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All right, Birch Show listener, we're going to call her Lisa. Interesting take on her teenage case. She's actually all right with her daughter, I think, having sex. Okay. That's going to happen. Maybe it's her attitude. But where do you draw the line? Because she certainly doesn't want her daughter become a slut. Right. Good morning, Lisa. Good morning. Am I accurate in saying that? Pretty much. I feel pretty confident that she's not going to turn into a slot, but I just wanted to get some feedback from somebody else. Okay. So you're real. I'm not exactly sure what the focus of your call is. Is it just to get advice from other people? Well, I actually, originally, I was getting in touch with you because she told me that she broke

up with her boyfriend.

They were extremely serious, like 24 hours a day they were together over the summer.

And all of a sudden, she announced that they broke up because they both decided they didn't

want to be too serious.

But the next night she went to see him.

Then they were on the phone constantly.

And my question originally was, does that mean, you know, she kept saying they're still friends, they're just friends, but are they still sleeping together? But then over the weekend, I found that they were. So, you know, that's kind of a new point now. She is how old? She is a senior in high school. And the fact that she's having sex as a senior in high school, that's not bothering you.

Well, you know, I'm sure I'm going to get a lot of parents that say that I'm nuts.

But I would prefer she not.

And I have a son that I feel the same way about.

But I also know that most kids lose their virginity, you know, 14, 15, 16 years old.

Don't tell me that.

No, I'm serious.

And I'll tell you, as a parent, as a parent, if you don't think your kids are doing things, you're crazy.

I hear so many wild stories I know about kids.

They sneak out of the house, you know, just like Jim's talking about the show. No, we saw it. They probably Jimmy the alarm. He slink through the arm. I mean, I was so creative. My daughter was, she was going over and spending the night with her boyfriend when his mother was out of town. And I knew it, but she wouldn't admit it. So I drove over to his house at 4 o'clock in the morning, and her car was in his driveway. And so I left a note in the car for her, so she was busted. And what she was doing was going over to, she would tell me she was going to stay with a girlfriend. And then when the girlfriend's parents went to sleep, she was sneaking out of the basement and going over to his house. And then she would come back early in the morning, and nobody knew it. Now, is the only person that you know of her having activity with is this guy? Yes. And that's what I talked to her about after I found out. They were still together. I said, you know, it's one thing to have a serious relationship. And I've always, I've taught both my kids from the time they had sex education in fifth grade that it's a very special

thing and we talked about it a lot we do and um and so i yeah i mean i have a really really good

relationship with both of them when i thought they were going to start to be sexually active you know

we had the the condom and that kind of discussion and they're um you know they're both good kids

my son is in a um he's in a relationship with a girl that they've been serious with each other for three years now.

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