So I ignored every red flag that Allah's upana what I put in front of me, married him anyway, cried every night for three years. And the worst part is I could have avoided it all with one conversation. Today I'm sharing the exact question that would have saved me and five follow-ups that would have exposed this problem for me so quickly. Could have avoided all the pain, didn't have to go through all that, pay for the wedding, you know, have kids, had this traumatic post-divorce thing, didn't have to happen. And this way, if you know it, you won't have to go through it. Because if one more sister tells me, I wish I knew before, Manika, I'm going to not know what to say anymore. So grab your notebook. This is the episode you wish you found sooner. Welcome to the mindfulness Miss speaks podcast, a safe space to learn and grow into the best version of yourself that you're always meant to be.

I'm your host, mindful Muslim, mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator with 25 plus years and supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women worldwide.

Now I'm excited to share a ton of solutions to your problems on love, relationships, life

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What if you could know exactly what to say?

The questions, the reveal, the red flags, everything. What if you could do that?

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