Do I Have a Right To Ask The Guy I'm Seeing Why He's Following Girls On Instagram?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 14.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 November 2020

⏱️ 63 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Jared and Jordana are back on this Thanksgiving Eve episode to talk about spending holidays together as a couple and what it says about your relationship. Then an emailer asks whether or not it’s okay to expect her new boyfriend to be as thoughtful as her when it comes to gift giving. How do you ask your partner to do something when it's not in their nature? The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a faulty vibrator and a startled cat. Then another listener asks if she should be worried that the guy she started talking to again is consistently following new girls on Instagram each day. Is he telling other women the same things he’s telling her, or is this just harmless social media behavior? Finally, the show closes with some Red Flag or Deal Breakers, leading to a conversation about what you should do if you find the wrong color strand of hair in your partner’s bed. Thanks to our sponsors: Buffy: For $20 off your Buffy bedding, visit Buffy.co and enter promo code UUP Glossier: Get Glossier’s glowy, dewy look for yourself by visiting Glossier.com/podcast/uup and get 10% off your first purchase! Bruush: Get 15% off your Brüush when you use promo code UUP at Bruush.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	This week's episode is brought to you by Bumble. No matter what your relationship
0:03.4	status is, Bumble wants you to celebrate yourself this Valentine's Day. Why should couples
0:07.6	get to have all the fun? Bumble puts women first and supports their journeys of self-love,
0:12.0	because when you love yourself, if you open yourself up to new and better connections,
0:16.0	go to Bumble.com to start dating on Bumble, where you always come first.
0:22.6	Hello and welcome to the U-Up podcast. I'm Jordana Averham.
0:27.3	And I am Jared Fried. Jordana, it is the day before Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving Eve. How are you?
0:36.0	Wow. It's just the days keep coming and they keep on coming, right? This is...
0:43.7	They do. I had it. Just like that song. They... How are you Thanksgiving? How are you
0:51.2	celebrating? Have you divided to your families? What's going on? What's the plan? Are you going to
0:56.7	go out the night before? Let me hear all about it. Well, okay. So... I asked a big question.
1:06.0	I'm like, whoa, is that a... Is that a loaded question? I don't think it is. Are you pregnant?
1:11.8	No, you've gotten it. Move to the suburbs. You know, we are recording this a little early,
1:16.4	so I'm not sure what I will be doing on the day before Thanksgiving, aka tonight. But before
1:21.7	Thanksgiving, we are doing our first semi-combined holiday. Whoa, how does that come together?
1:32.6	It came together kind of oddly this year. So usually on Thanksgiving, my mom sends us all to our
1:40.4	fathers. She... Yes. Manishes you to his house. Yes. My mom is eight kids. Four were their first
1:48.3	husband, four were their second husband, Thanksgiving. She doesn't really care about. Go to your dads.
1:54.0	Thanksgiving is mama's night. She's going to do her own thing. She does her own thing. It's
1:59.2	historically that's just kind of how it's pandered out. So I go with my respective full siblings to
2:06.0	our dads usually. It's usually happens. Yes. And Mike goes to his regular nuclear family situation.
2:14.7	That's again, usually how we do Thanksgiving. But this year, we're combining my dads with his
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Betches, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Betches and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.