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U Up?

Why Are Guys So Afraid Of Commitment?

U Up?

Betches

Relationships, Sexuality, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.714.8K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2019

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

As we say gabagool to F*cktember and head into F*cktober, Jared and Jordana are back to talk about taking serious steps in a relationship and transitioning into cuffing season. At 30:40 a listener asks for advice after her partner freaked out about how fast things were moving. Is he afraid to commit, or just afraid to commit to HER? At 47:55 the Awkward Sexual Encounter is all about running into a guy’s mom in the hallway the morning after a hookup. At 54:40 an emailer writes in to ask if she has the right to be mad that her boyfriend swapped Instas with a girl he met at a bar. Then at 1:08:00 another listener asks if the third date is the right time to bring someone back to your apartment. At what point do you stop going for drinks and just invite them over? At 1:14:05 they close out the show with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker. The U Up? LIVE TOUR, presented by Moxy Hotels, is coming to a city near you! Get your tickets before they sell out by going to Betches.co/uuptour Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:04.3

betches that actually tastes better than blocking your ex-feels. Take a quick second to close

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0:20.0

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0:30.9

Hello and welcome back to the U of Podcast. I'm Jordana Aberhound. And I am Jared Fried. It is so

0:38.0

good to be back here with you, Jordana. Always, always a pledge. Always a pledge. We're both fresh,

0:44.1

fresh off the plane back from VK. Fresh from the Instagram VK. I mean, if you follow either of us,

0:53.2

you are disgusted and you hate us and we're the worst. But we're back. We are back. And listen,

1:00.6

I want to say before we get into the episode, I just want to let listeners know how appreciative I

1:06.4

have of them. Yes, we love you. I am. I like the people who listen to this show because listen,

1:13.1

some of these are tough listens. Some of these, you're hit with truth bombs that maybe you weren't

1:18.6

ready to hear on a Wednesday afternoon, Thursday morning. Makes you uncomfortable. This ain't a

1:23.6

comfy pod. This is a discomfort pod. This is about shaking it up. You're here at the truth zone

1:31.3

to get hit in the face with a batch of truth. Okay. It's coming flying at you. I'm throwing

1:37.6

honesty on your face all over it. Yes. And smooshing it in. The honesty is going to sit on your face.

1:43.3

Sit right there. And it's going to harden. And then it's going to be tough to wash off. So listen,

1:48.8

I want to thank you for listening. I want to thank you for telling a friend. I want to thank you,

1:53.0

thank you. Thank you for coming to the live shows are already having purchase to the live tickets

1:58.9

live shows. I did a show last night, the comedy seller, all these people coming up saying hello,

2:04.0

and then they're like, I'm coming in November. I'm coming in November. That's going to be an

2:06.9

amazing, amazing show. It's going to be like a Beyonce concert. Yes. But with more tears and

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