A good woman isn't a sexual woman, a Christian woman isn't a sexually alive woman.

She suppresses it, she basically doesn't even acknowledge that she is a sexual being until of course she gets married

and then on her wedding day she flips that switch and she is just now this tiger in

bed ready to go and just enjoying absolutely every minute of it.

She also knows exactly what's okay, what's not okay, these arbitrary standards that we've

come up with.

And that's the process.

When you're single, you are just kind of this non-sexual human

that's floating around.

And then when you get married, you become this sexual being all of that is not okay.

If you're listening and you're like, what are you talking about?

That sounds terrible good.

I'm glad you're thinking that.

And if you are like that is exactly how I felt as a

single currently or as a married woman and I've been struggling, you're not

alone. This is actually something of many Christian women struggle with.

This feeling of basically in your singleness,

even when you're engaged, like the good woman,

the Christian woman, the biblical woman,

she just is like non-sexual almost, like she just suppresses everything, and then

when she gets married somehow miraculously she flips this switch and she's supposed to just

enjoy and delight and love.

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