real (and funny) tips to help you pause, reflect, and maybe not flip a table over the potato salad. Because the fight’s rarely about the thing… it’s about what the thing poked in you. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 4 July 2025

Kelly sits down with astrologer Marvin Wilkerson to talk about the deeply emotional waters of the Cancer New Moon—how this lunation calls us to reflect on our inner world, self-image, and the stories we carry from childhood. But halfway through the episode, theory turns into practice as an unresolved issue from a past conversation resurfaces between Kelly and Marv—showing the exact astrology he was explaining in real time. From soul lessons to soft shells, and how our ego can still run the show, this episode is both a cosmic download and a raw, real-time reminder that astrology isn’t just something we study—it’s something we live. Book a personal chart reading with Marv: [email protected] Book: Soul Fusion Healing Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 2 July 2025

Welcome to Bookmarked by Reese’s Book Club — the podcast where great stories, bold women, and irresistible conversations collide! Hosted by award-winning journalist Danielle Robay, each week new episodes balance thoughtful literary insight with the fervor of buzzy book trends, pop culture and more. Bookmarked brings together celebrities, tastemakers, influencers and authors from Reese's Book Club and beyond to share stories that transcend the page. Pull up a chair. You’re not just listening — you’re part of the conversation. Listen here and subscribe to Bookmarked by Reese's Book Club on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts!Follow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 28 June 2025

Piggybacking off Kelly’s conversation with dream expert Bonnie Buckner, she and Chip dive even deeper into the wild world of dreams—sharing personal dream stories (including Chip’s two recurring dreams and Kelly’s latest vivid vision), decoding what they might mean, and uncovering how dreams are actually one of the most underrated tools for creativity and clarity. They also explore how billion-dollar companies like Salesforce were born in a dream, and why daydreaming might be your brain’s most powerful business partner. If you’ve been feeling creatively stuck, craving insight, or just curious about what’s really happening while you sleep—this episode might be exactly what your subconscious ordered. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 27 June 2025

Dr. Bonnie Buckner joins Kelly to explore the untapped power of your dreams—not just as nighttime entertainment, but as a tool for healing, clarity, and even creativity. Bonnie shares insights from her new book The Secret Mind and breaks down the different kinds of dreams we have, what they’re trying to tell us, and how to interact with them in a way that actually moves the needle in our lives. They also dive into why creativity levels are at an all-time low—and how dreamwork can reignite inspiration, intuition, and deeper self-connection. Whether you’re someone who always remembers your dreams or can’t recall a thing, this conversation will make you think twice about what happens while you sleep. Book: The Secret Mind Website: bonniebuckner.com or institutefordreamingandimagery.com socials: @bonniebucknerdotcom HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 25 June 2025

While Chip and Kelly take the week off, listen back to one of their all-time favorite episodes: “Revenge vs. Resilience: Why Failing Forward Is the Real Flex.” In this throwback convo, they dive into society’s twisted relationship with success and unpack why failure isn’t something to hide—it’s something to honor. From Oprah to Steve Jobs, they explore how setbacks shaped some of the most powerful comeback stories of our time. And with this week’s Wednesday episode exploring revenge as a brain-based addiction, this conversation hits even harder. When we’re hurt or rejected, it’s easy to reach for blame or bitterness—but what if resilience is the real rebellion? What if failure is the first step, not the end? Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 20 June 2025

We’ve all felt that fire—the urge to get even, to make someone feel the pain they caused us. But at what point does that fire start burning us? This week, Kelly sits down with Yale Psychiatry lecturer, lawyer, and author James Kimmel, Jr. to explore the gripping science behind revenge—and why it behaves more like an addiction than a rational choice. In his new book The Science of Revenge, James reveals how holding a grudge activates the same neural pathways as drug cravings and how many of us get stuck in revenge loops without even realizing it. Together, they unpack why revenge is so seductive, what it’s doing to our health and society, and the surprisingly powerful antidotes backed by neuroscience. In this episode: Why revenge feels so good… until it doesn’t How ruminating on a grievance wires the brain for addiction The real difference between forgiveness and letting someone off the hook How mindfulness, gratitude, and self-compassion help break the cycle What James believes could be the next major public health shift This one goes deep—and it just might change how you think about justice, healing, and freedom. Book: The Science of Revenge  Website: https://www.jameskimmeljr.com/ HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 18 June 2025

In this follow-up to Kelly’s conversation with Human Design expert Emma Dunwoody, Chip comes in hot with all the beginner questions — because he’s never heard of Human Design (and has a lot of thoughts). From understanding what it actually is to figuring out if it’s helpful or just another “life hack,” Kelly and Chip unpack their personal takes on self-discovery, purpose, and whether society has put too much pressure on us all to find “the one thing” we’re here to do. They also dive into why Kelly loves exploring tools like Human Design in the first place — breaking down her curiosity around life’s bigger questions and how different modalities can support spiritual growth. The conversation gets real about religion, personal belief systems, and how these practices can add depth (not conflict) to your existing faith or inner journey. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 13 June 2025

Master Coach, Human Behavior Specialist, and host of the Human Design Podcast, Emma Dunwoody is back for round 2—hi Emma! In this episode, we dive even deeper into the world of Human Design and its powerful tools for self-understanding and alignment. Whether you’re a total beginner or already obsessed, this conversation will give you fresh clarity on how to actually use Human Design in your everyday life. We explore: The real difference between Gene Keys and Human Design What your Incarnation Cross says about your soul’s purpose The meaning of defined vs. undefined centers—and how to use them in relationships Why your gates and channels hold the keys to your unique expression   This is one of those episodes that might just change how you see yourself. Let’s get into it.   Resources + Emma’s Links: Emma’s New Book: Human Design Made Simple (https://www.emmadunwoody.com/book) Website: https://www.emmadunwoody.com Human Design Podcast: https://www.emmadunwoody.com/podcast Instagram: @The_Human_Design_Coach   Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 11 June 2025

This episode was inspired by Wednesday’s astrology chat with Marvin Wilkerson, where Kelly and Marv got into a full-on (loving) debate about the difference between feelings, emotions, and intuition. It turns out… that convo kind of broke Kelly’s brain. So today, Kelly and Chip are picking up the thread—trying to figure out what it actually means to move from a feeling (not an emotion, not a thought), and how the hell you’re supposed to know whether you’re being led by intuition or just plain fear. Spoiler: we’re still confused. But we’re breaking it all down the best we can—and asking for your help. How do you tell the difference between a gut feeling and a panic spiral disguised as clarity? Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 6 June 2025

Master astrologer and coach, Marvin Wilkerson, joins Kelly for the June astrology forecast—and things get philosophical fast. Together, they explore the key astrological events of the month, including the Gemini New Moon, Sagittarius Full Moon, and the tense square between Saturn, Neptune, and Jupiter—which all challenge the way we think, believe, and perceive truth. Marvin and Kelly also engage in a debate about what it actually means to operate from “feelings” instead of emotions or thoughts. If that sounds confusing, here’s a tip: try substituting the word inner knowing for “feelings” to help it land. This episode is packed with insights on how to navigate mental fog, emotional overwhelm, and spiritual growth under June’s cosmic weather.  Email Marv to book a session (mention Velvet’s Edge) for a discount: [email protected]  Check out Marvin's NEW BOOK BY CLICKING HERE! Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 4 June 2025

Ever freeze up when someone asks, “So what do you do?” Same. This week, Kelly and Chip get real about the art of pitching yourself—whether you’re building a personal brand, applying for a job, or just trying to explain your vibe without sounding like a walking résumé. We break down the essentials of crafting a compelling personal narrative (without the fluff), share our own branding growing pains, and talk about how to own your story in a way that feels authentic, not awkward. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 30 May 2025

Ever wonder how women land major deals, build powerful brands, and grow their businesses from scratch? In this episode, Kelly talks to Marty McDonald—founder of Boss Women Media and the Elle Olivia brand now featured in Target—about how to pitch yourself with confidence, define your personal brand, and make bold career moves. They get real about what it actually takes to be an entrepreneur, how to use storytelling to grow your business, and why betting on yourself is the best investment you can make. Marty also shares exclusive insight into her upcoming book Audacious, and what’s next in her mission to empower women through strategy, community, and self-belief. Visit the website: https://campsite.bio/bosswomen Instagram: @martymcdonald & @bosswomenmedia  HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 28 May 2025

Let’s be real—if you’re a human in the world, you’ve probably been triggered. In this episode, Kelly and Chip unpack what emotional triggers actually are, why they show up, and how they can be surprising (and even helpful). Chip shares some honest moments about realizing his own triggers—and the shame that came with not seeing them sooner. Kelly reframes triggers as signs from our nervous system, not personal failures. From emotional spirals over texts to unexpected aha moments, this episode will help you feel a little more normal—and a lot more self-aware. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 23 May 2025

Renowned therapist turned holistic life coach Michelle Chalfant joins the podcast to break down The Adult Chair model—her powerful framework for emotional healing and personal transformation. Michelle shares how to move from stuck to empowered by embracing the 5 core pillars of a healthy adult self: owning your reality, feeling your emotions, practicing self-compassion, understanding your triggers, and setting grounded boundaries. We also talk about why traditional therapy sometimes misses the mark, how to work with your inner critic, and why triggers might actually be gifts in disguise.  Visit Michelle's website: TheAdultChair.com Listen to Michelle's podcast, The Michelle Chalfant Show HERE! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 21 May 2025

Think you’re just tired? It might be deeper than that. In this episode, Chip and Kelly explore the hidden causes of burnout—like invisible labor and the “tolerations” we quietly put up with every day. These small, constant energy leaks can lead to emotional exhaustion, mental fatigue, and even resentment. Chip also shares surprising signs of burnout that go way beyond physical tiredness. If you’ve been feeling off or drained and can’t quite name it, this conversation might connect some dots. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 16 May 2025

This week, Kelly sits down with Amina AlTai, a holistic business and career coach who is revolutionizing the way we think about work and purpose. Amina shares her inspiring journey from co-founding a successful branding agency to facing life-threatening burnout and two autoimmune diagnoses—all while grappling with a lack of boundaries and codependency in her career. Now an executive coach for leaders at companies like Google, Deloitte, and Roku, Amina teaches others how to create authentic careers, embrace purpose, and thrive without sacrificing well-being. In this episode, you’ll learn:     •    How to find passion and purpose at any age.     •    Why ethical wealth-building and well-being are essential for next-gen leaders.     •    What the “passion tax” is—and how to break free from it.     •    Science-backed tools for moving from burnout to a fulfilling, joyful career. Amina’s mission is clear: to equip us with the tools to thrive in work and life during one of the largest labor shifts of our time. Tune in for an insightful and actionable conversation! Podcast: Amina Change Your Life  Socials: @aminaaltai Website: aminaaltai.com HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 14 May 2025

In this episode, Kelly breaks down the deeper meaning of Taurus energy for Chip—and how it’s showing up in real life. From the spiritual importance of rest to reconnecting with pleasure, presence, and what actually makes us feel good, this is a light but real conversation about why slowing down isn’t lazy—it’s powerful. Kelly and Chip share their personal struggles with giving themselves permission to rest, how they’re learning to ground in the chaos, and some tangible tools they’re using to reconnect with their bodies, their joy, and the present moment. If you’ve been feeling tired, disconnected, or stuck in hustle mode, this is your permission slip to soften. Because rest is productive, beauty is healing, and slowing down is sexy. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 9 May 2025

Astrologer Marvin Wilkerson joins Kelly to break down the key astrology themes for May—and why this month is calling all of us to slow down, realign, and reconnect with what truly matters. From reevaluating your values and redefining success to finding joy in the present moment, this episode is full of grounded, practical wisdom for navigating change with clarity and grace. Kelly and Marv explore how rest isn’t laziness—it’s a spiritual reset. They also share what each zodiac sign can focus on right now to feel more supported, aligned, and open to what’s shifting. Whether you’re craving peace, questioning old patterns, or ready for a fresh perspective, this conversation will help you root into what’s real and let go of what no longer fits. Check out Marvin's NEW BOOK BY CLICKING HERE! Email Marvin at [email protected] Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 7 May 2025

In this follow-up to Kelly’s powerful conversation with relationship coach Marni Battista, Kelly and Chip dive into their own relationship histories to uncover the sneaky, self-sabotaging patterns that started way back in childhood. From dating addicts and emotionally unavailable partners to chasing chaos that felt like chemistry, they get honest (and laugh a little too) about the roles they played in their own heartbreak—and what finally helped them break the cycle. If you’ve ever found yourself asking “Why do I keep choosing the same kind of person?”—this one’s for you. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 2 May 2025

In this episode, Kelly sits down with transformational coach, entrepreneur, and relationship expert Marni Battista for a real, honest conversation about what it actually takes to break old patterns and attract the kind of love you deserve. Kelly shares parts of her own relationship journey—the shifts that completely changed how (and who) she dates—and Marni brings her research-backed wisdom to explain why certain patterns keep us stuck, and what it takes to create a truly healthy, lasting partnership. They dive into: How to recognize the relationship patterns that aren’t serving you How understanding masculine and feminine energy dynamics can change everything Science-backed tools to move through fear and build real confidence Why chasing “traditional success” often leaves us feeling empty—and what to focus on instead How setting clear boundaries can actually bring you closer to the right person   Take the Quiz: Decode Your Destiny  Visit Marni's website HERE! Check out Marni's books HERE! FInd Marni on Instagram:@marnibattista HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 30 April 2025

You’ve probably said them—or heard them—in tough times: “Everything happens for a reason,” “Time heals all wounds,” “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” But do these popular sayings actually help us heal… or just shut us down? In this episode, Kelly and Chip break down some of the most common feel-good phrases we hear in hard moments—and explain why they might be oversimplifying real-life pain, struggle, and growth. From “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” to “if you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life,” they dig into where these ideas fall short and how they can unintentionally cause harm. But don’t worry—it’s not all doom and dismissiveness. They also offer more grounded, compassionate alternatives that make space for both truth and growth. Because sometimes, the best way to move forward is to stop pretending it’s all fine. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 25 April 2025

Curious about what your Chiron placement means — and why it matters so much? In this episode, Kelly is joined by certified Evolutionary Astrologer Jill Brown to explore how Chiron (known as the “wounded healer”) reveals your soul’s deepest healing work and karmic patterns from past lives. Jill breaks down the difference between evolutionary and traditional astrology, and shows how understanding placements like Chiron and rare aspects like a Yod (aka “the Finger of God”) can lead to real transformation. Using Kelly’s chart as a real-time example, she walks listeners through how to identify and work with these powerful placements in their own lives. Whether you’re navigating a Saturn return, healing from shame, or just astrology-curious, this episode blends cosmic insight with practical tools — reminding us that deep healing can come with lightness, humor, and clarity. Visit Jill's website: http://www.eightstars.co/ Follow Jill on Instagram: @eightstarsastrology  HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 23 April 2025

What if the biggest thing holding us back from living our most joyful, embodied, juicy lives… is fear? In this episode, Kelly and Chip explore our strange addiction to fear—why we’re drawn to scary movies, clickbait headlines, worst-case scenarios, and that constant low-level anxiety so many of us live with. They break down what’s happening in the nervous system, how dopamine and fear keep us in loops we don’t even realize we’re in, and how to start shifting toward more presence, courage, and clarity. Inspired by Kelly’s interview with Stephanie James (Your Big Fat Juicy Life), the convo turns into a real talk about trust, media noise, and how to choose joy even when the world feels chaotic. And yes—Chip had some reservations about doing this episode in the first place, which led to some surprising insights on how differently we all process fear. This one’s about coming home to yourself, getting clear, and living life in full color—because fear may sell, but joy is what we came here for. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 18 April 2025

Psychotherapist, filmmaker, and podcast host Stephanie James joins Kelly to talk about her heart-expanding new book, Your Big Fat Juicy Life (and Everything After)—a soulful guide to living with more purpose, passion, and zero fear. Drawing from her own healing journey and deep conversations with spiritual thought leaders, Stephanie shares how shifting our relationship with fear—especially the fear of death—can unlock a life that’s more vibrant, meaningful, and alive than ever. This episode explores how grief, loss, and uncertainty can actually be doorways into deeper joy, how we can move through emotional heaviness instead of avoiding it, and why our soul is always craving expansion. If you’ve ever felt afraid of the unknown, stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, or unsure how to fully live while holding the weight of the world—this one’s for you. Website: stephaniejames.world Socials: @stephaniethespark Podcast: Igniting The Spark  Book: My Big Fat Juicy Life (and everything after) HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 16 April 2025

Inspired by Kelly’s conversation with Lauren Sisler about the power of owning your full story, Chip and Kelly dive into the parts of their lives that once felt hard to share—and how laughter has become a tool for healing. From shame to self-acceptance, they reflect on the moments that shaped them… and wrap it all up with hilarious, dramatic movie trailer voice overs of their own lives. Because sometimes, the best way to own your story is to laugh your way through it. Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 11 April 2025

You may know Lauren Sisler as the Emmy Award-winning ESPN sideline reporter with the signature sideline shimmy — but what you might not know is the heartbreaking story behind her smile. At just 18 years old, Lauren lost both of her parents to a hidden opioid addiction… on the same day. In this episode, Lauren opens up about the shame, silence, and grief she carried for years — and how she slowly found her voice, her purpose, and the power of falling in love with her story. We talk about what shame really looks like for children of addicts, how addiction affects the whole family, and how Lauren turned her most painful experience into a mission to help others own their stories, too. This conversation is raw, honest, and incredibly inspiring reminder that even in the darkest moments, healing is possible.  Check out Lauren's website: laurensisler.com Follow Lauren on Instagram: @laurensisler HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 9 April 2025

In this episode, Chip and Kelly are inspired by the Aries New Moon Eclipse energy and dive into the idea of rebranding your life – with plenty of laughs along the way. From Chip’s epic hair rebrands (perm phase included) to how life’s challenges push us to reinvent ourselves, they explore why clinging to a one-size-fits-all blueprint holds us back. Instead of feeling stuck or pressured to have it all figured out, they talk about why it’s okay to evolve, grow, and sometimes just start fresh – whether it’s your mindset or your hairstyle. Tune in for relatable stories, real talk, and a reminder that change can actually be a good (and funny) thing! Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 4 April 2025

In this episode, Kelly sits down with master astrologer Marvin Wilkerson to dive into the transformative energy of the Aries Solar Eclipse. Known for its bold, direct, and passionate nature, this eclipse calls us to embrace new beginnings, courage, and leadership while cutting away old patterns that no longer serve us. Kelly and Marv explore the activation of Shamanic Warrior Energy, reflecting on our soul’s identity and the power of standing in our truth—even when it means breaking free from past conditioning. They also discuss the significance of the Libra Lunar Eclipse, highlighting the need to dissolve false structures and align with our soul’s true path. Plus, they unpack how this cosmic event challenges us to balance discipline and devotion, merging vision and structure to alchemize illusion into embodied wisdom. Whether you’re feeling the push for independence or reflecting on your spiritual evolution, this conversation offers insights into how to navigate these intense celestial shifts. Tune in to learn how to harness the power of the Aries Eclipse and manifest your most authentic self. Check out Marvin's NEW BOOK BY CLICKING HERE! Email Marvin at [email protected] Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com Watch The Velvet's Edge on YouTube! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 2 April 2025

Kelly and Chip dive into the buzzy world of “trauma”—what it really means, how to tell the difference between an actual trauma response and just a bad day, and why our culture has a habit of taking meaningful words and running them into the ground. From “boundaries” and “healing journeys” to being in your “main character era,” nothing is off limits. It’s part thoughtful, part ridiculous, and fully relatable. Watch the Instagram Reels mentioned! @Beccabastos (Mel Robbins Impression) @Ryanlloydhaynes Watch us on YouTube! (By clicking this) Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 28 March 2025

The word trauma is everywhere these days, but how do you know if you’re actually dealing with trauma—or just going through a rough patch? Kelly sits down with Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner Brittany Piper to break it all down, including why traditional talk therapy often isn’t enough to fully heal. Brittany explains how trauma is stored in the body, not just the brain, and why talking about it can only take you so far. In her new book, Body-First Healing: A Revolutionary Guide to Nervous System Recovery, she shares science-backed somatic practices—that help release stored trauma and reset the nervous system. They also dive into big questions: Do we all have trauma, or has the term become overused? Have we become an emotionally weak society, or are we just finally paying attention? And in a world that constantly keeps us in chronic stress, what can we actually do to bring our nervous systems back to balance? Book: Body-First Healing: A Revolutionary Guide to Nervous System Recovery Socials: @healwithbritt Website: bodyfirsthealing.com HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 26 March 2025

These days, it feels like everything—especially politics—is designed to divide us. The outrage, the blame game, the constant fighting…it’s like throwing salt on a wound, making things worse instead of better. After Kelly's conversation with author, psychologist and executive coach, Dr. Harry Cohen, this week, Kelly and Chip ask: What if we approached things differently? If we’re all looking at the world through different lenses, how do we hold space for those differences without working against each other—and against ourselves? They explore how negativity and conflict are being used to manipulate us, why kindness and unity are often dismissed as weak or boring, and the small but powerful shifts we can make to actually create change. Book: Be the Sun, Not the Salt  Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 21 March 2025

Ever notice how some people naturally draw others in, while others seem to push people away? What if the key to being more magnetic, successful, and fulfilled was as simple as shifting your energy? In this episode, Kelly sits down with Dr. Harry Cohen, Ph.D., psychologist, executive coach, and author of Be The Sun, Not The Salt. His book is a short, powerful guide on how to uplift others, embody positive energy, and ultimately become happier and more effective in every aspect of life. They dive into the Heliotropic Effect—the science behind why people naturally gravitate toward certain individuals—and how being a Positive Energizer can transform not only your relationships but also your own sense of well-being. Topics include: - What makes someone a people magnet and why authenticity is the ultimate attractor. - How to bring out your best self in a way that benefits both you and the world around you. - Three key strategies for keeping relationships strong and positive—even when challenges arise. If you’re interested in how small shifts in your energy can improve your relationships and overall well-being, this episode is for you. Check out Harry's Website HERE! Find Harry's Book: Be The Sun, Not The Salt  Listen to his Podcast: Be The Sun, Not The Salt HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 19 March 2025

This week, Kelly clues Chip in on her convo with root cause health expert and plant medicine practitioner Christy Nault — and things get weird in the best way. From parasite cleanses to coffee enemas (Chip’s literal nightmare?), they dive into the wildest health trends they’ve tried or refuse to try. Plus, what would your body say if it could text you? They also get real about ignoring health red flags, what they wish doctors would say, and whether they’d rather give up coffee or alcohol for a year (spoiler: not an easy choice). If you’ve ever wondered if everyone has parasites or if microdosing mushrooms is just a fancy way to vibe through Trader Joe’s, this one’s for you. Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 14 March 2025

Christy Nault has helped over 15,000 people heal from chronic illness — but her journey to becoming a Root Cause Health Practitioner and Plant Medicine expert is deeply personal. After watching her brother suffer from a severe vaccine injury that ultimately took his life, and battling her own long list of chronic conditions — from endometriosis and Lyme to mold toxicity, OCD, and more — Christy made it her life’s mission to uncover why the body breaks down and how to truly heal. In this powerful conversation, Christy shares what led her to look beyond conventional medicine, how she learned that the body is its own healer, and why true healing must address physical, emotional, and spiritual roots. We also dive into the world of microdosing — what it is (and what it’s not), how mushrooms like psilocybin are transforming emotional healing, and how her MicroFlow supplements are helping people “de-program the deep program.” Christy breaks down her “Order of Operations” for parasite cleansing, the signs you may need to detox, and how to safely support your body’s natural healing systems. Whether you’re struggling with chronic illness, emotional trauma, or just feeling stuck, Christy’s wealth of knowledge offers hope and real solutions. Topics we cover: • What root cause healing really means • How to safely cleanse parasites and why it matters • Microdosing vs. recreational use — and who it can help • Psilocybin for emotional healing and nervous system regulation • Why you can heal, even when you’ve been told you can’t Follow Christy on Instagram: @itschristynault Visit Christy's Website by clicking HERE! Follow MicroFlow on Instagram: @microflow.healing Visit MicroFlow's Website by clicking HERE! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 12 March 2025

Inspired by the themes of Kelly’s astrology conversation with Marv for March, this episode dives into creativity, overthinking, and breaking free from old patterns. Ever had a “brilliant” idea that, in hindsight, was totally ridiculous? Or found yourself obsessing over every tiny detail while the world just kept moving? Kelly and Chip explore the highs and lows of creative inspiration, the struggle of overanalyzing everything, and the unconventional choices that shaped their lives. From bizarre business ideas to perfectionist tendencies that went way too far, they’re keeping it real (and hilarious) about the moments they took themselves a little too seriously—and the ones where throwing logic out the window actually worked. Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 7 March 2025

The Pisces New Moon is here, bringing a wave of intuition, creativity, and deep emotional healing. This episode dives into the powerful themes of this lunation—tapping into your inner voice, dissolving old emotional patterns, and preparing for a fresh cycle. We’ll also explore the balsamic phase of the year, a crucial time for reflection and release, plus the energy patterns shaping this New Moon, including Jupiter's push for expansion, Saturn's call for structure, and Uranus sparking unexpected inspiration. And with the upcoming Full Moon in Virgo, we'll discuss how to balance dreamy intuition with practical reality. Tune in to learn how to navigate this cosmic moment with clarity, purpose, and trust in your own inner wisdom. Check out Marvin's NEW BOOK BY CLICKING HERE! Email Marvin at [email protected] Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 5 March 2025

After Kelly’s conversation with Michelle Jungmin Bang about Korean wellness and longevity, she and Chip put themselves to the test—are they actually on track for a long, healthy life, or is a major lifestyle overhaul in order? They break down the biggest takeaways from Korean self-care, explore the rise of biohacking (ice baths, fasting, red light therapy—are they really worth it?), and take a Longevity Quiz to see how they measure up. Listeners can take the quiz along with them and find out if they’re future centenarians… or if their current habits might need some work. Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 28 February 2025

Korean culture is having a major moment—from skincare to K-pop to groundbreaking longevity research. By 2030, Korea is projected to have the highest life expectancy in the world. So what’s their secret? Award-winning eco-entrepreneur and Harvard Business School grad Michelle Jungmin Bang joins me to talk about her book Sun & Ssukgat: The Korean Art of Self-Care, Wellness, and Longevity. We dive into ancient Korean wellness wisdom, the power of food as medicine, the concept of a longevity pantry, and self-care rituals that go far beyond skincare. From zero-waste cooking to forest bathing to the deeply rooted cultural connection known as Jeong, Michelle shares how these practices have transformed her view on aging—and how we can incorporate them into our lives. Website: michellebang.com Instagram: @michelle.jungmin.bang Buy the book: Sun & Ssukgat HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 26 February 2025

Kelly asked her Instagram followers: “What’s something you used to chase that now you realize isn’t important?”—and the responses did not disappoint. From external validation to the pursuit of “success,” she and Chip break down the things we all thought would bring happiness but really just led to exhaustion. Chip gets unexpectedly honest in this episode (seriously, he almost made Kelly cry twice) as they reflect on personal growth, letting go of outdated beliefs, and what’s actually worth chasing in life. It’s deep, it’s funny, and it might just make you rethink a few things. Email us: [email protected] HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 21 February 2025

What if your favorite indulgence could also be a tool for healing and self-connection? Emily Pogany, intuitive holistic healer, psychic medium, and founder of MASAH, joins me to talk about her journey of blending Western medicine with Eastern healing practices to create a more balanced, joyful life. Emily shares how growing up with a pharmacist father shaped her understanding of both traditional and holistic medicine, how she honed her psychic gifts, and why self-connection is the key to true well-being. We also dive into her unique creation- chakra-infused caramels charged with Reiki and the deeper meaning behind conscious indulgence. We discuss: - The connection between spiritual, emotional, and physical health - Why personal and spiritual development are essentially the same - The importance of ‘woo woo’ practices like shadow work, breath work, and past life healing - How conscious consumption (yes, even of candy and wine!) can deepen your connection to yourself If you’ve ever felt drawn to explore your intuitive side but weren’t sure where to start, this conversation will help you reframe healing, joy, and self-care in a whole new way. Follow Emily on Instagram @IAmEmilyPogany or MASAH @ExperienceMASAH Visit their website HERE! HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 19 February 2025

Kelly and Chip are bringing your love and relationship answers, plus their own. From saying "I love you" to the biggest challenges in relationships, the fear that comes with love, and what Valentine's Day really means, this episode is all about how we navigate love in all its messy, beautiful forms. HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 14 February 2025

We've all been taught to work on our careers, our health, and our personal growth—but when it comes to relationships, intimacy, and sex, many of us assume things should just click with the right person. But what if intimacy is a skill—one that we can develop and refine? In this episode, I sit down with Danielle Harel, Ph.D., and Celeste Hirschman, M.A., co-founders of the Somatica® Institute, to explore how experiential learning can transform the way we approach love, connection, and desire. We break down: - Why intimacy is a skill, not just chemistry—and how to practice it in everyday life - How trauma shapes desire and how to reclaim sexual energy after past wounds - The crucial role of relationship repair in building trust, emotional safety, and deeper passion - The psychology of arousal—how early experiences shape attraction and desire - The surprising link between sexual fulfillment and overall health—from stress reduction to immune function - How breaking free from shame around sex can lead to greater confidence and personal empowerment Plus, Danielle and Celeste share insights from their books—Making Love Real, Coming Together, and Confidence—and details on new Somatica classes launching for Valentine's Day. Check out their website: Somatica Institute  Find them on Instagram: @somaticainstitute HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 12 February 2025

After Kelly’s astrology breakdown with Marvin Wilkerson, she and Chip take a more relatable approach to February’s cosmic energy. With the Aquarius New Moon and Leo Full Moon shaping the month, Kelly explains how these energies show up in our personalities, relationships, and daily lives—without the overwhelming astro-jargon. From independence and innovation to confidence and creativity, Kelly and Chip share personal examples of how these themes play out, making astrology feel a little more down-to-earth. Watch the VE Podcast on YouTube: Velvetsedge HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 7 February 2025

Master astrologer Marvin Wilkerson is back to break down the astrological energy of February. From the Aquarius New Moon and Leo Full Moon to Mercury and Pluto’s intense conjunction, he explains what these cosmic shifts mean for us all. We also explore how the full moon squaring Juno could bring shifts in relationships and commitments. Marv shares his insights on how these transits may unfold, offering a deeper understanding of the energy at play this month. Check out Marvin's NEW BOOK BY CLICKING HERE! Email Marvin at [email protected] Visit Marvin's Website at astromarv.com or blhypnosis.com HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comFollow Velvet's Edge on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 5 February 2025

Kelly and Chip take off on a deep dive into all things travel—sharing their favorite trips, biggest travel lessons, and the hacks they’ve picked up along the way. From packing tips to why third-party booking sites can be a nightmare, they cover what to do (and what not to do) when planning your next adventure. Plus, they explore the spiritual side of travel—how stepping out of your routine and into new places can shift your perspective, change your life, and maybe even heal your soul. HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 31 January 2025

Kelly catches up with entertainment travel agent Tyler Diehl for a much-needed travel reboot. After sharing her own booking nightmare with third-party sites, Kelly and Tyler dive into why those shortcuts aren’t worth it—and what to do instead. Tyler shares insider tips on how to maximize travel points, score the best deals, and avoid common travel pitfalls. Plus, they explore the future of travel, Tyler’s favorite destinations, and how travel can be more than just a trip—it can be a spiritual experience. Socials:  @tjdiehl Travel Socials: @erikankullberg @thepointsguy  Tyler's Favorite Spots:  Heckfield Place The Dolder Grand     HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 29 January 2025

When your relationship feels off, how do you reset? Chip and Kelly dive into the relatable realities of stale relationships, from petty fights (that are never really about the toothpaste) to quirky habits that can either annoy or bring you closer. We’ll share tips for breaking out of a rut, why laughter is key, and how small moments of connection can make a big difference. Plus, we’re debating everyday quirks in a hilarious round of Cute or Cringe?. HOSTS: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com Chip Dorsch // @chipdorschSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Transcribed - Published: 24 January 2025