Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated. There's something no one thinks about when it comes to love because we're all too

busy trying to find the perfect love seeking the feeling the drug instead of the medicine, the healing.

We search for top rhyme in love, instant,

and overlaid like a warm blanket on a chilly day.

The kind of love that makes you want to call in sick so you can do nothing with this person.

Because there's no greater feeling. It makes every part of your life better.

Until you hit bumps, which all collisions have,

enter resistance and activation and a shit ton of anxiety.

Then it makes every part of your life worse. What we miss about

love is that the miracle isn't in the feeling. It's in the healing and the healing doesn't come in the beginning. It's not the main song. It's the B side and this

is what most people don't know about love. That the miracle is the healing and the healing comes after working through the

activation of two people and the trauma in their stories after the honest look, the hard conversations.

The processing and rewiring of self, But most did not get there, because most won't look in the mirror. Most love

with a pointed finger instead of open palms. Most chase feelings instead of

sitting with pain, most chase feelings,

because it's scary.

The miracle is earned not given.

The Mago relationship theory suggests that the purpose of a

relationship is to complete childhood and heal the wounds we experienced early

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