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Brunch with Desb Podcast

VAGINA 101 / cleanliness, lube, pain with sex, OH MY! (ft. Lydia - @Labor.With.Love) (Ep. 89)

Brunch with Desb Podcast

Des Pfeifer

Comedy, Relationships, Society & Culture

5.01.9K Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2021

⏱️ 88 minutes

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Summary

Lydia Harris is a Birth, Postpartum, and VBAC Doula. She is the face behind Labor With Love (@labor.with.love) on Instagram. She empowers women, especially Black women, through educational and transparent content that focuses on vaginal health, sexual health, gestational health, and women's health. She received her undergraduate degree in Biology with a minor in Chemistry and is currently pursuing her Master's in Public Health with a concentration in Leadership in Practice. In the midst of all of this, her overall career goal is to become an OBGYN.



Time Stamps:

(1:30) Go Follow Lydia Right Now

(6:30) All My Links

(7:05) Cheffing It This Year

(9:00) All Things Vaginas

(9:52) Sex Education in Texas

(19:35) OBGYN Ambition

(22:35) Vaginal Hygiene

(29:15) Showering After Sex

(36:00) Constant Infections

(48:20) Toys

(51:30) Sex, Pain, and Dryness

(1:01:55) Vaginal Dryness is Normal

(1:09:20) Shaving, Waxing, Etc

(1:18:06) All or Nothing with Shaving

(1:25:10) Outro

(1:26:05) Would Love Some Feedback!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

What's up, you guys? Welcome back to your favorite podcast brunch with DesiBee today. The B stands for Bush.

0:11.0

Okay, maybe not like all bush, but we are talking all things the ginas today and I'm so excited that I can say that out loud and not get like

0:22.0

demonetized or like in trouble, so to speak

0:26.0

because it is so empowering this conversation that we're going to have today. You guys are going like literally you're going to love it. This podcast was so fun to record.

0:36.0

And who you're about to meet Lydia. She is so sweet. She is an empowered black women's health advocate. All things sexual health, all things vaginas, all things.

0:48.0

Maybe maybe a little bit of penis, but more so just relating back to women's health and how we need to take care of ourselves. She's a birth in postpartum doula, a V back practitioner, and she's also in school to finish her graduate degree to go on to be an OBGYN.

1:07.0

So she has a lot of just education. She is really an example of someone who took a passion that she found out she had at a very young age, and turn it into a practice in a way to empower us women to know who the fuck we are.

1:24.0

Girl, we are so we are so cool. We have the coolest anatomical parts you could ever imagine. So I'm very excited to have Lydia on you guys are literally going to love her.

1:36.0

So before I get into it, I want you guys to go follow her right the fuck now. Like literally you will not regret it. She puts out fire fucking content. Her Instagram is labor dot with

1:49.0

love labor dot with dot love labor with love on Lydia H MPH candidate on that it's who you'll find in her current profile picture. She's like drinking a coffee.

2:00.0

So just make sure you have the right person. She has such great information information on am I normal down there? How do I clean down there? She does great

2:09.0

Reels how to be a hoe

2:11.0

Safely are you pro life pro choice is a safe to swallow

2:16.0

pH balance and vagina's postpartum

2:19.0

Punani care how to you know get UTIs to go away just literally

2:24.0

So much fucking good content. She deserves so much more

2:28.0

Cloud than she has

2:30.0

So I'm just I'm really excited to have her on this is going to be such a fun episode.

2:35.0

What prompted this was actually on my sunscreen and sarcasm account

2:40.0

Someone asked about cleaning themselves down south and I shared it and it caused an uproar of people not even really understanding how the fuck we need to be cleaning our

2:52.0

Our vulva slash our vaginas, you know people thinking it's the vagina

2:57.0

When it's not like anatomy. It's crazy. So anyways, we are going to talk about all things coming up. We're talking about

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