These Are The Signs You Shouldn’t Go On That First Date

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Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

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🗓️ 29 November 2020

⏱️ 16 minutes

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This week’s Sunday Special is all about getting a last-minute text to confirm plans for a dinner date even though there was plenty of time to lock it in. Should you hold your ground and pass on the date or just go through with it? Plus, does this indicate that no one wants to go on the date in the first place, or is it just a matter of miscommunication? They discuss the dynamics of getting out of a first date and why we often struggle with the decision. Thanks to our sponsors: Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy bedding, visit Buffy.co and enter promo code UUP Glossier: Get Glossier’s glowy, dewy look for yourself by visiting Glossier.com/podcast/uup and get 10% off your first purchase! Bruush: Get 15% off your Brüush when you use promo code UUP at Bruush.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	This week's episode is brought to you by Bumble. No matter what your relationship
0:03.4	status is, Bumble wants you to celebrate yourself this Valentine's Day. Why should couples
0:07.6	get to have all the fun? Bumble puts women first and supports their journeys of self-love,
0:12.0	because when you love yourself, if you open yourself up to new and better connections,
0:16.0	go to Bumble.com to start dating on Bumble, where you always come first.
0:22.5	Hello and welcome to the Sunday Special episode of the U of Podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.
0:28.6	And I am Jared Fried. It's always good to be here with you on a Sunday special, Jordana. We
0:34.2	just got through Thanksgiving. We're heading to the holiday season, baby. I know. I'm sure we
0:39.4	were recording this before Thanksgiving, but if it was anything like you described it on Wednesday's
0:43.2	episode, I'm sure you will be recovering on your couch. That's right. That's right. Fat and
0:48.6	gross and hungover. That's me on Thanksgiving for at least three days after Thanksgiving.
0:53.8	But let's do the Sunday Special and listen people. We love doing these. If you have a screenshot
0:59.6	and you want us to unpack the screenshot and the situation, send it to uupipetches.com,
1:07.2	uupipetches.com. And these are the perfect episodes to share. We want you to share these ones.
1:12.7	They're small. They're edible. They're perfect for giving as the gift to your friend who's in
1:19.3	dating peril, right? Exactly. You know, you'll know someone to send this to. Let's do it.
1:26.5	All right. I, J and J, first of all, love the pod. It's basically a beacon of light and all the darkness
1:31.4	and craziness of dating. Thank you for doing the Lord's work. You're welcome. Always.
1:38.4	Okay. So question. But I ask you out to a specific place, but does not set the specific time to
1:43.7	meet just dinner and then goes dark until literally right before set evening and pops back up like
1:49.1	a gofer. What the heck does that mean? Back story. Chat it with this guy in an app for like five days.
1:54.8	He asked me out to lunch or dinner at this lunch or dinner. That's the first problem.
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