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U Up?

Is It Okay To Judge Someone You're Dating By Their Friend Group?

U Up?

Betches

Sexuality, Relationships, Comedy, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.814.5K Ratings

🗓️ 2 December 2020

⏱️ 80 minutes

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Summary

J & J are back and start the show with a conversation about cuffing season being more important this year than ever before. Then they answer an emailer who wants to know if she is free to leave the apartment if her boyfriend tests positive for coronavirus. Is this a passive aggressive way of fighting with your partner or just a practical question about staying healthy? The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a marching band hook up and a drummer with too much rhythm. Then another listener asks how to deal with dating a new guy who has different political opinions, especially when his friends are at odds with hers. Should she respect his desire to avoid political conversations with his friends and is it fair for him to judge her by the company she keeps? Finally, they close things with a game of Red Flag or Deal Breaker, including a question about requesting a selfie before going on a first date. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

This week's episode is brought to you by Bumble. No matter what your relationship

0:03.4

status is, Bumble wants you to celebrate yourself this Valentine's Day. Why should couples

0:07.6

get to have all the fun? Bumble puts women first and supports their journeys of self-love,

0:12.0

because when you love yourself, if you open yourself up to new and better connections,

0:16.0

go to Bumble.com to start dating on Bumble, where you always come first.

0:22.6

Hello and welcome back to the U.A. podcast. I'm Jordana Abraham.

0:26.8

And I am Jared Fried. It is always a pleasure to be back here with you, Jordana. How are you?

0:32.8

What's going on? Are we going to check in? What's happening? What's happening?

0:39.2

Things are good. Another week. Here we are. It's cold out. I know. I have to say, when you just

0:48.4

had this moment, when I was like, how are you? I'm like, you look out your window. Yeah. You're

0:54.4

at a moment of like, and I think if you're living in a cold weather place, I'm not, I think the

0:59.6

wet is this very weather dependent seasonal depression is a thing. I've never doubted that in my

1:05.3

entire life, but I have to assume it's worse this year. It's the COVID seasonal depression is going

1:11.0

to be because if we get under a certain temperature in New York, I'm like, I guess I'm not like,

1:15.6

like, I need, I need 45 minutes at least to be outside with like a breeze in my face breathing

1:22.0

fresh air. And if I can't get that, the day is not a great day for me. I agree. And it's tough,

1:29.5

it's getting tougher to do that. And I have to say for our daters out there, normally I would say

1:35.1

the coughing season thing isn't really happening this year. But I do think, especially if you live

1:39.9

in a cold weather state like New York, it's like, it's, there's not really going to be much to do

1:46.0

indoors. I think they're going to be shutting down pretty much everything that's going on inside

1:49.8

if you're going on a date. So unless you're inviting someone back to your apartment, I do think

1:54.2

this might be a time of people going, like, finding someone to go through the coughing season is

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