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The Art of Charm

Why Boys Are Falling Behind & Three Steps You Can Take to Propel Them to Success | Richard Reeves

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Education, Health & Fitness, Business

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 31 October 2022

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we cover masculinity with Richard Reeves. Richard is a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution, where he directs the Future of the Middle Class Initiative and co-directs the Center on Children and Families, and is the author of several books including his latest, Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It. Western culture is experiencing a masculinity crisis, so what does mature masculinity look like in today’s society, what defines toxic masculinity vs mature masculinity, and how do we start instilling masculinity in our boys? What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 What are the trends in education and how are they impacting the genders? Why is there a lack of male teachers? The Crisis of Fatherhood – 24:07 What role should fathers play moving forward? What does mature masculinity look like in modern society and how do we instill it in our children? Toxic Masculinity – 38:15  What is the difference between mature masculinity and toxic masculinity? What role do rites of passage play in the transition from boyhood to manhood and what consequences do we face as a culture without them? Where do we start if we want to revitalize the masculinity in our society?  The Gender Pay Gap is a Parenting Gap – 59:07 What is the reason for the gender pay gap? Masculinity is not a dirty word. It’s time to reclaim it and redefine it for the modern world. We can start by teaching our children what mature masculinity looks like, modeling healthy behavior ourselves, and creating spaces where men can gather to discuss these issues. Together we can shift the paradigm of toxic masculinity and work towards a more inclusive society that celebrates all forms of masculinity. A Word From Our Sponsors Do you LOVE the toolbox episodes? Did you know that every week we give a LIVE mini-toolbox lesson inside our Private Facebook Group? Best of all it is FREE to join. Join today and get access to all of our live training and level up your communication, leadership, influence and persuasion skills. With 14,000 members it’s a great place to network, learn and overcome any obstacle that’s in your way. Did you know that you can get the whole Art of Charm catalog when you subscribe to Stitcher Premium using our link? That’s 15 years of podcasts featuring expert guests and toolbox episodes! Sign up today and use Code “CHARM” to get a free month! Running out of things to say in conversation… and still struggling to get people interested in you? That’s an uncomfortable position to be in. Don’t want to risk getting tongue-tied and screwing things up the next time you meet someone? Check out Conversation Magic now to make sure you don't crash and burn. With our bulletproof formula, you'll be flirting up a storm, sparking fun and engaging conversations, and making high-value friends anywhere! Resources from this Episode Richard Reeves website Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It by Richard Reeves Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Johnny and AJ here, do you struggle to spark a connection with possible friends and love interests?

0:05.6

Is social anxiety or awkwardness getting in your way?

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Listen, your social anxiety, awkwardness, and lack of confidence are thwarting your attempts at meaningful relationships.

0:16.4

But there's something you could do about it.

0:18.6

After coaching over 9,000 clients on how to master social confidence,

0:22.6

we've learned a thing or two about what it actually takes to spark an instant connection with someone.

0:27.6

We've packaged these insights inside a download called the instant connection kit.

0:33.2

And as a thank you for being a podcast listener, we want to give you this kit for free.

0:38.7

Inside the instant connection kit, you'll get three resources to help you spark a connection with anyone in any social setting.

0:46.4

These resources include our popular conversation formula, small talk conversation starters,

0:52.7

and a resource to understand emotional bids. To get your hands on this kit and immediately start improving your relationships,

1:00.1

go to thearticharm.com slash connect.

1:04.0

Remember, you could do something about your social anxiety, awkwardness,

1:08.1

introversion, and more. Start with our instant connection kit at thearticharm.com slash connect.

1:16.6

Welcome to the Articharm podcast where we break down the science of powerful communication

1:21.2

and winning mindsets. So you have the cheat code to succeed with people.

1:24.4

Every episode is jam packed with actionable steps to unlock the hidden superpowers inside of you.

1:30.0

Level up with us each week by listening to interviews with the best in business, psychology, and relationships.

1:35.7

We distill thousands of hours of research in the most effective tools and the latest science so you can start winning today.

1:41.8

Let's face it. In order to be seen and heard, your communication needs to cut through the noise.

1:47.1

And we're going to show you how.

1:48.6

I'm AJ successfully recovered introvert, entrepreneur, and self-development junkie.

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