The Bird Show.

All right, let's get Sandy on the phone here.

Now, hey, Sandy.

Hey. I have a feeling, and I want to warn you going into this. I think you're going to get beat up pretty badly here, and I frankly can't understand why you can't see your husband's position. No, I don't get it at all. I really don't. We've been separated over a year now. Now, of course, we haven't gone through the divorce.

We were married eight years, and we do have two kids. But, I mean, my goodness, you know, I live at home with the kids. He's got his own apartment. We have separate lives. We are in counseling, but still, I'm 34. I'm a female, you know, and I obviously have needs. I've got to satisfy, and I'm sure he's, you know, getting his needs satisfied, too.

So, you know, and I obviously have needs I've got to satisfy, and I'm sure he's, you know, getting his needs satisfied too.

So, you know, I don't see the big deal with having somebody come over a few times a week and have a few drinks and talk and wait until the kids go to bed.

I mean, my God, I'm 34.

And obviously, you know, we get it on. I'm human. I have me.

For crying out loud. So what's your husband's problem with the whole situation? Well, in a nutshell, what happens is occasionally we might have a few too many and every so often and not very often

somebody may fall asleep here and and the kids see it the next morning and i just tell them it's

one of mommy's friends and uh obviously it got back to the ex and he's raising a big stink about it

and i just i think he should get over it He's being a real jerk and a control freak.

All right, let me ask you just a little history of the family here. How old are the kids? I have a five-year-old and a seven-year-old. Five and seven, and you were married? How long? We were together eight years. Eight years. Okay, and you've been separated by a year. And how often is this happening where you bring a new guy back into the house

and he ends up leaving the next morning in front of your 5 and 7-year-old?

Well, I have someone over every week, but it's not like that person spends the night every week.

Same person or different people?

Well, different people. I don't want to get too

tight with anybody. So you're bringing a different guy in every week and how often do your kids know

that there's somebody in the house? Well, they see it every week. They know mommy's got to have friends. Like I said, I don't want to, I don't want to hook up with just one person again. I'm past that.

Is there any handholding, kissing, any kind of intimacy at all in front of the kids?

Well, just a little bit, not that much. I mean, you know, I'm pretty good about that.

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