I'm Matthew Hussey. Welcome to Love Life, which is now by popular demand a podcast on iTunes.

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We are talking today about when you change your Facebook status to being in a relationship.

So how do we navigate our way through this minefield? Well, firstly, I don't think that

the moment you meet someone or the moment you start dating, that's the time when you

should start thinking about whether you should be saying you're in a relationship on Facebook.

I think that's precisely the time you should be in the moment in the relationship and

far too busy to worry about whether you're saying it on Facebook and the rest of the world

knows why do you care? And if you're one of those people that feels the need too quickly

to start talking about it to everyone else, regardless of Facebook, if you're that type

of person in life, that should be worrying anyway. Because that means you're the type

of person that the moment you think you're in a relationship, you start telling everybody

and that puts huge pressure on it. And then of course, you get to that high pressure

situation where you can't get your way out of it without embarrassing yourself. Or if

that person suddenly leaves you, you have to explain to a hundred people what just happened

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