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The Art of Charm

The Art of Engaging Small Talk Toolbox

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Education, Health & Fitness, Business

4.711K Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2022

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we cover talking to strangers with AJ and Johnny.  You never know what friend, business partner, or love interest you’ll meet by striking up a conversation with strangers in your daily life, but how do you create engaging conversations with anyone, what two things do you need for great conversations, and how do you make an unforgettable first impression? What to Listen For Introduction – 0:00 How is technology harming our ability to hold conversations and how do we overcome it? Why is it important to your health and social life to make small talk with strangers? Simple Techniques for Talking to Strangers – 23:16 What tips can you use to have fun conversations with strangers? How do you know what to talk about with strangers? How do you give a compliment to a stranger? The Art of Charm Conversation Formula – 37:05 What is the formula for great conversations? How do you have a good conversation with anyone? What are the two things you need to have great conversations? Why is vulnerability important in conversations and how can you be vulnerable without being too vulnerable? Small talk is important because it helps us to get to know other people, learn about new things, and build relationships. It can also help you feel more connected and socialize when you may be feeling lonely or isolated. To know what to talk about with strangers, think about the setting you’re in and try to find a common ground or interest that you share. The formula for great conversations is simple: ask open-ended questions, listen attentively, and then share something personal about yourself. Having a good conversation with anyone is all about being vulnerable and letting your guard down a little bit. Don’t be afraid to share some of your own experiences or feelings, as long as you do so in a way that isn’t overwhelming or off-putting.  A Word From Our Sponsors Athletic Greens Right now, it’s time to reclaim your health and arm your immune system with convenient, daily nutrition! It’s just one scoop in a cup of water every day. That’s it! No need for a million different pills and supplements to look out for your health.  To make it easy, Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. All you have to do is visit https://athleticgreens.com/artofcharm.  Again, that is athleticgreens.com/artofcharm to take ownership over your health and pick up the ultimate daily nutritional insurance! Join Our Private Facebook Group Do you LOVE the toolbox episodes? Did you know that every week we give a LIVE mini-toolbox lesson inside our Private Facebook Group? Best of all it is FREE to join. Join today and get access to all of our live training and level up your communication, leadership, influence and persuasion skills. With 14,000 members it’s a great place to network, learn and overcome any obstacle that’s in your way. Conversation Magic Running out of things to say in conversation… and still struggling to get people interested in you? That’s an uncomfortable position to be in. Don’t want to risk getting tongue-tied and screwing things up the next time you meet someone? Check out Conversation Magic now to make sure you don't crash and burn. With our bulletproof formula, you'll be flirting up a storm, sparking fun and engaging conversations, and making high-value friends anywhere! Resources from this Episode The Secret to More Engaging Small Talk Toolbox | 3 Steps to Break Out of Small Talk and Instantly Build Rapport Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Johnny and AJ here, do you struggle to spark a connection with possible friends and love interests?

0:05.6

Is social anxiety or awkwardness getting in your way?

0:08.8

Listen, your social anxiety, awkwardness, and lack of confidence are thwarting your attempts at meaningful relationships.

0:16.4

But there's something you could do about it.

0:18.6

After coaching over 9,000 clients on how to master social confidence,

0:22.6

we've learned a thing or two about what it actually takes to spark an instant connection with someone.

0:27.6

We've packaged these insights inside a download called the instant connection kit.

0:33.2

And as a thank you for being a podcast listener, we want to give you this kit for free.

0:38.7

Inside the instant connection kit, you'll get three resources to help you spark a connection with anyone in any social setting.

0:46.4

These resources include our popular conversation formula, small talk conversation starters,

0:52.7

and a resource to understand emotional bids. To get your hands on this kit and immediately start improving your relationships,

1:00.1

go to thearticharm.com slash connect.

1:04.0

Remember, you could do something about your social anxiety, awkwardness,

1:08.1

introversion, and more. Start with our instant connection kit at thearticharm.com slash connect.

1:16.9

Welcome to the Articharm podcast where we break down the science of powerful communication

1:21.5

and winning mindsets. So you have the cheat code to succeed with people.

1:24.7

Every episode is jam packed with actionable steps to unlock the hidden superpowers inside of you.

1:30.4

Level up with us each week by listening to interviews with the best in business,

1:34.0

psychology, and relationships. We distill thousands of hours of research in the most effective tools

1:39.4

and the latest science so you can start winning today.

1:42.1

Let's face it, in order to be seen and heard, your communication needs to cut through the noise.

1:47.5

And we're going to show you how.

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