Who cares what people think and why do we care so much about what other people think, especially strangers?

That's what we're talking about today on the Shalene show. My name is Shalene Johnson and this is something a lot of us

struggle with and I think social media has obviously made it worse, but today we're gonna get to the root cause of

Why it is we worry what other people think and what to do about it because frankly

it's holding a lot of you back from the greatness that could be your life. The greatness that is within you. Let's get to it

All right, first why do we care what other people think?

Well, there's been a lot of research on this topic some of which stems all the way back to our primitive beginnings and

the way that we

Survived was by feeding him with the tribe, right? If we were rejected from the tribe that meant you were gonna die

You would likely perish. You needed the support of your tribe of your community to survive. So sure some of it is primitive

But let's face it today. You can survive on your own. You don't need a tribe

necessarily to survive or do we?

so much of what we feel is

Is really our own interpretation of what other people think of us and if I'm being honest as much as I like to think that I don't care what other people think of me

And to some extent I do I think I have a healthy balance of that and I think it's important that all of us care a little bit

You certainly don't want to be so callous that you don't care at all what other people think if that were the case then

We would break laws. We would treat people poorly just because we could get ahead like if we be a society of

Social pass we all to some extent including myself care what other people think

Obviously I care what people think or I wouldn't try to dress nicely

I wouldn't put out a podcast on Monday Wednesday and Fridays of the Shalinchou

I wouldn't put out a podcast on Tuesdays and Thursdays for a build your tribe

I would say oh who cares what people think I'll put it out when I feel like it

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