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Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, 971900, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2025

⏱️ ? minutes

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Summary

We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum.

Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . .

If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, don’t miss this week’s brand-new video.

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0:30.2	Hi guys, Peter and Abbey here from The Therapy Crouch.
0:32.4	We're sponsored by Starbucks Chilled Coffee.
0:34.8	They're all about lifting up the everyday for those fleeting moments where you get to do something just for you.
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0:55.8	local supermarket. I got a question recently, and I thought I'd bring it to you today because I
1:09.2	think it's going to help a lot of people. This person said, I feel stuck. Last May, I got out of a 10-year relationship I was in since I was 19.
1:17.6	I'm doing a lot of self-development and I found that when it comes to love and dating,
1:22.6	people don't seem to be attracted to open good communication at first.
1:27.9	I've been told I get into deep talk really fast,
1:30.9	but then I keep getting friends zoned by really attractive people because of it.
1:35.7	Wouldn't it be better if I could just be this healthy, communicative, open person
1:40.9	and then attract that kind of person,
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