Today we're going to dive into something that is completely going to change the way you look at relationships.

Whether you're married, seeking marriage, navigating friendships, family dynamics.

I've been working with psychologists in our programs for decades and then working with thousands of sisters.

And I recently came across some groundbreaking research from Stanford School of Medicine and Harvard Medical School.

That will shock you because it goes against everything.

We're told about compatibility and how to find life.

So grab your tea, settle on in, prepare to have your mind blown.

But what really creates lasting, beautiful relationships.

Let's go.

Welcome to the mindfulness Miss Speaks podcast, a safe space to learn and grow into the best version of yourself that you're always meant to be.

I'm your host, mindful Muslim, mom of five, big sister to the community and a licensed educator with 25 plus years and supporting tens of thousands of Muslim women worldwide.

Now, I'm excited to share a ton of solutions to your problems on love, relationships,

life balance, reconnecting with Alyssa Penda with Aal, getting back on track and more. So grab a

cup of coffee and close out those tabs. These next 20 to 30 minutes are all about you. Let's get

started. Hello, Sama al-a-a-a-a-le- Welcome back to the Mindful Muslim Speaks podcast. I'm your host, Mindful

Muslima, and we are the program that helps women find love and stay married. And if you're a guy

listening, you're welcome to listen, but we're going to talk about today is how to have a great

relationship, the psychology behind relationships, that you, the information like you did not know,

you needed to know so forget

everything you've been told about finding someone that shares your hobbies high generative drive

hobbies or education level the research shows what actually predicts if people will stay together

and it's called generative drive so i thought we bring this up in the podcast because it's hot,

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