When It's Difficult to Physically Stop the Behavior

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.7 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2019

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Janet addresses two emails with the same theme. Both questions concern two-year-olds who exhibit challenging behaviors when their parents are physically unable to intervene. One mom writes about her son's toy throwing: “He sees that I’m nursing the baby, or that my hands are full with dinner, and he’s frustrated that he doesn’t have my attention.” The other mom says that she has physical challenges: “And of course my smart kid has figured out that it’s easy to lash out on days when I am physically unable to deal.” These moms are wondering what words to use and how to address behavior when they can't be as hands-on as they need to be. For more advice on common parenting issues, please check out Janet's best-selling books on Audible, FREE with a 30-day trial membership if you use this link: adbl.co/2OBVztZ. Paperbacks and e-books are available at Amazon. Also, Janet's exclusive audio series "Sessions" is available for download. This is a collection of recorded one-on-one consultations with parents discussing their most immediate and pressing concerns (www.SessionsAudio.com). Our Sponsors:* Check out BabyQuip and use my code UNRUFFLED for a great deal: http://www.babyquip.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hi, parents.
0:02.6	Are you feeling frustrated, stuck, maybe just a little unclear?
0:07.8	It happens to the best of us.
0:09.5	I have something I think might really help.
0:12.6	My new NoBadKids MasterCourse.
0:15.7	You can go to nobadkidscourse.com and read all about it.
0:20.1	Hi, this is Janet Lansbury.
0:24.6	Welcome to Unruffold.
0:26.8	Today I'm going to be responding to two different questions from parents who have different specifics,
0:33.2	but both of them are about handling behaviors when we can't be there physically in the way
0:40.5	that we would like.
0:41.8	How do we help children with these behaviors?
0:45.2	Okay, here's the first question I received in an email.
0:51.0	Dear Janet, thank you so much for your podcast and other materials.
0:54.4	You are so generous with your time.
0:55.9	I know I've learned so much, not only about parenting and my child, but also through this
1:01.2	wonderful parenting experience myself.
1:04.4	I am grateful.
1:05.9	I do have a question.
1:07.0	My child is two and a half and obviously has all the corresponding behaviors.
1:11.5	Dear sweet, very intelligent, amazingly verbal, and expressive, and also very, very physical.
1:17.8	It's sometimes easy to forget that my child is only two, as you sometimes feel you're
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