They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!

Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, 971900, Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 17 September 2025

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Do you ever feel like you’re giving too much in your relationships? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the exhausting cycle of overgiving and people-pleasing in love. You’ll discover why so many people feel the need to be “perfect” to keep someone around, and how this mindset can actually sabotage connection and attraction.

Learn how to break free from this pattern, create space for others to invest in you, and build relationships rooted in mutual effort and respect. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work in your relationships or struggling to trust that you’re enough just as you are, this episode can help you reclaim your confidence.

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1:23.1	Guys, this is extremely timely.
1:28.7	I did a live event yesterday called the Love Life Reset.
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