The other day I saw a reel on Instagram and the first shot is of a woman.

She's like got her hair dyed. She's done like a black sexy dress. She looks all put together and

she has a wedding band and she slides it on her hand and immediately the screen

flashes to her like you know in working clothes in the

house like doing the laundry looking exhausted and then it flashes back to her

pulling the wedding band off of her hand and her looking like oh my goodness you know

like that's what marriage is all about and

then she kind of slides the wedding band back on and then flashes to her like in the

kitchen cooking you know for her family and then the same thing she pulls it off and

she's like you know like shocked like that's what marriage is all about that's

what taking care for family is all about and this happens a couple different times

of her putting the wedding band on and it flashing to her like doing some sort of

homemaking task and then ultimately the last scene is her taking the

wedding band off and throwing it in the trash can and the comment section was

interesting let me just tell you it was interesting to see the the different takes and the different

perspectives you have some people who are like yes girl you know like you do you

like married life family life is such a drag pursue you want, like you don't have to do that old ball and chain situation.

Other people were kind of making fun of her, like, oh yeah, because married women are the only ones that have to do laundry or clean their

toilets or eat right like actually those are things single married we all have to do we all have to

clean we all have to eat we all have to like take care of ourselves and then other people were totally coming to

the fence of like the fact that the home is valuable and children are valuable and

managing that well you know loving and taking care of people is a valuable job and a career

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