UFYB 263: Agonizing Over Decisions and Preparing for Unhelpful Thoughts: Takeaways from Clutch College
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Kara Loewentheil
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🗓️ 10 November 2022
⏱️ 17 minutes
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Summary
Just a few weeks ago we closed out our last Clutch College Live for a while. Over the course of the 3-day, live, in-person and virtual event, minds were blown and breakthroughs were made. A lot of what I coached on had to do with goals — and I want to share some of the amazing takeaways that came out of that weekend.
Tune in to find out the real reason you don’t set goals, what we’re actually afraid of when we’re agonizing over a decision, how to be prepared for the inevitability of your brain offering you an old thought that will not help you reach your goal, and how life is always 50/50, no matter what.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Unfuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism, |
| 0:14.0 | and coaching to rewire your brain and get what you want in life. And now here's your |
| 0:19.3 | host, Harvard Law School grad, feminist rock star, and master coach, Carla Lohanthile. |
| 0:28.1 | Hello my chickens, how are you? I am, how am I? I didn't prepare, I didn't prepare |
| 0:37.5 | for asking myself, I am, I'm good, I'm well, I think I'm well. I'm recording this during |
| 0:45.1 | the weekend that is daylight savings time. So I have a lot of thoughts and feelings about |
| 0:49.0 | daylight savings time. But other than that, I am doing well, we just finished our claim |
| 0:55.9 | your authority challenge, which was really exciting and powerful. And I'm just really |
| 1:04.0 | blown away by how I think core and central this authority work is to everything that I |
| 1:10.5 | have been teaching and coaching on. I feel like it's all coming together in a different |
| 1:14.2 | way now at a different level, which is really exciting. And I'm about to go to the West |
| 1:19.9 | Coast for a week. I'm going to go see my coach and bestie and one of my best ones from |
| 1:27.1 | high school. I have a lot of a lot of I loved ones are in the Bay area. So I'm going to go |
| 1:32.0 | see some of them and the gentleman concert night are going to go to stay in a house in |
| 1:38.1 | the Redwoods in Marin for a few days for his birthday. And then I am going to go to Vegas |
| 1:43.6 | of all places, which is really not not my town for a mastermind meeting with my colleagues |
| 1:52.2 | and friends. So I would not go to Vegas for anybody else other than my mastermind. But |
| 1:57.7 | these are the women who keep me sane and help me blow my own mind on the regular. So I'm |
| 2:04.7 | going to Vegas for that. And then I'll be back. It's going to be a whirlwind week. I'm |
| 2:09.1 | excited. I've realized recently that I always tease the judgment concert because he needs |
| 2:15.7 | to see like stranger faces every day. He feels this visceral need for a lot of like variety |
| 2:22.1 | in the humans that he sees. And I don't feel the way at all. I could stay home for two |
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