The Subtle Signs They’ll Commit Forever | Matt Monday

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, 971900, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 22 September 2025

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Why does it feel so hard to find someone who will actually commit? These days, it’s easy to get caught up in someone’s curated image: their Instagram-perfect life, charm, and seemingly deep qualities. But having great qualities doesn’t automatically make someone a great partner. And that’s where we often get stuck.

In this week’s episode, I break down why we idealize people based on what they project, and how it distracts us from seeing what really matters. I also share the subtle signs to look for in someone who’s truly capable of long-term commitment.

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0:14.7	anxiety and parties. But when she becomes the talk of the campus, Kaylee retreats and shuts herself
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0:25.4	anxiety.
0:26.4	But soon, the line between reality and fantasy begins to blur.
0:30.2	And she feels the pool of a new dangerous obsession.
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1:18.6	Thank you. There has never been so many outwardly attractive people.
1:34.7	One visit to Instagram will pull up an entire ocean of gorgeous strangers, people who don't just look chiseled and attractive, but also appear to be kind, caring, generous, and sensitive, emotionally attuned in all of the right ways.
1:41.2	So then why does it feel so fucking hard to find someone who will actually commit to you?
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