Why Couples Repeat the SAME Argument (And How To Stop)
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 19 November 2025
⏱️ 32 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | To get better rates on mortgages, loans and credit cards, |
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| 0:29.8 | Yeah, but it's not fair. Like, I feel like I'm doing all this work and it's always about him |
| 0:33.8 | and making sure his feelings about it, you know, and he's like, so do it for you. |
| 0:38.1 | You have to do this work for you too, right? If you feel like you're never seen, if you feel |
| 0:43.8 | like you're never being validated, that's because you're not giving them the opportunity to do it. |
| 0:51.5 | I'm John Kim, a licensed therapist who used to be a miserable fuck before going on a hero's journey and turning expired relationships into revelations. |
| 0:59.9 | I use my story to help others come with you instead of at you, unrehearsed on purpose, because self-help doesn't have to be polished or complicated. |
| 1:09.6 | Just honest. Can you talk about that in a concert since I guess as repair? |
| 1:20.6 | Yeah. |
| 1:21.6 | Because we've gotten into this discussion, like when an ecology is important, |
| 1:26.6 | when it's maybe not necessary which I think is almost |
| 1:30.7 | never yeah so like that's what's the things yeah so that's we we've this has been an ongoing |
| 1:37.8 | discussion with us for about a week now yeah it's like what is repair and why is it important |
| 1:42.8 | what is it because I'll talk about you know well it's damaging when you say that yeah and he's like what is repair and why is it important what is it because I'll talk about you know well |
| 1:45.2 | it's damaging when you say that yeah and he's like what you mean damaging like what's what's |
| 1:49.7 | being damaged yeah you know so it's I just want to I like that you're having conversations about |
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